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Welcome to

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Soul society. The shift your movement say you do full truth.

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Live from Los Angeles. This is Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity. We come together each day to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We also come together as a community in soul society. We are committed to enlightenment, empowerment and entrepreneurship. We truly believe that when somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world. And our mission is to awaken a billion people and how we're doing that is creating spiritual leaders. I truly believe that the future spiritual leader is not just someone up on the podium, the greatest, you know, author, the greatest speaker. I believe that the future spiritual leader is our next door neighbor. The person who inspires you, the mother or the small business owner, or your friend that truly lives and embodies their truth and is unshakable by the world. That's where I believe spirituality is going.

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So let's do this thing. We are on number 12 of 12 of 12 week series called live your truth in this podcast series. And the today, the topic is creating your life purpose statement. And I did this topic, um, I think some months back and the difference of today versus that is that I have walked people through creating a life purpose statement. For many years, I've worked with little children doing it. I've worked with, you know, celebrities I've worked with, you know, people that are just trying to figure out what they're doing with their business. And this is the deal in my opinion. Okay, you can create your life purpose statement. There's an actual formula from last week of creating it through both your, um, your, whatever triumphs you've had in life, plus your passions, plus your skill set. Okay? But your life purpose statement, um, will change as you go through doing the truth triangle.

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So in society, our framework and what the last, you know, this 12 week series is all on, is birthing your truth. Through the framework I created called truth triangle. And what I've found is that people can create their life purpose statement and they can come up with their purpose in calling. But if they haven't done their core, core work of healing and done their trauma work and basically making amends and pulling back their, their true power and, and getting clear of what their core values are and getting everything, they will actually probably intuitive intuitively know what their purpose and calling is at some level. And they will be able to design their life purpose statement, which I'm gonna walk 'em through today. But usually they end up kind of oscillating back and forth. They'll they'll know this, but they still get confused. They get overwhelmed.

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They question what they're doing because they haven't done their core work to get really embedded in their truth. Okay. So today I'm gonna walk you through this, and again, you will be able to do do this. You'll be able to create your life purpose statement, and what's different about creating your purpose in calling versus your life. Purpose statement is your purpose in calling is, is a true calling in this lifetime based on your entire lineage and all the suffering you've gone through in past lifetimes in this lifetime, your life purpose statement is really getting clear in the four areas of your life, kind of your, your north star in those four areas of your life. Okay? So today that's what we're gonna walk through. So just before we do that, just to kind of go over the truth triangle again, this four week series walks you through birthing your truth, and there is called the truth triangle.

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And the three sides is what we birth your true power. You are a divine infinite, all-knowing immortal, eternal, spiritual being, and restoring that is done through dealing with limited beliefs, dealing with the commands that you set in your, in traumas, dealing with, where you handed your power over in life. And shifting back to the true identity that I am identity. The second side of the triangle is birthing your passion and birthing your passion is all about getting clear of what your core values are and getting clear of what you're truly committed to in this lifetime. And in that putting boundaries around people, places and things, no longer looking to be the victim of anything and remembering that you're the cause of creating and living in alignment with your truth and your passion next and final side of the, of the triangle is birthing your purpose.

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And that is what is done through past lifetime regressions. And whether you believe in past life or not, it doesn't matter. Epigenetics now proves that you have memory that lives in you as your, through your DNA. So we birth your purpose and calling through going through your past lives, understanding the suffering and the theme of the suffering and what really you need to do to complete the cycle of your DNA and complete the cycle for you to leave your legacy here in this lifetime. And then in the center of the triangle is living your truth. You've birth your truth on the outside of the triangle, and now you've gotta live your truth. And how do you live your truth in the middle? You basically are living your truth by having your daily spiritual practice. And that's not just having, you know, your 20 minute session in the morning and 20 minute session that eating your daily spiritual practice should be every breath that you take all day long, the principles that you live by the words that you speak, the thoughts that you truly energize it's your life is a prayer, as they say, okay, so today we are still on the outer side of the triangle and we are on the final 12th section of birthing your truth.

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And that is, this is creating your life's purpose statement. So this is super fun. I recommend pausing this podcast. If you're listening to it and getting out a pen and paper, this is very, very interactive. Okay? So creating your life purpose statement is one of the most powerful things you can do for your personal professional development. Your life purpose statement is a declaration of your commitments and goals in the four areas of your life, along with the commitments to your mission. Okay? So this is going to be your life purpose statement is actually something you're gonna create and print out and all this stuff. It is gonna be the north star of your life, keeping you focused every step of the way. You know, today's world. We have so much information coming at us that when you start your day intentionally and remember what you're truly committed to, it's easy to say no to certain things and say yes, with clarity, purpose, and intention.

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So you'll read this north star, your life purpose statement each day to stay powerfully focused on what you're committed to in your life. Okay? So it's gonna help you stay in alignment with your intentions, stay in your integrity and stay in your unique truth, because everyone has a unique divine truth. There's ultimate truth in relative truth. It will assist you in embodying that, which you desire to be. Do you get that? It assists you embodying that, which your desire to be. It's not about getting things it's about being to believe is to be live. It's what you are. And that is what that's, why, what you believe come true is cause of what you are. Okay. Personally, I create my life purpose statement in a platform called Canva online, which is a design platform. You can do whatever you want. You can just write it out and you're gonna actually write it out.

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You can write it out on a three by five card and, um, or you can print it out and get it laminated. I personally create mine in a, in a platform called can C a N V. And on one side I print, I, I actually type out what I'm gonna help you walk through your life purpose statement. On the other side, I put a picture, whatever really helps me visualize what I really am embodying. So then I have it printed and I have it laminated. I print out five copies so I can make one on, on, I put one on the side of my bed, put one in my car, put one in the bathroom, put one in my desk, in my wallet. Okay. So let's do this thing. Your life purpose statement should be written in the following manner. Okay? So you're gonna have four sentences, four sentences each representing the four areas of your life.

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The first area is health and wellness. Second areas, relationships and love. Third area is money and career. And fourth area is creative expression. And then there will be a fifth sentence and the fifth sentence states, what you will give in exchange for the financial abundance you, you want in your life. Okay. This is your mission statement in one sentence. Okay. So again, you're gonna have four sentences in the, for the representing the four errors of your life. And the fifth sentence is going to basically be your mission statement. That is really in ex what you're doing in exchange for your financial abundance. Okay. So you wanna write all of the sentences in present tense. Okay. Remember that universe doesn't know the past or the future. It only knows the present tense. Okay. As if it's already been manifested and demonstrated. Now you're gonna write your life purpose statement with measurable and obtainable results oriented language.

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And you're gonna write your live purpose statement with a positive manner, with adjectives that reflect how you desire to feel. Okay. So I'm gonna give you some examples. Um, these are just examples and you can take 'em for what you want and, and create your own. Okay. So you want to also at the very top say on or before, so that you let the universe know that this is, you know, that this is who you are and what you're being and the embodiment. Okay. So state what you will give an exchange for your financial abundance as well. Okay. So basically you're gonna go like this. Okay. So number one, this is an example. Number one area, first sentence. This is an example, someone health and wellness. I will have, I have radiant health, eat whole foods and love fitting into my clothes with comfort sentence, two relationships and love.

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I celebrate my thriving family and peaceful friends. Okay. How this is measurable is a thrives. You know, if you're family's striving or not. Okay. You know, if people are in peace or not, okay. Money and career, I live the life of my dreams with $250,000 a year for my writing career. This is an, an example of a client. Okay. I, I live the light. I, I live the life of my dreams with 250,000 a year with my writing career. Okay. This is, has an adjective. So it may be something more like I joyfully live the life of my dreams and it's measurable because she's put down $250,000 a year. And it says what she does, which is her writing career. Okay. Creative expression. I am honored, honored as the adjective to deliver beautiful books the world every year. Okay. And then her fifth sentence went, what I will give an exchange for my financial abundance.

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I provide phenomenal writing and editing services. Okay. So again, right at the four errors of your life and the fifth is kind of like your mission statement. So here's another example of another client. First air of life is health and wellness. I love daily exercise energizing, and vitalizing my body relationships and love. I love my extraordinary partner and spiritual community of friends. Okay. That's very measurable. I love that's the adjective, my extraordinary partner. So someone who's extraordinary, they can measure that for themselves. They know when someone's extraordinary and not extraordinary and spiritual community of friends, they know that they're basically, they're saying I'm committed to having a spiritual community. So if someone's not spiritual, which we know everyone's spiritual, everything comes from spirit, but in their eyes, what they consider is spiritual community. Someone who's probably focused on that world. That's measurable, right? Career and money is I live abundantly on $10,000 a month from my investments in real estate.

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Okay. So that's, I live abundantly is adjective $10,000 a month is, is measurable. And we know exactly where it's coming from investments in real estate. And lastly, their creative expression is I joyfully give my art to the world without attachment. Oh, sorry. That's creative expression. And lastly, what I will give an exchange for my financial abundance. I deliver clean housing for people to live very clear. Okay. One more example, example, three health and wellness for this person. I love my balanced life of wellness, living vegan and toxin free. Okay. That's for that person, right? For the next person, they may not like being vegan. Okay. That's, what's beautiful about being a spiritual living, your spiritual truth. You get to declare what your truth is. Not because anyone else tells you to be okay, second area of this person's life was relationships in love and they have declared.

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I am so grateful for my divine partner and my technical technological community. Okay. Well, clearly they're in technology, right? So they're grateful. That's adjective, they're divine partner. I, I would imagine that means that they're spiritual as well. And my technological community money and career, I live in full prosperity on a hundred thousand dollars a year, doing what I love to do in film. Okay. And then creative expression. Every day, I get to create epic films that positively impact the world. And then number five sentence for this person. What I give an exchange from my financial abundance, I awaken the world to enlightening movies. Great. Okay. So what you're gonna do is you're going to write down basically the four errors of your life, health and vitality, money, and career love and relationships and creative expression. You can do it in whatever order doesn't matter. Okay.

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And I want you to really write down who it is that you declare to be. What's the feeling that you want around it, and what's the measurable result. Okay. And then find, and then write it in somewhat of a affirmative sentence. Like it's gonna become your mantra of that area. What I recommend is having to all be one sentence and be very short. Some people will write out the life purpose statement and it's miles long. That's great, but you're not gonna remember it. So the point is to remember these mantras so that you can say it throughout the day and really remember, am I living in alignment with this? Right? And then the fifth sentence you're gonna write out is basically what you'll give an exchange for your financial abundance. Okay. So an example of this is Andrew Carnegie's, um, statement. And he was one of the wealthiest men in America with steel and understood the power of a mastermind.

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And his, his exchange statement was assembling and publicizing the principles by which great individuals achieve endurance success, which is really, really interesting because he, he had, he was in the manufacturing of steel, right. But his actual intention and mission was to build an empire, to understand that, how to organize it, basically how to publicize it and how to, how to principles like this was his actual mission behind all. This was actually to teach the principles of success, but he couldn't teach the principles if he didn't understand how to have success and what that took. So, I mean, the guy was a master Andrew Carnegie exchanged statements that assembling and publicizing the principles by which great individuals achieve endurance success. It's amazing. Just get it. So today, as you go into your life and you're completing the truth triangle in this 12 series of live your truth, I recognize right here.

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And right now that you have something to do that you are born of divine, you're born of spirit. You're here to know the truth of yourself. And you're here to live in alignment with what your bliss is, what you're here to do to not only complete the cycle and, and really give back to be able to really restore the truth of who you are. You give back, knowing that everything is you instantaneously, we're forgiven, instantaneously re we restored because we always have been the power. We're always spirit. We've always been the divine self. We're always the, I am. But in knowing that and going back to the, I am identity shedding, all identity that's anything other than that, we then get to create our new identity and decide who we wanna be in this lifetime and decide what we wanna create here from free will and knowing the truth of who we are, which we've created the entire universe.

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And so in that again, I declare you to fulfill every last drop of every dream you could ever imagine. And also know the perfection of the relative experience of feeling divided and feeling limited and no longer judging it, just knowing it's just an experience because without the sadness, we can't experience the joy without the lack, we cannot experience the abundance without the experience of transitioning and death, we can't experience and really enjoy how precious this thing called life is. And I just wanna say, thank you for taking the time for yourself and for being on the journey with me, it is such a joy to do this work. It is my service. It is my love. And I do believe that we're here for love and whether that's in a partner or whether that's in your career that you give back and serve, I do believe service brings the greatest joy ever.

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So thank you. And again, if you found value out of this, please refer it to a friend, tell somebody about it that you feel like would it's ready to heal. That's ready to do their inner work. And please give this podcast a five star re review. If, if you feel so inclined, it means the difference to all of us. It makes a difference. Okay. Have a beautiful day and know that if you wanna dive deeper into this work, this is the skimming over of what we do in, uh, the primary work of society, the inner work, we also train, uh, the spiritual leaders in business so they can take it and take it out into the world and do what they love for work. And then we also have an ambassador program where we train, um, people in a 300 hour program to actually get certified in the truth triangle and in the business coaching.

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So you can always find me DME. You can email me at Aaron Aaron FA haskel.com. You can find me on Instagram and Facebook at Dr. aaron.tv, D R E R I n.tv. And, um, and it's just, it's an, it's an honor. You guys so enjoy this. We are also, uh, creating a book called spiritual badass based on this work, but in a very spunky and fun dynamic of what it means to be a spiritual badass and really, truly live your truth. So have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth? Thanks again for tuning in to Dr. Aaron and soul society podcast, I'd like to invite you to write a review on iTunes. Also, I have a free gift for you, a money meditation and worksheet, which you can find@soulsociety.com. That's www S O U L C e.com or 30 guided meditations at Dr. Aaron do TV that's www D R E R I N TV. We also hold monthly soul society events that are all about transformation and building extraordinary community. You can also watch me live daily on good morning, lalaland.com or Instagram, Dr. aaron.tv. Grab your free manifestation masterclass with a purchase of my international bestselling book awakening a 40 day guide to unleashing your spiritual powers, life purpose, and manifesting your dreams@erinfullhospital.com slash awakening book.

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6 Relationship Breakthrough Series

40 Spiritual Awakening

12 Metaphysical Bible Series

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Welcome

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To society, the shift to the movement. So you did so truth

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Live from Los Angeles. This is Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity. We come together each day. Another truth live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We also come together in a community soul society, committed to enlightenment, empowerment and entrepreneurship. We truly believe that when somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world. And our mission is to awaken a billion people. And how we're doing that is we're developing spiritual leaders. I truly believe the future spiritual leader is you. It's the person next door. It's the mom. It's the friend. It's the person that is able to not only know their truth, but live their truth. And in that they touch and inspire our lives. Yes, we develop great spiritual leaders with great tools of reprogramming. The subconscious mind, birthing people's truth, getting clear of their power and their passion and their purpose and helping people develop their businesses online.

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But I truly believe the most inspirational people I know are people who are living their truth, who know who they are and aren't shakeable, they don't put their worth out in the world. They don't look to validation from others. They know who they are, and they live from that deep, deep knowingness of faith of certainty, unshakeable unstoppable. Okay, so let's do this. We are in a 12 series called live your truth. This is number 11 of 12 and go back and binge all the other ones. And if I've already recorded, the one ahead, you can go binge that one as well. So what is this series live? Your truth is this series of a process I developed over 22 years. Everything based from Greek Oracle processes, Socrates method, and understanding human psyche to develop what I call the truth. Triangle. The truth triangle has three sides to it, and we birth your true power.

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You are an infinite divine, all-knowing powerful, spiritual being and all spiritual work is really shifting back to the true identity of the I am. So we look at the trauma. We look at the limiting beliefs. We look at where you've handed your power over in life, and we restore the truth of who you are. Now, second side of the triangle is passion. We birth your passion. You have a specific truth, right? There's ultimate truths and relative truths. And what's true for you is true for you. The universe has to agree with you, regardless of anything is your perspective. So we wanna get clear of what your, what your core values are, what really matters to you, and how do you no longer look to the world as being the cause of anything. You look to the world as the beautiful reflection of your consciousness. So birthing your passion is really getting clear of what matters to you and being able to put boundaries on people, plate and things you can live in peace, live in joy, live in your own divine nature, which is being fulfilled, which is one with everything.

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The third side of the triangle is birthing your purpose. And that's actually part of what we're gonna go over today. So birthing your purpose is really about looking at the trials and triumphs that you had in this lifetime and all lifetimes, all coming down through your DNA. And we basically look at it and, and understand that you're here to complete your DNA. You're here to complete whatever negative aspects are, are energetic. Charges are still on your DNA and neutralize those and be able to have free will. So a lot of the clients, basically they have had trials in different areas of their life. And this is what's birthed their purpose in a lifetime to not only heal themselves, to heal their lineage, but to heal people that also are going through the same things they went through. So in birthing your purpose, it really becomes the identity that you are.

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Because if we go all the way back to the identity of the I am, and then we restore and come back and choose to have the identity that we want in this life. It's like being a character in the play of life. You get to produce it, you get to direct it and you are the character in it, right? And then inside of the truth, triangle is what's really important, which is living your truth. This comes down to your daily spiritual practice, and it comes down to the embodiment that you want to be. Who do you desire to be? How are you going to embody those things on a day to day basis? What are the words you're gonna say? What are the thoughts that you wanna choose to think? What are your, how are you gonna connect your true self, right? And how are you gonna align to your passion and purpose and calling?

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Okay, so let's do this. So we are on week number 11 of 12, which is purpose and calling worksheet. Next week, we're gonna actually create your life purpose statement, but this week we're going to just birth your purpose and calling. And this is done. Of course, you can't do this worksheet. If you haven't already done your trauma and you haven't already done your past lives and you haven't already gotten clear of your core values and things like this. This is after all that, when it's all, when you, when you really feel like you've done some healing and you really feel like you've had triumph over all your tribulations, triumph over the suffering, we now wanna go into this worksheet. And this is one of the fundamental worksheets I love to do. Um, birthing people's purpose and calling and creating a life purpose statement. I've gone in with groups of children to do this.

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I've gone in with different groups around the world, online and offline. And it brings me to a, a, a relevant store that actually happened. Last night, I went over, I was invited over to this beautiful event over in Brentwood, Los Angeles with some dear girlfriends of mine and others. And, um, it was really a showcase of a mini documentary that they created. Um, they didn't create this, uh, this other group did, which is called hustle 2.0. That is a group that goes into high security prisons. And does transformational work with the inmates? And the girlfriends invited me over there are called the sister society girlfriends that are big influencers and lines that have hundreds of thousands of followers and do transformational and spiritual work over there. And, um, so at this event it was beautiful. First of all, one of my girlfriends has a gorgeous home, really intentional, conscious human beings.

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And what I love about these human beings is that they are, they're not just taking their, their prosperity for granted. They earned it, they've done their core, core, deep, deep work. And in that you birth your prosperity as well. You claim your birthright of prosperity and they know that they have to give back. And so they do give back. And so, um, four of my girlfriends went into, um, in, to serve for three days in one of the prisons doing transformational work with hustle 2.0. And so they go into the prison. And for three days they do deep work of healing, understanding the traumas that they've gone through, understanding and revealing all their, their, his story, their, his story, and they birth a new possibility for them. And they took a look at things like, how can they create, what can they create from here on, out in their life and their, in their families and in their potential careers, if they ever leave prison, things like that.

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And it was super, super touching to witness, um, the mini trailer of the documentary and meet the director. And, uh, one of the inmates that was kind of the primary role in it. So the primary role, um, this gentleman, uh, I actually forgot his name off the top of my head. I'm so sorry. But, so I wanna talk about his story because it's a, an perfect example of someone's purpose and calling. So the triumph that he's had, right? So he was a young man that went to prison. I think he was molested at seven years old and at 11 years old, he was basically gotten a fight with a guy at a young boy and grabbed a pistol I believe, and shot him. And, um, I don't think he killed him, but he went to prison. And so obviously through his work, within the prison, he began to find hustle 2.0 and began to find his faith and find the truth of who he is and realizing that he was just a, a really product of a circumstances.

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He didn't know any better. And he did the best that he could out of the trauma and the decisions that were made from the rape, from all the stuff that happened in his life, the molestation. And he came, he's now a leader within hustle 2.0, and quite frankly, he's, he's a minister at heart. You can tell, cause he, uh, he's just a highly, highly hu conscious human being. So now he's got this triumph, right? It's not over, he's still dealing with that triumph. He's still has to have retribution and all the things that he was so clear about, but truly he's had major triumph over where he's come and where he is now. And his passion is really to help others, other children, and other inmates, other people like him that have come from a really tough background and help them know the truth of who they are and become empowered.

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And his talent is really his preaching. I mean, that's really his talent. So this is what his birth, his purpose in calling. Okay. So the formula, if you wanna get out your pen and paper for your purpose and calling is three things, and this may not be the ultimate truth. There can be somebody else's formula, but after working with thousands of people on this, this formula seems to work. So your purpose in calling formula is your triumphs plus your passions. Plus your talents equals your purpose in calling, I'll say it again, your triumphs plus your passions. Plus your talents equals your purpose in calling. This is the deal that man that stand before me and about 150 other people in this beautiful home last night touched our lives. He's a divine, spiritual, powerful all-knowing spirit. And he embodied this, this lifetime here and a certain lineage that came from tough upbringings from a crime background, from dysfunction, from everything.

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And he, he chose things that he only knew at that point in time to choose. And I believe that any one of us, we can't judge it. And I know that all of us have done things that we could have got locked up for. I know I did as a teenager, but guess what? I wasn't black and I didn't get caught. Okay. We've all done things we're ashamed of. We've all done things that we're illegal at some point in time, maybe not, but majority of human beings have. And the point is that this man now rises like the Phoenix rising, right? He now knows who he is. And quite frankly, all of that heartache becomes the biggest blessing of his life because it becomes the greatest calling and the most fulfillment you could ever imagine. And so none of those guys really wanna learn from somebody that in, in the, in the prison doesn't, they don't wanna learn from somebody who's never gone through hardship.

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Okay. When my girlfriends went in, all four of them have gone through major things. Alexy Panos has gone through rape at gunpoint. You know, they've gone through heartbreak, they've gone through financial ups and downs. They've gone through, you know, uh, beatings, all kinds of things. And this is the common denomin they find with working with so many people, a wide spectrum of clients, celebrities to, you know, single moms to whatever. Right. That everybody has a story. I know I personally went through date rape. I know I went through, you know, divorce in my family. I know I went through, you know, I've gone through dysfunctional relationships. I've gone through physical abuse in relationship, mental abuse. I've gone through and I've done crazy shit too, right? Like we're human. And that's our human touch is that we are not the product. We're not, that's not makes us up who we are.

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Okay. So again, the formula is your talents are your triumphs, plus your passion plus your talents. And if you haven't had triumph, people say, you know, I don't know what my triumph is. I don't know what that is. Well, then that the truth is that you're not ready to birth your purpose in calling. You still have inner work to do to know what the true triumph is, right? You, you can't have that insight. You can't have that, knowing that this is your calling. If you're still haven't done your inner work. So to birth your purpose in calling demands, you to have triumph. And in order to have triumph, you've gotta do your trauma work. You've gotta do your inner work. You've gotta do your inner healing. And that isn't happen in three sessions, right? This is lifetimes and lifetimes and lifetimes coming down your DNA track.

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People want instant gratification. It takes years. Sometimes I know that man has been with hustle 2.0 for years. Right? So my invitation for you today is to make a list, make a list of, of the hardest thing you've ever had to go through. What is the hardest thing you've ever had to go through? And, and maybe you're still going through it. Have you had triumph over it? So what is that right for me, it was it, of course it was having my stillborn at 22. I was really hard. You know, being alone in that cold, dark morticians room in the basement, that was a living hell. I was broken in a thousand million zillion pieces. But guess what? That same thing became the biggest blessing of my life because now I help other people awaken to the truth of who they are. We're not our bodies, we're not our bodies. We're not this lifetime. We are infinite, immortal spiritual beings right now.

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And so the next thing is to make a list of what are your passions? You know, what do you love doing? I love teaching. I love speaking. I love presenting. I love creating content. That's based on truth. That's based on helping people in their suffering and, and find their freedom. And what's your, what are your talents? You know, what are your talents? I'd say my greatest talent that people have told me is that I I've, I'm li I listen. Well, I'm able to listen. And that's from doing all the work, being able to hear the limiting beliefs, being able to hear what the soul's saying. And so for you, you know, I think that what is that, you know, we, we wanna, we wanna learn from people that have gone through stuff you don't wanna learn about, you know, health issues from somebody that's always had perfect health.

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You wanna learn from somebody that had a disease or has been obese or whatever that is. We wanna learn about wealth and building wealth from somebody who's struggled or been homeless. We wanna learn about anything in life from people somebody's gone through hard thing. That's, what's inspirational going and going from really hardship to having triumph over something. Okay. So right out your skills, right at your talents, right out your knowledge, what, what, what do you have, like what have you gone through? What could somebody learn from you? And I think that somehow we think that we have to be an almighty master up on the Hilltop to become a teacher. And that's just not the truth. You've overcome something that someone hasn't, maybe it's, you know, learning how to organize your bills. Maybe it's learning how to invest. Maybe it's learning how to, uh, do design on CAMBA online.

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I don't know what that is for you, but I know that if you have some skill set and you can help others, then guess what? You're a teacher, don't wait. You know, I think the, the biggest thing that came outta last night for me was that it's so profound to watch so many people that have such great wisdom in healing, the subconscious and trauma, cuz that's kind of the feel I'm in. So those are the people I hang out with. Right? And we have so many gifts and, and, and don't wait, get it out there. People need this. You guys, there's millions and millions and millions of people. I believe it's the number one thing on this planet to help people heal their trauma, awaken transform, understand the truth of who they are. Don't wait another day. You too can become a spiritual leader. And whether you touch one life or whether you touch a trillion lives, right?

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Oh, a billion, right? There's only trillion people on the planet, no matter what you do do it now don't wait. This is powerful work. We're at a, we're at a, it's like a tidal wave coming in with this work. People understand. They finally understand you guys. They finally get that. It's the subconscious that they've gotta deal with. They finally get that. It's their trauma. They've gotta deal with. It's finally this thing. So I'm gonna invite you to come into society. I'm gonna invite you to apply. I'm gonna invite you to say yes. And whether it's society or not say yes to your growth, to your self development, get a coach. You know, we certify girls in this, in society and men too. We're opening up the men's division right now. Okay. So make a list of your passions. The potential ways you could turn your passions into valuable services.

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And if you don't know what that is, then there's platforms you can learn from, make a list of your, the hardest experience you've ever gone through and list the victories you've had over these challenges, make a list of how you feel. You could help others who are going through a similar situation. You've gone through. Maybe you've gone through rape. Maybe you've gone through an eating disorder. Maybe you've gone through, you know, heartbreak or codependency or whatever that is. The truth is you can help somebody. You are the future spiritual leader. I truly believe that, you know what? I get most excited. Someone asked me last night, what do you get? What are you most excited about right now? You know what I'm most excited about? I'm most excited about creating content. That isn't is that lives on beyond me. Things like a program like society that trains people to be able to take the work and take it out in their own expression.

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Things like the book that's coming out, that we'll be able to have something that someone can take that learn some content and take it into their life and their own expression. That's what I'm most excited about. It's not about becoming a celebrity. It's not about becoming an influencer of having so many likes. It's about making the difference in the world. That's what I live for and die for. I've handed my life over to this work. Look, I I'm just because I'm a leader. Doesn't mean I have hard days to, I get lonely to, I get all those things, but guess what? That's my driving force that keeps me doing my work because I can't have true fulfillment and all this, unless we all do. We're one consciousness. Do you get that? We're one consciousness together. And we can't just live in total freedom without everybody living in total freedom.

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It's impossible. We're one mind. And so I just know the truth of who we are, which is divine. We're oneness, where there's only one spirit. There's only one life. You are my reflection. I am your reflection. And so today, as you birth your purpose in calling, I know that you have a specific gift and message to bring to the world. And it's the greatest gift you can give, which is you, the highest version of you, the greatest gift you can ever give anybody in your life is for you to be a healed whole human being. And in that I know that we're here giving back. We're restoring you. Don't just forgive and forget. You gotta actually make amends and you gotta, and you gotta actually equalize it. You gotta give back I'm in service because it's the only way that I truly restore my soul.

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And so in this, I know the truth, the power and all the above. You guys have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth? Also, if you've gotten something out of this podcast, I ask that you give a five star review on whatever platform you're on. I'm on obviously this platform, this, uh, podcast is on iTunes, iHeart, Spotify, you name it all across the, the board co all of them like 20 different podcasts section. So have a beautiful day refer a friend. You guys, this is a great process to go through. And, um, you could check out society S O U L C I E T e.com. I'm on social media. Also love to be friends with you. It's at Dr. aaron.tv, D R E R a n.tv. Have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth?

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Thanks again for tuning in to Dr. Aaron and soul society podcast, I'd like to invite you to write a review on iTunes. Also, I have a free gift for you, a money meditation and worksheet, which you can find@soulsociety.com. That's www S O U L C I E T e.com or 30 guided meditations at Dr. aaron.tv. That's www D R E R I n.tv. We also hold monthly soul society events that are all about transformation and building extraordinary community. You can also watch me live daily on good morning, Lala land.com or Instagram, Dr. aaron.tv. Grab your free manifestation masterclass with a purchase of my international bestselling book awakening, a 40 day guide to unleashing your spiritual powers, life, purpose, and manifest in your dreams@erinfullhaskel.com slash awakening book.

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12 E4 Trauma Method Series

12 Truth Triangle Coaching Series

6 Relationship Breakthrough Series

40 Spiritual Awakening

12 Metaphysical Bible Series

Transcription:

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Welcome to society, the shift to the tribe, the movement. So you did truth.

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Live for Los Angeles is Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity. We come together each day to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We also come together in a community society to know the truth also to, uh, live from empowerment, enlightenment, and entrepreneurship. We truly believe that when somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world. And we are awakening a billion people by developing spiritual leaders and spiritual leaders are not just the typical spiritual leaders that are writing or speaking or doing, you know, events, the spiritual leader. In my opinion, the future spiritual leader is you. It's the person who impacts every single person. They come in contact with. It can be, yes, it can be a small business owner. It can be a mom. It can be anybody, the people who touch our lives. And I think that's where spirituality is going.

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It has to live in our heart and it has to touch and impact and inspire people everywhere we go. So we are doing a series it's called live your truth. It's a 12 week series and we are on week 10 of 12. This is, um, all based off of, uh, a framework and technology. I've built over 22 years, which is called the truth triangle, which is based in processes from Greek Oracle processes, science of mind, metaphysics. It's really understanding how the subconscious mind is connected with the universal law and how we birth our truth. So it's based on Medix and Maddix is a word it's a, a Greek word that is considered to birth your truth. Just like midwifery is birthing. Your baby may UIX is birthing your truth. So we birth the truth and on the truth triangle, there's three sides and we are birthing your true power, the true power that you are, that divine all knowing all spiritual, infinite resources, powerful spiritual beam.

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On the second side of the triangle, we birth your, your passion, your specific truth. There's ultimate truths. Like energy will never be destroyed and there's relative truths, and we're really birthing your truth. What's true for you. What's true for you in the realm of your relationships, in how you like to spend your days, how you sleep, what sleep patterns work for you, what food works for you, all these areas, what is good for you in the realm of money and career and your expression? That's what we're birthing here. Okay. And the third side is birthing your purpose. And your purpose is from all the suffering of all lifetimes to come to your why, why is it so important to you? Cuz I truly believe that you're here to complete your DNA. You've got memory of all lifetimes that come down your DNA and there's good memory and those bad memory.

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And you get to complete those cycles for all your lineage. And then you get to create your legacy that you're leaving in this lifetime. Okay? So today we are dealing with, um, past life regressions and this is the third side of the triangle, which is really birthing your purpose and what I've found after years and years of working with, you know, all different types of clients, CEOs, celebrities, single moms, future spiritual leaders, all kinds of people. The past life progressions are profound. And what's interesting is I always think, oh, you know what? It might not work. You know? And sure enough, some huge epiphany that I never saw coming comes sliding on and smacks us all in the face to go, holy cow, this stuff is powerful. So I am going to, I'm going to attempt to walk you through a past life regression. I don't know how well this is gonna be able to be done within your, you know, your own home and whatever.

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I don't think there's anything to fear here. This is more of an imagination process. As Einstein said, our imagination, our fantasy is the greatest faculty we have. And that's really what we're tapping in through past life regression. Okay. So let's do this thing. So past life regression. So past life regression is the process of pulling mental pictures from the ACA records. You could also say from just that's living in your DNA, right? So past life regression is the process of pulling up mental pictures from the ACA records that you have energetic emotions attached to neutralizing them. Okay? The truth is that all past lives are your lineage. All past lives. Are your lineage. The truth is that when you go into past life regressions, if you really started going deeper and deeper, deeper, you would break through the wall and realize all past lives are your past lives.

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Okay? Many, many lives, many masters, right? You are one with everything and everyone. However, you have a particular DNA and a carmic lineage that your soul associates with. So we're first gonna deal with your particular soul and your particular lineage. If somebody's out there and they're like, you know what? I wanna go all the way down the rabbit hole. I wanna know everything. I want the entire veil to come off, then keep doing past life regressions. Okay. In my opinion, there are two primary reasons to do past life regressions. Okay? Obviously the ultimate goal is to have enlightenment, but the true primary reasons to do past life regression is to one. When doing your trauma work past life, regressions can assist in neutralizing the emotions associated with mental pictures from past lives that are projecting into this lifetime because we at, you know, my practice and our practice in society is to not be way out there as spiritualists.

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The reality is everything is created from spirit and we wanna be able to have it applicable. How does this affect your immediate circumstances, your life? How does this affect the way that you are able to create money, your relationships, having deeper connections, your health, right? We don't wanna get too. Woo, woo. We wanna bring down to tactics and how you actually apply this stuff and how it makes a difference in your world today. So number one reason to do your past life regression is to heal the trauma in your DNA. Epigenics proves now that memory of all lifetimes is, is living your DNA. So the fears that you feel, those, you know, reactions that you feel, the sadness that you don't know where it comes from, that is all living in your, from your DNA. So we wanna complete and neutralize those mental pictures associated with that so that you can get freed up for more free will and enjoy your life more.

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The second primary reason to do past life regressions beyond really woo woo stuff is getting when getting clarity on your purpose and calling helps to spot the patterns of suffering from past life, mental pictures, triumph over your trials so that you can have a gateway to burden your purpose and calling. Okay. So there's two primary reasons to do past life regressions. One is to get freed up from the trauma that's living on your track. And number two is to birth your purpose in calling. So more than anything, purpose in calling is really something that everyone wants to figure out. People are like, I wanna know what it is. And oftentimes they find that people need to stop trying to figure out what their purpose in colon is. And when they do their inner healing, it will be revealed. It's revealed it's spoken through within. Okay.

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So past life regression is accessed via imagination and fantasy. Okay. So I don't want you to get to too caught up in, is this real? Is this not real? Do I believe in past lives or not get over it? Okay. The reality is this is that it doesn't matter if you believe in past lives or not. The reality is that you have memory stored in your DNA and in the collective consciousness, the mental pictures may be fantasy or reality, but it doesn't matter. What matters is the emotions that are attached to the mental pictures that are impinging upon your subconscious, right? So if you're able to pull up a fantasy picture, but you have a lot of emotion around it, then it's the emotion that matters. It doesn't matter if the it's like having a dream, okay. Dreams are the same way. Dreams are obviously not real, but the emotion attached to your dream is what we do in dream analysis so that we can see what's really going on.

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Why do you have that emotion to you and what needs to be completed in your life and your track around that emotion? Right? So it's the same thing. So going into past life regression is really about fantasy and imagination. Okay? So once you have taken inventory of the suffering of this lifetime, you can pretend you're writing a film script with a story jumps from this life to the past lifetime. So this is what I tell my clients, okay. When we're going into a past life regression, first of all, you don't have to have attachment and believe those past lives. But what I want you to do is I want you to pretend like you're like a director, okay. Or rather a, you know, you're writing the script of a movie and you know how those, those great movies that they go from one lifetime and they jump to past lifetimes or future lifetimes.

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Right? That's what I want you to do. I want you to look at the suffering and kind of the theme of your life in this lifetime. And I want you to pretend that you jump back to a past life and it all makes sense of why you're playing out this theme in this lifetime. Okay. So we're gonna do this. So example, imagine you're writing a movie script when the movie script starts in this lifetime and portrays the suffering and theme of your life. Then the movie jumps to a past lifetime and portrays a suffering that you went through, which is carried through in a bizarre and yet succinct manner. Okay. So

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An example of this is taking on the theme of this lifetime. So what is the theme of the suffering of this lifetime? For example, my theme, when I started doing this was I'm constantly experiencing feeling abandoned and alone. It's like a romantic drama where the woman isn't able to accept people, loving her because she's afraid they will abandon her. Okay. So what was fascinating was when I started doing my past life regressions, I had thought my abandonment issue was from this lifetime. Sure. My dad, you know, and my mom got divorced. My dad went off and had another family and other kids and da, da, da. So I had this whole like, oh, it's, you know, it's from this lifetime. It wasn't until I started doing my past life regressions that I started realizing holy cow, there was some major, major, major trauma and major feelings of abandonment people having to go away.

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Right? So I want you to close your eyes and feel the suffering within this lifetime. I want you to really get the impact and the theme of your life is the theme that you're always at battle is the theme that you're always having. Heartbreak is a theme that you just can't ever figure it out. What is a theme? If you're to put a character, you know, in your life, and you're the main character, what's the theme of that movie of your life? You know, you might wanna pause this podcast and kind of think about the, for a minute. What's the theme of your life? Is it a hopeless, romantic? Is it an action movie? Is it a thriller? You know, what's the theme of your life and what's the suffering that you've gone through in this lifetime. Have people died around you? I have clients that everyone around them commit suicide. I have clients around them that, you know, they can nothing but success, but in the success, there's a lot of betrayal. You know, what is the theme of your life next? I want you to close your eyes and feel the suffering and really, really feel that. Okay. And I want you to imagine a movie where you, you cut to the past life and there's a mental picture that pulls up with the same suffering feeling.

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I want you to really imagine what that is

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Going there for me. I was standing in a dirt road of my farm when the authorities came up on horses to tell me that my husband and love of my life had been killed at war. And I remember sitting there and it was like, it really felt like a, it was when I first started going into the process, it felt like a fantasy. Like I was just kind of imagining. It was like almost like I saw a movie and as they started describing the situation and standing there on the dirt road and having these authorities come up on their horses and telling me that my husband, who literally was the love of my life had been murdered at war basically. And I just started describing the feeling of feeling so, so distraught and so hopeless and like everything I'd ever cared about was taken away from me.

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And as I was in that session, I remember just bawling my eyes out. And it was the weirdest thing ever because I thought, how could this feel more real than the abandonment in this lifetime? And that's what began me on the path of realizing, wow, there's something here. These emotions are deep, deep, deep, deep in our track, deep in the DNA. And as I began to work with, you know, hundreds of different clients and pulling up past lives and having them describe it, I didn't never describe it for 'em or never tell 'em what their past life is. They do it through fantasy, they do it through imagination and I'm telling you, every single client I've worked with has been blown away by how real it feels when they go back there. And oftentimes when I'm working with, you know, the women's spiritual leaders in particular, they, a lot of them have been, you know, gone through a lot of different trauma on their track in, in multiple lifetimes, around being, you know, scrutinized as a woman being burned on the stake as a witch, um, you know, being raped multiple times, all kinds of things.

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And that's why I feel like so many of them really desire to have women's empowerment and, and that voice in this lifetime. So, you know, I'm not here to say this is real or not real. I'm just here to say what I've experienced. And, um, if it works for you, use it, if it doesn't work for you, don't use it. I think that all spirituality, the reality is that whatever processes work for you to have you get freedom for you to understand your track, then, then that's great. If not, it's no problem, but as we go further down this track and keeping with this process next, I want you to close your eyes again. And I want you to get in touch with the suffering you've experienced again in this lifetime and the past lifetimes. Now take me to another mental picture from a past life and it's okay if it feels like you're imagining it again.

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This is the vortex of the Akasha records. The Akasha records is a name that, you know, comes from our lineage, but really the ACO records lives in you. It lives in your DNA. It lives in this process. It's not measurable. It's not anything science has been able to get, but epigenetics now is proving there's memory. So there is truth at some level to this. Okay. So close your eyes again and get in, try and really get in touch with the suffering, that pain point of a mental picture you can get in this lifetime, maybe another pain point or another pain point and another lifetime imagination of a mental picture of something that occurred that has that same pain in it. And begin to describe the image or spiritual memory. Just begin to write it out. If you have a journal, you could write it out.

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If you're in, uh, meditation being to speak it out. So an example is I see myself watching my family being taken away from me, I'm crying and screaming. It's so painful because I know that I'll never see them again. One of my clients, um, described being, you know, in the, as a Nazi, you know, taking them away, um, being a Jew and having the Nazis take away their family and just the morbid and horrific feeling of knowing that your whole family is dying and whether that's real or not, that client was able to tap into that collective consciousness that I truly believe that a lot of the emotions that we have in us is not just our track as we're. We are one, right? We know scientifically we're we're energy and we're connected to everything and everyone, and we have a collective consciousness. And so sometimes when we're sad, sometimes when we're tapping into our trauma, we're tapping into the collective consciousness, trauma and sadness.

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And so I think that this is really a process of, of revealing that true deep, deep emotion that lives in you and as does a deep, deep, deep joy. So you can tap into whichever you want. It's like being a great actor, you know, the actors channel different personas and they can switch accordingly. So this is the process of really getting in there and realizing you are that, and you are that I am, that I am, as the saying goes now. So do you feel the same about your suffering within this life and past lifetimes? And I think that's the point of it is, do you have a new perspective? Do you have a new cognition? Have you expanded your consciousness? Have you experienced more depths of who you are? And if this, you have, then, then that's really what we're looking for. It may be a shift in consciousness, subtle or profound.

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So for me, you know, my mission was born out of this. My mission was born out of having a stillborn in this lifetime, but was also born out of the suffering and realizing that that heartbreak and that abandonment is really the loneliness. And as we get deeper, deeper into our spirituality, we can never feel alone because we really are the one, but we can have human moments still and feel alone. So when I feel lonely or abandoned, I know that is my, my trigger to go and go deeper into my spirituality and remember the truth of who I am and everyone is. And so out of this process, so many of my clients have burned their purpose. They know they're here to help empower women. They're here to make a difference in the lineage. They're here to no longer abandon people because they don't need to be abandoned anymore.

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They get to be there for others. They get to be the stable one in their family and in their relationship. So whatever that mission is, I know that your purpose in calling is already in you. You already have your purpose in calling your purpose in calling is to know the depths of who you are and complete that lineage complete that suffering and trauma of all lifetimes. And so on that note, if you have gotten benefits and enjoyed this podcast, please give a five star re review. It's very important. You guys, and also please refer a friend to it's important to be on this journey and you're not alone. It's important to build your tribe and community. And of course you are able to apply to society. We are very cautious of who we let into the community. We only work with highly committed individuals who are committed to making a difference in the world. So you can go to Instagram, let's be friends it's, uh, at Dr. aaron.tv, which is at D E R I n.tv. Or you can find me at soul society, S O U L C I E T E have divine a and may live your truth.

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Thanks again for tuning in to Dr. Aaron and soul society podcast. I'd like to invite you to write a review on iTunes. Also, I have a free gift for you, a money meditation and worksheet, which you can find@society.com. That's www S O L C I E t.com or 30 guided meditations at Dr. aaron.tv. That's www D R E R I n.tv. We also hold monthly society events that are all about transformation and building extraordinary community. You can also watch me live daily on good morning, Lala land.com or Instagram at Dr. aaron.tv. Grab your free manifestation masterclass with a purchase of my international bestselling book awakening, a 40 day guide to unleashing your spiritual powers, life, purpose, and manifest in your dreams@erinfullhaskel.com slash awakening book.

52 Universal Law Series

12 E4 Trauma Method Series

12 Truth Triangle Coaching Series

6 Relationship Breakthrough Series

40 Spiritual Awakening

12 Metaphysical Bible Series

Transcription:

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Welcome

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To society, the shift to the movement. So you did full truth.

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Live from Los Angeles is Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity. We come together each day to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We also come together as a community in soul society. We're committed to being the number one spiritual leaders community. And that doesn't mean traditional spiritual leaders that are writing books and on stage necessary. We truly believe that spiritual leaders can be the mom, the person that is, you know, being the best version of themselves. It can be someone who is in a traditional corporate job. It can be whatever. Yes. We also train spiritual leaders in a certification program who truly desire to embody this particular work and take this out to the world in their unique expression, but would truly also believe that spiritual leaders at every single one of us is the future spiritual leader, because when you're have done your work, when you live and breathe, your truth, every single person you come in contact, you will impact.

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You'll be impressed. Trust me. Okay, so let's do this thing. So we are on, um, the truth, triangle living your truth. This is a series of 12. Um, we are on the second side of a triangle dealing with passion. So the truth triangle, just to give you a little back, uh, work on this, because if you haven't listened to the other podcast through other podcast, we've gone through the truth triangle. And this is really about birthing your true power. The truth of who you are really, this is you are an all-knowing powerful spiritual beam. And the second side of the triangle is birthing your specific truth, which is really your passion. What works for you? What doesn't work for you, where are you in alignment with life and where do you need to put the boundaries on people, places, and things to live that truth.

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The third side of the triangle is birthing your purpose, which is about understanding that all your trials, all your tribulations, all the suffering that you've gone through has served you. You've chosen that at a soul level to be, to birth your purpose and calling in this lifetime. And so living your truth, this series is really about giving you the tools to understand what it means to know th self, what it means to birth your truth, and most importantly, what it means to live your truth. And so that's what we are up to in this. We are on number nine of 12, we are doing what is called values, commitments, and alignment. It's super important. If you wanna live your truth, you have gotta know what your core values are and what you're really committed to and how to align with those, right? So in today's podcast, I'm gonna take you through this.

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So what I highly highly highly recommend is for you to get a pen and paper out, turn off the distractions, you know, just really take a couple deep breaths in and just begin to know and get clear right here that your mind is powerful. That as you direct your mind, you inform energy and inform energy goes onto the universal law, which is your subconscious, the subjective mind, which basically reflects back life is the ultimate mirror of what's going on in your consciousness. So if you don't even know what you want to direct, you, haven't got clear of what your core values are, what you're truly committed to or aligning to that. Energy's gonna just go all over the place and you're gonna feel the chaos. You're gonna feel the overwhelm because you have not directed it with clarity, with certainty, with passion. So let's do this stuff.

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You guys, we truly believe as a community and society that every single person has a gift and message to bring to the world when they awaken. And our mission is to awaken a billion people globally, and how we're doing that is again by developing world class spiritual leaders. So let's dive into this. Okay. So, you know, I've worked with, um, celebrities, CEOs, single moms, and then most importantly, spiritual coaches and spiritual leaders, developing spiritual leaders for years and years now. And there's very common things that I come upon within each session. And that's why I decided to create society, to put all the work into group sessions and into automated systems, because, you know, I just found that I'm doing the same work over and over again. So people might as well just have this. And then if they wanna work in a group or one on one with me, they can, okay.

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So getting clear of your values is one of the core things that has had my clients break through and live extraordinary lives and live lives that they love in power with certainty, with passion, with purpose. Okay. So the number one thing that holds most people back from success is in their personal life and their professional life is of course their limiting beliefs. This has to do with the trauma work and getting into their core, core decisions that they made in traumatic incidences in this lifetime and past lifetimes. Okay. So before you do this process, you've gotta go back to, um, I think it's day four of the 12 series, and really understand the trauma and understand how you've got to neutralize your trauma, spot, those limiting beliefs and bring them up from a subconscious. Okay. So, but today we're gonna talk about the next thing that hinders most people from success is being at alignment with their core values.

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And this is like, duh. Okay. One of the questions I always ask people is if you want, if you won the lottery tomorrow, let's just pretend you won 20 million in the lottery. Would you be doing what you're doing? Would you be doing the line of work you're doing? Would, how would you be spending your days? Are they, is it different than how spend your days today? And of course, you'd be able to buy more material things, but how would you be spending your day, right. And if it's not what you're doing today, you know, obviously some things would change a little bit, but if it's not really what you're doing today in your, in your, your career, and it's not how you're spending your free time, then you got it all wrong. Okay. And for example, people are like, well, what do you mean? I mean, if I had won the lottery, I could, you know, be on a jet and I'd be doing this and that, whatever.

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Well, if you'd be adventuring the world, then go adventure. The world, you know, you can meet friends that have a lot of money and hang out with them and do that life. Do whatever it is that you would do if you won the lottery. Well, I might, you know, live in a huge house and I wouldn't be able to afford that now. Well, great. But what would you be doing? Who would you be? Who would you be being, right. We're not talking about, you know, the, the amount of, you know, dollars that you'd be spending that might change, or you can, and you can pull in big material things without actually having to make that money. What would you be doing? I want you to actually take the time after this podcast and write down what would you be doing, because that's gonna determine a lot of your core values, right?

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So getting clarity on your core values and commitments is imperative to becoming empowered, aligning with your core values, and commitments is a key to becoming unstoppable in your termism and success. Okay. So oftentimes a lot of times when I get into a one-on-one session with a coach, for example, like teaching many different, um, high level coaching programs, and one of the core things is a common complaint I've had from big coaches is they say, I, you know, I wanted to do this. I left my, you know, traditional job, or I launched this coaching, uh, company. And I thought I would have this laptop lifestyle. I want financial freedom. That's why I did this entire thing. But instead I'm working 24 7 and hustling, and I see no end insight. So again, I asked them, if you won the lottery, you know, would you be doing what you're doing?

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And they're like, no, I would, I'd be off like adventuring and taking people on adventures through, um, you know, the Amazon. And I would, you know, do smaller, you know, groups of people and, and experience different things. And dah, dah, da go, well, then do that. You know what I mean? Like, you don't have to do social media. You don't have to do all these things you're doing. You don't have to get, you know, these one-on-ones teaching them about money. If that's not your passion, it's like, oh, I could actually go make a coaching career, going to the Amazon and, and have it be word of mouth and have it be, you know, doing all. So this is the point you guys is it stop living for someday, right? We go over that in my other book awakening. But in this session, we're gonna go of how to get clarity on your core values and commitments, how to align with your core values and commitments.

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These are the true questions. You should be asking yourself, what are my core values and what are my core commitments? What am I committed to? And how do I align with my core values? And how do I align with my commitments? It's like amazing that so few people actually ask themselves this. Most people be asking 'em what their core values that they don't even know what their core value is like, what are you talking about? And, you know, there's different types. A lot of this comes back to mythology. You know, I'm a total warrior. So my core value is growth and expansion, right? A lot of the coaches out there that's, they are warriors at heart. There's. Other people are literally, their core value is just love and connection. And they are the supporters a lot. They, they just wanna love and connect, you know, and yes, some of the great leaders are also, um, core values, love, but generally they love, you know, growing in evolution as much, otherwise they wouldn't be as you know, motivated to get out there.

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Right? So there are two primary subconscious processes to bur someone's core values and commitments, number one, break down the quandaries and problems in one's life. And so why, why does this help building, you know, discovering your core values, because when you look at the problems in your life and the struggles and the quandaries mean youve you've goals that are going against each other, you can take a look at what those different goals are. Why do you, why are you even doing those things? And then you can get clear of which one is really the core goal. And that is where you discover your core value. Okay. So for example, remember years ago, um, I had a coach that I was coaching and again, one of her, her quandary was I want to, you know, have a laptop life. So I want financial freedom and the other was, but I wanna make a lot of money and pay my bills right now.

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Right. So we need to get clear of what is the core value. Yes, the core value. She has a core value of, of becoming financial independent, but her primary core value was to be able to have low stress. And, and, and part of that was, you know, getting clear of taking care and sustaining her life and her family. That was one of the core, core values that she had. Right. So it made it clear that as much as she wants to have freedom and all that she's got to have stability is more of a core value and having the freedom and, and lifestyle, right? Because she could, you know, uproot everything and start traveling around the world and going through a shift in and aligning to that core value. She wasn't willing to do that. So she had to get back to her core value of, of really having her own, you know, taking care of her family.

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Another core value is I had a client who wanted to, they, they were in LA because of their purpose and calling, but they felt like it's really expensive in LA. I know for a lot of us, that was since been a quandary for a lot of us. Right. But when he started going into his session, he started realizing that the core value really was to get his mission to the world. And that being in Los Angeles was an alignment with that commitment because of the relationships and the different aspects of Los Angeles that were, that were helping in that process of bringing that mission to the world. And so the problem of overcoming how expensive Los Angeles was went away, basically, cuz he, he was like, get over it, right. It's expensive to fulfill your dreams. Fine. It's a commitment. Right? So getting clear of what you're really committed to oftentimes will take care of problems.

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Okay. So even if you have like a girlfriend that's going through quandaries and problems with their relationship, getting clear of what their core values will help them in their decision of whether they should stay, go, how to align, how to communicate and really how to get committed to what their core values are. And it usually takes care of problems. Okay. So again, the two primary subconscious processes that birth someone's core values and commitments are number one, break down the quandaries and problems in one lives. What your life number two is getting clarity on the ideal scene must haves and ideal breakers. Okay. So it's really important for you to get clear of because when you're manifesting, right, when you're, you're directing mind every day in every way, you're directing mind. If you don't know what you want, how the hell you gonna direct universal law and direct it, right?

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So you need to get clarity on what is your ideal scene. If you have the magic wand, what is it that you truly desire? Right? So we break this down in the four heirs of life. What is it that you truly desire in the realm of career and money? What is it that you truly desire? If you have a magic wand in relationships and love, what is it? You truly desire in health and wellness and what is it that you truly desire in CR in your creative expression? Now the next one is, must haves. And that means what do you have to, what do you, what do you, what is like, you have to have this. So for example, in my career, I remember years back a coach asking me this, what is your must have in your career? And mine was conscious conversation. I have to have a conscious conversation.

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Number one. Right? So what is your must have in relationship maybe your must have in relationship is that they, they don't lie. You know, that they're, that they communicate their they're committed to communicating or that they're committed to, um, getting married. You know, I don't know. That's not everyone's must haves. Right? What are your must haves in the areas of, of money? Money might be, I need to must have is I gotta make, you know, a hundred thousand dollars. That's my must have for another person I must have is 30,000 for the next person. It's seven figures. Right? So what are your must haves in the areas of your life? And then the third is what are your deal breakers, right? So what are the things you're like not willing to put up with in the four years of your life? So for example, in relationship, a lot of deal breakers might be someone who cheats, someone who does drugs, someone, whatever that is, right?

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What are those deal breakers. Okay. And we're not gonna, I don't want everyone to think that they're gonna run away from every relationship or run away from every career. Right? But these are things that we're gonna get further into this, of what a deal breakers and how you deal with a deal breaker. Okay? So again, the two primary subconscious processes and birth, your core values is getting clear and working through the problems and quantities that you have. Cause that's gonna tell you a lot about what you're committed to and what you need to get over. Basically pick your problems. Right? Second is getting clarity on your ideal scene, your must haves and your jail breakers. Okay. So quandaries and problems. So again, I want you to write down what is a problem you're dealing with, what is a quandary you're dealing with, maybe it's that you have a job that pays you some money, but you don't want to be in that job anymore.

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Okay. Write down what it is. What's the number one goal. What's your goal with keeping that job? And what's your goal and that you have, that is not in alignment with that. What is basically working against that goal? Um, for example, another one might be yes, someone who's in a corporate job and they, they like their job. They have income, but their real goal is to, um, to evolve and they feel stagnant in their job, right? So they need to get clear on what is their primary goal? What is the what's more important? Is it to pay the bills and keep in that corporate job? Well then they need to get real and they need to begin to do their work of, of making the transition and building their other coaching business or whatever it is on the side side. So one day they can take that quantum leap without being delusional.

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You know, we're not delusional in this practice. We believe in total miracles. We believe in quantum leaps, but we also want to get okay with best and worst case scenario because we wanna be able to be neutral to either of those. It doesn't matter if it happens. It doesn't matter if it doesn't happen. I'm committed regardless. Okay. Second is what are the goals are antagonizing that one goal, right? So say you have financial freedom. What are antagon those goals? Well, you know, I have the goal of enjoying every day. So I eat out, you know, three times a day. Well, you know, you might not become financial independent, right? So you need to decide what is, you know, more important. And if that's the case, then you need to start thinking, okay, I'm gonna eat out three times a day, but I'm also gonna do bigger deals in becoming financial independent because I, both things are important to me.

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But right now becoming financially independent is the most important thing for me to create over the next five years of my life or whatever it is. Okay. So what are your primary goals and what goals are antagonizing? That one goal, you start understanding how to break down the problems in your life. How do you break them down and understand what's really creating the problem. Most people have no idea. They're like, I'm just pissed off. Why you need to start thinking better. You need to start becoming more conscious about who you are and how your mind works and why you're having contradiction in your mind because you have two goals and they're contradicting each other. So break down those goals and figure out what's more important. Or if you're gonna, you know, overcome both of them with innovation, okay, get, grow up, stop. Just having problems.

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Start looking at your problems and start understanding them and start doing something about it. If you wanna be a spiritual leader, you wanna be somebody that impacts every single person that you come in contact with. You gotta be powerful. That means you gotta master your own mind, master your own problems, master your own innovation and fulfill upon your dreams. This is a true spiritual leader. Okay. There's my round. So next is what goals are conflicting your primary goal. Okay. Get clear of that. So example of a goal that has a conflicting goal. So for example, again, someone's my core goal is freedom. And I believe I can get this by having money. This means, which means I need to work hard to get money. This has both limitation, beliefs attached to the goal and quandary. Okay. So you gotta look at what quandaries you're have in your life.

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I, you know, I want, I wanna love, but I can't love until I have a partner that's baloney. That is not true. You can start loving today. I want to be, you know, a world class spiritual leader, but I don't have the platform yet. Baloney become, just be a world class spiritual leader, teach everywhere. You go embody the wisdom everywhere you go. You can do it for free and get testimonials, right? There's always a way it's a limiting belief. Any problem you have, I want you to write down any of your problems. So I want you to pause this podcast or do it after and write down every problem that you have in your life. And I want you to start innovating and seeing what it is, the limiting belief that you have, that's creating that problem. And what goals are counteracting that, okay, you need to get a little bit more conscious in your life and overcome these things.

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Okay? So the next part of this is really getting clear on your, your ideal scene, your must haves and your deal breakers. Okay. So I want you to do this again as homework. I want you to write out the four errors of your life, money and career. The first one second is relationships in love. Third is health and vitality and number four is creative expression. And I want you to write out three things in these four areas. Number one is what is your ideal scene? Meaning if you have a magic wand, what would be the, the scene of that number two is what are your must haves in that area of, of your life? What do you have to have? What's really important to you. And number three is what are your deal breakers? Okay. So again, remember that deal. Breakers are basically things that you're not willing to put up with, or that really bother you.

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They're not your truth, right? They're things that you just really, it doesn't work for you. If you're in a relationship and you have deal breakers, you, it doesn't mean that you get a divorce necessary. It means that you've gotta take responsibility to put boundaries around that so that you can live in peace and create, you know, being your highest version of yourself. Okay? So that's your homework is to take the four errors of your life, career and money, relationships and love, health and wellness and creative expression and write out it may be five pages you write in all of them, maybe a few sentences. I don't know what that is, but you need to write out what is your ideal scene? What are your must-haves and what are your deal breakers? And so the point of this is getting clear of what your values are, what you're committed to and how are you gonna align to that?

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And so the aligning is really getting clear of how do you need to align with this? If there's an area of your life and say, you do do one of those four errors of your life and you go, you know what, I'm not living in alignment with, with even my must haves, I'm way, way down there in all my deal breakers, I'm living a life that is not in alignment with my truth. What are you gonna do about it? You know, you're gonna have to ask yourself some pretty, you know, hard questions and start having to plan around it. And that's what we do in society. We plan out, you know, how someone makes a transition from the job they don't like anymore into creating, you know, a business that they they've always wanted to create. How do you, you know, maybe, you know, deal with the dysfunctional relationship you're in.

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And quite frankly, a lot of, a lot of us in society have dealt with codependency. I've been surprised at the amount I'd say, I would say 80 to 90% at least have dealt with dysfunctional relationships in codependency, in society. And a lot of this is getting clear of those deal breakers. And for some people they've had to get divorces. I've witnessed women that have completely freed themselves from being in alcohol, you know, married to alcoholics or whatever. I've seen people, you know, leave jobs that they don't want to and start six figure, uh, different coaching programs. I've seen miracles. And the thing is when you look at your deal breakers and you start actually getting real with them, sometimes it's hard. And sometimes you actually are able to become the person that you always want and things shift around you instantaneously. Sometimes you've got to put yourself in new environments, but this is your life.

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It's not dress rehearsal, right? You deserve to live in alignment with your core values and really what you're truly committed to in line to what really matters to you, align to your purpose and calling and align to living a life that you freaking love. That's what's important, right? So if you got value out of this podcast, I asked you to please give a review of five star review on iTunes or whichever you're on, um, FM, wherever you are. We're on iHeartRadio. We're on every major platform or podcast stream. Okay. And please refer a friend. You know, it's super important for us to, you know, help others go higher. We're collective consciousness. You're not, you can't just heal yourself without healing the world. You are part of the oneness, right? You're one of the collective consciousness. So it's imperative. If you want to live the most empowered life, you've got to help others.

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Um, in my opinion, right? So that can be just being the best version of yourself, walking into a room and holding the highest consciousness for every single person. Or you can refer them to something like this, right? So I wanted to say, thank you again. You can binge all the other truth. Live your true series. We are on number nine of 12, the next one we coming out next week, or it may already have, and you can go ahead and binge that one. You guys have a great day and may you live your truth? Thanks again for tuning in to Dr. Aaron and soul society podcast,

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Welcome

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To society, the shift to the tribe movement. So you did so truth

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Live from Los Angeles. This is Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity. We come together each day to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We also come together as a community in society. We are committed to being the number one spiritual leaders community in the world. And that doesn't mean just spiritual leaders that are writing books or on stage or teaching, but spiritual leaders who are the people that literally impact every single person that come in contact with it might be a mom. It might be a real estate agent. It might be whatever the new spiritual leader is. You. It is not just the spiritual leader that is on stage. It's someone who truly desires to embody truth, to live it, to speak it, and to really impact and be inspiring everywhere they go. We also develop spiritual leaders, people who are on stage having podcasts, writing books and all the above, but we live on spiritual principle and we are committed to awakening a billion people globally.

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And how we're doing that is creating world class spiritual leaders. So let's do this and you guys, it is we're on the truth triangle. We're teaching live your truth. This is a series we are in number eight of 12 of a 12 week series. Unlive your truth. This is for me work that took me 22 years to get together. This is based off of Greek Oracle processes, Socrates method, um, deep spiritual coaching, and came to a process, a framework to walk you through step by step for you, birthing your truth and living your truth. Okay, so let's do this thing. So again, the truth triangle has three sides to it. The first side is birthing the truth of who you are, you are, which is a divine, spiritual, powerful, amazing, infinite all-knowing spiritual being, right? So the first side of the triangle is power. You birth your power, restoring who you are.

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And we walk through trauma. We walk through shifting back to the true identity, releasing all limiting beliefs, releasing those limiting, uh, false identities. And coming back to the truth of who you are taking back, our power, cutting the cords, whatever you wanna call it. Right. Second side of the triangle is birthing your passion. And that is really coming down to your core values. What do you really care about? What matters to you? Who do you wanna be and how do you live your truth in that area? Right? So we talk about placing boundaries on things, getting clear of what really works for you, and doesn't work for you letting go of all expectations and basically accepting people, places and things as they are so that you can live passionately and always be in peace and, and love your life. Right? So the third part of the triangle is your purpose.

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And this comes down to understanding what you're here to do in this life. I truly believe that all the suffering you've experienced in this lifetime and past lifetimes are some of the greatest blessings ever for you, because it's really what burs your purpose in calling. It's really that part of you that is here to complete within your DNA and leave the legacy that you wanna leave. So today we are on the second side of the triangle, which is passion birthing your relative truth. There's ultimate truths and there's relative truths, right? So we're getting into birthing your truth. And part of that is getting true of what makes you thrive. So today we're talking about dealing with upsets sadness and depression. And so we first wanna define, you know, these things. And I want to disclose that if you are someone who is experiencing depression or someone that, you know, please seek medical help, we cannot ever be a cure here.

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This is a spiritual community and spiritual practices dealing with the subconscious and the soul. And so it is really, we have to disclose that if you're having, you know, mental illness or suicidal thoughts, please seek a professional. Okay. There, there's amazing resources. And I know there's a lot of people going through it. Okay. Please reach out to somebody also, if you feel like they're going through it. So first of all, upset sadness and depression. What is it? And how does it happen? Right. So when a person has been upset over a long period of time, or has repetitively experienced intense times of getting upset, it often turns into a condition of sadness. And then when someone has been sad over a long period of time, or has experienced intense times of sadness, it often turns into a condition of depression. So again, it's like a gradient on one side, imagine like on the right side, there is somebody who's blissful and happy and their life they're, they're fulfilled, it's working right.

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And way on the other side of the gradient, the line is really depression and mental illness and all the above. And how do you go on that spectrum? Cuz we're on that spectrum. It's not like you're only one or the other. You can go up and down that scale throughout your life, depending on what you do with your consciousness. Right? So upsets happen generally when we basically feel like we're the effect of life they happen. When we feel that we, you know, aren't having things work the way we want them to work, right? Upsets are they can be failed expectations. They can be disappointments, they can be all kinds of things. Right? And as those compound, they begin to turn into someone begins to get more and more sad, which basically means they feel hopeless. They don't feel like they're the cause of their life.

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And then as sadness goes on, then someone can become depressed. And that is where they, they go past apathy. They go into, you know, a state of, of even below apathy. So we wanna look at this and, and start to be able to break down, how do we deal with this? Right? How do we deal with this individually? How do we deal with this as spiritual leaders? And so we wanna first acknowledge the most important thing is really to acknowledge. I think in our culture, we often, um, shame any kind of negative emotion. You gotta be happy and you gotta be positive all the time via social media. Right? So the first thing we wanna do is really release the suppressed emotion, like acknowledge them and accept, um, things as they are and then create a new possibility. Okay. So trauma work, of course, on the other, the first side, the truth triangle dealing with the previous, um, series in this, we deal with going into, going into the trauma and the trauma work is imperative.

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Before you do this kind of work because a lot of depression actually comes from traumatic incidences and deep, deep wounds happening basically really advance limiting beliefs and limited identity going into the subconscious mind being commanded in. So we wanna deal with that first always. Okay. But if you're just dealing with a little bit of upset status and depression, you know, um, there's a little depression, right? If you're dealing with some upsets, this is a really good kind of process to go through. Okay. So let's do this. So remember that trauma work has done separately from this process. Trauma work must be done in conjunction with these processes and preferably before in order to reprogram the subconscious mind from upset sadness and oppression. So it depends upon the client whether to do trauma work or go to prior processes. Right? So, you know, I think for anyone out there, if you have a lot of trauma, you definitely need to seek a professional or you can seek, you know, one of the ambassadors or, um, work with society in doing your spiritual trauma work.

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Um, if you, if you don't feel like you have huge, huge traumas, like they are something you could handle going into it, you can do some processes. You can go to that one. Okay. But this is really about getting upset. You're upset. Say your boyfriend upsets you. You're upset with your boss. You're upset with whatever you're upset with life. You're upset with something that happened today. This is a great process to go through. Okay. So let's do it. So what I want you to do is again, I want you to get out of piano paper and I want you to begin to take notes, turn off, um, you know, whatever distractions you have, you know, pauses for a minute, go to the bathroom, get set up, get a tea, do whatever it is. I want you to stay focused. This isn't a long podcast. Okay.

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But you deserve it. If you truly, truly wanna have your best life, you gotta commit to investing in your consciousness and doing your inner work. This is a free podcast. I mean, it's like seriously set down everything, take the next 10 minutes to do this. Okay. So you're gonna write down these questions. And what I want you to do is after you're done with this podcast, I want you to go in and either go into meditation, begin to think about these questions and really contemplate them in your mind. Or if it helps journaling them out and beginning to really ask yourself these questions and really repetitively answer them. Okay? So all the questions you can repeat until all emotions and statements get fully expressed. So this could, I mean, you could do it five times. You could do it a hundred times, right? So asking these things repetitively until there's an epiphany or breakthrough in perspective.

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So if you're upset first, we wanna just acknowledge all the upsets. So the question is, what are you upset about? What are you upset about? What are you upset about? I don't want a lot of backstory. Don't get backstory. Just say I'm upset about the event today. That happened at my work. I'm upset with my boyfriend. I'm upset instead of going into a hour long conversation about why you're upset, not the why, what are you upset about? Okay. Regarding this upset with X, with your, you know, friend, your mom, your sister, your, the world, your car, whatever it is regarding the upset with X, what are you upset about? So that means something like I'm upset that the fact that, you know, my boss, um, didn't, you know, pay me on time or whatever. Right? So what is it about you need to acknowledge, acknowledge it.

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Not you need to first get out. What are you really upset about? Because sometimes people think they're upset about one thing. They start doing this work. And they're like, actually, that's not really what I'm upset about. I'm upset that I really miss, you know, um, my son and, you know, X, Y, Z, or I'm really upset because I don't feel connected to my husband right now. And it's affecting the rest of my life. You know? So you need to start looking at what's really going on. What are you really upset about? What's really going on. Right? So now we wanna get into deeper into this. So we wanna basically acknowledge all the times that you're upset to really just get it out on paper. Then we want to express the emotions. Okay? So regarding this upset, what was not communicating, and I want you to begin to think about what have you not said, what is being suppressed in you?

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Cuz really upset is being, it's being suppressed to yourself. You're suppressing yourself and you are wanting things to be different than they are. So regarding this upset, let's just pretend it's your boss. Didn't pay on time, right? Regarding the upset with your boss, what was not communicated, you know, just begin to rattle off what wasn't communicated is I think you're a jerk. What was not communicated is this isn't fair. What wasn't communicated. Um, why I don't even like my job, right? It goes on and on. So begin to really write out what hasn't been communicated. What do you need to express? Right. And it's better to do this with yourself, journaling, then go to your boss and just start spewing a bunch of stuff around. That's why we do these processes, right? So the next question, after you get everything off your chest, what you're upset about and what was not communicated, then next is, imagine that person is here right in front of you.

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What would you like to say to them? And just, I would actually just close your eyes, imagine they're in front of you and just really start communicating cuz the truth is this spiritually. There's no distance. There's no distance between, you know, your boss that lives on the other side of town and there's no distance between anyone that's transitioned into after this life, everyone's in consciousness and you can close your eyes and you can communicate with anybody right now. I've done this a lot with people who have, are still upset with, you know, their father that passed away or they're, you know, somebody is no longer here in this lifetime and they do this work and they're able to complete or say whatever they wanted to say and get completion in their life, you know, or exes, you know, exboyfriend or girlfriends. And they they're still upset about what happened and they can close their eyes and imagine that the person's right in front of them and begin to tell 'em what they really wanna say. You know, you broke my heart and I still love you. And I'm frustrated and I don't know what to do and you know, just begin to communicate it. So next is, imagine your younger self, you at a point when you got this upset. Okay.

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What would you like to say to yourself? Right. So what would you like to say in the middle of the upset, say with your boss earlier in the day, what would you say to that person? To yourself? You know what it's okay. I understand that you're mad and you don't like your job and that your boss hasn't paid you da, da, da, but it's gonna be okay. I know that you're going through a law right now, but just I'm here for you, right? Like you you're beginning to communicate. Life is communication and depression, sadness and upset is really about understanding. They say that understanding is a solvent to all of life. And if we really actually communicated that it would solve, we'd understand people's perspectives. We would understand what's going on. And in that we would, we would get freed up from all the negative emotion around it.

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Right. So begin to just communicate with the upset. What are you upset about who are you upset about with, what would you say to that person? What would you say to yourself in that upset? You begin to just truly communicate like a, if you had, imagine that you had like a, a tennis ball in your hand, you know, and you're looking at the tennis ball and you turn it around and you look at all sides, you know, you've never seen a tennis ball in your entire life and you just start looking at it and feeling it and touching it and squeezing it and then you pick it up and you play with it. And you're like, and you start to understand what this ball is, what this tennis ball is, right. It's just an example of like, you're gonna do the same thing with any problem in your life.

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You gotta pick it up and look at it and communicate with it and, and, you know, throw it around and look at it in your consciousness. Right? So we wanna fully just acknowledge what you're upset about and what you need to say in consciousness to yourself and to other people next is really accepting people, places and things as they are, this is the deal. There's only one gap called suffering. And it's the gap between accepting people, places and things versus wanting them to be different pain is different, right? Suffering, suffering is the gap of wishing people, places and things we're different than they are. So we wanna start handling this. Okay. So now let's ask this next question regarding the upset with say your boss, what failed expectations do you have? So an answer might be, you know, I have, I expect my boss to pay me on time.

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I expect for, I mean, he's the boss. He should be Le leading it. All right. I expect X, Y, and Z. Right? So regarding the upset, what failed expectations do you have? So regarding, let's just pretend someone's upset with their, their brother or their boyfriend or their girlfriend or whatever. What failed expectations do you have? I expect them to text more. I expect them to, you know, um, put me as a center attention of their life, whatever that is. Right. So we wanna start looking at what are the failed expectations and getting clear of why do you have these expectations and what are you gonna do about it? You know, you either get to accept these people as they are, or you gotta do something about it. The choice is yours, right? So once you begin to take a look and accept people as they are this just pretend your boss is never gonna change.

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Let's just pretend, let's pretend that your boyfriend and girlfriend's never gonna change. So what now? So you gotta, still keep going with this. So what boundaries do you need to create around these people? What boundaries do you need to create? Knowing that if, if they never change ever are, and your primary job is to stay in peace and fulfillment, what boundaries do you need to create around these people in your life? Right. So another question is, was there something that you desired for X that they didn't want for themselves? Meaning was there something that you wanted for your boss that you, that they didn't, he didn't necessarily want for himself? Was there something that you desired for your boss that didn't want for himself? Yeah. I wanted him to realize how, you know, I wanted him to be more organized and he wasn't, you know, I want him to be more disciplined and he is not, I want him to, you know, uh, do what he says he's gonna do.

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And he doesn't. Right. So these again are the thing where you go, oh, it's happening every single month. It keeps happening over and over again. My boss doesn't pay me on time. Hmm. Well, I better start accepting that this is just who he is. So I have a choice either stay in that job or I, I really need to put boundaries in either, you know, put something in writing that's more disciplined or find another job or whatever it is. Like you have to become the master of your life. You've got to be responsible for your upsets. No, one's gonna come save you. No, one's gonna, most people don't change. Right? They can. It's possible, but highly unlikely unless they truly desire to change themselves. Okay. So what boundaries do you need to create in the different areas of your life that you're getting upset? What boundaries do you need to create in these, in your personal professional, in the area of your, you know, friends in the area of your, your wife or husband or whatever that is your kids?

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Um, in all areas, what boundaries sometimes like the house is a disaster and everyone's, you know, there's no organization, well, what boundaries do you need to put in it? No one else gonna do it, grow up, do the work, become a spiritual leader, become the CEO of your personal and professional life and stop blaming people for your, and giving them the power to make you unhappy and upset. So now the final question is once you accept people and places and things, as they are now, we get to create a new possibility. So in accepting people and places and life, as they are, what new possibility do you see for yourself? What happens? You know, what's new, what's possible for you knowing that everything is, is what it is. People are, who they are. What's possible. If you actually take responsibility for your life and you create the boundaries and you take responsibility for it, who are you committed to being?

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And what principles are you committed to embodying? Right? So say your husband's being a jerk and he is a jerk all the time. So does that mean you wanna be a jerk or no? You know what? I wanna be somebody that is really thriving, that is focusing on the positive, regardless of he, whether he's a jerk or not. That's why I'm gonna decide to be regardless. Cuz if you decide and change who you are for the world, you are not in your own truth. You are not in your own integrity and you sure as hell are not a spiritual badass. You're sure as hell are not a spiritual leader. So who are you committed to being and what principles are you committed to embodying regardless of what's going out in the world. And then finally, what do you want to take a stand for in your life?

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What do you really wanna take a stand for, for loving people, regardless of whether they're jerks or not for being a stand for, stand on your mission and creating a legacy and no longer focusing on this drama and little trivial problems that get you upset, who do you wanna be and what do you wanna take a stand for in your life? And so in that I know that as we peel back the layers of depression and sadness and upsets, it comes down to really feeling like you are the cause of your life. Or if you feel like you're the victim and effective life. And I recognize it as you take a look at your life and you realize that you decided, you decided that you were the effect, you decided to not accept people the way they were and the way they are. And as soon as you truly accept that and you recognize that you are the only person responsible for your own happiness and your fulfillment, all things are possible.

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And so on that note, I just say, live your truth, live your truth. You have the right to be emancipated from suffering. It is the most beautiful thing you can ever give yourself, have a wonderful day. And may you live your truth? Thanks again for tuning in to Dr. Aaron and soul society podcast, I'd like to invite you to write a review on iTunes. Also, I have a free gift for you, a money meditation and worksheet, which you can find@soulsociety.com. That's www S O L C I E t.com or 30 guided meditations at Dr. aaron.tv. That's www D R E R I n.tv. We also hold monthly soul society events that are all about transformation and building extraordinary community. You can also watch me live daily on good morning, Lala land.com or Instagram, Dr. aaron.tv. Grab your free manifestation masterclass with a purchase of my international bestselling book awakening a 40 day guide to unleashing your spiritual powers, life, purpose, and manifest in your dreams at Erin full high school.com/awakening book.