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This is first live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Are you somebody that's ready to have a money breakthrough by transforming your trauma? Are you ready to claim your birthright of prosperity? Well, then this podcast is for you. We are on a trauma series, understanding how, when we transform our trauma, we transform our lives to the E four trauma method. Welcome to the doctor Aaron podcast. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with the universal law. We also come together in community, in new thought global and society. We recognize that when people awaken, they have a gift and message to bring to the world. When they transform the trauma, they become super powerful. So let's break this on down. You guys, we're in a series of trauma on the E four trauma method. Breaking it on down today is all about money, breakthrough and how trauma really delivers someone to claim their birthright of prosperity.

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So we have to recognize that money is energy. That's all it is. So when I'm working with clients, uh, it always comes down to trauma work. When it comes down to them, claiming their birthright prosperity. So we wanna recognize the metaphysics of money. First money represents energy. Money is created in mind, right? Money itself is completely a worthless, uh, money is a symbol of value. It's an exchange. It's something that we've agreed upon as a culture, right? Money is a collective agreement of an exchange of value. Money itself is worthless and backed by nothing. You guys, money is an illusion. The paper makes up the money is real, but the, the actual, you know, worth of the money, the dollar is worth nothing. Each person has a relationship money. And how one relates to money is a reflection of their own belief system. Money is a symbol of self-worth money is a symbol of self-worth.

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You guys, there are infinite ways to make money. Innovation is the key to creating money. Okay. The spirit within is the source of all innovation and abundance. That's why we say we cannot place our power over and money or else we become disempowered in the realm of money. So scarcity or abundance is created in mind. Okay. So we have to understand how is trauma, how does trauma stop people from truly having a good relationship with money? It either stops them from being able to make money all, or sometimes it does the opposite and has people become obsessed with money, but still not be fully empowered in their consciousness. So the journey with understanding how trauma impacts our, our journey with money is, uh, hits home for me. So in my, in my twenties, I, I actually saved a million dollars. I actually actually saved physically a million dollars.

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Okay. Um, and what happened was early in life. I talk about the trauma that happened to me. It was when, uh, my sister was having a birthday party. I think I was around the age of eight years old, and I wanted so badly to go to her birthday party because she was gonna go ice skating. My mom was gonna take us ice skating for her birthday. And the day of her birthday, uh, my sister had called over two friends. We were gonna all go ice skating. She, my mom came to me and she said, I'm so sorry. You can't come today. I can't afford to take you and your sisters, two friends for her birthday party. So you're gonna have to stay home. And I was hysterical again because, you know, I wanted to go ice skating. It, it was like I had been so excited about it.

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And as they were driving off again, I remember being like almost hyperventilating. And, uh, I think she left me with one of her friends that day. And I decided in that moment that I would have money when I grew up and sure enough, it became a command and a limited identity in that it was not creating from, from being the cause, but rather from being the effect of life and sure enough, I grew up, I began to wait tables through high school, began to, I bought myself my car. I began to save money. I began to be able to do things I put myself through, um, through summer college. And then I dropped out to become entrepreneur. And I ended up, um, buying, fixing up starter homes as I was doing my spiritual work on one side of my life, I was, uh, saving money and I ended up saving over a million dollars, but there was a day, there was a day that I actually realized on paper that I actually was worth a million dollars through different investments.

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And I remember in that moment being shocked because I realized that what I thought my life would look like when I was technically a million, a millionaire was very different than it was. I was not even 30 yet. And I was still miserable inside. Sure. I had some, you know, decent things on the outside. I owned a home. I was technically a millionaire. I looked gorgeous because I just was this young thing that didn't, I was just a hot mess. I was so sad inside still. I was still completely like lost inside. I was still trying to find my way. And I realized in that moment that becoming a millionaire didn't mean anything. It wasn't gonna solve the problems, the real problems. And so as you guys probably know my journey, then of course I was already handing it over to all my spiritual work and I did double life.

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And I decided that I was gonna hand my life over to my spiritual work because I realized finally that money was not the path to true fulfillment. And that if I didn't hand myself over to my true passions and what really mattered to me that I would be broke for the rest of my life spiritually. So hence decades later, I obviously now train and develop, um, people across the globe and help them also in having a money breakthrough through doing the trauma work. So what does this mean? Exactly? We recognize that money comes down to one thing and one thing only, which is self worth. And, um, so I wanna actually talk about three different case studies of clients that I worked with around money, because they're different and, and also very similar. Okay. So the first client and I've changed their names for, um, for just, you know, client confidentiality.

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So Alexa, Alexa was somebody who, uh, came, she had a spiritual calling and, but could not figure out how to make money doing what she loved. She was frustrated. She was overwhelmed a young mother and, um, just stressed out to the max. She had a father who actually, she, she had some trauma with her father with big upsets when she was a little girl, in fact, her father left. And she was very upset in an incident where she decided that her father valued money more than her. And she actually realized that the command that she had in the moment of having an actual argument with her father on the phone, uh, realizing that he had left her mom cheated on her mom and basically was a workaholic. She had the command of I'm not enough. And in recognizing that she began to neutralize the trauma and traumas with her father and restore the truth, that she was more than enough, that she was worthy of having a career that she loved, that she was worthy of being a mom that was able to provide for her daughter, that she was somebody who no longer declared that money was evil, that she decided that she, that money is love.

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And that money is something that she absolutely can give and receive with ease and grace. And so Alexa today is thriving in her career having consistent months. And, um, also has a decent relationship with her father holding loving boundaries, but unconditionally loving her father and her daughter is thriving as well. And super happy that her mommy is doing what she loves. Oh, I'm gonna cry right now. Um, okay. Next case study was Brian and Brian again, different name than true client. Brian was a baller. He had, um, jet a jet and, um, had a huge company, literally diamonds, dripping all over him. And, um, I worked with Brian and, um, what was fascinating as we began to get into his traumas, which he, it was fascinating cuz usually someone like that, that thriving so much of what the culture, you know, wants them, considers that to be success.

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They're actually really rarely do their inner work. But Brian began to recognize, he began to almost have like midlife crisis, if you will. He had everything. He had the women, he had the jets, he had the diamonds, he had all that and he began to feel like something was missing. And I think that his mortality was kind of catching up with him. He began to realize that, you know, that like this isn't gonna last forever. Right. So we began to go into sessions. And um, and what was interesting is there was a few, uh, traumas in his childhood. One of which was an elementary elementary school teacher. And what happened was she was yelling at him one day in class and she said, you will never amount to anything. And he decided in that traumatic incident, he was super upset in that high frequency commanded into his subconscious mind.

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I will win. Right. That was his command. I will win. He didn't say it aloud. He said it within the command went in and sure enough, he won right. Coming from a divided perspective coming from, you know, um, lack of belief of actually loving your life from a consistent of, you know, no one wins when someone wins over somebody else. Right? So he, his command played out in his life with total per precision, cuz that's what life that's what the subconscious mind does. That's what commands from trauma does. So he began to win. He began to win by making a lot of money. He began to win by having the jet. He began to win by, you know, uh, having women, which was another big trauma. He had was a breakup early on in ninth grade. And he was heartbroken by the breakup, his, uh, young girlfriend, um, you know, basically just dated somebody else like cheated in front of him basically.

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And he decided in that moment also that he would win that he would, you know, become somebody that a woman wouldn't break up with. So this kind of winning formula for himself, the commands through the trauma, um, got him what he thought he wanted, which was a big life, lots of money, jets, big cars, lots of women, all the glam, but had him bankrupt inside. And so Brian began to, um, to seek deeper relationships. He began to give back in philanthropy. He began to kind of shift. Um, and you wouldn't recognize it from the outside. His life is actually very, very much the same, but inside he has a lot more of a connection to who he is and giving him, giving money back philanthropy wise and having deeper, um, relationships he's in a longer relationship now. And, um, you know, the point is, is that money represents energy.

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Money is an exchange of our currency. And just because we exchange it in some ways of materialism does not mean that we are exchanging our heart energy, you know, objectifying the world versus coming from a place of giving and serving and loving and expressing the depths of our soul. So Brian has come so far amazing human being does great things on this planet, giving back in so many different ways. And so the point is, is that you may think, well, hi, you know, have money. Therefore I don't need a money breakthrough. Well, money, breakthroughs come in all different levels. Sometimes it's because we can't get the money. We can't figure out how to even generate the currency and get in flow with it. Other times we have such currency with it and such flow, but it's not authentic. So we really need to take a look at what your relationship with money and where it's the traumas that are playing out in the relationship with money.

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So the third case study you wanna talk to about, um, we call her Ang and Ang had another spiritual calling. She was somebody who was really ready to step into monetizing what she loved to do and bringing her spiritual gifts to the world. And, um, what happened in a traumatic incident when she was a little girl is because the thing is money. The traumas that relate to money don't necessarily relate to money. So it's not like you go, oh, you know, let's figure out a money breakthrough. When did you have a traumatic incident with money? Usually has nothing to do with money. It has to do with self-worth. Okay. So Ang had a traumatic incident. And what happened was her sister, um, actually got in a major bike accident right in front of her, um, which was very traumatizing for her. And she was bike riding with her mom, her sister and her and her mom was like kind of behind them.

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And um, and her sister like will began to get totally outta it, started going swaying all back and forth. Right. She was like biking right next to her sister and her mom, her sister kind of looked at her like with total like shock, like, oh my God, this is not gonna end well kind of thing. And her mom behind her screamed at her and she said, she said, catch her. And Ang couldn't stop her bike in time and help her sister or grab her sister at the same time as, as you know, steering her own bike. And she watched her sister tumbled down and, you know, into a terrible accident right in front of her. And in that moment, Ang decided it's my fault. Something's wrong with me? And this played out like puppet strings for the rest of her, you know, for whatever 10 years later or 20 years later, whatever it was.

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And um, and she began, it played out in all errors of her life. It played out of, it's not it's my fault. So she thought if I have money, then I will do harm with it. Right. Or I'll, it'll be my fault. I'll hurt somebody or do something. It was a subconscious like command that was playing out in bizarre, twisted ways. We recognize the universe and the subconscious is precise. So if it's, if the command is it's my fault, then it will sabotage not even one to be the fault. Right. It will just make sure you don't even have the power so that you don't cause somebody to, you know, get hurt, right. Something's wrong with me. So every time she would try and, and create her spiritual calling and, and monetize it, she would have the command something's wrong with me. So she'd make sure that she'd sabotage her success.

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And so the point is this is that money, breakthrough and money and trauma has nothing to do with money. It has everything to do with the self belief and the self-worth because the truth is money is just an exchange of your heart. Money's exchange is the value that you bring to the world. Money is exchange of, of, of helping others with their life as well. Right? And so I recognize right now, the truth of who you are, that the moment you place a negative or positive, meaning on anything, you instantaneously have a positive or negative experience. The moment you decide that you're not enough that the universe just says. And so it is the moment that you place your power out there and you go, I'm not good enough, cause I don't have enough money or you place the value that you need to get money instead of generating an innovating and serving the world you'll experience being disempowered.

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And so I invite you right now to take a look at what limited beliefs you have about yourself. If you would, would you rank yourself on a zero to 10 and your self worth and your belief in yourself, or would you say you're not enough? And that you, you know, think something's wrong with you or whatever it may be. Right? I just know that whatever it is that the truth is you are prosperity. You are abundance. This is the true nature of who you are. There's infinite, infinite ways of creating and innovating and inventing and putting the elements of the universe into new formulas to create new value that whatever you have in your mindset or skillset, you always can help somebody wherever it is. If you want to get money, you've got to give value, whatever you want, that you, wherever you feel like you can't afford, it is a lie because it means that you're not using your mind for innovation money.

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Doesn't have to come and just having cash from Sony. There's infinite, infinite abundance. You may give in somebody who may give you a gift and exchange or there's ways of, you know, calculating. I invite you right now to just look at your life, look at the abundance in your life. Just even if you're able to listen to this podcast, you literally are. You have some kind of technology you're in the top percentage of the world anywhere. I know that I came from a rich dad, poor mom. And I remember thinking both families were messed up, right? One family was rich and they were still bankrupt in their, you know, spirituality. They still were had healing and traumas and discord in the family. And my mom's family was, was more poor and indigenous and background. They still, again, didn't matter if they had money or not money, the real wealth is our truth.

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Real wealth is our ability to know who we are and our oneness and making a difference on this planet. That's our real cash flow. And as we given the flow of our love and our, um, buying, you know, assets that, that grow, that that's the universal law also, that what we give energy to expands and replicates and duplicates and compounds and leverages. So where are you putting your time and effort? Where are you putting that? And so I recognize in trauma, we have to do our trauma work to be able to first even believe that we're worthy of having money worthy of investments, worthy of abundance, worthy of all this. And so I just say, may you know the truth of who you are, may, you know, the truth of who you are. May you clear your traumas and know your worth. You are worth more than all the gold on this planet.

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You are worth everything because you are a source. You are divine, you are first cause. And just so I say, thank you. Thank you. Thank you for knowing this truth. If you're ready to do your trauma work and begin your journey, you're welcome to reach out social media, Dr. aaron.tv. You can also reach out to the website, new thought global we've transformed our, um, website that used to be society into new thought global. Um, and just recognizing that there are truths, there are the E four trauma method. There is work to know. So you can break through all your limited beliefs and claim your birthright of prosperity as together we say. And so it is may you live your truth? You guys have a beautiful day.

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(00:01):

This is live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea, coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Are you somebody that deals with ups and downs in your relationships? Maybe you're somebody that's in a little bit of a tug of war. Maybe you really want your partner or your non-partner to change. You wish somebody would be, or do a little bit more. Maybe you're actually co-dependent and you are in a vicious cycle of where it's actually really, truly impacting your health, your wealth and your entire life. What I know for sure is that nine outta 10 people in America are dealing with codependency at some level after training and developing all kinds of people around the globe. It was a surprise when I realized that nine outta 10 of people were dealing with some level of codependency. So welcome to the doctor Aaron podcast. Today, we're gonna break on down E for trauma method and how it relates to relationships. It's really fascinating because, and go on social media and you go on different, um, pages of quotes and things like that.

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The pages that actually do the best are the ones that are dealing with relationship issues, because for a majority of human beings, we're driven by, you know, love and connection. Of course, we all want love and connection, and it's really challenging and difficult and heartbreaking when our relationships aren't working. So whether you're dealing with co-dependency with a partner or your, you know, husband or wife, or maybe it's co-dependency with a parent or a child, or maybe you're really struggling with your friendships and, um, and being able to have close relationships. The reality is that if you're a human being, you struggle at some level with relationships. And if you are the average person, you're struggling a lot with relationships. So it's really fascinating cuz our world out there and, um, and movies. I remember being in my twenties and oh man, I was so codependent.

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I was so codependent. I remember I was in a relationship and, and it was such an up and that we'd break up, we'd get back together. We were up and down. And I remember there was this moment and I was like, I had been thinking if he just changed, then everything would be okay if, you know, if, if he would just do X, Y, and Z, then everything would be better. I was completely thinking that it was all him and it had nothing to do with me. I was perfect, nothing wrong with me. He was the problem. If he, you know, changed his behavior, um, then everything would work out. Right? And I have this moment, I was staring myself in the mirror and I was in this leadership program. Um, and that day at the program, the, the, the leader, the, the person that was giving the seminar was talking about how he had been married.

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And he looked at himself in the mirror one morning and he thought, if I don't change something, I'm gonna end up getting divorced. He was in a marriage and his marriage was, was not, you know, at the place where I was gonna get a divorce, but it wasn't going well. They were having fights. They were having upsets. They were doing all kinds of stuff. And he realized that it was just a matter of time, whether it was a year from now, whether it was four years from now, whatever it was that he, if he didn't change himself, he was most likely going to get a divorce. And he had a conversation with himself in that moment. And he realized like, look, if I'm gonna get divorced, probably anyway, those are the odds I might as well give it my hundred percent. So he decided that day, when he looking in the mirror, that he would give it a hundred percent, that he would no longer look to change her or look to, you know, see where she was doing anything wrong, that he would show up a hundred percent cleaning the house, all entertainment, all financial, everything that they were having arguments around, he decided he would be, he would show up a hundred percent and at least he'd be able to live with himself.

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If he got a divorce, he would know that he at least gave a hundred percent. So he began to show up a hundred percent and sure enough, his wife began to show up a hundred percent. Also. He no longer pointed the finger of making her wrong. He always just, you know, told her all the amazing things about her and sure enough, she began to show up fully being engaged and no longer making him wrong either. And that day, after that day in that leadership program, I went home that night and I was looking at myself in the mirror and I realized that my entire life, I had been the reflection of my relationships. If someone was a jerk, I'd be a jerk. If someone was loving and kind, I'd be loving and kind. But I was the reflection. I was the reaction. I was the effect.

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And I realized in that moment that I no longer wanted to be mirroring my relationships. I wanted to be the cause I wanted to be what was reflecting out of the mirror. Instead in my relationships, I had been in dysfunctional relationships my entire life, because my mother was very codependent. She basically would be ups and it would be ups and downs. If she was in a relationship at first, it'd be like, she'd be all happy high energy. Everything's blissful as if she was like on some kind of a drug. And then as soon as it was going bad or the breakup she'd be down in the dumps and be in bed and couldn't get outta bed, it was a pity party. Then it was a massive party. It was ups and downs. It was literally like someone who was, you know, know a drug addict.

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It was, it was a bipolar, it was ups and downs. And no, my mom's not bipolar. But the point is, is the behavior of codependency is a nightmare for my mom, for me, for every single person that I was witnessing in it. And so in that day I decided I was no longer going to be the mirror of life. Right. But a decision without the actual work <laugh>, didn't get me anywhere. In fact, it made it worse because then what happened is I went back into life and I began to want to be somebody who wasn't wasn't reacting. I wanted to be somebody who was loving, no matter what somebody else was doing. I wanted to be the person that I wanted to be. I wanted to be that amazing empowered woman, but guess what I wasn't able to be. Instead. I remember, um, getting into the next relationship, right.

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And I was a hot mess. Right. I would be upset when they didn't show up how I wanted them to show up. They would send a text that I didn't like, and I would wait for the text and I'd have anxiety that they weren't texting. Um, I would send mean texts. I would get upset. Then when it was great, I would put them my entire universe. I would lose track of all my friends and family. It was literally like being a heroin act. Right. I would just get completely into it and then slam down out of it. When my life wasn't working anymore, sometimes I was better. And sometimes I was really worse, but bottom line I realized, and I was like, wow, this is not gonna change until something changes. Right. I began to go to codependency like, um, 12 step programs. And that was cool.

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I began to see the actual vicious cycle, but still I was not able to actually change the actual reactions, the actual, um, behavior. I knew how I wanted to act, but I didn't know how. And so that brings me to the E four trauma method. So E four trauma method, as you guys know in this series, and this is a series that the intention of the E four trauma method is to release the limited beliefs and commands within your subconscious mind and restore your true identity. You are an all powerful, all knowing eternal, spiritual, being with the ability to create your dreams into reality, you have the ability to create amazing relationships. The E four trauma method helps to no longer be reactive triggering, like getting triggered or feel like you're the effect of life. It helps restore your freedom of choice and to live your truth.

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So here I was here, I was, as you know, someone who finally realized I was, I didn't even know that I was codependent. I just thought that I was, you know, the victim of every relationship, right? If they were different, if they changed, if they did this, then I wouldn't have to be, you know, a bitch then I wouldn't have to be, you know, whatever it is. So the point is, is that I had a gap. I had a gap between who I was being and who I wanted to be. And E four trauma method was the answer. So I began to go into the trauma trauma of the past upsets and incidences that had happened in my past relationships. The traumas that had happened, um, on my DNA, epigenics from past lifetimes. And I began to neutralize all of the things, releasing what I really had PTSD, cuz I was in a really dysfunctional relationship.

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As you guys know, a lot of you guys know my story around being, um, engaged with a, a famous rock star. And, uh, he was a alcoholic and drug addict and would, you know, fall off the wagon and um, you know, cheat on me and, and then come back with tattoos all over his body saying that he loved me and wanted to marry me and, and start to get sober. And then as soon as I would, you know, we'd start to heal, then he'd fall off the wagon again. And so I always thought it was him and he was causing all of it and doing everything. But it wasn't until I realized that a healthy person wouldn't have even stayed in that, in that situation, a healthy person would've loved themselves enough to see the first red flag and know that it was, it was dysfunctional.

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So the point is, is that working in society, new thought global and society, you know, training and developing coaches. What's fascinating is that actually the number one reason that that people aren't having success in their business is because of their codependency. I'll say it again. The number one reason why people aren't, um, having success in their business, of course it's trauma. Okay. That's the number reason, but out of the trauma, the number one biggest traumas that are holding people back is because their relationships are roller coasters. They're up, they're up and down. They're not able to show up consistently and in their personal and professional life and they're co-dependent so they're, they're emotionally, um, getting all their energies going towards their relationships, whether it be they're upset about, you know, a breakup or whether they're upset with their partner. The reality is that our culture tells us that if we just get married or if we just find a partner that everything's gonna work out and the reality and the stats are that I believe it's only, I think it's only 10% of don't quote me, cuz I don't have the stat.

(11:22):

Exactly. But it's something like this 10% of marriages only, I'm sorry, only 15% of marriages are happy. Half the time. That's the sta only 15% of people who are married are happy half the time. The point is, is that no relationship can be a higher source. The moment that we hand our power over to a relationship is the moment that we will be disempowered. No person can ever be there fully for you. They're human in their own sense. They have their own trauma. They have their own stuff. They have to deal with that. The moment that we are putting our stability and our, our, our love, our self worth, our confidence, our stability in a relationship is we're gonna be totally disempowered. It's gonna be a roller coaster. And so we recognize that the core work to do in any relationship in all your relationship is your own trauma work.

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And in fact, I have people come to me for, for coaching, for, um, you know, spiritual counseling and they're, you know, sometimes they're single, sometimes they're in relationship. And I, when I first had couples come to me and I wasn't in a marriage, right. And I was like, well, I can't, you know, work with couples that are, you know, that want couple counseling. But then I was like, yes, hello. Absolutely. Because the thing is, I don't do couple counseling. I never work with two people at the same time. I work with them as individuals, just as I'd work with somebody. Who's not in a relationship because the work is identical. The work is identical. Doing trauma work is imperative. So what do we do? Trauma work is really, as you guys know, is, is relative for each person, right? And we have moments in our trauma where we have high states of negative experiences.

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Whether it be that you had a breakup, whether it be that your parents got divorced, whether it be that you got raped, whether it be whatever it is or you were bullied on the jungle gym in elementary school, the point is in that high state of a negative state of emotion, we decide something it's called a command. I'm not enough. You know, people are mean I can't trust anyone, whatever that might be. And that command plays out over and over again. And through the neurological system, ally, the subconscious mind has to collapse everything together. So every time you're in a relationship, those commands come up. I'm not enough. You know, I can't trust anyone, whatever it is and the universe just says. And so it is so a lot of times people will project in the relationships, right? Like it's a, self-fulfilling prophecy. We see it over and over again.

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So for example, um, I change the name of people that I work with, but there's a girl named Sarah and she is married and she's actually, she was doing counseling, uh, you know, spiritual coaching and therapy for families. And yet her marriage was still completely codependent. She was ups and downs. They were getting in arguments. She was getting triggered and actually like almost in complete rage at times. And she had done so much work. Like she was so frustrated cuz she's like, she felt like a hypocrite. She felt like she had imposter syndrome. She's like here I am, you know, know doing therapy for families. And I'm in a totally dysfunctional marriage. And my children are seen our, our fights and she's like, I like that. I can't live like them. I have to figure someone out. And that's why she began to do the E four trauma method and began neutralized all the stuff.

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And what she realized was it was actually in her lineage, her parents too had been codependent and so on and so forth. So she began to work on all the trauma in her lineage and began to neutralize it and through the E four trauma method, which step one is, is experience it. So she would go into different traumas that happened in this lifetime and past lifetimes begin to really just fully re-experience it. And the step two, and this is a process you go over and over again in the four steps, second step she began to, she would not evaluate it. So E for evaluation, non evaluation, she would go back into the traumatic incident, just be with it fully, without any backstory, without me any meaning around it, without anything, knowing that if you put meaning around it, you'll begin to re have recharge around it and re emotions around it and everything.

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Right? So she began to reexperience it in the process. Third was emotions. She was able to fully feel the emotions without any, any meaning, again, around it, just having fully feeling it without suppressing the emotions without resisting the emotions as the Vata say, just fully feeling and expressing the emotions. And then the fourth E is enlightenment. She began to get the wisdom out of it and realizing that this is really truly what her purpose was that she had. She had decided that love is a struggle. That everything is, is really hard. Love is a struggle. And so that, that command played out in her marriage. It played out with what she was doing. Even with couples. She was calling in couples that are just committed to struggling, that everything was in that perspective. And that that veil of life love is struggle. Right? And she began to have the enlightenment out of it.

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She went through the processes and over different, uh, traumas and came to realize and declare that love was beautiful and freeing. And so slowly, she was able to stay in her marriage and allow her husband to be who he was with his imperfections, with things that she didn't like. But she had to recognize that he was on his own path and that she had to find her own piece in the marriage and began to be able to call in clients that we're really committed to, to being able to accept their partners exactly as they are and recognize that it's not about figuring it all out together, but it's really about acceptance. And so I know that whether you are struggling in relationship or whether you're thinking that someone's gonna complete you, or whether you are truly in dysfunction, maybe even domestic abuse, whatever that is, I recognize we're all.

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If we're human nine outta 10, people are codependent. So first of all, I want you to know that it's normal. That it's actually really normal. If you've come into this lifetime, you've come into a DNA that most likely has is to code have been it right? You have all the identity and all of the trauma and everything's coming down your lineage. And I want you to know that the great thing is when you do your E four trauma method, when you transmute that energy, all those traumas, all that suffering, all that heartbreak, everything that something's gonna happen. Do you know that the number one cause of of death is heart attacks is heart issues, heart disease, it's heart disease. Okay. From a spiritual perspective, it's actually from heartbreak. Okay. How many of us feel like we're sad and how much does that affect our health?

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Because we didn't, we don't have love cause we're not even able to have it or because we're heartbroken because, or even maybe even someone transitioned and we're, we still cannot release knowing the truth. And the truth is love is eternal. Whether you, you know, can't be with somebody because they're that different, their goals are different. That it's trauma, it's trauma. It trauma causes the heart disease from a spiritual perspective. Okay. And I know that science is gonna prove this. I am here to state from a spiritual, you know, as a spiritual leader, as a doctor divinity, that I know the truth. I know what causes. And there's only one first cause and its consciousness, it's spirit. It's source. It's your true self. And in that, the body is just a reflection of what's happening spiritually and heart disease. Some people say no it's because we, you know, eat bad fats and I'm sure that plays into it.

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But actually what happens is it's the heartbreak, it's the heartbreak of also what we're doing to the planet, the heartbreak of what we're doing to the animals. It's heartbreak of love. That's what's causing the heart disease and this planet. And so I know that all of us desire, love and connection. That's who we are. We, we desire, love and connection. We are love, we are connection. We are unity. But so if you're asking right now, how are you truly gonna heal your relationships? How are you gonna heal that relationship with your mother or father? How are you gonna heal the relationship to actually be able to have friends in your life that you just don't sabotage and make wrong? How are you gonna heal your relationship with yourself? Because guess what? All of life is a relationship. And so all of life that comes down to being able to neutralize all those commands that are playing out that are divided, that make you always make people wrong.

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What if you no longer had to make anyone wrong? What if you were able to love people unconditionally and place healthy boundaries? What if trauma is the key? So when we take a look at that trigger, because I don't know about you, but when I was codependent, I'd have something happen and it'd trigger me. It was like, I couldn't even, I went into my reptilian brain and I couldn't even control myself from sending a text or saying, you know, you're a jerk or whatever. It may be reacting, getting upset, taking everything too personal, needing to, you know, be validated by somebody putting my source and my power outside of myself, into my relationship. All of that came down to me doing my own trauma work, to neutralize the mental pictures, to take back my power and know the truth of who I am, because the truth is you're an almighty, spiritual being.

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And that trauma is really the, the place for you to neutralize. So you can make a new declaration. So right now it's time to make a new declaration of who you're committed to being in the realm of relationships. Who do you wanna be? Do you wanna be unconditionally loving and somebody that's able to place healthy boundaries? Do you wanna be somebody that does not abandon people? Do you wanna be somebody that is able to love without needing it to return exactly from the exact person, right? Who do you desire? And you get to decide that don't let me tell you what you declare for yourself, but I want you to take some time to think about what you declare for yourself and in that, how willing, how much do you want that? How much do you want to be the highest version of yourself when it comes to love and relationships and how are you gonna get there?

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And so whether you get involved with society and new thought global and do E four trauma method to release your, your, your false identity, your false belief, your commands, all those division in your soul, all the triggers, all the upsets, everything. Even if you do it with us or not, I want you to really consider doing your trauma work E four trauma method. The difference between E four trauma method and other trauma method is that most trauma methods will release the actual charge or trigger. But E four trauma method takes it to further into steps that help you bird the wisdom out of it. Trauma minus emotions equals wisdom. You would never have gone through that. Codependency that break up that heartbreak. If there wasn't a wisdom to come out of that true self love wisdom to help other people, the takeaways out of that, all that your purpose in calling your purpose and calling is born out of the E four trauma method.

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You have gone through the suffering you've gone through because you chose it at a spiritual level. Whether it be a rape, whether it be whatever, yes, you may have been a victim in that, but as spiritually chose, because you are one with everything, you are the perpetrator and you are the victim. You are all that so that you can bur something and a, and a leave a legacy and, and bring the wisdom to help others who are struggling with that exact same thing. So I know that if relationship goal, the ultimate relationship goal is to be love is to know that you are unshakeable as Abraham hick says, be unseeable accountable. Imagine you are so clear in your confidence and you are so loving that, you know, you are love that even if someone cheated or transitioned and died, that you know, the truth of who you are, that you know, the truth of who they are, that nothing can shake you.

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I just say, may you know the truth of who you are, which is love, may you heal your codependency, may you heal your dysfunctional relationships, may you know the truth of every single one of your family members and your friends in all of life, and be able to love unconditionally and place healthy boundaries. There's another podcast on, on creating healthy boundaries. You can go down and, and find that one. But this one is specifically for how trauma is impacting your ability to have healthy relationships. Trauma is the key. If someone comes to work with me and pays me a hundred thousand dollars to work with me, one on one E four trauma method is the core work that we'll do. It is the biggest shift that we have I have for clients. And that it is the number one thing within new thought global and society that we train our coaches and our practitioners to facilitate.

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We have a lot of other processes that, that support and develop all of it. But E four trauma method is the game changer. It is the secret to the secret. It is the key. It is a missing factor of everything of enlightenment. You can be totally enlightened and be outta body, but you've gotta deal with the body. You've gotta deal with the charge at a subconscious level. You've gotta deal with the, the charge on your DNA, the epigenetics, you've gotta deal with that and how that is done through E four trauma method. And so I just say, thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I am so grateful to do this work as together we say. And so it is so, um, if you have somebody, you know, that is in a dysfunctional relationship, which is probably majority of your friends, or has a struggle, always making people wrong, um, you know, getting upset whether they're single or in a marriage or whatever trauma is the core work that all of us need to do. Okay. So have a beautiful day. You can check us out@soulsociety.com, S O U L C I E t.com new.global. And you can find me Dr. aaron.tv across all social media and that's D R E R I N, dot TV. Have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth?

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This is live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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One is a spiritual coach. Let's break this on down. You may be asking yourself what is a traditional life coach versus a spiritual coach versus all the different types of coaches in the industry. First of all, I just wanna say that I'm super honored to take this journey with you, because I believe that there is a very big misunderstanding of how important a spiritual coach truly is. We have all different types of people that come to us for coaching. I have dealt with high end celebrities, top CEOs. I have trained single women, people with, uh, different, you know, business issues to people dealing with addiction issues to people really just being stopped in life. People being overwhelmed, confused, all different things. But the reality is is that every last one of them needs spiritual coaching. And so we're gonna break on down. What is a spiritual coach?

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The reality is that spirituality is the reality that everything comes from spirit. Everything comes from mind. Everything comes from consciousness. Everything comes from the one source. And so spiritual coaches really clear out the soul release, limited beliefs, reprogram the subconscious mind, transform trauma and help people restore the truth of who they are birthing their truth, birthing their purpose, birthing their legacy of life. Being able to put boundaries on people, places, and things, and accept people in places and things. So they can truly live in their bliss and live in their power, live in their passion and live in their purpose. So spirituality spirituality is the reality that everything is created by spirit. You are higher self. So anywhere in life, where you are struggling anywhere in life, where you're not feeling empowered anywhere in life, where you are feeling confused or overwhelmed or sad or lonely or upset or any of those emotions, they're all being created by you.

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You are an almighty, powerful, spiritual being, and the moment that you even consider yourself to be anything other than the, I am, you are setting universal law into motion. And in this, I recognize the truth of who you are. And so as a spiritual coach, what we are truly doing is we're revealing the truth of who you are. Transformation actually happens. The moment that someone actually recognizes that they created their perspective and the circumstances of their life, because everything comes from identity, which identity creates beliefs, beliefs, create thoughts and thoughts, create feelings and feelings, create the circumstances of your life.

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So in this, let's just recognize that really, what are we doing when we're spiritually coaching somebody when somebody's come to us, whether that be through a program, whether it be through one oh ones, whether it be through a retreat, whether it be through whatever the reality is, what we're really doing is we're having people come from being the fact, being the victim, feeling like they're not caused over their life to becoming the cause, becoming the creator of their life, becoming somebody who realizes that they can create manifest and demonstrate what they desire. And that's the confusing part of life, because why do we know what we're supposed to do? But we don't do it. So we have to break on down. How do you become somebody? Who's the cause of your life instead of the effect and the victim? So we have two primary things that we're doing in our spiritual awakening and dealing with clients as spiritual coaches.

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Number one, we are pulling back all the limited beliefs, all the traumas, everything at a soul level and the soul consists of all the energetic ties of your DNA and all of all the, all of your lineage, all of your ancestors, everything, all the considerations of anything other than the I am. So all spiritual awakening is restoring the true identity. So the first thing we're doing is doing this by things like the E four trauma method by things like releasing all the emotions, neutralizing it at a DNL DNA level because epigenic now teaches us that what happens in trauma over many lifetimes, it's actually showing that we have the memory, the good memory and the bad memory is stored in our DNA. And whenever there is a trauma, they call it a tag and it actually bounds the DNA. And you actually are not able to perceive as much.

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You're not as able, you're not as, as capable of doing things and you actually condense, condense yourself. So I always like to think of it, like if there's a sun up above, which is your true consciousness, which is a part of you, that's really all powerful, almighty and has all innovation. It has all capability to handle anything. If there's clouds in between you and the sun, those are what be called limited beliefs. And in the limited beliefs, that is what restricts your ability to actually be more able to be able to perceive, to be able to innovate, to be able to do anything, handle things like upsets in your relationships, like the economy changing, like, you know, different health issues. You're not able to cope with it, right? So everything we're doing in our spiritual awakening with our clients is we are releasing those limited beliefs, transforming the trauma, reprogram the subconscious mind.

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And we're first getting our clients to restore the truth of who they are taking the veil off of their consciousness. So they can really realize the truth of who they are, which is one with everything. And also really, truly the source. They created all of life. The source that created the entire universe, coming back to that truth that you always have choice, no matter what, the hand you were dealt, you always have choice. There is a great coach. His name is Nick, and he has no arms and no legs. And he is one of the biggest motivational coaches there is. And, and I mean, he, he obviously has a deck of cars. He is been dealt that someone would say, well, that's not fair or there's limitation to that. But the truth is just like Thomas truer teaches us. There's there's infinite equations and ways of dealing with the deck that you're dealt.

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So when you know that I am, you have all choice and possibility. The second thing that we're doing with our clients is we are birthing their unique divine expression and their unique truth. We're birthing our client's truth and how we do this is really by getting outta the way when we do that trauma work. And we transmute the energy, naturally trauma minus emotion equals wisdom. And someone's truth is naturally born. When they transmute and have triumph over their trauma, they're birthing their truth by actually all the negative things in their life like where they're upset, where they're confused, all those things, when that energy and emotions are transmuted, actually the clients' truth is born. And so your unique divine expression is born of really two primary things, which is all the suffering that's happened on your DNA for you to actually be the neutralization. You are universal law.

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So you actually have a divine calling it's already written on your DNA. And also there's a part of you that has a unique expression. It's the gift of you. It's that place where you lose track of time. It's that part of you? That is that artist, that creative factor, that place within you, that no one else can do what you do. And so, again, as spiritual coaches, helping our clients do spiritual awakening, we are helping them birth. The truth of who they are, which is the I am. And then we have them birth their truth, which is their unique divine expression. There's only one of you, there's only one of your client. And that is what we're here to do. You are the fractal of the divine. You are, there's only one of you in the entire universe. And the greatest gift you can give to yourself and to the world is the most authentic expressed you.

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And so these are really the two primary things that we're doing with our client. So as a spiritual coach in, in society and new thought global, we teach universal law. We teach the creative process. We are in the new thought movement, which is ancient thought. And it really is the metaphysics of how we create. And so we're constantly educating our clients and helping them understand how they have created all their limitations, all their scarcity, all their lack, and that that same energy can create abundance and love and vitality. So if you take a look at universal law or the creative process in general, we have kind of like, it looks like a big circle with a V that goes down, and this is the universal chart of how we create. And at the top of the, you know, what we call open at the top, at the top of this kind of circle, uh, when it's open, it really is the creative conscious mind that part of you that can create, decide, choose that's the conscious mind.

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And that goes down into kind of the middle, which is what we consider the subconscious mind, which is conscious as well. But it's subconscious. It has an great intelligence in it. It beats the heart. It doesn't the mathematical chemical equations in your body that no mathematician on this planet could do. It is so intelligent. It's what would consider the soul. It also has all the great wisdom, but it also has all the trauma. It also has all the limitations. It has that yin and yang. It has that good and bad. It has universal law in it, right? And out of that at the bottom, we consider the fact, the form, the body of life. So there's always spirit at the top, the soul in the middle and the body at the bottom. And this is just a demonstration. We recognize all one thing going on, but the truth is that universal law, we have the choice.

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We're in a relative, it's a relative creation. We can create heaven, or we can create hell. We can create dev vision, or we can create our divine union. We can create all the above. And this one thing, it's the out picture of every last drop of life. And this is who creative process. So as we're coaching our clients, we're helping them understand that when they were in that traumatic incident and decided I'll never love again, I'm not enough. Something's wrong with me. That is a creation, just like creating, you know, a billion dollars or love, or the greatest trip of your life or the greatest expression. It's all creation. Universal law doesn't know the difference between a penny and a billion dollars. It doesn't know the difference between love or hate. It doesn't know the difference to anything. It just creates. It just says, yes, that's all universal law.

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That's all the creative process. That's all it does. And the choice is you, as they say, if you think you can, or you think you can't. So it is the point is that whatever it is that you put your mind to, if you focus on what you don't want, you'll get more of what you don't want. If you focus on what you do want and how to create that, that will be created. So we have choice the point of what we're doing for our clients and in spiritual coaching is we are restoring choice where store restoring the choice to know that you can create harmony or chaos. The choice is you, yours, you can create success or you can create struggle. It's the same amount of energy. It's just a creation. It's really what you're believing and what you're focusing on.

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So what is the secret to success for our clients, right? What is it truly, if we really want success for our clients, we want them to be able to, you know, create the life that they love. We want them to help. 'em have become the CEO of their personal professional life. We want them to have thriving relationships. We want them to have, you know, vitality. We want them to have joy and we want them to have whatever it is that they choose for themselves. What is the secret? Well, the spiritual coach, what we know for sure is that the primary work is to reprogram the subconscious mind because the primary work is getting out of the way the primary work is, is, is releasing the resistance within the soul. It's kind of like a voltage in, you know, electricity, if there's a lot of resistance, right?

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It's not gonna work very well. So we want the flow. We want to have the conduit. We want to flow so that we can light up the greatest light bulb. And it's the same with you in order to light up your life. We need to get outta the way when you get that resistance outta the way. So you can fully create and flow. Life is a flow currency. Money is a currency. Love is a currency of giving and taking all of it. But when we scare, you know, are scared when we resist it. When we hold onto things, when we cling onto things, when we're driven off of resistance, it doesn't work. So the primary work we do as spiritual coaches is reprogram the subconscious mind because we recognize that probably less than 3% of what we're able to do is from the conscious mind, everything else is in the subconscious mind, we don't have to beat the heart.

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We don't have to think when we walk, we don't have to do these things because we have this great intelligence within the subconscious, but at the same time in the subconscious, we also have all that trauma, all those limited beliefs, all of that stuff. That's holding us back at the exact same time. So we like to think of what we're doing with our clients, like a computer analogy, right? So when we're, when I have a client come to me and they have issues, right? Either they're dealing with, you know, codependency, dysfunctional relationships they're dealing with, um, not being able to break through and their money and prosperity and their business, their, you know, having health issues or just sadness upsets just, just are feeling stuck in their life. It's kind of like a computer. You know, computer has all kinds of issues, right? We're just exactly the same.

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We're we, you know, have all kinds of issues. When it comes to our computer, you can have that spinning ball. You can have, you know, not have good connection to wifi. You can have too many tabs open. You can have a virus on your computer. We're identical to computers. We live in a binary universe, it's all energy and it's all code. So if you take a look at the computer, you can, you know, touch it and that's considered the hardware. So just like you, you can touch your body and that's the hardware. Okay? Then if you go inside, obviously you go into the software of your computer. It's just like you're and you it's your beliefs. Okay? Whatever beliefs is running the program, right? It's like, you can only do what you can do with a computer based off of its software. You can only do what you can do as a person based off your beliefs, and then there's memory.

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So your computer have good memory, bad memory in us. We have cell epigenetics, right? We have memory in every, every aspect of it in all the DNA, the good, the bad, all of it. And we have a cautious records and we have memory of everything, right? So you can have the greatest computer. You can have great software. You can have great memory, but guess what? You won't do anything without the operator. You, my friend are not your body. You're not your beliefs. You're not your program. And you're not your epigenics or memory. You are the operator you get to create through this and infinite, infinite ways. And so we want to help you restore and have the best computer, basically. So just like computer problems, the spin spinning ball slows down, get viruses, glitches, need software updates, poor internet connection, just like that human problems.

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We get overwhelmed. We have confusion. We're not efficient. We have upset sadness, maybe even depression, limited beliefs, you know, all of our BS and poor internet connection. We're not, you know, getting to source tapping in right. Same exact problems. So what are we doing with our clients? We are clearing out all the cache. We're shutting down all those tabs that are still open, that are trauma incidences and things that are still playing in the background like public strings in our life. We are getting them connected into source, through daily spiritual practices and spiritual mind treatment. And we're doing all kinds of work on their limited belief systems. And we're giving them tools and, and things and doing worksheets with them and processes for them to handle upsets and sadness. And yes, if they're depressed and sometimes we have to get, have people go get medical help as well.

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Or if they're dealing with addiction sounds, we refer them to, you know, intake programs if we're not able to handle it as a coach. Okay. So we have to recognize that how do we reprogram the subconscious mind as a coach for our clients? There's really only three ways that we program the subconscious mind, just like a computer, just like a binary system. There is a negative, a neutral, which is zero and a positive. That's the only way that we reprogram or program the subconscious mind through negative. Uh, all the negative programming is what we consider limited beliefs. And what we're talking about is the, the negative charge comes in via the meaning that we put on things. So the subconscious mind is, is programed via frequency and vibration, right? So if we're in a really high state of a negative emotion in a traumatic incident, or really, really upset, and we decide something, we decide to lie a limited belief.

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I'm not enough. I'll never love again. I'll never trust again, I don't wanna live whatever it is. And that actually goes into the subconscious mind and into the neurological system as an Ingram. And so that is the negative way of programming subconscious mind. So in order to release that negativity, we need to release the limited beliefs through E four trauma method and neutralizing those energetic charges. And we go to the zero factor. And that again is going to the, I am remember at the very beginning, what are we doing with our clients? We're taking them and bringing them to a spiritual awakening to the I a, to the all potential. And that's where the zero factor is. That's where we get them through E four trauma method through a daily spiritual practice, getting them to the I am. And then we wanna take them to the positive meaning that it's great to get blist out and go meditate in the Himalayas or getting to that God factor.

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But we wanna actually be expressed and, and be able to be a human and have two ground, two feet on this mother earth and live an expression, a unique divine fractal expression. And so we wanna go to the positive, we wanna birth someone's unique, divine truth, their unique expression. We do this through a friend of mine, treatment and declarations and all kinds of way of birthing our client's truth so that they can live their unique truth. So as, um, with a client in general, um, I've worked with clients for the year for a hundred thousand dollars. I've worked when I first started working years and years ago, you know, I think I began charging something like $1,500 for, uh, 12 sessions. And then it went up from there and then it went up from there and so on and so forth. But regardless, uh, I use, and we train in society and we work with clients through a 12, uh, step process of truth triangle.

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It's a step by step system to help our clients restore their power, to birth their passion and birth their purpose, and to live their truth through their daily spiritual practice. So we are restoring the true identity and the divine power. We're getting clarity on the core values and birthing the passion and birthing the purpose and leaving the legacy. That's what we're doing with our clients. So, you know, 12 weeks is generally the minimum I would recommend working as, as being coach or being, um, being a coach one or the other, whether, whether you are getting coaching or becoming a coach, um, it's important to have a process it's important to have a formula. And this is based there's, there's 12 processes in this there's 12 kind of there's nine processes, but there's 12 kind of sessions if you will. And this was something that was born over decades of work of, you know, really distilling down all the great foundations.

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And after, you know, going through so many different developments, I was like, what are we really doing here? What are we really doing when we are doing spiritual awakening and birthing someone's truth, and really restoring and dealing with all the aspects of life, because guess what if you're human, you need to deal with trauma. If you're human, you need to deal with learn how to place boundaries and getting clear of your core values. If you're human, you have a purpose. And so all of these things, this was the formula that I came up with that really works. And it works really well. And it's called the truth triangle. It's a step by step system, 12 week process with nine processes and 12 weeks of different, um, different things with the, so the first of the truth triangle is restoring the power as a spiritual coach.

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What are we doing again? We're releasing the limit of beliefs. We're transforming the trauma, and we're, we're claiming the infinite power that I am always, always, this is the most important. The most profound results I've had for clients is doing the E four trauma method. And having them really, really rarely understand that in that traumatic incident, what's so profound about it is they all of a sudden realize that they decided the limited belief and that limited belief is in playing out their life, maybe even for decades. And in that moment, they restore their power. And it's the most profound thing to witness. It's so beautiful. We do this with the E four trauma method, which is a process I came up with and why I got the Wal and wisdom award next to Oprah Winfrey, Greg Braden, and Michael Bernard Beckwith. And there's four steps of the E four trauma method.

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Please don't try this at home on yourself, unless you are trained to facilitate it or wi, or if you're with a trained facilitator, because there's four steps, but how you go through those over and over again is very, um, very much, um, uh, something to be, to be practiced and to hone down and make sure people aren't left, um, in the middle of traumatic parts. Okay. So the four step process comes down to the first process is really re-experiencing it, um, as if it's happening right now from a spiritual perspective, there's no such thing as time every traumatic instance ever happened is, is living in you right now and playing out in your life right now. So we go and re-experience it because the mental pictures track at a certain time that are related to that step. Number two is what we call for E the second E is evaluation, but it's actually non evaluation.

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So state the traumatic incident without any evaluation or judgment, because what happens is actually why trauma stays on the track is actually the meaning that you place around it, right? You're such a creative, spiritual being the moment that you even put a meaning, a positive or a negative meaning something that you instantaneously created into existence. So it has to stay on the track based off of the re-energizing of it at some level, step number three is emotions E for emotions, which means allow yourself to fully feel the emotions without, without like any, any resistance to the emotion. Remember. So it allow yourself to fully feel it as is in the emotion fully expressing it. And one thing we're not taught in our culture is to feel emotion without putting meaning around it. And it's actually really can be very challenging as the coach. You have to really step your clients through this, or if you're wanting to get coached, you have to really be walked through this because, uh, the trauma, the trauma won't release, and you won't have the big epiphany.

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You won't have that neutrality. If you're not able to hold yourself in the emotion without putting meaning on it. And it's very challenging. It's something that the coaches are developed in to learn how to do. And then step four, the fourth E is enlightenment. So what limited beliefs did you command into your subconscious mind during this traumatic incident? And what new declarations do you want to make for your life? So what happens is we wanna spot commands. Generally people have three big commands that really play out in their life. For example, when my parents were divorced, when I was little, my dad came back and visited. And when he was leaving, I was so hysterical. I was so upset and I was watching him drive away. And I just declared to myself. I was like, I something's wrong with me. I'm not lovable and love abandons, you know, love leaves.

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And it just played out like puppet strings in my life forever. And it wasn't until I went back and just as, is it and realized that my dad absolutely loved me then. And he loves me now. And he was never abandoning me. He was just trying to find his own way, cuz he didn't have a lot of guidance himself. So in that the new declaration right, is I am love, I am love and I don't have to abandon because what would happen is I would just abandon before I was abandoned, right? So we wanna go over this process over and over again. And the difference between E four trauma method and other trauma methods is that other trauma methods, um, are amazing. There's some great process out there. They generally help the triggers and they help kind of, um, you know, get people to where they're not reacting in life.

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But the E four trauma method has a very specific intention of birthing the actual like lesson out of it, the wisdom out of it, the purpose out of it, we say again, that trauma minus emotions equals wisdom. So out of the E four trauma method, you birth a new wisdom. You transmute the energy of the emotions and you birth something, you birth something inspired action or your purpose or your calling or whatever it is, the enlightenment. And so you make a new declaration for yourself and your life. So trauma minus emotions equals wisdom. And generally, if I'm working with a client for 12 sessions, generally I will do E four trauma method for all 12, the sessions for the first part. And then we'll go on to other the other eight other processes and homework and things like that. So the second part of the truth triangle, the second side, remember the first is power burdening the power through E four trauma method and restoring all that.

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The second is getting clear clarity on passions. And this is really important. This is why, you know, dysfunctional relationships. We wanna figure out what it is that works for you versus somebody else. This is why you're gonna have a certain purpose and legacy to birth out of the passions. And so and so forth. So getting clarity on your core values and commitments, creating boundaries on people, places and things, and accepting people and places and things. In fact, the only source of true suffering is wanting people and places and things to be different. So we're also birthing the unique divine individual. You have a specific life. What you like in relationship, what you like and where you wanna live, what you like and what you wanna do. And you, what you like is so unique to you. And most people don't know themselves. Most people just get upset, overwhelmed, all that, but we actually take you through processes to birth your, your true passion.

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We take you through things like when you're getting upset, it's actually because it's telling you, your emotions are telling you what you like. And don't like, right. When you're, when you're confused, it's actually cuz you know, there's a commitment in there, but you're committed to something else as well. So you actually have to get clarity on what you're truly committed to. And it actually untangles that quandary and that confusion, things like that. We, we go through processes to birth your specific truth, your passions. And then the third side of the truth. Triangle is birthing your purpose. And this is such an honor, cuz I know for me for so many years I was searching for what is my purpose. And I knew inside of me, I knew there was something that I was supposed to do in this lifetime. So we take the triumphs of your past life trauma.

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And whether you believe in past lives or not, doesn't matter because the truth is that all lives live in your DNA. So it's your, it's your epigenetics, right? So you're triumph for your past life trauma via regressions. And we do that through E four trauma methods. It's another section of it to do past life, um, traumas and then creating your life purpose statement and then decide to create your legacy. And this is like the icing on the cake. It is where people just and simply fall in love with their lives and really become really powerful. Even if I'm working with the top CEO or top celebrity, when they get really, really clear of the purpose and why they're doing what they're doing, even more, they end up, you know, falling back in love with their careers, falling back in love with their life. And it's such a pleasure and we teach, um, and take our clients through um, coaching and spiritual coaches, the life purpose formula, which is triumphs plus passion plus skillset equals purpose.

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So your triumphs really come out of your trauma work. You can't, uh, I've worked with thousands of people of helping them discover their purpose formula. And if they're confused, there's only one purpose. And at the purpose is to do the inner work because once you do your inner work, your triumph and your purpose will be born. So your triumphs plus your passion, plus your skill set equals your purpose. So your triumph again is what's the hardest thing you've ever been through. And what's the takeaway. And if you still have any emotion around what happened to you or feel like the victim of anything, it means you have not done all of your trauma work. Once you completely feel a cause and recognize that you created your own trauma by the meaning you put on it. And it doesn't mean someone wasn't a victim and there someone wasn't a perpetrator.

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But that means that the meaning that you put on it was really what actually caused the tr the, the trauma, right? But the triumph. So birthing that to the E four trauma method and understanding passion, what would you do if you want a hundred million dollars? Not what would you buy? What would you do? We wanna discover an inquiry into that through some processes and then what's your skill set, right? Where do you lose track of time? What do you really good at? Do you love working? You know, in groups, do you love working one on one? Do you love art? Do you love, you know, travel? Do you love, you know, simplicity? What do you love? What's your skillset? Where do you, where, where is it that you really good? Maybe you're a connector. Maybe you're a visionary. Maybe you are a research junkie.

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Maybe you're whatever these passions and skillset are. This is what burs the purpose. And this is such an honor. And so through this, so I'll go back a little bit. Sorry about that. Through this, um, in our spiritual mastery, we have a 12 step system. So whether you're getting coach or whether you are learning to become a coach, we have a process. Okay. And so this is the process you'd go through whether you're getting coach or whether you're becoming a coach, you are reprogramming the subconscious mind, getting educated around it and doing processes around, okay, you're discovering your truth. Really? What is the ultimate truth that versus your relative truth, going through your life inventory, recognizing where do you need to make amends? Where do you need to forgive yourself? All that stuff. And then healing. Your traumas of course, is something we do the entire way through E four trauma method, shifting your identity, huge, releasing that old limited story, recreating your new story for yourself.

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People are like in dramas of their life. They're like in a play, but they forgot that they created the play themselves, right? Unleashing yourself, empowerment anywhere you are feeling disempowered it's cause you've handed your power over to something outside of yourself. And then where you confuse or having problems or having quandaries. We deal with that specifically through processes, teaching you these tools week. Number eight is all about upsets and sadness and depression. And obviously again, if someone's dealing with depression, they need to seek medical help. Okay? But these are all the, the things that you'll go over, um, you'll go over E for trauma through the entire time, but you're gonna learn all the processes and be taken through the processes and then values in week nine, values, commitments and alignment, understanding and burdening your core values. What do you truly committed to and what do you really wanna align with?

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And then path, life regressions. Again, whether you believe in past lives or not, doesn't matter, you deal with what's on your track. And it's one of the most fascinating processes of going in through really the imagination and pulling up mental pictures of, of things that you're really emotional around. And it's really fascinating cuz some people actually I've seen clients get some of the biggest aha moments of their entire life through past life progressions. And they didn't even believe in past lives. It was like amazing many lives mini masters, right week number 11 is birthing your purpose and calling. And then week 12 is your life purpose statement. So you'd be taken through all of this, whether you are getting coach or becoming to coach. And so we really wanna discover and unveil, what are your limited beliefs as a spiritual coach? That is our primary work to discover because the extent to which you have limited beliefs is the extent to which you're gonna experience limitations in your life.

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The truth is you're an, I am all knowing all powerful, infinite, infinite creator. And we're here to restore that for you, with you. You do that as a, as a coach, we're really just asking the questions and being the conduit as a coach. The most important thing we do is bring our pure consciousness. If you're a coach and you're coaching with society, the most important thing is that you do all of your inner work so that you can step into, you know, coaching with your clients to have a totally powerful, clear soul. And so we also, of course, it really starts with what are your limited identities getting clear of that? Releasing those through all the processes, all the E four trauma method, repro, subconscious mind and all the above. And then what are your traumas, right? Diving into those, releasing those neutralizing, those transmuting, those so that you can birth your wisdom, birth, your truth, birth, your purpose, and calling.

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And then what are you passionate about, right? What are your passions? Where do you lose track of time? Where if you won a hundred million, what would you do? How would you spend your time? And so that you can live a life that you love with passion and with, with all the we're supposed to live with total, you know, just diving into what we really care about in this life. And then how committed are you to doing your inner work? That's really the question because whether you're wanna get coached or whether you are wanting to become a coach, what we found is the greatest coaches that we are our primary client, that we have to do our own inner work. And, and we only work with highly committed people. And so if you not, if you don't get the level of commitment of doing your inner work, then you, for me, you're wasting your time because you're gonna be suffering for a long time.

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It really comes down to our own consciousness, every last drop of it. And what is the legacy you want to leave in this lifetime? You have a legacy and we are infinite, immoral being. But the truth is that we only have one lifetime in this body per se. And so what do you hear? What's the difference you wanna see on this planet? And that is true spiritual mastery. So what is a spiritual coach? A spiritual coach for me is the most important career you can have on this planet. It is such an honor to train and develop spiritual coaches and recognize that our spiritual nature, our subconscious mind, our consciousness is we live in a mental universe and everything is out picturing and reflecting from consciousness. There is only one mind and you are get to use the fractal of it based upon how, you know, condensed you use it through all the limitations you have in your soul.

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So the primary work is to clear out the soul to the I am and bird the unique divine expression. And so this, I just say, thank you, thank you so much for all this. You can click the link below to discover more and it would be an honor, whether you wanna get coached or whether you wanna become a coach, the choice is yours. But what I know for sure is that this is the most profound, most important work you will ever do in your life. And so I just say, I am so honored. I am so grateful in this divine moment. I know perfection. I know you're healed. I know you're revealed. I the know the most expressed you is born. And I just say all your suffering, you've been through all the strife, all that is not in vain, that all of that you needed to go through.

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So that one day right now, right here, you are born to yourself. You are liberated and you are free. And now you get to play this magical game called life and love every drop of it because it's always gonna have the light, the dark, the good, the bad, the suffering, the joy, and all of it. And to love yourself unconditionally is to love all of life. May you know yourself, and may you love yourself unconditionally so that you can fully love all of life and be express fully. And on that note, I just say, yes, yes, yes. As together we say. And so it is have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth?

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