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This is first live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Okay. You ready for it? I'm going to give you the secret of the secret, the key, the actual one thing that has people transform. So whether you're looking to have a huge breakthrough in an area of your life, you want a major transformation, or whether you're somebody that really desires to become somebody that can give somebody a great transformation, take them through great transformation. You definitely wanna listen to this podcast. So welcome to the Dr. Aaron podcast. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with the universal law. We truly know that when somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. So as a doctor divinity, somebody who has, you know, held many, many transformational events around, um, Los Angeles area, for sure. And, uh, different parts of the world, I have touched and moved and transformed.

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Thousands of people touching hundreds of thousands of people online. And I'm gonna break it on down for you. Okay. It comes down to one thing. And one thing only when somebody comes, they wanna break through, they wanna break through whether they're dealing with, you know, relationship issues. Maybe they're trying to find the one or their in a relationship that they just want them to change or whatever. It may be relationship things, whether it be their, their mother is bothering them or their child is going through addiction or whatever it is. Okay. So that's one of the areas of life. They want transformation in. The second area of life. People always want transformation in is money, honey, money and career. If I just make money, then everything will work out. If I can just get out of this job that I hate, then it'll work out.

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If I can, you know, just make money and finally do what I wanna do or, um, whatever it may be in career. If I can just scale a little bit more, if I can just become a seven figure, whatever, if I can just build my team, if I can just money in career. Okay. A second area of life, people want transformation and third area of life. They want transformation and is health and vitality. I don't feel good. Something's wrong with me constantly not feeling well if I just lose that 10 pounds. Oh my gosh. Um, you know, if I just look better, you know, whatever, it may be, their, their health and vitality. It's something that people spend, how many dollars on, you know, the next supplement, the next, this, the next treatment, the next, whatever. I have people that in LA my gosh, they spend so much money on trying to get their energy high and their vitality high.

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Right? And then finally, the other people really want transformation in the fourth way. Cuz we teach four legs of life that we're getting transformation in. The fourth is their self-expression. If I just know what my purpose is, then everything's gonna work out. I wanna breakthrough. I wanna know what my divine calling is. I wanna know what my mission is. This the breakthrough, right? So today I'm gonna break on down what it is. The one thing, okay. It comes always comes down to only one thing in transformation. How you get there can be multiple ways could be through trauma work can be through, you know, a harsh conversation can be through a meditation, can be through me, speaking on stage and having people see a new perspective and bingo pop, you know, we call it popping. We call it when people have a big transformation, we call 'em popping because they literally pop out of their old PI paradigm and transform their entire perspective.

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Change in an instant. Their entire world will never look the same, who doesn't love a good transformation. I love a good transformation. I remember years ago going to, you know, landmark forum and different breakthrough things in seminars and reading books and having, you know, breakthrough after breakthrough transformation, after transformation, I remember going into meditation and every time I'd come out, it was like, whoa, a whole new perspective on something going into trauma. We're going into past life regressions going to all this going to blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And the point is there's only one thing. The transformation comes down to transformation comes down to no longer placing your power out in the world.

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It truly is the divine awakening. The divine awakening of the oneness, recognizing that all of life is just the projection and reflection of your own beliefs and identity. So that's the hack. The hack is to have a transformation for yourself, for your client is somehow there has to be that paradigm shift to recognize that life is not doing to you. You can never be the victim of life. That life is growing you and showing you your own belief system and how it's projecting out into the circumstances, your relationship into your health and into your purpose of your life. So how the F do you do it?

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Obviously trauma work is the number one way that I've had people have their big epiphanies, the big transformation, and the reason why is this? There is a moment in the E four trauma method. There's a moment when I take a client into a, to a trauma, whether it be in this lifetime or a past lifetime in their epidemics of their lineage, when they recognize that during that moment, whether it be they were being raped, whether that was a breakup, whether it was, they got a phone call that was traumatizing, whether they in a car accident, whether they were, um, diagnosed with cancer, whether they were X, Y, and Z, whatever the trauma is, there is a moment. There's a moment when they decided something that was limited. A limited belief, we call it commands something that had them divided, divided in their perspective, divided in who they were as a spiritual being divided. Meaning I'm not enough meaning something's wrong with me, meaning whatever. And in that moment, in that trauma, in that E four method session, there is a moment. There's a moment when they realized that they created their own suffering, they created their own limitations.

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They commanded something into their own subconscious mind that was in plain out like puppet strings in their life. They realized that they're the creator. And so what is transformation it's really beyond the form. Breakthroughs and transformations means going beyond the form, a meta metamorphosis, a breakthrough, a quantum leap, whatever you wanna call it, it comes down to one thing. And one thing only, it comes down to no longer placing your power out in the world and recognizing the truth of who you are. You are a divine, all powerful, infinite, spiritual being. And I'm here to say that I went through many different programs for transformation. Some were, some were great, but they didn't get down to the real stuff. They said surface. They had me, you know, there was transformation on, um, different perspectives of life. But I truly believe until the transformation actually gets down into spirituality, gets down into the metaphysics, get down to understanding the power of the mind. And that's why I am forever, totally loyal to S's mind, to science and mind understanding our spiritual nature to spirituality, to the new thought movement. I am so committed to this work because I've been through every transformational program. And until I understood the power of mind and that I'm a spiritual being the transformations didn't last.

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It's great. It's great to go to a seminar and transform and see things in a new perspective and get all motivated. And then you go home and then you're like, huh? Why do I feel like crap again? Why do I feel like I'm not powerful? What's going on? Right? Cause we haven't gotten to the core. We haven't gotten to the core principles that are the principles of true freedom. Transformation comes down to one thing. And one thing only it's recognizing the truth of who you are. You are a divine creator, you are source and all of life is just a mirror for you to wake up for you to experience the depths of consciousness, the depths of your soul and form everything. Everyone is the projection of what's happening in mind. That is true transformation. So if you're somebody that wants a profound transformation, a life changing transformation, or if you're somebody who truly desires to be able to be somebody that's able to help someone else transform, help bring clients and create programs and do all the work you've got to master this one principle, you've got to master it. So how do you do it? You do it through deep trauma, work through E four trauma method to have those epiphanies, to truly neutralize all, all the BS of being the effect of whatever happened in life trauma. Isn't what happened to you. Trauma is what happens within you. It's the meaning that you put on it. And therefore all trauma is created from myself.

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All trauma is created from myself. And so in that I know, I know that you are capable of all the greatest trans women. Imagine yourself. Imagine yourself as somebody who absolutely is untouchable, who absolutely knows they can create anything with whatever life throws at them. I know for certain that this is the truth and the truth shall set you free. And so in this, if you wanna be the a world renowned someone who can completely transform lives, I promise you I'm your gal. I promise you. We have the greatest teachings. It's not just my teachings. Okay? We come from a lineage, a lineage of new thought movement, a lineage of science of mine, a lineage of uni, a a lineage of, of spirituality of core work, everything from trauma, work, everything from spiritual mind, treatment, everything from, from understanding and being able to transform your life with lasting results.

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I see people, I watch people completely transform in front of my eyes, from their physicality, to their relationships, to their businesses, to their health, to their relationship, with themselves, to being able to make an impact and a legacy in this life. And I'm just here to say it is your time. It's been a hell of a ride the last couple years for all of us. It's no joke what's going on out there in the world. And here, I'm here to say that if you don't commit to your own transformation, it's gonna be a really, really tough ride. I don't know how people do it without fully knowing who the fuck they are. That's what I know. I know that you deserve to know who you are for you to fully be the empowered person that you already are for you to no longer lie to yourself, for you to no longer blame others for you.

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No longer to be the victim of anybody ever. Again. This is your life and it's not a dress rehearsal. You deserve the world. And the world is yours. I simply know this as together we say. And so it is the only principle you'll ever need to know for all transformation is that you are the creator that you can no longer put any power outside of yourself. And it's time to grow up, wake up and shake up this world to truth. Thank you so much for your time. I truly know you have a divine calling. I know you would not be here not listening to this podcast. If you did not have a divine calling, I would be honored to take the journey with you. You can go and DM me on Instagram at Dr. aaron.tv, D R E R I n.tv. Or you can go to the website and check out some stuff there and book a breakthrough call. Okay. Have a beautiful day. I'd love. If you give a review, have a beautiful day and may live your truth. Thank you for tuning into the Dr. Aaron podcast.

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(00:01):

This is first live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Live from Los Angeles. We come together each day to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly know that when somebody awakens a gift and message, bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. So this is Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity, teaching training, developing spiritual entrepreneurs and spiritual leaders. We train and develop spiritual coaches. We turn develop spiritual practitioners, ministers, and yes, doctors of divinity. So let's do this thing today. We're actually going to be answering questions. This is very fun. We're actually gonna be doing a call and show. And right now we don't have the capability to actually have people call in, but we've been taking, uh, different questions from people, everyone from DMing to call in. We also have like a Google number where people will text in and call in as well. So it's super exciting.

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It's a new series that we're be doing and we'll see how, how it's received and kind of play around with it and have a really good time. So I'm super excited because everything I'm going to be responding two ways with these questions. One is from a universal law perspective, metaphysics of mine perspective, and of course, trauma trauma perspective, all truth perspective. Okay. The other way I'm gonna be answering the questions is actually from a human perspective, from my own personal opinion, with my own stories and things going into it as well. Okay. So if you're somebody that would like to have a question answered, we will be doing anonymously. So you can send in your questions and you can put your name in. We won't, we won't put your name regardless. Okay. Because we want to have a safe place for people to really inquire into conscious conversations.

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And, you know, unfortunately, unfortunately a lot of the questions we get are around relationships and we recognize that all of life is a relationship, but of course, you know, there's different dynamics of life. We teach this four areas of life, everything from relationships and love, career and money and health and vitality and creative expression. We recognize that all of life is a relationship, but a lot of the questions we get are around relationships. And I think the reason why we get this is because the core kind of foundational work of spirituality and awakening is, is no longer handing your power over to anything in this world. And a lot of us care a lot about relationships and therefore our codependency and our kind of, uh, non mastery in spirituality shines a lot through in our relationships. In fact, we found about nine outta 10. People that come into our community are dealing with some level of codependency and that goes across for all stats.

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And so a lot of these questions, all of us can relate to because if you're a human being, you probably are dealing with some level of codependency. So today we're gonna be breaking on down some different, uh, questions regarding relationships in particular. So it doesn't matter if you're dealing, whether you are single, whether you're dating, whether you are married, the, the universal laws, the trauma work, everything, the subconscious work, everything applies to everyone. And we know from stats in, in, uh, different psychology things that just because somebody's married or not, does not necessarily mean that they are more happy or less happy. We also recognize the power of relationship, uh, through the Harvard study. That was, um, a very long study that basically showed that true. Happiness does break down to deep relationships. So again, I completely believe in love and connection. And I also recognize the complete delusion that a lot of people have that they think that a relationship is going to complete them until we are complete ourselves.

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We'll never fully be complete in any relationship. So let's break this on down. So the very first question is here it is. Let's see. Dear Dr. Aaron, I'm writing for you, your input. I'm in a marriage where my husband, isn't interested in doing his inner trauma work. He doesn't seem to care and I don't know how to get him to change. What should I do? Should I just accept him or demand him to do his work? Hmm, great, great story. Uh, great question. So I'll never forget. In 1999, I went to landmark forum. I'm sure, probably a lot of you guys went to landmark forum. It was one of the, you know, so many programs I went through over, you know, 25 years of being developed in spiritual work. And I remember in 1999, I went through landmark form. And what happened is when I came out of landmark forum, what they, they teach you lost these distinctions.

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And one of the distinctions that I learned was what was called a racket, meaning that people have things that they do in life, thinking that they're gonna get what they want at a life. For example, a racket might be that, um, somebody needs basically it's where you're making someone wrong. So a racket would be, for example, someone who's married that is wanting their husband to change and wanting them to do their inner work basically. So they don't have to actually do their own inner work <laugh> because it's like a decoy, right? So the point is, is that when I came at a landmark forum, what happened was I used all of the distinctions in my quote unquote transformational work to actually just have, um, all the distinctions. I need to point my finger at other people of what they were doing in life. And we'll find this a lot in our spiritual development.

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There's kind of a place where as spirituality will be used for actually more divisiveness, which is the complete misuse of it, the, the use of spiritual awakening and becoming a spiritual leader and doing your own inner work and your own trauma work and your own awakening is to actually really point the finger and take full responsibility for our own lives. And that is the unification of it for us to become responsible and become the first cause of our life. And to truly be, be somebody who's a change that we wanna see in the world when we point the finger and hope that somebody else does their inner work, it's completely a misuse of the energy. In fact, it actually hurts it because what we resist persists. So this person that's writing in or wrote him, basically, if you're wanting your husband to change for him to do his inner work for him to do his trauma work for him to do his awakening work, it's actually in the resistance of what is that actually will most likely turn him off to doing his inner work.

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So you wanna be super cautious around us. In fact, we all have had those friends that begin to awaken and begin to think they're better than because they're doing their spiritual work. So for me, I learned the hard way I got outta landmark. I started pointing the finger at everybody else and sure enough, the relationship I was in, um, I found everything wrong with him and not really using it to do my own transformational, work on myself and use it as spiritual distinctions and transformational distinctions to embody we teach embodiment. Okay. So this is from a universal law perspective, is that what resist persists? And that also universal law is perfect. We have perfect God, perfect man. Perfect being right. So perfect divine, perfect woman, perfect bean mean that we only know perfection and we have to recognize that our partners or our friends or whomever it is that has not done their inner work.

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We have to recognize that they learn it differently than us. In fact, if people want them to change, they're actually less likely to change. So that's the spiritual and metaphysical truth of that. So my suggestion for you, this woman that, uh, wrote in is for you to focus on yourself, to really hold faith and faith is where we know and hold pure potential. So the practice would be for you to do your own inner work for you to focus on your own trauma, work for you, to focus on all that, not make him wrong and also hold faith, knowing that he's going to, as you shift, he automatically is going to shift. In fact, we don't need to do have anyone do work around us when we truly do our work, then we actually impact and meta physically change every single person around us. Okay.

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So that's from a truth perspective. Now me as a human being side girl, I understand, I know what it's like to be around. Not only just in a relationship, but have, you know, a parent or a friend or somebody that is not doing their inner work and you want to slap them, you know what I mean? You're like, oh, why? You know? And, um, and it is, we have to know that this is our guru, that, that these people are our, that is the universe testing us to know if we are actually practicing what we preach. So anytime I start pointing the finger, I recognize I have three fingers pointing back at myself and it's time for me to grow up and be an embodiment and be a master of the work that we teach. So I am holding you in my heart. And I know that this is a tough one, not always easy, but I know that you would not be going through this.

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If you were not ready to master totally unconditionally loving your husband and holding him in your heart as a perfection and the divine that he is, and always coming back to the breath and always coming back to your spiritual practice. Okay. All right. I love that question. Such a good question. I think that we all deal with that, especially when we're going through our spiritual awakening, for sure. Okay. Next question is, hi, Dr. Aaron, first of all, I want to thank you for all you are doing. You have helped me in so much to become more confident and believe in myself on my way O on my awakening journey. At the moment I listen to your podcast daily and also reading your 40 days awake new book. It helped me so much to grow. Okay? So, but I've struggled lately in the last days, maybe, you know, where I should start to change.

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I'm in a really healthy and loving relationship for one year now, but my ex-boyfriend, which whom I had a really dysfunctional relationship is a very good friend of my current boyfriend. And then last months we all hung out more, which is more difficult for me than I thought. I realized that I will always have love for him. But as you also said, with your past dysfunctional relationship, I have my boundaries. What I also realized is that I always felt lower than him. He gave and still gives me the feeling that he is better. I have the feeling, I seek his validation, which I don't want. He was never good for me. And I will never be, I am so grateful for my current relationship, but I don't think I fully recovered from my past one. I also see all that that happened between us as the right path, because now I have the relationship I always wish for.

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And that he showed me what I don't want in a relationship and made me stronger and seeking something real. So I'm grateful for that. I don't know what to do to change these bond or whatever that is. Should I do trauma work for that question, mark? Maybe you can help me. Okay. So first of all, I just wanna say, thank you so much for sending this in. So it sounds like this is the deal. She had a relationship, it was dysfunctional. She's in a new relationship that seems to be going well. I don't know how long they've been in a relationship, but now all of a sudden her current boyfriend is friends with her ex-boyfriend and they've been hanging out more and more. And she is obviously getting a little triggered and has stuff there realizing that it's not complete for her. So, so from a metaphysical standpoint and a universal loss standpoint, first of all, we know that anywhere in life where we're getting triggered, it usually comes down to one of two things.

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Okay? Number one is there's still trauma there that needs to be complete. It needs to be neutralized and, or number two, it's just not your truth. Like, it's just not your truth to hang out with your ex-boyfriend. Okay. So we have to realize. And so my suggestion would be to do both of those things, okay. This is from a universal law and metaphysical standpoint. So number one is the truth is that you said, I always felt lower than him. He gave and still gives me the feeling that he is better. So the truth is no one can give you a feeling, the moment that you put a meaning on it, you instantaneously have a feeling, no one can give you a feeling, okay, it's impossible. You can have an intuitive feeling of what you are repelled or, you know, called to with somebody, but how you feel is from your feeling and your truth or not being in truth for yourself.

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Okay? So we wanna make sure that you empower yourself this process and stop giving him the power. Okay. The reason why he's triggering you is because there's a lie. There there's a lie that he can make you feel something. Okay? And so whether you are, you know, obviously you're in this relationship now that's somewhat healthy, but my, obviously this is showing you and guiding you that there's still work to do. So my suggestion would be to go in and do more, um, trauma work. I don't know if you've done any trauma work, but definitely going in and doing the trauma work. This ex-boyfriend is, has nothing to do with him. It has everything to do with you. And we recognize whatever happens in relationship. It's just a reflection and projection of what's happening within with our relationship, with our higher self. He is the mirror for you to see where you have not completed your own self love, where you are looking, um, out in the world to be able to trust.

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When you can only trust yourself, you become unstoppable untouchable unshakeable upon your relationship with divine, your relationship with your higher self. And so this is these circumstance of your life showing you where you're not, where you have not done all your work. Okay. That's the first one. The second one remember is where you're not living your truth. So you have to ask yourself, you know, is it your truth? Is it your truth to hang out with your ex-boyfriend? And obviously if you're not complete with all the emotions around it, then, you know, it would be maybe wise to put some healthy boundaries there. And probably for a lot of people be like, well, I don't want anyone to know that I actually am still triggered. So therefore I can't really say anything. I gotta be cool and like, make sure that I'm, you know, not being, you know, the effect or something like that.

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But the truth is that it's your life. And the relationship that you're in now is a sacred space for you. And my concern is that if you don't deal with it in a healthy manner, you might deal with it in a reactive manner. So you wanna make sure that you're handling this now, before it gets worse, because if you're hanging out with your ex or your boyfriend and you haven't dealt with it, then sure enough, something's probably most likely gonna come along to where you're reacting and then you're gonna have to deal with, you know, the, the effects of after, you know, a reactive situation. So that's from a truthful universal law, subconscious, you know, side of it from a human side, I'm gonna call you out a little bit. Okay. First of all, do you still have feelings for your ex because, you know, if you're in a healthy relationship and you're really into this, you know, new boyfriend that you have, um, you know, I would, I would kind of question as your girlfriend, you know, what's still there for you with your ex, because that's probably what if your boyfriend knew, uh, that you're having a reaction to an ex-boyfriend.

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I doubt he's gonna be very happy about that. You know, he's gonna know there's because you, if you didn't care, you wouldn't have reactions, right? If you didn't care about somebody, it's the people that we care the most about that we get the most reactive about. Right? So my question for you as a girlfriend, as a, as a human side of myself, is to get real, what's really going on for you. Is it not complete because you, you said you still you'll always have love for him. So, you know, what's really going on there. And are you being authentic with being with this new boyfriend or is it just healthy and safe for you? Right. And so I would get a little real with myself of what's really going on and ask myself, where am I settling? Where am I trying to stay safe, versus where am I fully being courageously courageous?

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Am I love in this lifetime? And you deserve that regardless of whether you stand the relationship you're in or not. I'm definitely not saying to go back to your ex-boyfriend by any means, I'm just saying, this is the opportunity to get real with yourself, to do your inner work and to totally get real. So in the meanwhile, my suggestion would be number one to, to place peace as the number one, without peace, right? We, our vibration and our frequency informs our subconscious mind and whatever we're informing our subconscious mind with is actually informing universal law and bringing it more and more into our life. So if we are getting reactive, if we're getting upset, if we're getting, you know, entangled, if we're, if we're getting to that place, we're below peace, right? We're below par. We are getting into places where we're energizing negativity, if you will.

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So if we, our goal is to get into ecstasy. Our goal is to get into the highest flow and frequency we can. So if you're in, uh, in situations where you are getting into a reactive state, that if you are a spiritual practitioner, if you're living on spiritual principle, if you understand universal law and your subconscious mind, the subjective mind, which is one with universal law, you will understand the most important thing is to minimum stand peace in the day. That means doing breathing exercises. That means going into meditation. That means going to spiritual mind treatment and not putting yourself in situations where you're going to become I turbulate and upset and reactive. Okay. So number one, that has to happen. Number two is yes. Get your little tushy into doing trauma work and do all that work, right? And then number three is being able to birth your truth and decide, you know, what are healthy boundaries for you around this?

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And are you able to powerfully communicate it with your current boyfriend and to your ex-boyfriend and only you get to decide what your truth is and for you to honor that truth. Okay. So I think that answer that, and I think for all of us, the point is that we all have Xes and hopefully we've completed those cycles. Hopefully we complete those cycles before we get into our next relationship. Hopefully we're doing our inner trauma works. We're not be bringing our baggage into the next relationship. It really is what should be almost like a, you know, something that we agree upon. Right. For sure. Or ask ourselves before we get into the next relat shift. Okay. So great. Okay. So let's see. Next question. Let's see. Hi there. I'm reaching out to try and figure out what I should do. Currently. I live with my boyfriend who gets super mad at times 80% of the time we get along and everything is okay, but then we get into these huge arguments.

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Last week, he screamed at me until 3:00 AM. I ended up not sleeping all night and impacted my entire week at work. I try to break up, but then we make up and the entire cycle begins again. Oh boy, girl, I know this one. So well, it's called the Merry go round. It's actually a very, um, well known part of dysfunction. It's called the Merry go round. Right? So what happened is, and I remember years ago, being in this, um, I would be, I was in a relationship where we, it was like this honeymoon stage. It would be literally like heroin going in my arms. It was so blissful. It was everything. It was magical. He would be like, I love you. You're the love my life. We'd be talking about the future. Talking about getting married. It was magical. It was like the most in love of my life.

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Ever. Every ounce of my beingness was, was put into this relationship and then something would happen. We'd get in this huge argument and we'd, you know, break up and we'd have a big fight. And then maybe even we'd break up for a while or he'd leave or something would happen and then we'd miss each other and then we'd make up again. He'd come back with, you know, tattoos of me on his neck, you know, um, he'd come with flowers and rings and I love you so much. You're, you know, the love of my life. I'm so sorry. And, and he'd come back in and, and, you know, woo me back in. I'd get back in and then it'd all happen again. This whole thing called the Merry go round. So we have to take a look at this cycle. And as a saying, goes in codependency and stuff that dysfunctional relationships or addiction, cuz that's what it really is, ends in three ways, jail, death, or insanity. Okay. And it may not be at that extreme right now, but let me tell you that dysfunction compounds, and there's a reason why I'm gonna tell you why. Okay.

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When he was screaming at you until 3:00 AM, there were traumas that happened in that moment for you probably. Okay. What happens is trauma is not what happens to us. Trauma is what happens within us. And what happens is trauma is a high, high state of emotion because we are frequency and vibrational being. And when we're in that high, high state, we're informing our subconscious mind. And in that moment, in that high, high state of moment, when he's screaming at you, right, there's something that you say to yourself, right? There's, it's called commands. And I'm not gonna say what your commands are, but I'm gonna use an example. Okay? So for me, when I was in that dysfunctional relationship, we'd get in these horrific fights. You know, we'd be screaming at each other and I would decide in the middle of that trauma. I'll never love again, I can't trust something's wrong with me.

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I'm not enough. I don't wanna live. Right. All those commands. And those play out in the subconscious mind over and over again. And in 12 SEP or in Coda or in, um, alcoholics anonymous, cause it's all dysfunctions all considered its dysfunction. They call it quote, quote an allergy and in, and what it really is, is it's not an allergy. What it is, it's a trauma that gets triggered. So what happens is, as you are in this relationship that say is 80% good. And then 20% awful and probably 5% horrific let's face the fact, okay. Screaming at somebody till 3:00 AM is completely dysfunctional. And it's dangerous. It's dangerous from a subconscious mind perspective because what happens is all of that goes into your subconscious mind. And then what happens is you get back together, you have a honeymoon stage. You, you know, you start building your life again together, whatever.

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And then another incident happens. Another argument or something happens and the fights get worse because the triggers get more triggered easily. And so over time, because I know it very well. I was in codependent. I was codependent for majority of my life and it would, it was bad early on and it got worse and then it got worse. And then it got worse until I had to literally surrender and say, I need help. And I need to, you know, figure this out because we don't believe in identity. You are not a codependent. You are a divine, spiritual being. You are here as a creator and you can create yourself having an experience of being codependent or dysfunctional. But the truth is the truth of who you are, is not that the truth of who you are is pure potential and that you can heal from this.

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Okay? So when I'm working with somebody who is dealing with codependency or dysfunctional relationship, where they have ups and downs, even if it's not screaming till three o'clock in the morning where they're getting triggered, they're getting into those, those past triggers. Those past traumas are being, it's like having a little scab and every time it starts healing, the scab gets picked off. Again, it starts bleeding again. Okay. So the point is, is that you cannot grow. You cannot well see people that have their ups and downs their rollercoaster, and they're unable to really have great growth in their personal professional life. They're unable to maintain their, their relationships with their family and friends. They're unable to maintain their jobs or careers or they barely do, but it doesn't thrive at all. They're unable to have their health starts de diminishing because of the dysfunction. So the issue is dysfunction is dangerous.

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And if somebody's screaming at you guys are screaming till three o'clock in the morning, it's super dangerous for the psyche. So again, if I'm working with somebody and they're in dysfunctional relationship, it goes like a look, I will give you 30 days for you to be able to take some distinctions and take some meditation and do your own inner work. But at the end of 30 days, if you are still getting triggered and really upset, then we have to have an agreement. We either stop working together or you need to leave that environment. Okay? Because there's no point they're wasting their money. I'm wasting my time. If they're in a dysfunctional relationship, it's not going to get better until they are able to stand peace. And whether they can stay in peace in that relationship or whether they need to leave that environment. That depends on them.

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I would never make that decision for anybody. But what I know for sure is someone that's working with somebody who's in a dysfunctional relationship. There's no point there's only, that's why they have intervention. That's why they have re rehab places. You go and stand because some people can't break the cycle. It is as strong as cocaine and heroin. The love, the love, um, talk all the love chemicals in the body are as strong as cocaine. It is very strong. Believe me. I remember trying to break up and stay broken up. And the withdrawals from the relationship were horrific. I would, you know, you, you forget the, the brain forgets all the bad things and only remembers the amazing times. And it wants that heroin again, and it's gonna crave it and it's gonna find every way to justify to get that heroin again. Okay. So this is whoever wrote this, you know, saying that you're currently in a boyfriend with a boyfriend that it's good, 80% of the time.

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And then it gets horrific like screaming at show until 3:00 AM. This is dangerous. Okay. This is called the Merry merry-go-round. And this ends in three ways. I'm gonna say it again. Someone calling the police, which usually means, you know, jail or people having criminal records or people, you know, it's not good or death. Yes. Domestic violence is real. Okay. And number three is insanity. Or maybe could say mentally ill, okay, we're talking about PTSD. We're talking about depression. We're talking about people not doing well. Codependency and dysfunctional relationships, I would say is the majority of things that ruin lives. So it's up to you. You can do whatever you choose to do with your life. But I'm gonna tell you from a doctor divinity standpoint, from a universal law standpoint, from a subconscious mind perspective, you are in a dangerous situation right now. If we all knew the power of our subconscious mind and we treated it with totally sacred being so cautious of what we put into our subconscious mind, we would, our lives would get so much better.

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So please take the time to go to a co-dependent meeting. We also have recovery meetings now that we're gonna be rolling out that are seven days a week free to the public within new thought global and society. The practitioners hold them. And they're amazing. They're all based in metaphysics and truth and everything. So, um, I will put that in my link, um, in Instagram at Dr. aaron.tv, D R E R I n.tv. And you can check out someone of those recovery calls, please do yourself the favor, get the help, get the support, get the community that you need. It is very, very important. Okay. Where are we on time? Um, I wanna make sure not, we're not going too long on this. Okay. We're gonna do one more question and then we're gonna bounce out of here. Okay. Next question is, Hey, Dr. E I recently got into a new relationship.

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He is wonderful, but I don't know if he wants to commit or not. We talk about marriage and commitment, but it's always super vague. How do you know without asking if they plan on wanting marriage? Oh boy. Um, I remember years ago, uh, a male friend of mine said, you know, the problem with most women and this is a total, um, uh, not the truth. It's a very, uh, vague what's, what's the word I'm looking for? It's a, um, okay. Well he said most women listen to what a man says instead of what he does. They don't just witness what he does. They buy into the fantasy of what he tells him instead of the truth of who he's being. Okay. So my invitation for you is to take a look at his actions. Is he showing up consistently? Does he do what he says?

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Is he, you know, saying that he's committed to, or not, as far as wherever it may be, is he committed to, you know, just seeing you consistently throughout the week, is he telling you that he's not seen anyone else? Is he, you know, where is he at right now? What are his actions that he is doing versus is he talking about the concept of marriage and talking about future and talking about things as, you know, having you play into a fantasy ask kind of where it could potentially go versus the reality of where it is. And so my question for you, as far as, you know, the universe will just respond to, to your beliefs, right? We have to look at you and not him. Okay. First and foremost, what is the belief that you have most people that would ask this question generally would have the belief that they're not worthy of being married.

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The fact that you're even asking the question begs for the question of what do you believe you're worthy of? You know, if you would, if, if you in your soul and your heart would even think that somebody is not having that intention, then let me ask you this. Why would you even be with them? Because if you, we all have intuition, we all have this inside of us already. We know what someone's intentions are from a, from an intuitive perspective. We know when someone's showing up committed or not committed at whatever level the relationship is at, we know when somebody's being their word, we know we can feel it in our soul, in our heart. And so my question again for you is why, if you are questioning this, it means that you're questioning it as a whole. So why would you be with somebody that you're questioning?

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Because that just reflects upon you of your own belief of your self belief in yourself and your worthiness, a beam with somebody that truly sees you as the divine queen that you are, if you are that right, no one, no one puts a crown on our head. We put our own crown on our own head. We decide our own. Self-worth no one can give us our self-worth. Our self-worth is given by our higher self, from our divine nature. And so, again, this isn't about him and we can take a look at how he's being in his actions versus his words, versus whatever as he fullness integrity. But none of that matters because what matters is the point of you even asking this question? So my invitation for you is to no longer look to the world for commitment, no longer look to the world, to have validation, no longer look to the world for any of that.

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It is an inside job. And when we truly get in source and in prayer and in the oneness and the unity of merging and the divine marriage within between our higher self and our lower self, that is the only marriage that is, that has to be the first marriage before we're able to truly have a union in the human realm. And on that note, I just have to say a couple things in that I absolutely believe in marriage. I absolutely believe in love. I absolutely believe in, in all of that, but I also know the facts that, you know, we have over 50% divorce rate. And so, and the people that are married, you know, who knows, it's less than half of those people are happy. There's stats. Some stats say that, you know, less than 20% of people are happy in marriage. And there's other stats that will say that people that are married that are older are very happy.

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Okay. There's stats from, for the example from Berkeley, um, it states that, um, Paul Dolan did an actual study where he said that women actually are less happy in marriage. Men are more happy in marriage than women. And he has a book hap happily ever after escaping the myth of the perfect life. And the point is, this is that I'm not here to, to say you shouldn't get married as a woman by any means, but I'm here to say that a lot of women are very delusional about marriage, completing them. We watch one too many Disney movies, and we have expectations that are not reality. And so the point is, is I want each and every one of us to be fulfilled in all of our relationships. And if we, you know, create ourselves to be the mentally equivalent, to be somebody that is able to have a best friend and, and have a partner beautiful.

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And if not, there are so many deep relationships we can have with our friends, their family, with our community. And, and it does not mean that someone's better or worse if they're married or not married, we need to really truly get over that as a culture. Okay. So finishing up and following up with this last question, you know, can you tell somebody's wanting marriage or not? I would say it's not the question to ask the question to ask is what is it gonna take for you to fully commit and marry yourself in the union, within yourself for you to fully know the truth that you are love, that you are the ever flowing abundance of love. And then until you get that, you know, I would probably say you probably shouldn't get married. I mean, honestly, from a, from a girlfriend perspective, there's nothing worse than seeing a girlfriend get married.

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That doesn't, hasn't found herself, honestly, it's painful to watch. I'm not gonna lie. And then seeing two people get married that truly love themselves and are able to fully be in that marriage is one of the most beautiful thing. Okay. So on this note, I'm so excited to do this first call in Q and a show. It's so much fun, please, if you would like some deep dive into anything around relationships and love around becoming a spiritual entrepreneur, um, also around career and money and health and vitality or creative expression, finding your purpose in calling anything, we could talk about anything we could talk about. Um, I don't know, whatever it is that you wanna talk about. You can DM meet on social media. You can also, um, go to our website. There's a number there also, you can call it in, you can also text it to that number.

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This is first live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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If you're somebody who has been dating or is in a relationship with the narcissist, or maybe you're with somebody who just seems really self-centered or maybe you are in a relationship that has ups and downs, you're on a roller coaster breaking up, getting back together, or maybe you're just in a marriage, even that where you just feel like you're not getting your needs met, that you are with somebody that you think if they just changed, then everything would be better. Then you want to listen to this podcast. I'm going to tell you today, what you truly don't want to hear. I'm gonna break it on down because guess what? I was in the relationship as well. I was codependent for years and years in and out of relationship, up and down, hoping and wishing and trying to change the other person, getting so obsessed with what it means to be with a narcissist and thinking something's wrong with them.

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Let me fix and change them until one day, the truth set me free. So you want to listen to this podcast. This is the Dr. Aaron show. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly know the truth that when somebody awakens you have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. This is Dr. Aaron, Dr. O divinity training and developing spiritual coaches, spiritual practitioners, spiritual ministers teachers, and yes, doctors of divinity. So let's do this thing. You guys let's do this thing. So as many of you guys know I am a recovered codependent. I was in multiple dysfunctional relationships growing up with a mother that was also in dysfunctional relationships and a father as well. Both of them were totally codependent and, um, ended up getting into an abusive.

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My first abusive relationship was in high school of all things. And, um, it was mentally abusive and actually got physically abusive. I ended up marrying somebody that I really had no business mirror and I didn't know myself. And, um, I thought something was wrong with him. I thought he was a narcissist and, um, so on and so forth, the story goes from there. And as you guys know, it ended up with my low was being engaged with a famous rockstar. That was what maybe a psychologist would say, a narcissist, a bipolar, uh, a borderline personality and so on and so forth. But I believe this, I believe that if you're listening to this podcast, if you are in a codependent relationship, a dysfunctional relationship, or even with a narcissist, that is because you truly desire to be a leader. And so, first of all, I wanna acknowledge you.

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I wanna acknowledge you that you would not be going through what you're going through. If you weren't ready to master it, you would not even be given this masterclass called a narcissist. If you were not ready to master it and understand it. And I remember years back when I was, had been doing so much spiritual work and I was like, how could I be doing this much work for this many years and still into dysfunctional relationship? And it dawned on me because when we decide that we want to become masters, we have to go through that master class. Right? So today I'm going to break on down the truth of narcissism, the truth of narcissism. And co-dependency because it's like a coin. Okay. And on one side of the coin, there's narcissism and on the other side of the coin is co-dependency. You can't have one without the other.

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It's impossible. So really I'm gonna break this down from a metaphysical standpoint. Okay. Because a lot of psychology these days has actually been kind of, um, it's been, um, it's been disorganized in that a lot of psychology looks at the behavior. Like they call it psychology behavior. Right? And they're looking at actually the effect they're looking at what people are doing with their behaviors. And in a true psychology is the study to soul, which we do in new thought global. And we do from a metaphysical standpoint is we actually look at what's happening from a soul perspective instead. Okay. So the reason why I'm doing this podcast is because I've had a couple, um, get togethers with girlfriends, highly evolved women. Okay. These are not dummies. These are not victims of the world. And I've had a couple meals and, and get togethers with very evolved girlfriends with them, basically being in completely dysfunctional relationships.

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We're talking them, talking about their narcissist partner and them kind of knowing they're like, I know it's me. I know what I know. It's like, I don't believe myself, but they're still focusing on the narcissist. Okay. So this is a total pattern that whether you see it in yourself, whether you see it in your girlfriend or a guy friend or whatever it is that this is the pattern, okay. You sit down to lunch or dinner with your girlfriend and they begin to tell you how awful their partner is. Oh, well, he did this. Oh, well, he's addicted to porn or, oh, he, um, got really mad and was yelling at me for hours. Oh, he is selfish. And does X, Y, and Z. Okay. Their entire conversation is focused on the narcissist. Okay. Because that's what a narcissist does. A narcissist basically is self absorbs needs, attentions and admiration.

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Obviously always gas lights and makes you the problem and, and points a finger at you. And then they slam you down. They wanna make belittle you as much as possible. So that you begin to question your own. Like you begin to question yourself and that you actually begin to feel like you need them because the same person that puts you down, if they give you admiration, then it begins to have like this psychological hold, right. They lack empathy. They're in troubled relationships. And they are, they basically are always needing to create drama to create the need because they're actually very insecure. Narcissists are extraordinarily insecure. In fact, they have no true identity based in divine, based in source. And so they get their identity from being needed out in the world. So they will cause a lot of discord, a lot of dysfunction just to get the attention.

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So the opposite of that is the codependent. And the codependent basically will constantly be focusing on the, the narcissist or the dysfunctional per whatever they wanna call it. The person that is the problem of the relationship when actually it's equal and opposite because the codependent, instead of them focusing on themselves, it's actually cuz they have such low self worth and such low self value that they don't believe they're worthy of a, a relationship that is, that is peaceful. They don't believe they're worthy of having, you know, somebody that is they're equal. They don't believe they're worthy of, of having a loving kindness relationship. They're constantly feeling like they're not enough. And it's such a subconscious program that they think that it actually has nothing to do with themselves. There's a great concept. Guy. Richie, I think had a done multiple movies and you may know him or not.

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He was used to be married to Madonna. And there's this one, this one film that's about these mobsters. And they're all kind of like, you know, killing each other and they're doing insanity things. And guy Richie has this, this quote in this movie where he talks about basically one day you realize that the only con is yourself. And I'm speaking to the codependent right now because you're conning yourself. You're lying to yourself. You're deflecting. Just like you say, the narcissist is deflecting. You are deflecting. The narcissist is your way of deflecting to yourself of you not realizing that you are actually the problem. The narcissist is just gonna do the narcissist. You are the problem. You're the problem in that you are hurting yourself by staying in it. You're the one who's deflecting and, and not showing up for your friends and your family. You're the one that's not taking care of yourself.

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You're the one that's doing self abuse and self sabotage by staying in the relationship with the narcissist. And I say this because I love you. I'm speaking to my friends right now. I'm speaking to my friends right now. I'm speaking to my clients right now. I'm speaking to the people that I sit across the table from even two to this day that I see them ruining their lives by the relationships they're keeping themselves in. And I'm gonna say that for our culture, we have a codependent culture. And the truth is that codependency is the core of all spiritual discord because what true codependency is, it's placing the power outside of self. So whether you are codependent in your relationship with your narcissist boyfriend or husband, or whether you are codependent of looking to social media for all the stuff going on in the world and making yourself upset about what's going on in the world, it comes back to that.

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The moment that we place our power out in the world is the moment that we become disempowered. And so for everybody that is dealing with codependency, because what actually happened and why we've created daily recovery calls in our community, radical recovery recovery, based in metaphysic science of mind, based in truth, understanding that what you believe and your soul in your subconscious mind is going to out picture. And whether it may be calling in the narcissist or calling in the bipolar partner or the dysfunctional relationship that nine outta 10 people have come into our community, don't even know what codependency is. And they realize, oh my gosh, this has doesn't have to do with my, you know, partner that's crazy or they're mean, or they yell or they're abusive or they're a narcissist or they this, or they that, or they, whatever that they realize that they can no longer be a victim.

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They can no longer be the effect of that anymore. When they realize and wake up to the truth, may we know the truth and may the truth set us free, right? The famous saying it is done onto you, as you believe these are famous, famous truths, quotes and truths and biblical and all the above. Because what I know for sure is that truth is truth. And if the truth of narcissism is that codependency and narcissism is one and the same, our culture from a lot of the times, the women's aspect of our culture will make the, the, uh, perpetrator terrible. The perpetrator's awful. The man is awful. The narcissist is awful. Men are bad and wrong. That's a generality. Okay? Not everybody believes that, but that is a cultural belief. Okay? The cultural belief of men is shame and thinking that women are crazy or that women are the victims and their, um, controlling and all that.

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Okay. They don't oftentimes say it verbally. Like the women say our side, right? In a cultural perspective. I'm not saying that I believe any of this. I'm saying that it is a cultural collective thing that we've got going on. It's time for us to wake up. Especially as women, we have to stop blaming. We have to stop blaming. We have to stop being the victims of people, a healthy person. If they met a narcissist, they would see the first red flag. And they'd say, thanks, but no, thanks. That's your issue. And I know my worth and I would never even give you attention, right? I wouldn't even give you my energy because I know who I am. And I don't wouldn't wanna be around someone that's self-centered and has no empathy. And that CRAs create chaos, right? A healthy person would know that because they'd know the truth of who they are and they wouldn't need to have the belief that love equals pain.

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Love equals suffering. Love equals insanity, to feel like, oh, this must be love, right? Oftentimes we think, oh, if it's not like heart wrenching, that it's not love. If it's not like all encompassing and interpretating and completely enmeshing, it must not be love. Well that's because we have trauma at a subconscious level, which means that we have a limited belief, limited identity and a divided perspective of life. And that discord is our normal. And so today I say no more to all my friends that I sit across meals from to all my clients that I listen to. May we be set free? May we come to the truth of recovery and know that the narcissist is simply the projection and reflection of our own beliefs and our own inner work to be done. So I say, thank you to the narcissist, thank you to the bipolar.

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Thank you to the borderline personality. I say, thank you to my ex. I give thanks and gratitude to him every single day in my prayers. I love him unconditionally. And I know healthy boundaries. I know whatever he is experiencing in this lifetime is a relative experience for him to know more of the divine that he is. I give gratitude for those dark dark nights. I give gratitude for that insanity of text that we'd send each other. I give thanks for him. Falling off the wagon and sleeping with other women and cheating on me. I give thanks because if it weren't for all of that insanity and his narcissism and him needing to have attention from every single human being and for him having to create insanity so that everyone would try and, you know, help him fix him, change him, all that, because he needed to be absorbed. He needed to have attention. He needed to have troubled relationships for him to feel like he was worthy of having energy. And in this, I know that the truth is you are not codependent. You're not a narcissist. None of you guys, you are divine spiritual beings and that whatever you believe your true identity is will out picture into your life.

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Mary Baker, Eddie, the famous, uh, new thought movement teacher. She's actually not considered part of the movement because her, um, Christian science was a bit dog dogmatic and became, uh, not what we teach in new thought movement, which is open at the top, which is celebrating each individual expression. But Mary Baker, Eddie had a huge, profound effect upon our teachings in that she did teach truth. Okay. Truth is immortal. A error is mortal. Okay? The truth is you are not your relationship right now. You're not your dysfunction. You're not any of this false identity. Sin makes its own hell. Meaning. Sin is not something that you are. Sin is the misuse of energy. When we misuse our energy and create things like narcissism and codependency and dysfunctional relationship, we have living hell. When we go back to truth, when we know how to use our energy for good, we create heaven on earth. Okay?

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DISE is an experience of so called the mortal mind, as she said, DISE is the misuse of our energy. Okay? So the DISE of narcissism, the dis disease of codependency, these are all not the truth. You are not that this is not your true identity. And that's why we love 12 step, but we don't do 12 step in new thought global. We use metaphysics of mine because you are not your identity. You're not your DISE. You're not your you're not labeled for the rest of your life. As a narcissist, narcissist can recover. Codependence can recover when they find the truth of who they are when they base it in, in spirit. So this is if I were to write the prescription, the prescription for a narcissist, the prescription for a codependent, because it's one and the same, it's one. And the same. If you point the finger at somebody, you become the effect of them.

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If you hang around a victim long enough, you will become the perpetrator. Okay? You can't have one without the other. The prescription, the answer, the solvent for all codependency and narcissism is one thing. And one thing only, and it is to no longer place your value, your identity, your worth, anything out into the world. The answer is to go within and no longer ever make anybody your source or any situation, your source, the moment that you make somebody, your source of joy, you instantaneously make, 'em your source of suffering. You cannot have one without the other. Okay? So as a co-dependent, if you're looking for love, you're looking for that soul flame. You're looking for your soulmate. You will always be in the suffering because, uh, if you need somebody to complete you, that means you're not complete. And you will always find suffering forever until you realize that you are love until you realize that you are whole and complete, as you are, until you realize that that, that anyone in your life is a bonus to synergize and express with that's all it can ever be.

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And so, as, as the, you know, traditional psychology medical term of narcissism, narcissistic personality disorder is one of several types of personal disorder is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. But behind the mask of extreme confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that's vulnerable and slightest criticism, right? So you'll find that with the narcissist, if you criticize them whatsoever, they'll get triggered and they'll start making you wrong. They'll blow up. We call it walking out a shells, right? If we're with somebody that's a narcissist, we also become completely over, um, stimulated with, because we're like PTSD all the time, because we've been in huge arguments with the narcissist, they'll blow off the handle. They'll yell, they'll scream. They'll make whatever wrong because they can't handle any type of confrontation because they're actually, their self-esteem is so little, a narcissist personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school and financial affairs.

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People with narcissistic personality may be generally unhappy and disappointed when they're not given the special favors or admiration, they believe they deserve. They may find their relationships unfulfilling and others may not enjoy being around them. This is the truth. If you're a codependent, if you keep talking about the narcissist, talking about your partner, what he or she did all their problems, no one wants to be around you. It starts to get old. It's like the broken record. It's never cry Wolf. Okay? If you keep pointing the finger at other people, people around you, the only people that are gonna be able to be around you are victims also because they're the only ones that are gonna be in that same conversation over and over again, healthy people will no longer wanna be around you after time, because it's it exhausting. And trust me, I know this because I was that person.

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I was talking about my ex complaining about him, talking about what he did next. And, and slowly people are like, sweetheart, you gotta get help or look, I gotta go. Or the only ones that stay around here are other people that are in dysfunctional relationship because you guys are just like, you just love to sit around and complain all the time. And so this is the deal there's answers. I remember being so messed up from my relationship with the narcissist I had PTSD. I could not go more than like, and within an hour, I'd think of him. And what had happened multiple times. It was like constantly playing records because all the mental pictures of all the trauma were playing over and over in my head. And I can say that if you do your trauma work, if you get into recovery program, if you come into an, uh, community that deals with codependency or deals with dysfunctional relationship, you can heal.

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I can honestly say with my entire heart today that I am free, that I live in peace, that I do not have upsets. That doesn't mean I don't have some hard days or, you know, not living completely and joy 24 7. But that means I am not dysfunctional, that I no longer look to the world for my source, that I no longer am trying to fix or change anyone. I'm no longer complaining about anyone. This is true freedom. I take responsibility for my life and my happiness. And no one is on the hook to make me happy or complete me. That is full recovery. The truth, knowing the truth of who you are, which you are a divine spiritual creator, and that you could create anything you want, love harmony, amazing relationships, empowered relationship, having incredibly, you know, incredible people in your life that no truth that take response way that no longer need to have discord or shenanigans or anything that this is a truth.

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And that heaven is waiting for you right now. And so in this I to say, take a deep breath in, say a prayer for anyone out there that is still dealing in the suffering of the narcissistic and codependent cycle, the ups and down the Merry around the insanity, the hell on earth. I just simply know that there is truth and the truth will set you free as together we say. And so it is. And so if you, or someone, you know, is, is dealing with dysfunctional relationship or codependency, or you're an narcissist and you really are ready to recover. Um, we invite you, we invite you into our community. I would highly recommend getting trained in the coaching program because the coaching program, you actually get to actually do try calls and you get to actually do your own trauma work and you get to go into recovery calls every day of the week.

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You don't need to be, um, in codependency, we have lots of people that are just in there because they are rising in their ability to get trained, to help people, you know, burn their purpose and legacy. We have all kinds of things, but if you're dealing with, um, codependency, which nine to 10 people have come into our program are dealing with that. It's not their focus. It's not our focus of our program, but is one thing that we've implemented for everybody. Because at some level, everybody deals with codependency, whether it be with their parents, whether it be with their child, whether it be whatever, whether it be with money, it's all codependency because you're dependent upon that for your joy. And so we release that, um, in powerfully in our programs. Okay. So have a beautiful day. If you got something out of this podcast and you have a friend that is dealing with any of this, please share it with them. It's really important. Narcissism is a huge con conversation and people wanna focus on the narcissist instead of taking responsibility for themselves.

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Share it out. Knowing this together, we will rise, have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth? Thank

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Are you somebody who's had a spiritual calling and you are desiring to monetize your spiritual gift so that you can make an impact in the world. Well, then you want to listen to this today. I'm gonna give you my entire methodology front to back, everything of how to become a six to seven figure spiritual leader and coach. And I am so excited to do this with you guys today. Okay. So first of all, I just wanna say, I am so honored to spend this time with you. I know that if I can become a world renowned spiritual leader, you can too, let's do this thing. Okay. So first of all, I just wanna say that if you're somebody that is struggling, you've had a spiritual calling, but you're not quite sure how to make it into a career. Maybe you've, you know, done a lot of work already, but you're not quite sure you haven't built a framework or maybe you are struggling to get clients.

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You are putting yourself out there. You're bringing a lot of value, but you're having a hard time getting your first clients, or maybe you already have clients, but you're struggling to get consistent in your income and be able to scale in what you're doing. Or maybe you're somebody that is still in a traditional job or a corporate job, but you are having a calling and you don't know how to transition into and make the quantum leap into what you truly wanna do, which is spiritual work. Or maybe you already have a business and you're ready to implement and bring spiritual principles into your business. No matter where you are this entire, uh, episode, this methodology front to back is gonna really give you a very clear, concise understanding of what it takes to implement and do this in your business, whether you're online or whether you're out in the world.

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This methodology is something that I've taken me decades to, to hone down and to get to a place where I'm able to teach it and implement it and have people have great transformation in their personal professional lives. Okay, so let's do this thing. So again, I'm Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity, founder of new thought global and society. And I'm also international bestselling author. Obviously I have a top rated podcast. I'm a mother. And, um, the truth is that I am just so honored to be the 20, 20 Walden wisdom award next to Oprah Winfrey, Greg Braden and Michael Beckwith Forbes nominated me as 11 of the most inspirational FEMA entrepreneurs to watch on Instagram. And so the truth is, if I can do this, you guys, you can do this. I was a young struggling mother. I came from a background that I was really had no principles.

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My parents were divorced. I was date raped in high school, had bulimia from 17 to 20. I had, um, I thought all my problems would get, uh, solved. If I just got married, I ended up getting married and have a stillborn full term, stillborn 22, which sent me on a spiritual track. So it's been 25 years of seeking truth. So the wisdom that I'm gonna bring you today, you want to turn off everything. You want to get a pen and paper out. You want, you'll probably listen to this a couple times because there's so many truth bombs and, and incredible business, uh,

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Hacks here and everything else. Okay. So let's do this thing. So I'm gonna break you on through the three ways we help spiritual base people monetize. Okay. Doesn't matter if you wanna be a coach or you already are, whether you are wanting to be a practitioner or rise up into a doctor divinity, or whether you already have a soul based biz and sell services or products is going to apply to all of you. Okay? So it's three ways we help spiritual entrepreneurs, Mon monetize. I'm gonna break on down our entire mindset, uh, framework my entire mindset framework, doing all the trauma, work, everything. And then also the skill set, the most trusted and proven six step system in the industry that coaches that are 6, 7, 8, 9 figures use. Okay. And then expertise. So how we, how we build and train and develop and certify expertise in the industry of spiritual work.

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Okay. So let's do this thing. So first of all, the three ways that we help spiritual entrepreneurs, because we recognize if you have a spiritual calling, right? You're like I've had this spiritual calling. I love work. I love consciousness. I love this entire thing. Maybe you've gone through some different programs. You've done a lot of inner work. Now, what, how do you actually monetize? How do you make your love, your passion for spirituality into something that you're able to do to actually make enough money to sustain yourself and way beyond that, to be able to actually make an abundance of, of, of monetization, because we understand money is just an exchange of energy and the truth is the universe is only abundant. So the three ways that we help spiritual entrepreneurs monetize is number one, by helping them get their mindset. Right? So that they actually believe because we, we know that when somebody hasn't done their true inner work, they, first of all, won't believe they're worthy of making, you know, six or seven figures.

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They also will sabotage what they are trying to do, or three they'll end up having a lot of money, but they aren't fulfilled cause they're not doing what they wanna do. So we first and foremost, which is the most important thing is we help them get their mindset, right. And we're gonna get into how we do that. Okay. The second way that we help entrepreneurs monetize is we train and develop them in the most proven and trusted, uh, business six step system that 6, 7, 8 figure coaches use across the board. Okay. And thirdly, the way that we help spiritual entrepreneurs monetize is by training and developing and certifying them in certain modalities. Okay. So for example, we had a, a coach that came in, she had already been through a great program. It was a great mind, uh, like sales, tactic bus, very business oriented, and Clara was, uh, she was doing okay.

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She was very inconsistent, but she also was finding that she was getting burned out. She was hustling. She was doing all this stuff because she was really trying to keep up with other influencers. And when she came into new thought global and society, what happened was she ended up doing her deep, deep work and birthing her legacy and birthing her true purpose and calling. And she ended up, um, really excelling. She actually had her first $42,000 month. And she actually said she didn't get burnout anymore because she was so in alignment with what she really was here to do on this planet. The second is for skill. So for example, um, there was a woman, her name was Christie and she's amazing. She's over in Hawaii. And we train and develop also, and how to launch like a five day challenge. And Christie came in, she applied the principles and the first month she launched a five day challenge with only 33 people in it.

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And she ended up doing her first $10,000 month. Okay. So if she, she, you know, she had like a couple clients before that was it. She only had, like, she barely had made any money ever in the industry. She didn't know how to do it. Exactly. She had built somewhat of a framework, but not, not much at all. And she had a first $10,000 month and was able to understand how to keep doing five day challenges and how to make it really work. Um, the third example for expertise, um, we have a great coach, her name's Carly, she's amazing. Um, she implemented the E four trauma method into her existing coaching, uh, practice. And she actually, for the first time had consistent $20,000 a month because she was getting such profound results on her client through the E four trauma method. Okay. So we wanna understand that if you truly have this desire, then the truth is that there's a way, okay.

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If there's a will, there's a way, and your will is actually God's will. Okay. There's no difference. It's really just tapping into the authentic will that you are. So we have to look at who are we? You know, why, why would you want to do these, this part of, of new thought global? Well, new thought global. If you're not familiar with us and our community, we are part of a movement that has been around for, you know, centuries. It's actually what we call new thought ancient wisdom, because it's nothing new. We actually teach truth. We teach metaphysics of mind. We teach spiritual awakening. We teach and how to reprogram the subconscious mind because the subconscious mind is one with the divine mind, it's subjective mind, right? So we create, we, we basically teach the creative process. It is part of there's about 1500 spiritual centers that are alignment with us, um, unity and, uh, science and mind, and a bunch of things.

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We are not dogmatic. We're not a religion in new thought global. Uh, we teach the power of the mind. We teach the power of energy. We PE we teach it there as a consciousness, which is your true self and it's source and it's spirit. And it is the first cause of all of life. And this is what is creating your reality. And each individual has the use of that one use of all potential and they individually use it, but it is, it can be bounded by the limited beliefs in your subconscious mind, from trauma, from all kinds of things. And we teach how to clear out the soul, clear out the subconscious mind so that you're able to manifest and demonstrate in a way that you've never been able to before. Okay. So, so how do we do this? We're gonna get into that. Okay.

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So who we are is we are a, a community that develops world class and world renowned spiritual leaders. That really is our mission. Our mission is to awaken a billion people on the planet and how we really like know that we're gonna fulfill upon that mission is by developing and training, spiritual entrepreneurs, spiritual coaches, spiritual practitioners, um, new thought teachers and ministers. And of course, doctors of divinity. Yes. Okay. So we wanna get into this. So let's break on down the actual, my entire methodology for the skillset, the expertise, um, and your mindset. Okay. The three things, the mindset, your skillset and your expertise. These are the three ways that we help spiritually based people monetize. Okay. So number one, let's go into this mindset. This is all about the spiritual mastery. And we recognize it until we deal with our subconscious mind, until we deal with our, our consciousness.

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I can give you all the skillset in the world, but it's not going to work. Right. It won't work. If you don't understand that you're and you believe in yourself, right? So mindset, we teach and train primarily in people how to do, um, how the creative process, of course, metaphysics of mind, we teach what's called the E four trauma method. It's, uh, it's a modality that I created years ago. And it is something that helps basically transform the trauma. So what we found is that people can wanna be successful all day long, but they may have a belief of I'm not enough, or I'm not worthy or something's wrong with me, or I can't do this, or whatever it is we call it commands. And what happens at a subconscious level is we have, we have moments. We have moments where we're in a high, high state of emotion.

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And, and we understand that the moment that we put a positive or negative me on anything, we instantaneously have a positive or negative emotion and feeling that comes with it. And so trauma is basically a high, high state of an emotion that happens that, that your subconscious mind is so open because you have so much energy and so much emotion. And then you decide something, you command a limited belief. I'm not enough, I'm not worthy. I can't do this, whatever it is. And that goes into the subconscious mind and plays out like an automated record that plays over and over again, like puppet strings in your life. And so the, the process and the framework that I use, whether I'm training and developing a world renowned spiritual leader, or whether I'm dealing with the top CEO or whether I'm dealing, dealing with a single mother, just struggling, the framework is always the same on clients.

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Um, I always take them through the E four trauma method to try and clear out as much subconscious stuff as possible to clear the soul. The second thing we do is we take the framework is taking them through the entire truth, triangle, the truth triangle is it burs, someone's power, their passion and their purpose. Okay. So we go through and get clear of what someone's core values are. We get clear of, um, setting, healthy boundaries. We get clear and, and take back the power of everywhere. We've handed it over in life. And we begin to, um, birth someone's, um, passion, you know, really getting clear of what their values are, what it is, because what happens is the trauma that you've gone through in this lifetime, when it's transmuted, it actually is able to become your purpose and calling in legacy. So this is what the core work that we do in, in, in doing the mindset work, the spiritual mastery work.

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So this is all about birthing someone so that they're able to have total clarity, totally know their truth, totally know their values and completely know what their purpose and legacy is that they're here to do. And so in that they become so powerful. Even if I'm working with a top CEO that already has a business, we still would do that exact same work because when they get clear of what works on their policies and their business gets better, their, their ability to lead is better. Their ability to get clarity on their products and services exponentially grows. Right? So all of this is the same work we do for anyone is, is having their mindset get right. Okay. So if you're coming into new thought global and society and getting trained in it, you get trained in how to do this for your client, how to take them through E four trauma method, how to help somebody taking them through truth triangle and birthing their truth.

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Okay. So you do it for yourself and you do it for your clients. That's part of the amazing part of our training. Okay. The second is skillset. Let's talk about skillset, which is the most trusted and proven six step system. And we understand that this, again, in order to monetize your love for spirituality, we have to understand, you know, skillset, you need some business skillset. So, um, so number one is a six step system. Okay. So number one is, is position yourself as an expert in the world. Number two is, um, creating what's called a freebie so that you can actually have an exchange of information in people's emails. Number three is a value sequence, meaning a five day challenge, a three day challenge, a V I P day, a workshop, um, maybe even a free coaching session. So and so forth. Number four is the actual offer.

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Number five is the upsell. And number six is the down sale. So what does this mean? Exactly? This is a six step system that we train in this entire methodology. I did not come up with this. I've been trained for years and years. I've spent over $250,000 on my own education. I'm in, you know, $40,000 mastermind with elite women that do multiple six figures and multiple seven figures. And this is the same system. It doesn't matter if you don't even have your first client, or if you are a seven figure coach, this is the exact same system that you use, that you're always developing these six areas of your business. Okay. So let's start again. Number one is position yourself an expertise. This is done through things like social media, and there's actually 10 things to post on social media, which we train and, and also getting your media up or getting positioned as an expert from everything from going and doing talks to having maybe your own podcast or being on other podcast, or maybe it's writing a book or whatever.

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You're constantly developing, becoming an expertise and position yourself in the industry. Okay. And how we do this also is through the mindset work we get clear of who your actual client is. Who's your avatar, what's your mission, all of that. Okay. So then when we come into the business skill set, we can look at, at, at knowing how you wanna position yourself as an expert. Okay. Number two of the six step system is freebie, which means here, your people are, they see you online. They're seeing you as an expert. They're, they're, you know, reading your post they're, they're starting to engage. They maybe they've got notifications cuz they wanna, they like your info. So now you're putting out a freebie, right? For us, it is say a free quiz on what type of a spiritual entrepreneur you are, or maybe it's a, a blueprint on, you know, how to, um, monetize your gifts for spirituality.

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Um, maybe it is some guided meditations or whatever it is. It's a freebie. So it's kind of like dating when you first date, you know, it's like let's exchange our information. And the good thing is when they, if they don't take your freebie, then you know, you, you haven't positioned yourself in the first step as an expertise. So this is a very important thing. This entire six step thing is kind of like imaginary of a conveyor belt of business. And you have to do all these sequence, the one through six sequence. And if something goes wrong in one sequence, it's because the one before it didn't work. Okay. And then you wanna, then you want to master the next step. Okay. So step number one is position yourself as an expertise in the marketplace. Number two is a freebie it's in exchanging their information, their contact information, their email information in exchange for something that's bringing value to them, exchange for you to also position and begin to teach 'em something from your expertise.

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Number three is doing a value sequence. And this is probably the most important part of this six step system. It's understanding that that someone needs to experience your work. Okay? Most people won't just invest in themselves until they've experienced something. They, they wanna, they wanna know, right. That's why you're listening to this, right? They wanna know what it is that you do. They wanna experience. They wanna know that they get value. So just like this right here, if you don't get great value from this, or you're like, oh my gosh, that blew my mind. This, this audio on understanding how to monetize. Like you, you should get so much out of this and you're gonna get clarity, right? If you don't, then it's not, it's not a value. So value sequence can be anything like a three day challenge, a five day challenge. It could be this right here, this, this audio, it could be a video sequence.

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It could be a V I P day. It could be a workshop. Everything needs to be for free and the value sequence and why we do that is because we understand universal law. What we want to receive. We've got to give it right. If you want value money, you've got to give value, right? If you want love, you've gotta give love, right? This is the law of the universe. And so the value sequence in the six step business system is imperative. It's why when you walk into a store, sometimes they'll give you a water for free or something because they know that if they give you something, they now are, it's like law. You're going to give something back at some level, right? So step number four of the six step system is the actual offer. And this is a mastery in of itself. We try and develop people how to create, um, their products and pricing, how to get clear of what that is and how to actually present it, how to, how to give 10 X the value of what someone's paying for through bonuses, through different things.

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And also what we call juxta positioning, which means that if I give you an offer, say it's, you know, um, a $5,000 product or something like that, that product, I should give you $50,000 worth of value, because that is that's through bonuses, through whatever. And I know that if I give you a $5,000, um, program, I know I I've priced in a way that I'm going to have massive, massive value. And I know for example, um, some of our competitors are double our prices and don't even have business in it. They're just teaching practitioners or they're just teaching whatever, but they don't actually have the things that we teach. So I know for sure in the juxtaposition that people pretty much can't afford to do our programs. Like they will take 10 times the amount of time to do it, or they'll pay a lot more or they won't even have success.

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So I know for sure in an offer that I'm juxtapositioning and we have bonuses, we give bonuses. If they, you know, we want to, um, commend people for making fast decisions, right? And we know that if you want clients that are, you know, powerful decision makers, then you need to be a powerful decision maker. If you want people to pay you for high level coaching, then you need to be willing to pay for high level coaching. These are just 1 0 1 of universal law. And it always is funny in the industry. Every single big coach. I know that does multiple seven figures. Every single one of them has hired coaches after coaches, after coaches. That's the secret of the industry. And one of the things that happens also in the industry is when you sign up with coaches, you're in their community and you end up collaborating with other people and synergizing and that's part of it.

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Okay. So back to the six step step system of business, number one is position position yourself as an expertise. Number two is having a free B for an exchange of information of your email. Number three is a value sequence. Okay? And that's, um, like three day challenges, VIP days, things like that. This is a value sequence I'm giving you right now. Next is the offer. So making sure that you are, you know, having 10 times the value of what you're offering it for, juxtapositioning it, having it be, you know, if they went out and bought it somewhere else, it'd be a lot of money. Um, and, um, juxtapositioning it also, like I literally have spent over $250,000 on my education. Imagine you can come in and get all my wisdom, right? And then also in the offer, you wanna have it be motivating, meaning that you wanna give them bonuses or something for making powerful decisions.

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And so we do a 24 hour, um, bonus as well. When you do a breakthrough call for you to really be able to, um, like sometimes we do 150 K uh, course of being able to understand front to back everything and how to do a five day challenge. We give you the email sequence. Um, obviously you can't copy it exactly, but we give you the foundations of it. We show you the ads. What the add copy is we show you how to set up a Facebook group. We show you how to do everything front to back. So you can't afford to not get that bonus. Right? I mean, it's like that bonus alone, I had to pay $40,000 to get that bonus. So we give, um, you know, we help people make the decision by helping them have an offer, right? A bonus for signing up within 24 hours.

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So number, um, five of the six step business system, isn't upsell, meaning that you're gonna have clients that work with you, that maybe you wanna go into an elite retreat or whatever it is. Right. And then step number seven is a down sell meaning that sometimes when people go through our programs, they still wanna stay part of our community. So we have a very, very low, you know, uh, price for people to stay around. Cuz they have it's their family. They wanna stay around. I don't wanna do programs that are just like 12 weeks and you're done or you jobs. I believe that the people that we have will be in community and family for forever, and that's really important for me. Okay. So next is, remember we went to the three ways we help spiritually based entrepreneurs monetize. The first was mindset, getting all the inner work, done, being able to understand all that.

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Number two is skillset. The business skillset front to back. And number three is becoming an expertise because the thing is, if you wanna monetize and you don't have a product or a service, then it's gonna be harder, right? If you're certified, if you're trained, if you have a modality like Carly uses now that E four trauma method, isn't able to get consistent 20,000 or months, then it's easier to get clients, right? You're showing results, whatever. So expertise is really about embodiment. I'm never gonna tell you it's a get rich quick thing. I'm never gonna tell you, oh, you know, you can just launch in 30 days and make $60,000. Like it's just not the truth. The truth is it's possible, but not likely. The truth is that you need to become a master. You need to embody spiritual mastery, business mastery, and most importantly, community mastery.

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Okay. If you wanna be somebody that's making six, seven figures, you've gotta learn how to be in community. And one of the things we do in new thought global is we have a zero negativity policy. We have a zero triangulation policy. We have a zero gossip policy that if you make community wrong, you're gonna forever make community wrong. You've got to find a way of looking and building off what's right, instead of what's wrong. And you'll find this in relationships. You'll find this in your, and with your clients. You'll find this with the community. If you, this is part of the mastery and full embodiment is what we teach. We teach of course, law of attraction and all of the laws. As you know, I have a, a universal law Oracle card deck, um, that is all universal laws and it's coming out. And the point is, is that community spiritual mastery business mastery, the embodiment.

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You've got to understand yourself. It's a mastery. Okay? It doesn't happen overnight. We have programs that are so life changing people literally look different. Their entire families change their dynamics change. All of a sudden, you see someone, they look totally different. They came from a codependent relationship. They didn't have any money. They didn't, they didn't even have a concept of what's doing business. We watch them bloom. We watch them have healthy relationships, ending their codependency. We see them thriving as, as a sister or a mother or whatever it is. We see them all of a sudden being able to have their first $10,000 a month. And it is so incredibly beautiful to watch and it takes full embodiment. Okay. The second way that we help build, obviously you as an expert is by getting trained and certified in, in our modalities, in a process that's facilitating E four trauma method, facilitating the truth.

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Triangle, even being able to coach in business, our coaches become their they're able to coach in business because they get all the, all the information, all the worksheets, everything right. They're. And so we have TRIA calls where you go in and you get trained and you actually facilitate the work back and forth and you get testimonials. So a great way of, um, getting your first client is showing that you're getting results for other people. We also, of course, coaching calls with me. We have sole circle calls where the community that practitioners give calls and teach all the stuff. So they're getting developed as leaders, they're teaching all the wisdom and everyone has accountability. We have accountability on Monday, we do goals and life purpose statement on Wednesday, we do, what's called a long copy post to, uh, to publish something. Whether it be on social media, on your blog or writing a book, whatever it may be.

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So all these things help you become an expertise. We go off the one thing and we have, um, we really hope help you get goal oriented because what we found with a lot of the spiritual coaches that come into our programs, they've done a lot of work. They have, you know, supernatural abilities, they're all advanced, but the thing is they don't have two feet on the ground. They are very ethereal and they're not being able to get results in their life because they need to come back to, you know, being able to measure consciousness also. So we always say, set your goals, have two feet on the ground and also keep your head up in the, the round for miracles at the same time. Okay. So, um, it's super exciting expertise. Watching people get developed and hone their expertise. And some people have other things, their Reiki, masters, or this, whatever.

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And they can implement the things that they learn in new thought global. They can take E four trauma method and then they can also do other modalities. We just ask that, you know, you keep it pure when you do our modalities and make it clear to your clients, what you're using, what modality you're using. So that, so that the client themselves benefits to understand, wow, I really like E four trauma method or, Hey, you know, I like this other modality over here. Which one is that? Right? So we all keep in alignment. So this is the truth is that if I can do this, you guys, you can do this. It's I was a hot mess. That's the truth. I was somebody who's confused, overwhelmed. I was in codependent relationships. I was a young single mom, barely making a money. I ended up saving a million dollars in my thirties because I was, I actually came from total lack.

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It actually came from total lack. And the truth is you can become somebody that has, you know, clients who can come. Somebody who's even a six or seven figure coach and still be miserable inside. What matters the most is that you're living authentically. The world needs authenticity more now than ever. And how do you ask yourself if you're being authentic or not? You ask yourself by asking yourself if there wasn't money involved, would I do it? If there wasn't money involved, would I be in that relationship? Would I be doing that career? Would I be living where I'm living? If it's and the answer is no, it means you gotta do it just like this. Would you join one of our programs if money wasn't an issue. And if the answer is yes, then you can't hand your power over to money. It's never about the money.

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It's actually about you believing that you're worthy of having the support. You're worthy of getting trained. You're worthy of becoming and, and bringing your gifts and message and living your purpose and calling and leaving your legacy for the world. This isn't about money. This is about you believing, because if you believe there's a will, there's a way, right? This is the truth of the universe. So what's possible out of this, what's possible out of this is that the world needs truth more than ever. The world now is shaking down the old paradigms and the old systems they're crumbling literally. And what's possible is an entirely new world. There's gonna be a new world order. That's probably all evil and there's gonna be a new world order of light workers and spiritual leaders, creating movements, real true leaders. Don't create just products. They create movements and you need to get trained of how to create your own movement.

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And you're gonna learn that right? And harmony will be the new metric of the world instead of net profits. And we do love money. We believe that money is a beautiful expression of love and being able to have the resources and the team and the tribe and, and all the technology and everything takes money. It takes money to get your message out to the world. And so we celebrate that, but we know that the new world of the world that we wanna create, there needs to be, it needs to be measured in harmony. And we truly do that in our community. It's been a, a huge lesson and growth for me to build community and be able to have people thrive and have policies that work for everybody. The beauty of the breakdown out there in the world is that we're having the breakthrough. We're birthing a new baby in this world.

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We're birthing a new level of consciousness. We're birthing knowing that extraordinary actions equal extraordinary results. And if you want extraordinary and extraordinary life, you've gotta take extraordinary actions because we say faith without work is dead. Okay. We understand the power of the mind. We understand that we're not the doer, but at the same time, we understand inspired action to align to our truth. So my invitation for you today is to say yes to yourself to say yes to your dreams and to say yes, to taking bold actions, whether you come into new thought global, or whether you do something else, my invitation is for you to take bold action in your life. The world needs bold leaders. The world needs courageous people that are ready to bring truth to the world. Okay. Universal law says again, if we want to have high ticket clients then need to be willing to pay for a high ticket coach, right?

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If you want, you know, if you want to have whatever it is that you want, you wanna have value. You wanna get money, you've gotta give great value. We give extraordinary value out in the world, and that's why we have extraordinary results. That's why we have a company and a community and a movement that is thriving exponentially. And so in this, I just say, thank you. Thank you. Thank you for your time. Again, remember the three ways that we help spiritual entrepreneurs monetize is by having them do their own inner work and having them master the skillset of the six, um, figure skill set of the business stuff. And then also becoming an expertise. Those are the ways that we help people. And so in that, I just say, may you live your truth? And may you book a breakthrough call? That's why I gotta say we do have, um, we have an extraordinary, um, uh, couple people that do breakthrough calls that are amazing have been with me for years.

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And that really don't do hard sales at all. They basically really know the truth of giving service. So when you come on a breakthrough call, you're not gonna be, you know, it's not a sales call. It's we literally come with an open heart to serve as much as possible. And if we feel like there's a fit, if we feel like our programs would truly benefit you, that of course we're going to recommend something to, but we also know that you, we want you to be true to you. Okay. So have a beautiful day. You guys, you can go to new global.com, check it all out. I'm super excited. It become the program. You're gonna be with me live. We only do live programs. It's all live front to back. Okay. Um, we just know that digital courses, you know, are they're good. They're just, you know, most of us don't change. Don't finish digital courses. Right. So have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth?