Hi Spiritual Superstar! 

There I was, on stage in front of about 150 women, when I asked the question...

How many of you have been in a toxic relationship?

Almost every woman in the room raised their hands!

I was blown away...

Did you know that some researchers believe that as many as 9 out of 10 people have been in a codependent relationship? 

Years ago, after healing from my codependency and narcissistic abuse, I realized how insidious toxic relationships were in our culture and globally. 

So, as a coach (whether you are coaching your clients or yourself), you are going to need to understand the levels of dysfunction within a toxic relationship to be able to get radical results. 

In this week’s podcast, I am sharing the How to Coach Toxic Relationships & Narcissistic Abuse

In this episode, I'm talking about my personal story of healing and some important distinctions to help you become a powerful coach. 

What You Will Learn: 

• The One Thing that finally healed my Narcissistic Abuse
• How to distinguish the level of the Toxic Relationship 
• How to coach any client, regardless of the label of their Dysfunctional Relationships or Narcissistic Abuse Trauma

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Transcriptions:

(00:00):

There I was on stage in front of about 150 women. When it asked the question, how many of you have been in a toxic relationship? Almost every woman in the room raised their hands. I was blown away. Did you know that some researchers suggest that as many as nine outta 10, people had been in a codependent relationship? Wow. Years ago, I was absolutely in a codependent relationship, an abusive narcissistic abusive relationship. And I'm here to say years and years later, that there are definitely things you need to know, whether you are dealing with a toxic relationship or whether your clients are in a toxic relationship, whether they're codependent or whether they're dealing with narcissistic abuse. You definitely wanna listen to this podcast. I'm gonna break on down everything from my own personal story and how it was a final one thing that healed my narcissistic abuse and how I distinguish the levels of toxic relationships. 

(01:00):

So I can understand whether I should be working with this client or referring them to intervention and how to coach any client, regardless of the label of their dysfunctional relationship or narcissistic abuse trauma. You definitely wanna listen to this. And I would suggest that you share this podcast with all of your friends that are dealing with toxic relationships. Let's do this thing. Welcome to the Dr. Erin podcast. This is a top spiritual psychology coach podcast to inspire and teach you how to transform your trauma birth, your soul's purpose, and manifest your dreams. Hi, I'm Dr. Erin, Dr. Divinity. I'm committed to bringing you the best coaching tips, spiritual advice, trauma healing, and metaphysical recovery secrets. I'm here to help you monetize your spiritual gifts and love your life. I want you to know that I've been exactly where you are, and I believe in you together. We're awakening the world. 

(01:57):

Hi, my soul family and community. I am super excited to be with you today to break on down how to coach narcissistic abuse, but not only that, but really how to coach anyone that is dealing with a dysfunctional relationship or toxic relationship. As stated earlier, some science is suggesting that as many as nine outta 10, people are dealing or have dealt with codependency. And so it's really important as coaches, or if you are just trying to coach yourself and trying to break through some stuff that we break this on down. So today you're going to learn the one thing that finally healed my narcissistic abuse and how to distinguish the levels of toxic relationships so that you actually can figure out, should you be working with this client, or if you are your own client, right, should you be putting yourself into an intervention, right? 

(02:48):

And then lastly, how to coach any client, regardless of the label, whatever they've been labeled, because spiritually we don't believe in labels. We believe that everyone is whole and complete of themselves and that anything that's out picturing in their life, in their dysfunctional relationships or in any kind of a label is really just the cause and effect of what we've chosen to create and all the trauma and programming and everything. So let's break this on down. So first before we begin, I just wanna say that I love you guys so much. Our community is so extraordinary. And this week in our community, we are learning and embodying the law of harmony universal law of harmony. And every week in our community, we embody one universal law. And in fact, the universal law, Oracle cards are coming out. Um, I think in a few more weeks on Amazon, I'm super excited. 

(03:39):

You guys, and also we have an accompanying book with it as well for the 52 universal laws. But so this week with the law of harmony, we're gonna break that down at the end. And I also just wanna say that I'm super excited because we are excited to have our graduations this fall in our community. And we have, of course, all of our weekly live coaching calls with myself and all of our teachers in our community. So I just wanna acknowledge our community and how amazing, how extraordinary, how just profound life changing everything is. And my life would never be the same without you guys. So I wanna say thank you. And if you're new to our community or new to this podcast, I would recommend a couple things I would begin to binge this podcast. There's series on everything from money breakthrough, to relationship, breakthrough trauma series and metaphysical series and all kinds of things. 

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And what we found is this is a lot of people that binge this podcast end up coming into our amazing community called society. And you can check out the links below here, but let's break this on down. So how to coach narcissistic abuse, that's the title of this podcast? And the reason why is because people need to go to extremes to get real and to get coached. Okay. And my personal story, as a lot of you guys know, and I'm not gonna get into too much because my goal on these podcasts actually is to have them stay under 30 minutes, more like 20 minutes so that you can binge them, go on a little walk to whatever, get your mind right. And then move on. Right? So my story, as you guys know, probably is I was extremely codependent. I was raised by a mother who was codependent and she would be in and out of relationships up and down in her relationships, an emotional mess when it came to relationships. 

(05:22):

So that was my patterning, all my trauma, of course. And we won't get into that, but I found myself years ago in a narcissistic abusive relationship with a Grammy winning rock star. And it was, uh, the hardest master class lesson I ever had to go through in my entire life. I actually think it was harder than having a stillborn son at the age of 22. I believe it was actually harder than being date raped in high school or stumbling and falling down into spiraling, down into bulimia from 17 to 20, the actual experience of, of narcissistic abuse, which really is codependency. It's just the out picturing of the perfect, you know, experience of my own belief that I'm not worthy of love. And so here I was, years ago, I was in a very narcissistic abuse relation, abusive relationship. And there was a moment I'll never forget it. 

(06:20):

He had been on and off the wagon. He was an alcoholic drug addict, always trying to get sober. And I was in the role of, let me try and fix you and heal you and, and save this love, making the love, my higher power. And I'll never forget. One night he called me asking for me to come help him. He had fallen off the wagon and he was in a bar over on kind of the east side of Los Angeles. And I drove across the city thinking, oh my gosh, I get to actually save him. He's actually not gonna fall off the wagon. It's not gonna be this terrible thing. And I went to go pick him up and he was totally drunk. And he was obviously yelling and abusing me along the way as we drove back. And when we got back, cuz he was staying over at his mother's house. 

(07:10):

And um, he, I brought him inside, got him showered up. And then he began to go into a rage and was yelling at me and was like, no, you get outta here cuz you're gonna go through my phone and then you're gonna, you know, it's all you, you are crazy all stuff. And guess what I was, this is how my, this was my low you guys. Okay. And sure enough, I began to leave the place and right, well, as I was leaving his mother's place, his phone was sitting on the kitchen counter and I grabbed his phone and I went, let me just see what's going on here. And don't ask me how it wasn't locked or anything. But I began, I drove off, I pulled off on a side road and I literally went through his phone and I saw pictures of his, his privates, two other women. 

(08:04):

I saw about 10 different texting to 10 different women of telling them that I love you. We're gonna spend our life together. Meanwhile, I was engaged to this man and I sat there for an hour in the middle of the night with the reality. It was like the universe just like punched me in my stomach. And I saw all of the conversations, all of the sex sexing, all of the manipulation, all of the lies. And I literally wanted to throw up, I was so ill and in that moment I realized something's gonna change and it wasn't him anymore. I realized how delusional I really was. But that story, I only tell you that story because that was one of, probably 20 stories that were that intense in that. And I was so humbled by that because I had been doing my inner work for years before that I had even had clients before that. 

(09:11):

And I was so embarrassed. I literally, what happened was I ended up shutting down my entire, uh, social world because I was so I had so much shame here. I was, you know, doing all this work, doing all this spiritual work coaching and being going down this track. And yet I was still dealing with a level of it, total insanity in my life. And so what happened is, as we have shame, I began to basically get smaller and smaller and smaller in my consciousness and re and basically repel from everyone and anything. And this is the true definition of, of a dis disease is you begin to, you know, as I say, we get as sick as our secrets. So I didn't mean to go that far into that story, but I think it's important to have something that's relatable for you to know that no matter where you are, whether you are in a narcissistic abusive relationship or whether you have some toxicity and you're having some big upsets in your relationships and it's beginning to actually have some trauma, you know, triggering trauma within you and things like that, regardless of where you are. 

(10:23):

I wanna say today with such incredible honor in my heart, I am fully healed from my codependency. It's been years and years and years, so many years. Oh my gosh. And it has been such a blessing in disguise. I realize that when I look back, I realize that I chose that situation from a spiritual perspective because I decided I wanna be the greatest leader and a spiritual, you know, badass to be able to deal with anything with my clients. And I could never ever be the leader I am today without having going, gone through codependency and narcissistic abuse. So let's break this on down. So first of all, we have to distinguish, you know, and I wanna finish with my one story. The one thing that finally healed my narcissistic abuse. So of course I had to surrender and take responsibility. Okay. Absolutely. I could never, I could no longer point the finger at him. I had to re begin to realize that he was simply a projection of my own limit to beliefs of my unworthiness and my lack of understanding that I really did not believe that I was worthy of love. Okay. But that was not what fully healed me. Of course, that was the beginning. Then going into the trauma work, going into all that was imperative. Of course, that absolutely stopped the energetic cycles. 

(11:46):

But the one thing that finally healed my narcissistic abuse like experience was I realized that I still loved him that at core, after I'd done all my trauma work, after I didn't, I had neutrality around it, I would go into meditation. I would go into spiritual mind treatment and into prayer. And I would begin to communicate because there was something that wasn't fully complete for me in my heart. And I realized it wasn't until I admitted that I still loved him at some level, I would not be in a relationship with him, but there was still a part of me that had love for him. And this was the actual one thing that actually shifted the final thing for me to be able to love him fully. And I love him to this day because there was parts of that relationship that were absolutely things that I could never exper I could never explain. 

(12:43):

There was profound love there for me, whether there was for him, it doesn't matter. There was profound love for me with him. And until I admitted that I still loved him. There was still a lie. And therefore there was a separation, a division in mind, and therefore it was actually keeping me in a lie and in a limited perspective. And so when I went into the space, sent him love and also know that I couldn't be in a relationship with him. That's when I finally healed fully from my narcissistic abuse. I realized that everything he did, all the line, all the cheating, all the manipulating, all the insanity was just because he had his own abuse. He had his own traumas. He had his own insanity in his lineage and his karma and in his, you know, ancestry. Right. So I don't have to take it personal. 

(13:36):

I didn't have to take it personal anymore. I get to just love him and know the perfection of where he's at and his cause and effect of this lifetime. Okay. So this is important. And this is so important because this is how to coach somebody, you know, in our coaching program. Obviously I can't teach you everything here, but I'm gonna break on down what you really need to take a look at for yourself or for your clients to understand the level of toxic relationship you are in or your clients in so that you can decide, are you somebody that can coach somebody or do you need to help them get intervention? And so I'll never forget when I was going through my codependency, some of my friends that had gone through codependency said, you are going to be codependent and stay in this relationship as long as you need to not one day more and not one day less. 

(14:26):

And so part of the thing is this is that I realize that I needed to be in app. And the same thing with your clients, your clients may say, they're ready to be healed and they may not be ready yet. They may need to go through some, a lot more dysfunction to hit their low, to be able to finally surrender. But so if I'm working with somebody, these are some of the basic things that I wanna take a look at for what's the level of their toxic relationship. And one thing you guys need to know is this is a podcast based in what we consider spiritual psychology. I'm not a psychologist, I'm a doctor divinity. And we actually do study the soul. That is our entire thing. The doctor divinity actually, and spiritual psychology coach and everything that we train in, uh, spiritual psychology master practitioners is really diving into the actual soul, traditional psychology, um, more deals with the cause and effect and the external world and measures the trauma and measures the results of all the trauma informed stuff. 

(15:23):

Okay. From a spiritual psychology spirituality is a reality that everything comes from spirit, your true self consciousness and psychology is the study of the soul. So we are actually looking at what's actually happening within somebody when there's trauma, not what happened to them. So we don't believe in big traumas or little traumas. We look at what happened within the subconscious. What happened? What did you decide? What were the commands and limited beliefs that you decided that energetically set the patterning into your soul and tagged your epigenetics and has you have this energetic experience of narcissistic abuse or traumas or whatever the, the title might be from a psychiatrist perspective? There is what's called the N CBI, which is the national library of medicine medicine. And so we have to take a look at narcissistic personality disorder is a manmade concept. It's a manmade concept. The truth is that even my ex is a divine, spiritual being. 

(16:27):

And just like you, you are not codependent or a narcissist, right? You are, you are a divine, spiritual beam. We don't believe in labels. Um, within our work, we believe in being able to heal by self, through energetic, um, patterning and through transmuting, the energetics on the soul level, clearing out the soul. That's our core work. Okay? So if you're somebody that is dealing with a toxic relationship and you want to actually heal, you can actually come into our community. And even in our coaching accreditation, we actually have practice calls and you actually do your work and you receive the work and you witness the work it's called triads and you do all three perspectives. So you're having breakthrough expanding consciousness and becoming really profound coach around all this work in our practitioner, you are actually holding consciousness. It's a, it's a real high, high level of work where you actually can create miracles just by holding neutrality for your clients and be able to spot the limited beliefs and be able to do spiritual mind treatment, which is also called spiritual scientific prayer. 

(17:30):

Okay. So we have processes for coaching. We have trauma work E for trauma method, as you guys know why I got the 20, 20 Walden wisdom award next to Oprah Winfrey and Greg Braden and Michael Bernard Beckwith is for these processes. Okay. But you, as the coach need to distinguish, should you work with this client or not? Or if you are in the toxic relationship, do you need to get help? Okay, so let's break this on down. So when a client comes to me and they are, you know, dealing with whatever, and oftentimes people aren't coming for the relationship, sometimes they're coming to deal with relationship, but most of the time people are coming to me because they wanna monetize their spiritual gifts. They wanna get trained and everything. And this is what we found about nine outta 10 of the women and men in our community are actually dealing with co a level of codependency. 

(18:16):

And actually the one thing that's holding them back from having success in their life and beyond the actually have a successful career in spirituality is their codependency. Because when you're codependent, we know what it's like. I remember what it's like. I couldn't show up fully. I was a disaster. I was emotionally drained. I was just all the above. So how can you have success in all areas of your life? If you're still in a toxic relationship, imagine the butterfly effect of the negativity that's happening in your life because of your toxic relationships. So we need to break the sun down. So say a client comes to me, say they are trying to heal their relationship or say they are coming because they wanna make more money. Okay. It doesn't matter because the thing is in what we train in is it doesn't matter what anyone's dealing with. 

(19:05):

The same. We do the same processes, no matter who it is, no matter if I'm working with a big celebrity, no matter if I'm training somebody in the methodology, no matter if I'm dealing with somebody dealing with narcissistic abuse or if they are doing whatever the processes are exactly the same, but there are things that I'm looking for. Okay. And that's one thing as someone comes in and I discover that they are in a toxic relationship because it's gonna come up, trust me, consciousness will come forward. And they begin to talk about how they're having big upsets. Maybe they are in a narcissistic abuse, abusive relationship, or whether they are dealing with just regular toxicity. This is what I'm gonna look for. I'm going to have them recognize one thing. If they are in an environment where they are in a narcissistic abuse relationship or toxic relationship, if they're in that relationship still then, and they're getting, you know, so upset, then it is retriggering their traumas. 

(20:01):

And what we say is it's kind of like having a wound, right? So you have a scab, a wound and it's scabbing over. And every time it's about to heal, you pick off the scab and it starts bleeding again. Okay. You can't heal a client. If they're still in that environment, you can't heal somebody. If they're still in that environment, if they're not able to do their work, if they're not in an abusive narcissistic, abusive relationship. And they're just in kind of a, somewhat of a dysfunctional relationship, it's possible, it's possible in any of the areas that they could stay in that environment and heal if they really did their healing work. But I'm here to say that majority of people won't be able to, because we are habitual human beings in these bodies and in our subconscious right, we're divine spiritual beings, but we're having the experience through this particular, you know, soul, which is all the epigenetics in your lineage and all the patterning and all the programming and everything. 

(20:58):

So what I would do is this is I first discover the level of where they're at. If they're in a narcissistic abusive relationship, they most likely are probably gonna need to have daily, daily recovery calls. They're also going to need to maybe even have an intervention and get out of the environment they're in. Okay? You guys need to know that domestic violence and narcissistic abuse ruins lives. I'm gonna say that again, domestic violence and narcissistic abuse, ruins lives. It is dangerous. You guys, it's dangerous. People take their lives by suicide because of these different diseases, right? This is an extreme level of life. And I can speak from a personal level. I remember a point in time where I did not wanna live because the abuse in that relationship was so bad. It was so dysfunctional. It was so hurtful that I, I didn't even see the point in life. 

(22:03):

And, and I would never have taken my life by suicide because I have a son, but I literally was that low. So you need to know if you are dealing with narcissistic abuse, please seek medical and professional help. Okay. Our programs are for group. Okay. If somebody's in a narcissistic abusive relationship, they need one-on-ones, you can come in and hire our practitioners and our coaches for that. Okay. But you need to get some one-on-ones if you're in that of an extreme case. Okay. So if I'm dealing and the title of this podcast is how to coach narcissistic abuse. I'm gonna tell you something. I don't, I wouldn't say it's the truth. It's not an absolute truth, but from a human perspective, it is the majority. If someone truly is a narcissistic, a narcissist, they actually most likely will not get help. And the reason why is because they are so extreme in their habitual things and all their trauma, that the only way that they can actually survive is by being right. 

(23:08):

And so most narcissists will not get help. That's not saying that all narcissists will not get help, but the reality is they probably would not get help at the level. They probably go into an intervention, or most likely they're sitting in the rooms of drug addicts and alcoholics in those rooms. Okay. That's nothing bad or not to judge that. Okay. But that's just the truth, because the only way that they generally, in a general perspective from a spiritual perspective will get help, is if they go so far low in taking them out, and we are such actual good spiritual beings, that the, if we don't use our energy for good, we take our own powers away. So most of the narcissists will take their own powers away via alcohol and drugs or extreme, um, gambling, extreme porn, addiction, things like that. And they will end up actually going into rehab. 

(23:56):

That's the majority of the place. Okay. If you are in how to coach a narcissist abuse, meaning you have been abuse, you are the quote victim of this. And the reality is that you are dealing with codependency, okay. Or your client is dealing with codependency. So we have to know that that this is possible to heal, but the codependent, the only way the codependent actually heals is by realizing that they can no longer point the finger at the narcissistic abuse abuser. The only way that you or your client is going to heal and get help is if they're able to admit that they have the problem, that they are the one that needs to held, they're no longer looking to fix change or help, or, you know, crucify the narcissist. They're actually ready to take full responsibility. So if I have somebody in front of me and a, are they willing to take a hundred percent responsibility and heal themselves and not look at how they're gonna fix the situation or the person, okay, that's the number one thing the other one must have for me to coach somebody who's gone through narcissistic abuse is they need to not be in the environment or the relationship. 

(25:08):

Okay. So say they are, when they come in, then I might have an agreement. And the agreement is that in, you know, the next 30, 90 days, that if they are still getting upset and getting retried and retraumatized, that one, they will not be working with me anymore. They'll have to put their, their contract on hold or they, um, will, they will make an agreement that they will go out of their environment. They'll go stay with their family or go into intervention, whatever that is. But I will not work with somebody for more than say, I won't do it personally at all. I don't, I wouldn't do that at this point in my career. But back in the day when I did work with high celebrities, um, and addicts and things years ago, I used to work, um, doing that with some AA plus celebrities, by the way that I can't disclose, cuz I send, I, I, uh, signed NDAs when I did it, but a plus big, huge, huge celebrities. 

(26:04):

Okay. Um, and the point is, this is that I wouldn't work with somebody dealing with an active addiction at this point because I, I train in group, but we do have practitioners that will and coaches that will. So if you are somebody who is a coach, you would already know this. Cuz I train all of our coaches on what they, how to deal with somebody that's dealing with narcissistic abuse or not. So obviously narcissistic abuse looks like this, right? Somebody who's manipulating somebody who is lying, somebody who's in fantasy. So one of the things I realized when I was in that narcissistic abuse relationship that I was like, trying to figure it out. I was like Googling, like what is a narcissist? What is borderline? What is a bipolar, what is going on? He didn't understand what was going on. And for my ex, he kind of fell into a, a bunch of the categories. 

(26:53):

He was absolutely narcissistic in that he would manipulate and do whatever it took for him to get wherever he needed in his career, in his relationships, whatever it is that he wanted, he would figure out a way to get it. And it didn't matter if someone got hurt, harmed, you know, did anything. Um, he would do whatever it took for him to get whatever he needed. Okay. He was also somewhat borderline in that he would, he had no identity. Like his identity was in his rock star role. He had no identity. In fact, he would just get attached to the next project, the next person. And that is what he would get excited about. He couldn't get excited with just being with himself. He had to actually morph into whatever the project was, whatever the person was for him to even have an identity. And when he'd be in one side of the identity, he would make the other project or people wrong because he was also afraid of life. 

(27:44):

Cuz he had so much trauma, right? He was also what we'd call a, you know, a bipolar and we don't do any of these labels spiritually, but from a traditional psychologist, psychiatry world, you would label him all these things. Okay. He was also borderline. He would, I mean he would also bipolar. He would get really, really depressed and go into his addiction and then he'd come out of his addiction. He'd get, you know, start getting sober and he would get actually high on life. So high on life that he'd have so much energy and he'd wind himself up so tight that he would again, snap into his, falling into the demise of, of his addiction and falling all the way back to the bottom. And it was like a big up, a big down, a big up, a big down. Okay. So these are all the distinctions and inside of our coaching, we're gonna dive way, way more into all the, um, trauma informed work, doing all the processes, how to distinguish these things further and further. 

(28:40):

But today to just complete the cycle, how to coach narcissistic abuse, you've got to first discover. What's the level of abuse. What's the level of toxicity in you or your client. You've gotta make that distinction so you can decide, is this something that can even be helped if they're still in the environment, they generally cannot be coached until they're out of that environment because they're just getting retraumatized and retried all the time. And then what is the answer? How do you actually deal with somebody when they're ready to heal? When they're not in the environment anymore, they're ready to do their work. And it's absolutely a hundred percent trauma trauma trauma E four trauma method. For sure. Getting all the energetics clearing out all the, I had total PTSD after it. Right? Doing all the PTSD work again. If you have extreme PTSD, please go seek medical help first to make sure you're okay. 

(29:30):

Okay. All that stuff. So they want to be able to, you wanna coach through E four trauma work you wanna coach and getting all clearing out all the soul, all the energetics and clearing off, off all those tags on their epigenetic DNA so that the client can become neutral and become cause over their life and no longer needing to have some perpetrator come in their life for them to keep having the identity of I'm not enough. I'm a victim. Something's wrong with me. All that stuff. Okay. And in this, I hope that you got something out of this. May you share this with your friends so that you can all heal together and have more, more wisdom and knowledge to know that you are divine, spiritual being, let's take a deep breath in together in the nose, exhaling out, doing a spiritual mind treatment, expanding our consciousness into the one divine consciousness, your highest consciousness, the consciousness. 

(30:19):

That absolutely is one with everything. It's one with that narcissistic abuser. It's one with all of it. It's here to say, I'm here to reveal the truth. I know no matter what you've gone through, no matter what upsets and breakups and manipulations and all the insanity, I know no matter what has gone through whatever your past is, whatever your your traumas are. I know that right now, right here, you have the ability to heal by self. You have the ability to become unrecognizable. You're here to become the highest version of yourself. And in this I know no matter what's happened that you are the creator. You're one with the creator, the force within you, the source within you is the same source that lives and breathes in everything. That is the one source that's created all of life. And in this field coming into that neutrality, I release all discord and I say, thank you suffering. 

(31:17):

Thank you, abuser. Thank you all that. Because without my narcissistic abuser, I would never be the woman that I am. The leader that I am today. Thank you for being my teacher. Thank you for being my guru. Thank you for leading me cuz I know love is the way. And the love always is the teacher love is a teacher. Maybe we know that we are love that we can never seek love out there. That we're the one that we've been waiting for. We are the love of our life because when we fully love our life, we fully love ourselves. We're able to love another. When we see ourselves unconditionally in love, we're able to unconditionally love another. And in this I'm knowing profound healing of codependency, of, of narcissistic abuse, of toxic relationships, of all of those things, all the relationship goals that we have in this spiritual psychology and in knowing the truth of our one divine love. 

(32:05):

And in this I say, yes, yes, yes. To you healing and knowing the truth as together we say. And so it is amazing. You guys, okay? If you're all not, not already in our community, there's a couple things you can do. Number one, you can go right below here. There's links into our free community on Facebook. There's also all, uh, you can come binge all the different podcasts in here so you can get your mind, right? And then also you can come into a Wednesday call right now, I'm doing a call. Um, if it's not Wednesday, it'll be on the website. If you go to soul society.com, S O U L C I E T e.com. It's right below here. Also we update that link. So even if I'm not doing a Wednesday breakthrough call, wherever, wherever I am live, cause I always have live events for free for people to discover breakthrough and discover more about our community. 

(32:52):

We do not do high pressure sales. But what we do is we're gonna really help you get clear of what your goals are and what it's really gonna take to get there from a spiritual perspective from, from doing all your inner work and from whatever it is. If you wanna monetize your spiritual gifts, we work with people that don't wanna turn their love for spirituality into a career. We work with all different dynamics of people doing their spiritual awakening and transformational work. And so I will see you there hopefully on Wednesday. Be amazing to get to know you dive deep and let's do this thing. Okay. Have you beautiful day have bless. And Hey, if you've listened to this podcast and you have not already subscribed and given a review, do it, come on, you gotta give back girl and guy seriously do it. Okay. I love you guys have a beautiful blessed day and may you live your truth?

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(00:00):
Are you ready to become unstoppable? If you do, you definitely wanna listen to this podcast. I'm gonna break down the three things you must master to massively monetize your spiritual gifts and make an impact in the world. You may be somebody who doesn't want to turn your spiritual work into a business or make money with it. And that's okay as well, because I'm gonna break down these three things that you need to master. Whether your business is your family, whether your business is whatever, whether you have a job or you are a sole based entrepreneur or coach or leader or practitioner, no matter what I am here to give you a gift today. So today I'm gonna share three gifts with you of how to not only survive, but thrive. Let's do this. Here we go. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron podcast. This is a top spiritual psychology coach podcast to inspire and teach you how to transform your trauma birth, your soul's purpose, and manifest your dreams. Hi, I'm Dr. Erin, Dr. Divinity. I'm committed to bringing you the best coaching tips, spiritual advice, trauma, healing, and metaphysical recovery secrets. I'm here to help you monetize your spiritual gifts and love your life. I want you to know that I've been exactly where you are, and I believe in you together. We're awakening the world. 
(01:20):
Hi, my soul family. I am really honored to be here with you today. Whether you are out on a walk or taking some time to settle in and come into the divine space within, or whether you're cleaning your house. I don't know what you do when you're listening to this podcast, but I want you to know that I've been where you are. No matter if you're in incredible space, whether you are in a lot of fear right now in your life and struggling. I want you to know that I'm with you right now in my heart and in my mind, and in the spiritual nature, knowing that we are definitely one and my biggest heart's desire is one thing it really truly is to help people end their suffering and awaken to the divinity, their divine nature, the power within. And so today I would like to share with you really three things you must master in order to not only survive, but thrive no matter what's happening in the world. 
(02:24):
And I know right now, we're going through some crazy times, right? There's man, there's been so much over the last few years. It's really almost hard to even believe everything that's gone on and there's inflation and there's unknown of political things. And there's so much fear out there in your face every day on social media, on your phone, in your emails everywhere. But what I know for sure is that the truth prevails. I'm so certain of this, and I'm so certain that as we master our mind, that we absolutely can really not only again, just survive, but we absolutely can thrive. So I wanna share with you today, three things you must master to massively monetize your spiritual gifts and make an impact on the world. So you may be somebody who doesn't want to turn your spirituality into a business, and that's okay, because you're still going to wanna have efficiency in your life. 
(03:28):
You're still gonna wanna be able to create an amazing family or friendships or experiences for your life. And so business is not just about business. I think it's one of the things we have to overcome that business is really just as much our spiritual work, that it's really becoming efficient in our life to be able to, to powerfully create what we want to experience in this lifetime. So I invite you to open up your mind right now because I'm gonna share three things that I realized after going through so many things in going through the recession in 2008 and going through my own ups and downs and being somebody that came from no money, going to the thrift store, growing up, having to wait tables, to put food on the table, as my son was young and coming to a place where I had to dig so deep into my soul to really find the truth and take bold action and really take a leap of faith. And I've come to some profound truths. And I'd love to share them with you here right here right now. 
(04:34):
So who am I speaking to exactly right. I'm speaking to yes, of course. As you guys know, I certify, we accredit date everything from soul-based entrepreneurs and we train spiritual psychology coaches and people in E four trauma method, along with our spiritual psychology master practitioner program. And we train and develop teachers, new thought wisdom teachers. And of course we train and develop. We're launching out the doctor divinity training, but what we also do is we work with people who just want to do their deep healing work. We really actually, it'll probably end up being the biggest part of, of my message and our biggest clients that we work with are people that just strictly wanna do transformational work, right? So who am I speaking to? I'm speaking to anybody that truly wants to do their healing work. Anyone that really wants to master their own mind and wants to not live in fear anymore. 
(05:29):
That wants to get over and say, dysfunction in your relationships. Trust me. I know it very well is codependent for many years or somebody. Who's trying to figure out how to manage their money, whether they wanna be an entrepreneur, whether they have a business, whether they're in a job, whether they're in a corporation, regardless, you are your business, doesn't matter if you work for a company or not. You still have to understand how to become the highest version of yourself and be able to manage all that. So I'm talking to anybody that really truly cares about knowing myself and becoming the most powerful you can be. So let's break this down. This is really for anyone who's committed to becoming the highest version of themselves and desires to create extraordinary transformation for themselves or the people in their life. Okay? Everything that we work on in soul society, in the spiritual psychology school and all the work that we do, I've worked with top CEOs. 
(06:23):
I've worked with top celebrities. I've worked with many different levels of women and men across the globe. People who had zero people that were very, very traumatized having major issues in their mental abilities, all the way to people who are absolutely very advanced spiritual beings. This works on anything. This work works on anything. That's a cool thing. The cool thing about spiritual psychology is it doesn't matter. What's happened to you in your life. We don't measure what's happened to you in your life, and we acknowledge everything that's happened to your life, but it doesn't matter who I'm working with. Doesn't matter if they come in with relationships and, and love issues or career issues or health issues, or they're trying to birth their soul. The framework that we use in E four trauma, the framework that we use in spiritual psychology coaching, the framework that we use through triangle and all the processes, the metaphysical processes, the profound deep soul clearing is the same exact processes for each and every client. 
(07:22):
The conversation and the distinctions might be different, but the processes are identical. That's, what's so cool about the work that we do, that when we train somebody's work, it doesn't matter what their niche is, who their avatar and client is or what they're really solving. The processes are identical, because guess what? Energy is energy and energy cannot be destroyed. And the only way to transmute energy, there's basics of metaphysics, there's basics of metaphysics. And you have to know these basics. We're never taught. We have these, these vehicles called this body, right? And we're never taught how to use the vehicle. We don't have an owner's manual. We just get plopped into this thing with parents that generally don't know how to use their vehicles, right? Like we have not learned how to master the mine. We have not learned to, to master this incredible temple that we live in. 
(08:17):
So I invite to get focused. I invite you to really get that a miracle can happen for you right now. And we don't believe in miracles in that we believe that miracles are only glitches in your current belief system. What we believe in is you, I believe in you. I know no matter how far down in the dumps you are, no matter how crappy of a situation you have right now. I know for a fact, the truth of who you are. I know that you are here to do great things. I know that you are here to heal your lineage trauma. I know you're here to clear out all limitations and stand on the shoulders of all of the great wisdom that has come before. 
(09:01):
And I just take a deep breath, deep breath in together and exhaling out. And I wanna break down these things for you. Okay? The number one thing that you need to learn to master that I realized when I was going through really hard times, right? I realized that I had to master my mindset, my spiritual mastery, right? I had to master my mindset. There was no way I was gonna be able to deal with the dysfunction in my relationships, the fear of the world out there news and all the insanity out there without mastering my mindset. 
(09:44):
And of course, how do we do that? Exactly. Because we have clients that come in and they've, they've done a lot of work. They've taken a ton of courses. They think they've actually done their trauma work. They've gone to, you know, all different transformational seminars and they've read a lot of books and they may have meditated quite a bit, but I'm gonna tell you that I hear this nine outta 10 times, I'd say from clients and they go, holy, how I thought I had done my spiritual work. I thought I had done my trauma work. I thought I had done my inner work. And they're like, I had no idea how much was still in there and how deep we go in E four and how deep we go in these processes. I've had therapists that have come to train with me. I've had traditional Western doctors come to work with me. 
(10:32):
And they're like, holy cow, this is has similarities to cognitive therapy. But it's way deeper. We go way down into its like a weed. You can't just cut off the weed. Right? If you go out with a weed whack or what happens, the weeds just get stronger and they come up even more fiercely, right? It's like, let me pretend that I'm gonna be positive. It doesn't work. Okay. You can't just reframe stuff. I always say it's like, you know, making a, a chocolate pie out of cow shit, right? It doesn't work. So we have to go into the soul at the epigenetic level, right? We've gotta actually go onto the part of the DNA. The part of the epi, which is be above, that actually turns on and off your genetics that is actually playing out as a subconscious processing that has you not be able to actually complete cycles. 
(11:27):
It has you sabotaging your relationships and your success. It has you in stuck patterns. It has you sad, even though there's nothing even really to be sad in that moment, it's like it's playing out the, the past pictures for the cautious records. It just keeps pulling up pictures. You can't get over things. You keep trying, but something is missing. And we call this the key. We all watch the secret documentary, but there was something missing in that whole concept of law attraction because law attraction works. Universal law works. We teach universal law. But if you don't deal with the trauma and the subconscious mind and actually transmuting, transforming transmuting, the actual energetics and releasing it, then it doesn't matter what you think logically because your subconscious is just gonna play out on rote. So how do we do this? You've gotta get in and you've gotta do the E four. 
(12:27):
You've gotta do deep, deep trauma is the number one thing. Okay. You've gotta first match that. You've gotta master your mindset and there's more to that, right? You wanted to go beyond just trauma. You wanna go into actually getting clear of what are your core values. You don't think, especially as young girls, we're not taught what our values are. We more for ourselves, a lot in the old school, ways of morphing to be some way that the culture told us so that we're gonna be a good enough for, you know, somebody to love us. Right. For me, I can't speak for anybody else. For me. I didn't believe in, I didn't have enough, any self worth. I didn't have any self worth. How could I have self-worth when my parents didn't even know how to love themselves and they didn't definitely didn't know how to love me at that point in time, since then we've healed and we absolutely love profoundly with each other. 
(13:09):
Okay. But you've gotta get in and do that deep inner work. Number one, especially if you wanna monetize, right? There's so many people that are saying their coaches and they're hot mess. Let's face the fact, I remember very well saying I was a coach and I actually didn't even have a client. I'd had a client, but I had no clients. I didn't actually know how to get great transformation for my clients. So I didn't even, I sabotage even getting clients, right. I would go around, try and, and do all this work. But I actually didn't know how to actually do the deep work. It was great in consciousness. I could talk about all the spiritual stuff I had, all the jargon. I could talk about all of it, but I actually wasn't living at a soul level. I hadn't experienced in a deep, profound way, or I had gone in and done a bunch of, a bunch of spiritual meditation. 
(13:56):
I'd gone outta body and I had these mystical experiences, but then I'd slam back into my body and into my triggers. As soon as I was around, you know, any family member or, or dating at all, right? It's like, so if you are triggered, you have not done all your spiritual work, right? If you cannot, if you're still judging your parents or your children, you haven't done your spiritual work. It's just that, it's just, it's just black and white. You guys like you gotta get real with yourself. You can't keep pretending that you got it all figured out because you don't neither do I I'm never gonna stop. That's why I have coaches. That's why I have to do my daily spiritual practice every day. I've gotta do this, right? So we have to master our mindset and our framework. Our technology is not just my, uh, yes. 
(14:42):
I came up and created E for trauma. Yes. I created the, the coaching processes, but the metaphysics universal law, this is lineage. This is, this is you can even call it Christ consciousness, right? It's that, it's that deep it's it's energy. It is absolute wisdom that lives as you, you don't manifest. You're manifesting. You are the manifestation. You are manifesting 24 7 and your subconscious mind is setting polarity of the universal law into motion right now, as we speak with zero effort whatsoever, because all the limited beliefs, identities, and all the energetics, number one, you've got to master your mind. I would in, I would invite you to turn off any social media. That's getting you in fear. I would suggest that you turn off the television. If you watch television, I haven't had a television since 2008. I suggest that you don't surround yourself with anybody that is into conspiracy theories. 
(15:39):
Right now, we already know that there's a bunch of lies out there. How much more do we wanna know about all the lives? It's time to focus on doing your inner work. Okay. Number one thing, the second thing that has to happen, okay, you have to, you have to master your skillset. Okay? If you are doing business, of course, you've gotta master. We teach a six step process of, of mastering business and being able to really get in there and be able to know exactly how to convert people on our social media. When we come in contact with, we need to understand how the psychology of sales works, right? We need to understand how we need to position ourself as an expert in the industry and get into freebees and get into having value sequences, all this stuff, building our funnels, doing marketing, doing sales. 
(16:27):
Most people fail at business because they haven't mastered their mindset. And they don't have a strategic plan of their business that works. Okay. But let's just pretend that you don't even wanna do business. Let's pretend that you just wanna not have stress and you have a traditional job, or even, even let's just pretend you're married and you don't even have a traditional job, whatever that is. It's the same stuff. You guys, you've got to learn how to be efficient. You've got to learn how to, how to deal with things and be able to deal with your bills and have systems and policies and things. What I love about entrepreneurship, spiritual entrepreneurship is that there's an efficiency that happens. And you're able to become more powerful because you're able to direct energy. That's all we're doing as spiritual being. So in our skillset, right? We've mastered our mindset. 
(17:14):
We've done our inner work. We've birthed our purpose and calling, and we've come to a place where we need to now have skill set. If you're at a, let's just pretend you're unemployed. Let's pretend that you got, you got, you know, you lost your job during the pandemic. What are you gonna do? You're gonna sit there and fear all day and do nothing. You've gotta have an organization. Even when it comes to getting a job, whether you're creating your own company or doing your own business, you've got to come into a place where you're surrounded by people that know how to get stuff done. Okay? And in our skill set, we learn how to set our goals. But if our goals are based off of what the culture told us, then we're gonna not really have motivation to do our goals. We get motivation. Motivation is we don't need to get motivation when it's a soul driven purpose and you can have a soul driven purpose. 
(18:03):
That's having a job or creating your own business. But if you're, it's not based in your soul, like their worthless goals, because you're actually not committed to them. And therefore you're never actually gonna make them happen. Right. I had coaches, um, I had a coach come in. She had been, um, working with a big coach. She had had some success in her business. She had began to make money, but she was getting so burned out because she was trying to keep up with the influencer. Right. She was trying to keep up with these influencers. So she, she found herself that she was having some success in business, but she was just burned out. And it wasn't until she did her deep, inner spiritual work. And did her, you know, core tr work that she actually birth her purpose. And then what happened is she 10 Xed her company, right? 
(18:50):
She 10 Xed her coaching business. And she wasn't getting burned out because she was actually living in alignment with her mission and her purpose, right. Her purpose in calling. So it doesn't matter if you are in a traditional job or if you're an entrepreneur, you still need to get clear of what you're here to do on the planet. Right? Some people shouldn't be entrepreneurs by the way. Some people are not built to be entrepreneurs. They're built to have a mission though, and work for companies that's in alignment. What, what they care about their core values, right? So part of doing inner work, all that work has to be done in order to get that all the skill set of our business. Because we, what we do in society is we actually, we do, we do very strategic goal setting. We have a bigger one pick one year, five year, 10 year goal. 
(19:34):
And we strategize in what we're up to do in our, in our goals. And we put our goals for the year, for the quarter, cuz I've trained everybody as a CEO over their personal life. We put our goals to every month, every week, every day and every hour, okay. We have accountability and we strategically plan out and, and get in systems and policy. Because if we imagine you go what's policy, right? It's like what they say in boundaries, you how you're supposed to have boundaries in your relationships. You should understand what works for you and doesn't work for you in all areas of your life. And that's part of business as well. There's no, there's no difference. You guys, we're not taught this in school. We're taught about geography when we haven't even figured out our own vehicle that we live in our mindset and how we actually are gonna be efficient. 
(20:22):
Right. We need to learn these things for sure. In high school and definitely in college. And we're not even taught in college. We're taught all these different concepts that aren't actually applyable to our real life, like paying our bills, like having relationships that aren't dysfunctional, like actually living in alignment with what we really truly want to create. Right. So this is imperative. So first is of course your mindset. You've got to get your mindset, right? Okay. Secondly, is your skillset. You've got to learn how to become efficient in your life. If you, of course, if you wanna monetize as a, you know, soul-based um, Youpreneur coach or practitioner leader, you've definitely gotta learn the six step process that we teach and be able to know this. Okay. I don't care if there's a recession. If there's not a recession, you you've got to turn off the fear and you've got to focus on what you're creating every single day. 
(21:15):
What are you creating? Right. So the third thing that you have to master in order to, you know, massively monetize and make an impact in the world, regardless if there's a recession or not is you've got to master your expertise, you've got to master expertise. Okay. Even if you have a traditional job, you're gonna wanna rise up in your position. Right? And so you've gotta get really good at skills at whatever it is. That is your expertise. And a good example is this there's lots of coaches that'll come to me. I have some coaches that are just beginning. They've never made, they've never had one client. Right? And they're like, how in the world am I ever going to compete with the big coaches out there? They have imposter syndrome. They're like getting down on themselves. They maybe have tried something. They maybe have even created a program. 
(22:05):
And it, no one purchases. It they're just like about ready to give up. Right. But what they don't understand is that say, for example, one of my clients, he was abused by his father, like physically, emotionally abused by his father. Okay. And what came out of doing the deep inner work is he realized that he actually wanted to work with teen boys, helping them do their inner work and build their esteem and, and help them get, you know, create the, their dreams into reality. This is the deal. If you're out there and you're a, a teen boy or rather you're a parent that has a teen boy, that's going through some issues. Do you think that you're gonna want to have him come work with me, Dr. Aaron? Or do you think you're gonna wanna have him work with a, a man that's dealt with exactly what that teen child is working is dealing with? 
(22:55):
Right. So obviously they would probably wanna go work with somebody who's dealt with the same issues that their teen that was abused by their father is dealing with, right? This is called a niche. Okay. And a niche is very important because you are not in big competition. When you niche down, you become an expert. So if you want to, not only survive, but thrive in any industry, in any economical status, you want to develop your expertise. So in our training, obviously I train and develop people as experts getting accredited and certified in specific processes E for trauma method and in all the spiritual psychology coaching processes, all the stuff, universal law, all of it. And so they become an expertise, right? But you're like, well, but maybe there's a bunch of other people learning E four. So how does that make me an expertise? Because for example, um, one of our great leaders, Hillary, she works with, um, in the recovery industry, we have lots of different, you know, industry. 
(24:00):
We have coaches that deal with relationships and love. We have coaches that deal with recovery of coaches that deal with helping people make money. We have coaches that do all, we have, we have real estate brokers that come and work with us because they want to implement the work into their, their, their group because they realize if they don't have healthy employees, it's not gonna work. We have corporations. I have longevity doctors that reach out to me for the work, because they know that you actually look younger and live longer if you've done your trauma work. Okay. So back to the point becoming an expertise. So Hillary, for example, Hillary's an amazing leader and she deals with people in recovery. So she has built, you know, her own framework. And she also uses E four and all the processes that she's learned within our, her training with me. 
(24:43):
Right. And then she actually is going into the doctor divinity program. So she will be doing research projects around E four and a bunch of stuff, but she will tee herself up to be a world renowned spiritual leader. That is the only recovery leader that deals with new thought wisdom, metaphysics, spiritual psychology, and E four trauma method. Okay. And has her own processes as well. But the point is that she's tee herself up years and years and years, right? Like she's a badass. Okay. So you can't afford to not go work with Hillary, right? So it's the same thing. You guys, you have to take a look at where am I not only gonna be this year, but where am I gonna be two years from now, five years now, 10 years from now. Okay. And if you want to be somebody that's not only surviving, but thriving, someone who absolutely wants to massively monetize or wants to just have an impact with yourself or the people around you, you need to develop these skills. 
(25:42):
Okay? You need to develop these skills because there's an exchange in the universe. There's nothing worse than having somebody that's just entitled and thinks they should have everything given to them without an exchange. Even the people I know that absolutely do not have to make money, but they are an expertise. They're an expertise at giving back in foundations. They're an expertise in really in, in helping every single person in their life, they still have a major skill set. They become valuable wherever they go. So your, your expertise is really about bringing the highest, highest value. For example, a dentist, okay, this is an offshoot of a metaphor. If you go to a traditional general dentist, you're gonna pay the general prices for pretty much whatever needs. You need a two teeth cleaning. You need a filling. You do it generally. There's some kind of standard prices, okay? 
(26:32):
But if you go to an expertise and expertise, say you need something specifically done that no other dentist can do. Cuz you specialize in something you're gonna get paid way, way higher, right? Per hour, probably of what you're doing, right? The same thing happens with somebody. It's an expertise as a coach, as a leader, if I'm coming to a yoga class or a meditation class, I may always pay $30 for that meditation class. But if I come in and say, Dr Aaron's gonna help me actually transform my trauma. That's actually gonna maybe, maybe I'm somebody who is almost on the verge of divorce and it I'm so stressed out. I'm I'm literally, my health is diminishing my, I can't even show up for work. Right? And you come in and work with me. And my promise is to, you know, to transform your trauma and birth your truth, whether you stay in that marriage, whether you get divorced, whatever it's, and you're in you, your stress levels go down. 
(27:27):
You're able to make decisions. You may stay in that marriage, hopefully, whatever that is, right? You can't afford to not work with me. Right? You can't afford to not do that work. If you're someone who's like, I wanna monetize my spiritual gifts. You can't afford to not work with me. I am. I am one of the highest in the industry. We have profound processes, right? So that's where we make the distinction of an expertise versus a generalist. If you go in for a meditation class, it's a general meditation class. Fine. If you go in for a meditation class because they're teaching you and train you how to be become a meditation teacher, it's a completely different thing. Right? So I would tell this to my best friend. I would tell this to my best friend, you've got to master three things to massively monetize your spiritual gifts and make an impact in the world. 
(28:17):
Regardless if you wanna make it into a career or not, okay, you've got to master your mindset. You've gotta do all your inner trauma work and all your core work, birthing your core values and getting clear and being able to deal with anything. No matter if you get upset, you're confused. All those things. We have processes for each and every one of those things. The second thing, and in the first thing, the minds that you've gotta birth your soul's purpose and what's your soul's purpose. Your soul is your soul's purpose. Your first need to handle your own soul before you are birth. What you're here to do on the planet. Second thing you need to do is you need to master your skillset. You need to understand how to become efficient in your personal life. In your pro professional life. You need to have a strategic business plan that works. 
(28:59):
Whether you are having a business or your family is your business. It's the same thing. You need systems. You need to figure out how to do that. Okay? Third thing that you need to master. If you want to massively monetize or massively thrive through anything, you've got to become an expert in your field. Okay? Become the best mother you've ever been in in the world, right? Become the best coach become the best spiritual leader, whatever it is. That is your expertise. Okay? These are the three things that you must master. And I'm telling you this because I care about you. And I don't wanna see you stressed out in the middle of all this. Okay? So this is my invitation Wednesday. I, I am having, I have a breakthrough call on Wednesday. And sometimes when you come to that breakthrough call, I'm gonna actually pull you up on stage and we're gonna do some work or we're just gonna break through whatever you're at in your mindset, skillset, and expertise. 
(29:53):
Some of the Wednesdays, I'm gonna actually give a webinar on these things. Okay? And I might actually teach other things. I invite you. I invite you to come to my, my Wednesday webinar. I don't know how long this is gonna go on or whatever, but I'm gonna put underneath this, the link for you to come to this call, come engage with me. It's not a sales pitch. We, we really, truly care about you and we wanna help and serve you. We understand how universal law we understand, whatever as much we give away is as much as the universe is gonna give to us. Not necessarily through the same person. Okay. We understand how energy works and how universal law works. And I wanna know you. I wanna get to know you. I'd love to see your face on zoom. I'd love to dive deep with you. 
(30:31):
I'd love to laugh with you and cry with you and whatever. Sometimes I record my podcast on there. Sometimes we will do, you know, breakthrough work sometimes on a rare, occasional do an E four trauma method there, whatever that is, but I invite you to come. And, um, and it's, it's obviously for, um, non-members because we do present something there. Okay. We present something about the, about our programs and um, and you're welcome to come to one of those and just come check it out and, and see what we have to offer. Um, yes, we will make you an offer, um, for that one time that you come, but regardless I would love to meet you and, um, and give you my heart for one of those sessions. Okay. That's my gift to you. Thank you so much for listening to this. I just wanna say I am. 
(31:14):
I just actually just do a spiritual mind treatment or what we're calling spiritual scientific prayer because there is a science to this. This impacts our mindset. It impacts our energetics of every single aspect of our cell. It impacts the coordination and the coherence between our heart and our brain impacts all of it. Taking a deep breath into the nose and excellent. Ow. I just wanna know right here, right now, this divine, divine nature, this all prevailing untouchable nature. The truth of who I am, the divine that I am, that I am that pure potential. That always is life. Life cannot ever go away. Energy cannot be destroyed. It is eternal immortal. And that part of you, that is the power that is always creating. It is that part that decides it is consciousness. And in this, I recognize that I am the, I am. And I recognize this for you as well. 
(32:07):
I recognize and know right here that you are here for greatness. You are here to remember the truth of who you are. You're here to create the entire universe and to form. This is the same source that is in you. And you are the unique divine expression. There's only one of you on this entire planet. We want you, we want the healed. You, we want the fully expressed to you. We want the innovation and inventions and your voice. The only voice of you, you are the fractal of divine. And we say, yes, we say yes. And I declare right now that you are here 
(32:38):
Living your greatest life without any objectives. And in this, I know if money was of no object, if it's a hell, yes you say yes. May you never put your power out there into the world if time was of no factor, because it is not reality in the spiritual world, you would never consider the time. You would just take a look at what do I want to create, right? No matter what it is, if it's confusion, the truth is you have all the wisdom and knowing, and I know as you put your hands over your heart and you really get authentic with yourself, I know that you deserve to have incredible community support, coaches, prosperity, vitality, great relationships, all that. And I just say, yes, I say, yes. I say, yes. I simply know this with total gratitude, seeing you thrive, seeing you love your life, seeing you absolutely heal your ancestor lineage and all the above. Yes, yes, yes. Is all the universe says, it just says, yes. I simply know this. I release this. My word is law as together we say. And so it is. And so it is okay, you guys have a beautiful, blessed day. You can go below and see the link, or you can simply go to society.com. And there's always a link on there to come to these, uh, Wednesday call. If we're doing that, it is soulciete.com. Have a beautiful blessed day. And may you live your truth? Spiritual Psychology Coach, spiritual meaning, spiritual definition, spiritual warfare, spiritual gift, spirituality, and so much more.

The Spiritual Meaning Definition & Signs From The Universe

Welcome to The Dr. Erin Podcast. This is a top spiritual psychology coach podcast to inspire and teach you how to transform your trauma, birth your soul’s purpose, and manifest your dreams. Hi, I’m Dr. Erin, a doctor of divinity, I’m committed to bringing you the best coaching tips, spiritual advice, trauma healing, and metaphysical recovery secrets. I’m here to help you monetize your spiritual gifts and love your life.  I want you to know that I’ve been exactly where you are, and I believe in you. Together, we are awakening the world.

Do you believe in signs from the Universe?

What You Will Learn In This Episode: 

⚡ How to read signs from the Universe
⚡ How to discover the spiritual meaning of signs
⚡ How to communicate and get confirmation from Source

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Have you ever wondered, what is the spiritual meaning of something that occurred in your life? Right. We all wonder what is the spiritual significance of things going on in our life? Or maybe you're looking for signs from universe. Maybe you laugh about concepts around us, regardless if you're somebody who wants to dive deep into the spiritual meaning and what we truly believe from a metaphysical standpoint and from a perspective of what happens in consciousness and how it projects out into life and communicates back to you via the universe, then you definitely wanna listen to this podcast. Welcome to the Dr. Erin podcast. This is a top spiritual psychology coach podcast to inspire and teach you how to transform your trauma birth, your soul's purpose, and manifest your dreams. Hi, I'm Dr. Erin, Dr. Divinity. I'm committed to bringing you the best coaching tips, spiritual advice, trauma healing, and metaphysical recovery secrets. I'm here to help you monetize your spiritual gifts and love your life. I want you to know that I've been exactly where you are, and I believe in you together. We're awakening the world. 
(01:11):
Hi, my soul family. I'm really excited to break this on down for you because tonight I had a very mystical and magical night and I was inspired to record it for you. So earlier this evening, uh, early evening, I had a meeting with my team and we were discussing events in person events. We haven't done in-person events since before the pandemic, and it's been something that we keep coming back to, but we've been so busy with all the online stuff and building an extraordinary community and doing so much. And there's so much that happens in it. So we keep coming back to events in our meetings because we're going over the topics that we need to discuss. And each time we come to this topic, we kind of get stuck a little bit. And we realize tonight that we're definitely committed to doing events, but we didn't really feel a flow around how or what that looks like or when exactly. 
(02:02):
And so we decided to put it into consciousness, cuz that's what we do whenever we're feeling stuck. We don't keep trying to analyze it and figure it out. We go to the great divine mind and we allow truth to come through. So we decided to do that. We ended the meeting and I decided I was gonna go out on my evening bike ride and do some spiritual scientific prayer and begin to, you know, really contemplate it and allow whatever miracles were to come through. So I got on my bike and I, as soon as I went out my building, I realized it was sprinkling and, and it looked really dark over in the clouds. And I thought, man, I should probably go inside because where I'm at in Palm beach, it, when it rains, it dumps like it's no joke. And so I kind of contemplated for a moment, but I just had this really strong feeling that I needed to go on this bike ride and I needed to do some deep, deep work around the consciousness around events and what that looked like. 
(03:00):
And I really wanted to commune with my heart self and really allow the miracles to come through. So I decided to keep going. So I decided I was just gonna keep going. And I decided to go the direction kind of away from the clouds. And I thought, well, I can maybe outrun a little bit or you know, maybe I can get to a place that I wanna be. And then the storm will come through. So I went across the bridge and yes, it was sprinkling kind of light. And I was coming down and I started doing a little bit of intentional work and I thought, you know what, I'm gonna put it into consciousness. So what I do when I'm doing a spiritual mind treatment, you call it or a spiritual scientific prayer or affirmative prayer. It doesn't matter what you call it, going into consciousness. 
(03:40):
And I set the intention of show me, let me know and bring clarity around these events and what is to happen as far as do I have confirmation, should we wait longer? What is there? And I began to bike ride along. And the first kind of consciousness that came in was about divine signs. And for some reason I kind of thought, why is this conversation coming in about divine signs and signs from the universe? And I began to think as like, do we really believe in signs? You know, from the universe, the universe is just responding to us, the sign, the universe doesn't do anything it's responding to consciousness. Right. And as right as I said that, I went around this little kind of corner on my bike and all of a sudden hundreds and hundreds of dragon flies flew all around me. They flew all around me, all above me. 
(04:33):
And it was this mystical and magical moment. And I stopped my bike because I was in such awe. And I realized right in that moment that I had just asked my higher self about having signs. And so I'm sitting there and for a moment I'm like, oh my gosh, is this source kind of telling me no, there are signs. Right? And then I flash to what's in my book, which is really what we teach, which is serendipity, right? There's a serendipity place that we are in when we're in a confirmation of what we love of that blissful state. And we've all experienced that moments where, where the most magical mystical moments happen. And so I was there for a few moments and I was watching all the dragon flies and I just was, I was giggling, I was literally giggling and I was just looking up at them and just soaking in this moment. 
(05:29):
And the clouds began to come in further and further. And I thought, well, I'm a couple blocks from where I could get coverage, so I better get on my bike and go. So I began to get on my bike and, and the dragonflies kind of swirled around a little bit. And then I kept going a little bit further and sure enough, it began to rain. And I was right next to this open kind of mall area, this beautiful mall. So I decided to take my bike inside. And as I rode my bike right inside, cause there was no one around this dragon fly followed in right next to me. And he flew right next to me and he flew on and I just was just, it was just this beautiful thing. And then right away, the storm came and it thundered and it lightening and it crashed and all this rain came tumbling down like pouring, like pouring. 
(06:20):
Like you, you can't imagine it was pouring like everything like the skies opened and the seas parted. Right. And it came down so strong. And I just sat there just so happy, just be in this mystical experience and just so grateful with not one concern about the rain. I thought, well, you know, it's gonna pass or I can call an Uber. Right. Who cares? I just sat in the beauty of it. I just sat in the beauty of it again, sitting in the beauty. And this is what I do when I go into prayer. It's not about praying to the man in the sky. It's really not even praying to even become something it's really in the miracle of what is, and in sitting in that miracle space, that space of gratitude, that space of the awe, that space of ecstasy, it shifts everything. The rain began to kind of die down. 
(07:06):
Wasn't that long, maybe 20 minutes at the most, this incredible sunset began of these incredible FIA, pinks, orange and blue skies behind. It was the most beautiful, amazing thing. And I got on my bike and I ran, I rode out, I felt like a little kid. There was like these puddles and I was going through the puddles and I couldn't help, but swirl around in circles and look up at the trees. And it was just so beautiful and it began to laugh and giggle again and I'm riding my bike along. It wasn't even half a block and this huge, huge rainbow all the way full rainbow right in front of me. And I was just, I began to have tears of joy because it was this feeling of knowing. I know that I am here on this planet to bring truth. And I know I'm here to do events, to have us come together as a community for us to know the truth for us to really bring this movement forward on such a level so that all the teachers and practitioners and all the coaches can be showcased and they can also come together and, and bring in their voice. 
(08:13):
And so I rode along my bike more and I couldn't help. I had to take some pictures and, and I actually put it on my Instagram tonight. You can go to my story there. And it was so beautiful. I, I don't know if I've ever seen a more beautiful sunset, the pinks and the oranges and the blues behind it and the Palm trees and the puddles on the ground. And I was feel, I felt like I was just flying. I literally felt like a dragon flying through the air with zero weight. And that's the way I feel I get so out of body sometimes. And I realize that there's some distinctions to make here. Okay. There's some really great distinctions to make here. So what I wanna discuss are these three things, how to read the signs from the universe, how to discover the spiritual meaning of signs and how to communicate and get confirmation from source. 
(09:04):
So you can believe anything you want, and we never want to make anyone wrong for their belief systems. Okay. But from a metaphysical perspective, from a science of mind, from a place of understanding consciousness and how it works, we know that the universe only sends us signs that are reflection of where we're at. So for example, in my book, we have a distinction about serendipity versus Zem bla Zem bla, is that the out picturing of what we don't wanna see, it could be, see something horrific or something not good or resistance, or, you know, your relationships going down, feeling stuck, feeling resistance, feeling angst, feeling suffering, right? That's the Zem of the out picture of consciousness. The serendipity is when we're in flow, when we're in a state of non-resistance, when we're in love, we're in that flow state, the currency and all that stuff and things show up butterflies, show up, people show up, you know, these signs and the serendipity of all of it, right. 
(10:06):
That person you thought of two minutes ago happens to call you right in that moment. Right. That's a serendipity moment. Okay. But when people look to the world for signs, they're placing power outside of themselves, meaning that yes, we look to the, to the universal signs. We should at all points in time, not just looking for, you know, the butterfly in the sky, but everything we call it, the mentally equivalent, we call it the vibrational match, wherever we're at. You can look at someone's life. You can look at your life and know exactly where you are. If you're in flow or not in flow, or if you should be somewhere or in a relationship or in that event, because it's either a hell yes or it's a no you're either in flow or you're stuck in resistance. There's just a simple, simple thing called universal law. 
(10:50):
And it works for precision. So what's the spiritual meaning. There is no meaning. It's whatever, meaning you put on it. Yes. There are meanings around things like what is the embodiment of a dragonfly, right? When you look up the meaning of a dragonfly, right? Dragonflies are incredible. They're, they're almost like the butterfly. They come and they're, they live in water for a long time. And then they actually, they, they transform just like a butterfly and they become the dragonfly and they mostly like live most of their life underwater. And then they actually, when they finally bloom, they finally transform. It's a very short-lived life. It's this miraculous time with these beautiful wings, very, very, like, very beautiful, very translucent, very incredible. And when they fly, they fly very fast and straight. Like almost they can go anywhere. It's almost like a helicopter, right? They can, they're so light. 
(11:44):
And so agile, a lot of people will have like tattoos and swords representing through Asian art and different things of, of, of these beautiful dragonflies, because they can do anything they're free. And so what does this mean for you? You know, what does this mean and how to communicate and get confirmation from source? So I can't speak for you. I can't tell you what your answers are to these things. It's against my ethical, spiritual practice to tell you the way it is. But what I can say is how I communicate and how I commune and can get confirmation from source is when my heart and when my intuition and when it just says, hell yes, everything is a confirmation of yes, everything flows. Everything is miraculous. That is a hell. Yes. Okay. And whenever I'm not in flow, when I'm in resistance, my confirmation is when I'm in stuck traffic, when I'm in angst, when I'm frustrated, that means I'm not in alignment with my truth. 
(12:42):
So I'm not gonna look to see some sign to get that confirmation. I can just feel into my body. I don't need any confirmation anywhere. I can just feel into my, my consciousness. I don't need a sign out there, but it's really fun when there's a sign out there, it's really a game to see the dragonflies and know, oh my gosh, I'm in the intention of what one of my greatest dreams is, is to, to have events where we do and live these principles that we teach and transform people's lives and let them shed their old ways, just like the dragonfly and have them bur their true self. Right? Isn't that the point of it, it's said that dragonflies also predict whether they predict also knowing that there is this, this time to seize the moment, because just like the, the dragon flight doesn't have very much time. 
(13:36):
Once they bloom life is precious. It goes by in an instant, especially when we're living our blessed, it just, it's just a beautiful breath. This thing called life. So for you, you might wanna think about where you are. Are you living your truth or are you not, are you loving your life or not? Are you in flow or are you not, are you still stuck in that old skin? Or are you ready to peel it off and let it go and release it and live free? And so I invite you to seize this moment to live your truth. And so my confirmation is to absolutely have events, absolutely speak from stage, absolutely bring truth around the globe. Absolutely. This is what I'm born to do. There's nothing better than being a conduit for divine, being a channel for divine and holding consciousness for my clients and watching their lives transform right before my eyes, when I get a note or message or an email, and someone is confirming how this work has transformed their life and their life will never be the same, their relationships, their family, their health, their lineage, they've healed their ancestral, everything. 
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This is why we 
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Do what we do. And so I ask you a favor. You're in my community, you're here, you're listening right now. I ask for you to hold in consciousness, the most profound events for our community, the most profound life changing heartfelt events across the globe. And I say, yes, and it is confirmed because my word is law as together we say. And so it is if you're not already a member of our extraordinary community, I want to tell you that your life is about to take a quantum leap. Society is the number one spiritual community for coaches, practitioners, leaders, and soul-based entrepreneurs who are ready to monetize their spiritual gifts. It is the place for launching and scaling your soul-based biz. When you join society's spiritual entrepreneurs, you'll get access to an actual real community, not just a vault of videos, not just one call per month, not a bunch of digital master classes. 
(15:51):
You will actually get a real community that comes together every day of the week. Live online. You'll get me as your mentor every week, or for intensives. You'll get daily live coaching calls with master coaches where you'll be able to do deep transformational work. Yes, you'll also get my entire vault of life changing processes and teachings. You will learn how to repro your subconscious mind, transform your trauma and birth your soul's purpose. And you'll be able to master your mindset and skillset so you can become a powerful spiritual leader. Yes, you'll also learn the most trusted and proven six step sales and marketing system that six, seven, and eight figure coaches used to launch and scale their soul-based businesses online. You can work from home or you can journey the world in a laptop lifestyle. If you're not already a member you're really missing out soul society. 
(16:43):
Spiritual entrepreneurs is life-changing. You're going to feel like you finally found your soul family. You are not alone. Click the link below or go to soul society.com. As soon as you register, you'll have instant access and be able to come on calls straight away. I'm super excited and honored to take this divine journey together. You have nothing to lose in everything to gain cure. A few of our client wins. Sandy said, Dr. Erin in this community is the best gift I've ever received from the universe. I had never felt that I belonged or could trust. I hadn't ever known self love until I discovered this incredible community. Lindsay said E four trauma method directly resulted in my first ever 15 K month E said a 20 K month with this much ease was just a dream and hope six months ago, it was wishful thinking because I doubted myself so much. This work is so real. It truly is miraculous. What can happen and how fast when we surrender do the spiritual work. So remember you don't have to do this alone, go to soul society.com and say, yes, your dreams today. That's S O U L C I E t.com.

Story of a Recovered Addict | Addiction, Recovery & Sobriety - How to Reprogram Your Subconscious Mind, Heal Your Trauma, and Become a Spiritual Leader. 

Hi Spiritual Superstar! 

Did you know that one in three people is touched by addiction?

Did you know that some stats are showing that 9 out of 10 people are dealing with codependency relationship addiction?

In this week’s podcast, one of my clients shares her story - Confessions of a Recovered Addict.

My clients went from being an addict to a spiritual leader. 

She is sharing her trauma and healing journey.

What You Will Learn In This Episode: 
- How her addiction began in Mind
- How to spiritual psychology measures trauma slightly different than traditional psychology
- The two keys she attributes to her recovery

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This week in Spiritual Psychology Coach Certification & E4 Trauma Method®, we are diving deep into Subconscious Reprogramming

And, in the upper divisions, we are mastering leadership and metaphysics of mind 

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Her mission is to awaken a billion people globally by developing, training, and certifying accredited Spiritual Entrepreneurs, E4 Trauma Method® Coaches, Spiritual Psychology Master Coaches, Spiritual Practitioners, New Thought Teachers, and Doctors of Divinity.
Dr. Erin is committed to bridging spirituality, science, and psychology. She is forging ‘New Thought Wisdom’ in the study of Spiritual Psychology; the study of how everything is created from Source at a soul level.

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Transcriptions: 

(00:00):
If you or someone, you know, has ever dealt with addiction, you definitely wanna listen to this podcast. It has stated that as many as nine outta 10, people are dealing with a level of addiction in their relationships. And as much as 10% of people have dealt with a drug or alcoholic issue, the reality is that we all are touched in some way by addiction. And if you're listening to this podcast, you most likely are interested in understanding about spiritual psychology and how to make an impact with people that you love, or maybe even make it into a career. So you definitely want to listen to this podcast to understand and know what's possible. Welcome to the Dr. Erin podcast. This is a top spiritual psychology coach podcast to inspire and teach you how to transform your trauma birth, your soul's purpose, and manifest your dreams. Hi, I'm Dr. Erin, Dr. Divinity. I'm committed to bringing you the best coaching tips, spiritual advice, trauma healing, and metaphysical recovery secrets. I'm here to help you monetize your spiritual gifts and love your life. I want you to know that I've been exactly where you are, and I believe in you together. We're awakening the world. 
(01:12):
Hi, my soul family. I am beyond excited to dive deep today into a special, special podcast. So if you have been binging my podcast, you will know that I've been doing a solo podcast for some time now. And part of the reason why was because I had the show good morning, LA land, and I interviewed 3,600 people on that show. And so when I began the podcast, I actually had no other intention of just having it be a creative expression for me to express the incredible teachings that we teach in metaphysics and universal law and spiritual psychology and all that stuff. But guess what? It's a new chapter and I am beyond excited. I'm getting chills right now because I, I wanna bring you more story. I wanna bring you the heart. I wanna bring you podcasts that have you get chills that have you realize and have a revelation that has you transcend and transform by knowing truth. 
(02:09):
And how do we know truth? The best is by story by actually experiencing someone's life and seeing them transcend and transform the dark into the light. So today I am so honored because this first guest is such a love. So Lindsay, Kara carte is an incredible leader in society. She has personally touched my heart in such a way, because I have witnessed her go through such a transformation, but I saw her commitment from the very first day I met her and who she is today is somebody that touches so many lives. She has a podcast herself on sobriety and a bunch of stuff, but we're gonna go all through that. But what I want to do is I want her to share her story so that whoever is listening to know that wherever you are in your trauma, no matter what you've gone through in this life, if Lindsay can do this, you can do this. So today is confessions of a recovered addict. Hi Lindsay, how are you? 
(03:17):
Hello? Hello, Dr. Erin and community. So happy to be here. Thank you. 
(03:23):
So I, I want you to share your heart with me and the community today. And I don't even know if I've heard your whole story from your childhood all the way through the trauma that you experienced and kind of the dysfunction that you know, I know you and I, and all of us have gone through, right? I want, I would love for you to really paint the picture for us of where you came from. Where did you grow up? How did the trauma start? What were those incidences for you and how did you come to deciding that you wanted to heal? And then of course, after that, I want you to take us through actually what it was to help you transform in doing that inner deep work. So tell me, where do you grow up? Where are you actually from? 
(04:09):
So I grew up in PAC Kong, New Jersey. Um, both of my parents were together and I was the middle of three children. I had an older sister and I have a younger brother. It was a small town. I went, I started school and we had a lot of nature around us. And I was, my childhood was by any external standards. It was comfortable. My dad worked hard. He was gone most of the week. He commuted and he made decent money. So we were relatively comfortable and he would always put us first when it came to money. So we always had stuff and we always had experiences. And my mom was home when we were younger. So she was a stay at home mom. She was always there. She was able to, you know, be there cooking dinner and have us, you know, eating together as a family. And, but I also found it challenging. And I found that my dad's anger and his rage and his drinking would really affect me. 
(05:13):
So take me there, take me to one incident that you remember as a child, take me there. 
(05:19):
So I'm five years old and I'm hiding in this hallway closet of our house with my sister. And there's this, there's this slanted wooden floor. Cause the hallway is above the stairs that go down. So there's this slanted floor and I'm behind all of these winter coats and it's dark. We're hiding in there as my parents are fighting and I can just hear it's muffled, but my parents are right in the living room and it's, it's quiet at first. And at first it was like a joke. We were hiding in there and, and it was meant to be something funny. And so we're still kind of giggling, but then I hear my dad and his voice is raising. And, and there's just, there's something about his tone that as I'm there and I'm behind the coats, I can, I can hear in his tone and I am sitting on the floor of this closet, holding myself up and I can feel that my whole body starts to just tense up because I, I know it's coming. 
(06:23):
I know that anger's about to come. And the next thing I know, it's like the, the damn opens and he's yelling and he's cursing at my mom and they're fighting about money again. And I just, you know, I hear every few words and, and he's yelling at her about these fucking kids and you spend money on this and I'm just contracting more and more. As I'm sitting in this closet, it's already a tight space. And, and my older sister's next to me and all of a sudden what was meant to be fun and games becomes like this, this like claustrophobic prison. And, and I can feel my own tension because everything in me is like, just, we have to be quiet. I have to be quiet. You can't know we're in here. You can't know we're in here. And as I've been listening to them fight, and I'm listening to him, yell at my mom, I'm, I'm getting Angerer and angrier. 
(07:19):
And there's a very real part of me that wants to bust out and yell at him. But I'm five. And I absolutely know it's not safe for me to be angry at him because I've learned what happens when that happens. So I shut it down. I shut down my anger. And as I'm sitting in there with her, I'm just feeling more and more powerless. And in that moment, I feel like I hate my dad. I hate, I hate him. I hate the way he's talking to her. And I think we ended up sliding down the floor and the door opens. So then all of a sudden his attention turns to us. And as his attention turns to us and he starts directing his rage at us and he's yelling, you fucking kids, and it's always something and hemorrhaging money and money's going in faster than I can make it. And he's just so pissed and angry. And my mom tries to, she says, it's not their fault, not their fault. And she puts her hand out and he then just unleashes on her again. Oh, sure. You're always defending her. And I'm just frozen. You know, I'm just frozen in that moment as this child where I just, I wanna fight. I wanna run. I wanna get angry. 
(08:33):
Lindsay, what did you decide about yourself in that moment? 
(08:36):
Yeah, that I'm just, I have no fucking power. I have no power. I have no control. I hate my parents. It's my fault. Yeah. 
(08:46):
Thank you. Here you are. You have a somewhat what you would consider a normal family for whatever that is. You have some traumas that are going on early. How old were you when that first one began? 
(09:00):
I would say probably four or five. Maybe six at the most. Yeah. Mm-hmm <affirmative> but I remember the fighting, like from, from the get go. 
(09:07):
So it happened all the time. It was, it was consistent. Yeah. Okay. And then, and we're, you know, as we know, we're talking about, you know, Ace's adverse childhood experience type of things, right. And as Lindsay knows, we don't necessarily in spiritual psychology, you know, say that there's big traumas and little traumas. What we really look for from a spiritual perspective and from a sole perspective is what was the imprinting that happened within Lindsay? What decisions did she make about herself? What divided perspective, what happened? So, Lindsay, tell me a little bit about how you see what happened from here. Take us through it again, really about like where you went from here. You were, you grew up, you were having dysfunction in the family, obviously some really tumultuous arguments. Mm-hmm <affirmative> so then what happened? What happened from there? 
(09:52):
Yeah. Well, from that moment, I think that it really was, I just decided I was powerless. So as I went through my li the rest of my life, I was just constantly, I was a great student and I was just so capable in school and I really liked school. And my first place of, I guess, escape or addiction was probably books. So I would just lose myself in books and I would drown out the world in books, um, because it just was like, I never felt comfortable. I never felt at ease. And it, there was a very, you know, you say the divided perspective. Right. And when I really think back from within me, it's like that divided perspective was always there because it was like my intuition, my inherent knowing was like, you know, this is, this is a problem. This is dysfunctional. Or, you know, whatever, whatever you wanna call it. 
(10:45):
I mean, now I can, you know, obviously I see the perfection in all of it, but at the time I, there was, it was a problem. But on the outside, I was constantly being told how great my family was. Right. Because we materially had things and both of my parents were there. And, um, a few years after that, we ended up moving onto a lake house. Right. So on the outside, there was very much this picture of, oh, this is a great family. And so I started making myself more and more wrong for how I felt about my family, because I was angry. <laugh> makes, I was, makes sense. So angry at them. Yeah. <laugh> 
(11:24):
So take us in the timeline. So here you were at young when you really realized and had some, obviously big kind of traumas, if you will, of decisions and things, and then what happened you, so you dived into school and then what happened? Timeline wise, like where, what began in your life? What was, what was going on? 
(11:43):
I would say, yeah. So all through middle school, timeline wise, all through middle school, I continued my great grades on a role gifted and talented cheerleading, gymnastics, softball. I was just doing all the things. And then right about seventh or eighth grade, I just completely took a U-turn, you know, and I can remember, I remember sitting there in my English class and looking at my teacher and just feeling so angry and just being like, I don't care anymore. I don't care anymore. And I just stopped doing my work and I stopped handing in my assignments. And, you know, in hindsight, I know it was because I was just going the reverse rebellion. But at that moment, I just was like, I don't care anymore. And I started rebelling and I, I remember I stole my first pack of cigarettes right around into eighth grade and smoked them in the woods with one of my friends. 
(12:41):
And it was like this thrilling experience where I was doing what I wanted for the first time. And very quickly from there, it just kind of snowballed as I moved into high school and I got more and more rebellious and I just fell more deeply into this identity of I don't care. And it's kind of wild because even through high school, when I was like, I don't care, there was a very real part of me that wanted to go back to doing the sports and the good grades and the things that I loved, because I really did love that stuff. But this other part of me was more in control. And, and I spiraled through, I, I, I fell into like the punk rock music scene. And so that music just fueled my anger at society and my anger at my parents. And I just started really pushing everybody away. 
(13:33):
And the whole spiral of drug use, you know, it started with the alcohol would steal booze or beers out of, you know, our parents' liquor, closets and progressed to marijuana. And then it progressed to hallucinogens and then it progressed to cocaine. And then once I graduated high school, I fell in with a crowd who was all doing heroin. And at first, when I started hanging out with those people and I was dating one, and he was like, my second boyfriend ever. And I, he was older than me. His name was Dave, and I just thought he was like the coolest thing. And it was just another experience of me looking at this person outside of myself, like, oh, you're gonna be my savior. And <laugh> when I found out that he was a heroin addict, I actually broke up with him. And I was like, well, I can't do that. I looked at everything. I had been doing all the other drugs I was doing. And I still felt like I was in control. And I was looking at the people who were heroin addicts. And I was like, well, they're out of control. So I can't do that. I was super judgey about it. <laugh> 
(14:42):
Mm-hmm <affirmative> so tell me, take us, take us then. Thank you so much for being so real and vulnerable. Cause I know that you're helping somebody out there right now. You know, if you take a look at Lindsay and, and you go, oh, she came from a decent family, you know, oh, she just may have been a bad, bad seed. And she got into drugs and alcohol or whatever. But when people really start pulling the layers back, it's important to understand how there's always a cause there's always a cause for all division of mind and, and people kind of harming themselves if you will. So take me to an incident mm-hmm <affirmative> during your alcohol or drug use. I want you to tell me what was the darkest moment for me, take me there in a virtual share. 
(15:21):
So I think really it was where the, the, the split really solidified. And that was, I was about 19 years old and I was standing in my mother's bedroom. My well, my mother and fathers, they were still together. I was standing in their bedroom in our lake house and I can see the wood floor, just beautiful wood floors that they had and laid in the house. And I'm, I'm dope sick because I'm strung out. And this has been going on for about two months, but I feel completely out of control. And I'm standing in the doorway of her bedroom, nobody's home. And I make the decision that I'm, I'm gonna take her jewelry and I'm gonna go sell it in that moment that I'm standing there. I'm so torn because there's a very real part of me that doesn't want to do it. And then there's this other very real part. 
(16:13):
That's like, I have to do this. I have to, I can't, I don't have a choice. And so I go and I raid her drawer and I take some of her jewelry. And in that moment, I'm just in the back of my head, I just say to myself, like, this is, this is what you've become. And in that moment, I just decided like, I am a loser and this is what I have become. And I take you to that moment because I feel like it was the moment where I just fully gave up the fight I gave up trying to even be who I really was. And I just succumbeded to that, that what I thought at the time was, you know, some dark power inside of me, but now I know it was really just me and my addiction and my path. 
(17:01):
You don't know when you see somebody and the world, it can be so judgemental around addiction and somebody who does heroin and like, Ooh, that is like really dark and like stay with, they must be the devil. And like, but you need to know, like, if you're listening right now, Lindsay is, she's like literally one of the most loving human beings I've ever met, she is completely so consistent of who she shows up for as a leader as like, like, so the point is this let's not give up on our sisters and brothers out there. Mm-hmm 
(17:35):
<affirmative>, 
(17:35):
Mm-hmm <affirmative> I mean, truly. And truly it says right now in, even in America, that 10% of Americans are dealing with drug addiction. Okay. That's not taking into account of people that might be mildly, you know, going off the sideways or even 90%. They're saying of people that are dealing with codependency, which we're gonna dive into that more as well. The point is, this is Lindsay. Today is somebody who leads in an incredible community in society. She has a podcast, she has high end clients. She coaches, she serves she's in a great relationship. She's somebody that you would never in a million years think somebody who was doing heroin and who you are today. And this is years. It's not like, you know, she's been on the wagon for a while, right? I mean, this is amazing and you are a true Testament of what's possible. 
(18:35):
And so I want you to now really talk about, obviously we've been doing E four trauma method and you are, Lindsay is trained at an E four trauma method. She's trained in metaphysics, metaphysics of mine. She's trained in spiritual psychology coaching. She is now actually in a teacher's speaker ministerial kind of law of attraction program that we have. She leads, uh, many, many women and men weekly and has tons of clients and is very, you know, who you are is, is unrecognizable, but also you're even unrecognizable for the average person. That's never even, you know, had an addiction with any kind of substance. You are way, way, way above average. So please help me and help the people listening, take us through your actual journey, through the work in society of like, what was it, what was it that really helped you really do that inner healing? 
(19:31):
Definitely. I would say two things for sure. Number one, the trauma work, the E four trauma method, the subconscious we're programming has been such a catalyst. I, I, I always teach it like this, you know, it's like when we have trauma inside and in our consciousness and our bodies and we're holding it, it's like that trauma is what really creates those walls of separation within ourselves first and foremost, but then also us against the world or us feeling separate from the world. And so it's like great, because before I came to society, I was studying a lot of this stuff, but I just wasn't able to embody it because I was still in that sabotage. So when I found Dr. Aaron, when I found society and I came in here and I was exposed to E for trauma method, I was just blown away by cuz even that moment I was sharing about when I decided, okay, I'm this loser, right? 
(20:27):
It's like, there was so much charge around that when I got here that I didn't even know about. And I remember it was about two months in and I was, I was going through an E four trauma method and that event came up and I, I could see, so clearly that, that had been one of the driving commands. Why I wasn't able to have success before coming in here. I was constantly sabotaging because the commanding story was I'm a loser. Mm. And so that E four trauma method, it just, it really truly creates the space. Right. It reads the garden. It, it pulls up all of those emotional, like it's like there's cinder blocks that when we have trauma and I mean, it doesn't matter, like you just said, Dr. Earn, right. It doesn't matter how big or small the traumas are. It's like those cinder blocks of emotion are in there. 
(21:15):
And until we move them out, we can't put something new in. So that backed by, you know, our spiritual, our spiritual work, our spiritual practitioner work, um, just the re coming back into the reclaiming of my understanding and connection with the idea of spirit, the idea of the divine, you know, God, if you wanna call it that, whatever anybody wants to call it, I've just moved past the need to have, let it have one name because it's my understanding of spirit and that I am that right. And so it's that knowingness that I feel like, you know, spirit, God does for us, what we can't do for ourselves. And I feel like through you bringing E four, bringing your, your methods of subconscious reprogramming, bringing that to us, us then coming back into our own healing. And, and me being able to reconnect with my own divine spark, it's just creates this whole unification within me where I've just like, I've become this version of myself that I always knew was in there mm-hmm <affirmative>, but was like locked in a page. 
(22:27):
What's interesting about what you said, uh, describing from doing the inner work, the trauma work and the subconscious work, and then also really having self revelation of who you are, which is interesting because we say in our line of work, which is metaphysical and spiritual, you know, deep, deep soul work that they, the answer for addiction, if you will, doesn't matter if you're a workaholic or a love addict or co-dependent, or even drug addict, doesn't matter. What matters is the answer is oneness, which is interesting. Cause that's exactly what you describe, which is oneness, which is because the addict, which of course, as you know, and all my audience knows, I went through major, major codependency and I had an agent disorder as well when I was 17 to 20. So I've dealt with my battles for sure. And feeling so alone and feeling so divided and you know, your commands as Lindsay said. 
(23:21):
So what we do in E four as well is we, we really do that deep work neutralizing, those, those incidents that happen that had us decide. So we say in spiritual psychology versus psychology, psychology, mostly measures. What happened to you from everything from adverse childhood experiences? And so far, it was like, what's the big trauma versus a little trauma. And we in spiritual psychology don't necessarily measure that as much as we measure what happened in mind, we measure what decisions did Lindsay decide in those high frequent states of emotions. And you said, I'm powerless. I don't care. And I'm a loser. And I'm here to say, Lindsay, cuz I know you've declared something new. You are so powerful. And I know that you care so much of how you show up in such love and you are a leader and I'm just getting a little teary right now because this is the butterfly fight. I want you right now, out there. There's somebody listening right now. And if it's not you, maybe it's someone, you know, that's struggling with co-dependency or addiction to a substance, whatever. Please send this to them. Okay. Because if they can hear somebody like Lindsay's story, to be able to understand how dark she went and who she is today, what's possible from one person because Lindsay touches lots of people and you should check out her podcast. Lindsay, what's the name of your podcast? Sobriety. 
(24:47):
Sobriety. Yeah, the sobriety, the podcast. 
(24:50):
It's such a great name by the way. I love that name. It's so awesome. 
(24:53):
Well, I feel like sobriety is really that's that's my Testament to this work, right? Because it really is like through, through the trauma work that we do and coming back into my own connection with spirit, it really is it, you know, sobriety like the physical sobriety from drugs and alcohol was the first step of the journey. But what I was really seeking was that connection with my soul again. And that's, that's what it's all 
(25:19):
About and tell them where they can find you on social media and your website. 
(25:24):
Totally. So on Facebook I'm there, you can find me Lindsay Jones or at Lynn I'm on Instagram a lot at, I am Lynn  
(25:34):
So good. So I would love for you to do what I am calling a spiritual scientific prayer because I think it's time. I think it's time that the world understands that we absolutely can measure the soul. We can measure the soul by what out pictures into one's life. We call it the vibrational match, the mentally equivalent and Lindsay, I would be so honored if you would know the truth for, for us and for everyone out there that is whether they're still struggling with an addiction or whether they're just wanting to know the truth right here. And right now 
(26:10):
I would love that. Thank you. So let's all just take a deep breath in together. Just really breathe into that expansion. That knowingness, as I just recognize that that truth is all around us. Just letting go, just letting go of any tension, any idea of needing to know or control or figure it out. And in this moment, I truly, truly, truly just, I recognize I feel it in every cell of my being, I know the truth and that truth is oneness. It's that we are all one. We are all the one spirit reflected here inform as these beautiful individuals that each and every one of you are that I am that Erin is that we all are. And just looking out, knowing fully to all one thing, there is no separation. The truth is one is the truth is unity. And just recognizing that the separation exists in mind and knowing that we fully perfectly created, I fully perfectly created it so that I could come into this, knowing this remembrance, this resurrection, this redemption, just coming back into the truth, which I never could have recognized if I hadn't stepped out of it. 
(27:25):
And so just fully recognizing in this moment, as we see it and the cycles of nature, and we see it in the days and the nights, and we see it all around us, there is no separation looking at the trees, the leaves, the roots, recognizing there's no separation in that tree. It's all the one thing. And it's connected to the earth and it is the earth. And so too, are we just knowing fully that I am this beautiful expression of the divine mind? The infinite infinite intelligence is each and every one of you are that. And what I know to be true is that the true calling, the yearning, the desire from within your hearts and minds, that is the truth just as it was for me. And I know that right here, right now, each and every one of you, me, all of us, we are just awakening. 
(28:09):
We are coming into this, knowing this, we are revealing, we are healing. And I'm so grateful to know that this truth is the truth and that it is already done. I'm so grateful to know that there is liberation, there is freedom and that desire for liberation, that desire for expression, that desire for joy and love and harmony and prosperity, whatever it is that you are desiring freedom. It is there, it is available. It is waiting for you. It's already done. It's who you are. It's who I am. And I just declared. It's done. I know it's done in my mind. It's done, it's done. It's done for each and every one of us. And I'm just in so much humble gratitude for the journey. As I look out upon the life, and I know the absolute perfection of my whole journey, I know the absolute perfection of each and every one of you that is listening to this. 
(28:56):
I know the perfection of your own journeys, and I know that you're being shaped and molded and forged in the fires of whatever it is you are experiencing. And it's perfect. And by design, and what I know to be true is that you are here for a purpose and that all of the pain, all of the suffering, all of the struggle is for a purpose. It's part of your mission. It's part of your purpose. It's part of your expression and it's who you were born to be. And so right now I just declare that each and every one of you are recognizing that and remembering that and declaring that and stepping forth into that, as I say yes to you being in that expression of that, I see each and every one of you in my heart and every cell of my being, as they light up with just the chills of the knowing of truth, that if you're listening to this, you're listening to this for a reason. And it is your divine calling coming forth right here, right now for you to step into your purpose. And I'm just in so much gratitude, as I say, thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Knowing my word is law, knowing that I have all of the power and that is the most liberating thing ever. And knowing that I don't have to figure it out because the law does it. And I just release my word up, knowing it is done and heard. And so it 
(30:02):
Is. And so it is so beautifully said, thank you. Thank you. Thank you. So beautifully said so again, if you, or something, you know, is dealing with addiction, please seek medical help within society. We train and develop and help soul based entrepreneurs, coaches and leaders monetize their spiritual gifts. So we don't deal with active addiction or PTSD or mental health disorders. As a group, we do however, have trained practitioners and E four trauma method, coaches and teachers that can take one-on-ones. You can actually reach out to support@soulsociety.com where you can reach out on my social media or go to our website. And there is a tab on there to get one of our practitioners to work one on one with so on another note, I just am knowing right now, the perfection of wherever you are at in your consciousness. And I would love to invite you to a Wednesday breakthrough session with me. 
(30:58):
I will put the links below, and we're gonna dive deep into how to become a certified coach and be able to make an impact in the world. I'm literally going to show you the three things that you must embody to be able to massively monetize. So I will have an event this Wednesday, you can check out the link below and we're gonna dive deep into it so that you can absolutely live your dreams, do your inner work, and absolutely make an impact in the world. Have a beautiful, blessed day. And may you live your truth?

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