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(00:01):

This is first live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth

(00:19):

Today? I'm gonna get super vulnerable about my lineage trauma. And as we go into the holidays, I recognize that it can be beautiful, beautiful season, and it can also be one of the hardest seasons for people. No matter if you have family around or you are alone during the holidays, or you love your family, or you feel like you get triggered every time you're around your family. I think it's a really important conversation to have as we go into this beautiful and intense season so that we can really truly see through the triggers. See through the upsets in the family, see through the distance, see through the heartache, see through all the grieving, see through all of that so that we can stand in the light of love and really know the truth of who we are and see through the veils and the walls of our family, through the triggers, through all the upsets, through all that, so that we can hold miracles, miracles, miracles.

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Welcome to Dr. Aaron podcast. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly believe that somebody has a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. So I'm Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity, founder of new thought global and society. I am an international bestselling author winner of the 2020 Walden wisdom award with Oprah Winfrey. Great Braden and Michael Bernard Beckwith. And most importantly, I'm a mother, I'm a friend and I'm somebody who is deeply, deeply passionate about you ending your suffering and really, truly living your best life in total freedom. And as I well up in tears right now, I have mixed feelings of joy and also feeling the suffering that is out there in the collective, and that still lives in my family. And so I am here to serve and to really bring the wisdom of the universe, bring my heart and really lay it out on the line today.

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So I have a, I don't wanna say I have a different family, cuz I don't think there's a normal family out there. I have come from a family that on my mother's side, my grandmother was given up. Uh, she was given up for adoption when she was a little girl because her mother I believe was, um, was very young when she got pregnant. And so my grandmother on my mother's side, uh, was not exactly the nicest person. She was a very cold woman, very mad and angry at the world. And I remember going there as a little girl and my mom didn't want to go. We, the longest we ever went to her parents' house was one day. That was it. And it was very uncomfortable. And I remember my mom being very upset a lot and we would usually leave kind of, um, she, my mom would be kind of upset or pissed off or whatever it was and never understood as a little girl what was going on.

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And, and I just remember my mom herself, she was really pretty much emotionally unavailable growing up. I love my mom and I'm good with my mom, but my mom's really never been available. She would be kind of, you know, drinking or with the next relationship or whatever it was to kind of numb her feelings. Like so many of us have done in our lifetime and she really just wasn't there. She wasn't emotionally there. Um, I remember being in junior high and she started drinking a lot and she'd be at the bar majority of the time and there wasn't food in the house. And I was really just didn't understand. I didn't understand, um, what it was like to really truly feel like I was loved. And I think through that process, I, I built up a lot of walls, of course, in my lifetime before doing my trauma work.

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And before finding all this work, my father's side of the family was, um, was different. And yet the same, my grandmother on his side was actually one of the most loving women and really was a pivotal, uh, point in my life and person in my life to teach me love and, and, and really a level of love that I had never experienced my father, however, was really trying to find himself. He had his own traumas from kind of the abuse of his father and, um, and different stuff that had happened in his life. My father ended up, um, divorcing my mother and going off and having another family. And you know, of course I had abandonment issues from that and blah, blah, blah. Right? So you're hearing a lot of stuff. And the reason why I'm sharing all this is because I know that majority of you guys out there, especially if you're, you know, have had a spiritual calling, especially if you're listening to this right now, I know that you have trauma lineage trauma.

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And, um, whether it be from, you know, stuff going on from your, your mother's side or your father's side or both sides, and maybe you are totally disconnected from your family, or maybe you are with your family, but you have failed expectations or you get triggered. The point is that this is the deal. None of us are going to be okay on our deathbed. If we're not connected and loving with our family, it is a soul assignment. Yes. We get to pick our soul family in this lifetime, our friends and, and our community, but our family is a soul assignment. And I know as I look at my mother and my father, that they're the perfection of who they are. And so I'm gonna tell you today, a few things that have happened in my life and my heart to be able to truly love them.

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And I'm gonna cry right now because I love you, mom and dad, I know you're probably not listening to this, but you need to know that. I love you. I understand the pain that you've gone through. I understand the divided perspective that's happened within your consciousness through your own trauma, and I'm gonna get really vulnerable right now. I spoke with my mom this morning at 7:00 AM her time, and she was bawling. Her and my sister had gotten into an upset yesterday and my mom was gonna be going over there for the holidays. And my sister kind of had a few things she had to do during the time she was over there. And my mom took it as it. She doesn't love her. And she decided that she canceled her whole trip to go see my, my sister and my sister, both of us have gotten into my sister's a cognitive therapist and has diving deep into this work.

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And I think the blessing of where we've come from is that we it's demanded us to do our inner work. It's demanded us to dive deep into, um, our healing work and discovering what's really, truly going on. And my mother was drunk this morning on the phone, whether it be because she drank so much last night, that she's so hungover, but she literally was, you tell, was slurring her words. And, and I just held her in my heart. I held her in my heart. And I think that oftentimes with family, we think, well, they did this. They, you know, X, Y, and Z, whatever circumstances going on, you know, that we try and make the circumstance wrong or what they did wrong or whatever. But the truth is that what's really going on is people are sad because they're not fully connected and it's just gonna project out.

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We know that no matter what my sister said or didn't say to my mom, my mom probably would find a reason to, to have her trigger come up in her command that her trigger is I'm not wanted and I'm not lovable like so many of ours. Right. And we'll find the case. We're like, um, we're literally like lawyers in the courtroom finding proof for our case. And our case is I'm not a enough, I'm not lovable. You know, one likes me, whatever it is that divided perspective, something's wrong with me. I don't wanna live, you know, whatever the, whatever the command is that has come in through the traumas of this lifetime and in the lineage.

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And as I hold my mother in my heart, you know, some things are out of our control. Yes, we have. Um, my mom has gone through some trauma work. Not very, not very much, you know, a lot of people will say, okay, I'm finally ready to change. And they do two sessions. And they think that, you know, it worked or didn't work. It's a commitment, you know, going in and doing your deep work. We, we have lifetimes of, of work and it takes some time to really, truly get in there and do the work. My mom has actually come a long way. This is very unusual what's going on. But what I know for sure is the perfection of it. And we have to know that, but the perfection of it is that sometimes we make, you know, strides ahead and then we fall down again and then we make bigger strides and we may fall down again.

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And I know in my heart, my mind right now, the perfection of where my mother is, because I know that she has a choice, just like all of us in this lifetime, we're either gonna do our work and break our, our lineage trauma or we're not. And man, it sucks when people don't, but we also have to know the perfection of that. Sometimes people aren't meant to do their true work in this lifetime. And sometimes the next, you know, breakdown demands us to say, I have to change me. And so speaking with my mom this morning, even though she was intoxicated, even though she was in a real upset, she also said a couple things. She said, I'm so alone. What do I need to change? What can I do to change myself? And that's the first time I've ever heard her say that?

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What do I need to do to change myself, to change my life? That's the very first time she said that. And I don't know if she's gonna remember that when she's not intoxicated, but what I know in my heart is that nothing's gonna change until we change ourselves and we can't change our family. But what we can do is we can stand for truth. We can stand for the healing. We can stand with open hearts and tough love sometimes. And I know the same for my son and for all the lineage to come in my family.

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I love my son. I love my sister. I love my father. I love my mother. I love my, my half brothers and sisters. I love my sister, my half sister. I've never met. I have a half sister. I've never met that half brothers and sisters don't even know about. I don't think, but what I know is that the more vulnerable I get, the more transparent I get, the more real and raw I get. The more I get to experience love and depth. So I say, bring it on, bring on the holidays, bring on any breakdown in the family, bring on anything that needs to be healed. Knowing that to just make people wrong is never gonna get us anywhere to wish that our parents are different than they are, is never gonna get us anywhere. When we listen beyond the surface level and we go down deep into the heart, mom, I know that this lifetime has been hard.

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I know that your mother was not able to love you. And I know therefore it was really hard for you to love my sister and I, and I feel that. And I know that you love me anyway. And I know no matter what, that I'm here for you a thousand percent, whether you do your work or whether you don't do your work, I'm holding you in my consciousness as a perfection that you are, you are so loved. You are so loved. You are so loved. And so as you go into the holidays, these, this next couple weeks, you guys, I want you to know that you're loved. I'm actually gonna be holding a call for the community. Um, that's open to the public. That will be Christmas Eve, and it will be 6:00 PM Eastern Saturn time, which means that will be what 3:00 PM Pacific time.

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And it's really to get grounded into knowing that you have family. Even if you, your traditional lineage, DNA family is there for you or not. You need to know that you have a soul family, you have a soul family, and that I'm here for you fully a thousand percent. And as we close out this year and go into the new year, I invite you to know that we all need support. We all need family. And one of the things that I think about when it comes to my mother and to her pain and to her loneliness, what I know for sure in my life is what really has saved my life is handing my life over to service, handing my life over to not wanting to get anything outta life, but wanting to give and bring things to life. The moment that I stop looking to get love and realize that I get to be there for people in love, the moment that I gave up the story that I'm abandoned.

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And I committed to saying, I'm never abandoning anybody. That's when my life changed. And so I'm for you guys. And I declare a powerful holiday season. I declare the most loving holiday season ever for my mother, for my sister, for my son, for my entire extended family. I actually am not going to be with family this year. And I am going to love each. And every one of them, my son just got married and he and his wife are choosing to spend it alone. And you know, my, my family's kind of all over and I'm so excited. I'm gonna have some friends in Florida, and I'm also excited to just have a little bit of downtime. It's been a very busy year. Um, we'll be connecting online. I'll be in nature. I'm gonna do some deep meditation and wrap up some creative projects that I've been working on.

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And I'm thrilled. And I'm so excited knowing that soon, I'm sure I'll be having a grandchild one of these years and we can dive way back into the holidays and do all that traditional stuff. I'm here for each and every one of you guys, I invite you to consider coming into our programs and into our community. We don't, we don't consider our programs, traditional programs. We are committed to creating a movement, committed to creating a family, committed to creating community. And, um, you can, you can go to new, do global.com, check it out. You can DM me, Dr. aaron.tv. Um, D R E R I N, dot TV across social media. And I just invite you as you go into this holiday and whether you're getting triggered or whatever, to yes. Get committed to doing your inner trauma work. But in the interim, you know, having to plan, are you gonna walk outside?

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What are you really committed to? What are your intentions before you go into that dinner with your family, or go on vacation and be staying with your family, you really need to get clear of what you're committed to. And if you're committed to making other people wrong, then the universe is gonna say, and so it is, you're gonna find something to make them wrong about if you're committed to loving unconditionally and being able to, you know, be responsible for your own triggers, then that's what's gonna happen. Okay? You need to get clear before going into the holidays, what you're committed to. And I just know this taking a deep breath in and ex sign out, maybe get real, maybe get vulnerable. Maybe we no longer shame or hide or grieve from what has happened in our lineage. Maybe transmute that energy and become the most powerful, the most loving, the most compassionate spiritual leaders that we are born to be.

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Maybe we know that we're able to look fear straight in the eyes and not even not even blink I'm here. I'm fully here may receive all the good, all the dark. All of it may receive myself fully and be there fully for everyone else. I am so clear right now. I am so grateful for all my lineage trauma. I'm so grateful for all the wisdom and the transmutation and the, and the leader that has demanded me to be, I am so grateful. I am so grateful for the breakdown, the breakthrough, and in this I declare world renowned spiritual leaders in our community, profound, profound masters of understanding, universal loss. I declare with the power of my word, that all emancipation from suffering. I recognize that you may be born of your parents, but you are not born of your parents. You're born of divine. You are born of spirit.

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And that each one of your family members is the opportunity for you to embody love powerful transformation love. And I say, yes, yes, yes. I release this into the law as together we say. And so it is okay, you guys have a beautiful holiday season. Uh, I will shout out on my social media, what we put an email out for that call for Christmas Eve at 6:00 PM Eastern standard time, which means 3:00 PM Pacific time, which means whatever that is. Let's see. That's, um, 3, 4, 5 PM, uh, central time. And yes, yes, yes. Let's do this ask together. We say. And so it is thank you for listening to the Dr. Aaron show. I wanted to personally invite you into a couple things. One, we have a spiritual entrepreneur program that's open up this week and I just wanna remind you guys that we have a huge bonus with it this week.

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The spiritual entrepreneur program is not just about a 12 week program of reprogram your subconscious mind, transforming your trauma and burdening your purpose. It also is a 12 step program to really be able to launch and scale your business online. And we're going way beyond the 12 weeks. We're actually offering an entire year of soul circle calls, support calls with you, because we wanna really build a community with you. We don't want you to just go into a program with us and then be like, see a bye. We actually want you to come into our family and really experience it. And we're offering at such an inexpensive price because we know that there's going to be a lot of people come to that program that will wanna actually rise up and be part of the community. Um, and so we wanna offer it at a ridiculously inexpensive price.

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You can go to new thought global.com and you can go there, um, slash spiritual dash entrepreneur. We can also just DME and we'll get you to link, but there's another huge bonus with it, which is we have a bonus, uh, that ends, uh, this week, that is the 150 K uh, five day challenge launch course. So it's actually gonna teach you how to create your own five day challenge. Or you can say a three day challenge or any kind of value sequence. I teach you everything from how we did ads, how we set the Facebook group, how we did email campaigns, everything front to back, everything, everything I teach, and you don't wanna miss out on that. I have spent $40,000 in a group to get trained in how to do those things. So this is a bonus that ends, uh, tomorrow night by midnight.

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So you wanna make sure that you get that because it's worth it's weight and gold. It's worth 10 times more than even what the actual program for the whole program. And you're gonna get some other bonuses. You're gonna do a two day virtual retreat with me that you can do along with a bunch of other great, incredible things. You're gonna dive into an incredible community to support you. Love you, and have you take a quantum leap in this. Also, I wanna give you a big shout out that guess what I'm officially going to be doing a call in show. So what you can expect from this show is we've had some great series. I've done series on money breakthroughs. I've done series on E four trauma method. I've done series on universal law. I've done so many great. And now it's time for me to do a call in show.

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So you can actually be on the show. We're gonna be doing a video and audio call in and transformation. I'm gonna actually be coaching 1 0 1, taking people through the processes, taking 'em through E four trauma method, teaching universal law, science of mind, metaphysics, everything, and you can get on the show and all you gotta do is you can, uh, go to new thought global. And at the top it says podcast, and you can actually fill out a little form to get on the show, to have a huge breakthrough. And so I'm gonna be doing that. You can also, uh, you can also text or message, uh, at the phone number (323) 538-5646. And this is going to, you can leave a voice message with a question and I can actually play it back and answer it on the show. You can also text in your question and you can also text there to if you wanna get on the show and we'll send you the link.

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Okay. I'm really super excited because guess what? This next year, my commitment is to bring you callin shows and to bring you traditional power talks. Ministerial talks, teaching not God outside of the south, but really, truly metaphysics how you are the creator, how you truly are through the law of attraction, through universal law, through all of it. I'm gonna break it all down for you guys this year. So you do not wanna miss this. Please subscribe, share this show with a friend let's rise together. Let's rise together again. You can go to new thought global.com and you can go to the top to the podcast and fill a little little format and get on the show. Or you can call or text in to three, two, three, five, three, eight, Aaron E R I N. So that's 3, 2, 3 5 3 8 5 6 4 6. Let's do the thing you guys have a beautiful day and may you live your truth?

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(00:01):

This is first live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Are you ready to have a quantum leap in the year 2022? If you are committed to having the most powerful year of your life, then this podcast is for you. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron podcast who come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly believe that when somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. So welcome you guys. This is Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity, founder of new thought global and society, and the winner of the 2020 Walden wisdom award with Oprah Winfrey. And I'm the creator of E four trauma method. Uh, and most importantly, I'm somebody that absolutely loves and is completely passionate to helping develop world renowned spiritual leaders. So let's do this thing. We are just on the cusp of the new year.

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You guys, I am super excited and man, 2021 has been an intense year for me. I'm not gonna lie. It's been a lot of growth. Um, it's been, it's had a lot of, um, ups and downs just because of all the transition of, of the energies, the birthing, the birthing pains of everything going through the spiritual awakening around the world. And for me personally, in business, we've had a lot of growth, a lot of having to build a team and it's been exciting and challenging year at the same time. And I am so incredibly excited for 2022. First of all, 22 is like my, my favorite number. Um, it is a quantum year. It's a quantum number. It's a quantum year and we're gonna break on down right now. What is it gonna truly take for you to have a quantum leap the quantum year?

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Because the truth is this universal law teaches us that we live in a relative universe and that we there's one source and there's one power. And that is the truth of who you are. That creative factor. You are a creator. You are the, I am the full potential, but in this, we recognize that you can either have 22 the year 2022, be a year of spiraling up into the quantum field of, of really being able to be somebody that is the highest version of yourself, or it's gonna be a spiraling quantum year into the, to the abyss, into addiction, stuck patterns, dysfunction, and, and all that. Because the truth is that you're either going one way or the other Einstein said, life is like a bicycle. You're either, you know, puddling moving forward and creating or you're falling off. And that is what we teach in universal law.

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The truth is you're a divine, spiritual being with the power to create exponentially. And so we're gonna break on down. What is it gonna take for you to have a quantum leap in 2022? Because my invitation is for you to come work with me for the year for you to join our community for you to invest in, in your consciousness for you to truly commit to yourself, to having a quantum leap in your personal and professional life. We teach full embodiment. We're not one of those groups. That's like, you know, let me get you to seven figures in, in six weeks and then shoot you out the back end. And then you gotta pay some more for some other course, right? We're a full embodiment community. We, I want you guys to know that what's different about us. Like what is different about new thought global in society?

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One, I just wanna say that we are steeped in a, in a lineage. We have a lineage and we teach, we teach metaphysics. We teach universal law. We teach subconscious reprogramming. Of course we teach E four trauma method. We teach past life regressions and we teach truly the new thought ancient wisdom. So it's not some woo woo thing of some concept of, you know, some coach. And trust me, I love all the coaches out there. And I think all, all growth is good growth. Okay. But what's different about us is we have very specific teachings. We're in alignment with something, you know, at a minimum of 1500 spiritual centers around the world that teach metaphysics and, and our lineage of, um, everything from agape to, you know, unity around the world. We teach, uh, philosophy science and religion. We teach the full spectrum of it because we know that we have to understand all of it to truly become world renowned spiritual leaders.

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Okay. So, um, so quantum leap, first of all, I just wanna say from a science perspective that a quantum leap is a discontinuous transition between quantum states. What this means is that electron in one energy level and an Adam jumps instantaneously into another energy level emitting or absorbing energy as it does. So there's no in betweens, that's the point of a quantum leap. You can't have one foot in and one foot out, okay, that's called hell. I like to call it that like I'm committed, but I'm not committed. I remember being relationships and being like, I'm in it, but I'm not in it. It's like, hell, okay. It's like being, having dreams where you're in it and not in it. It's like I really wanna become a sick figure coach, but I really wanna hang out and just like, just scroll through Instagram and get jealous of other people that is called hell.

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Okay. A quantum leap is where you fully release anything that is not that identity and that consciousness anymore. A quantum leap me leap means that you fully go into that new consciousness. There's no dangling lines left in that old world. There's a full release. There's a full quantum leap, a full jump into consciousness. And we recognize that it's all consciousness that it's all within. Everything on the external world is a vibrational match and the mental equivalent of what's happening within. So in order to have a quantum leap, there has to be a quantum commitment to that consciousness, a decision, a powerful decision in mind to embody a new consciousness. That doesn't mean that you need to know how that's called outlining. We give that up. It doesn't mean that there's well, I'll do that when it's like a linear thinking of like, you know, I'll, you know, I'm gonna do that course.

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And you know, I need more money before I do that. Or, you know, I just can't decide. I took some other courses and it didn't quite work out. There's no considerations, there's no evaluations. Quantum me leap means that you fully embody and commit to a new consciousness. That's a quantum leap. There may be some things leading up to that decision. We go through that through programs, being able to truly release, say your trauma through E four trauma, or, you know, releasing your lineage, ties to your ancestors, releasing all those things. There may be, those are the hows that we do in the processes. Okay. But the point and the truth of the matter is that quantum leaps happen in an instant quantum leaves happen the moment, as we say, in, in the self development world and transformation, the program starts the minute that you sign up.

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And the reason why is because it's actually the decision of the commitment that sets the polarity and the entire thing into effect. You are such a profound, spiritual, uh, crater, that the moment you even consider something, let alone the moment that you decide something, that's when it all happens, that is the quantum leap. And so just, you know, going through this and for 2022, what does this look like? What does this look like to truly take a quantum leap? Because I'm doing it as well. You guys, you know, I look out there. If you see me on social media, I may look like a lone Wolf. I'm alone a lot, but it's not the truth. I have a huge community. We have hundreds of girls in the community. I teach thousands of people across the globe. We have a big team. I've got, you know, we've got, uh, we've got practitioners, a lot of practitioners that I train and develop.

(07:56):

And they all work with the community and teach and do sole circle calls and things like that as well. I have copywriters marketers, you know, my right hand gals. We have enrollment coach. Now we have, we have, um, people that do accounting. I'm online and with community all the time. And yes, we come together and it's been one of the hardest things about the lockdown in LA was that I wasn't physically around people. And for me, the quantum leap, part of that is, is getting back to the heart, getting back to the heart, moving beyond what the world has told us no longer looking to other people on social media, whatever to think, oh my gosh, well, they're doing that. Therefore I should, whatever, no longer looking to certain funnels and going, well, this is how they launch. This is how I should launch. No, it doesn't look like any of that.

(08:43):

In fact, a quantum leap, you have no effing idea what it looks like. So I can sit here and say, what a quantum look leap looks like is it's gonna look like this, this and this for 22. And I'm gonna have all these specific goals. That's not what we teach. What we teach is we teach to have two feet firmly on the ground with specific goals. And we also teach to have our consciousness in the ethereal realm, in the ethereal realm, calling in miracles, calling in way beyond anything. We can even even imagine for ourselves with the Mindy mind. And so in this, I know like what's different, what's different. And why I ask and invite you to work with me for 2022 to come into an incredible community, steeped in truth is because I love you because I know for decades, I searched and I searched and I see it with women that come in, they're like, oh my gosh, I'm so enlightened.

(09:45):

And yet they can't be in the same room with their mother. Oh my gosh, I've done all my trauma. But they get triggered by like the littlest thing. Right? And then a few months into the program, they're like, oh my gosh, I thought I had done the program. And I thought I'd done my trauma until I actually did E four trauma. Oh my gosh. I thought I was so spiritual, but I hadn't actually dealt with my DNA and dealt with the body and dealt with all that stuff. Oh my gosh, I see women and few men come in. They actually they're actually physically transform. They don't even look like the same human being, their essence. Isn't the same, their relationships. Isn't the same. Their businesses begin to thrive. They begin to become somebody who's able. And then once they're able, then they become masters. They become practitioners.

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They become people who literally are people that you're like, I don't know what they have, but I want what they have. Right? They become clear channels. They become people who are able to have downloads directly from divine and be able to have two feet on the ground and be able to do business. Cause we see people that are mystical, but they can't actually even be in the culture. No, we want you completely able on all levels. So quantum leap may look different for you. I'm not saying that we put it in a box and this is what happens. I'm just saying what I've witnessed. I witnessed this all the time. And now also I wanna say that it's not about me. It's not about Dr. Aaron. Our teachings are lineage. It's about universal law. It's about all these things. I'm not the master. Yes. I master my own mind, but I'm not your master.

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And we never teach that to anybody. You are your own guru. You are your own teacher. We're being conduits and, and channels for truth. But you are the one that will only be the ever the only one that will create a quantum leap in your life. And so in this, I recognize what does a quantum leap look like from a universal law perspective? It looks like we align with universal law, whatever it is that you're desiring for 22 year 22 and beyond, we have to be the embodiment. If you want to be somebody that is monetizing your spiritual gifts or getting high end paying clients, you've gotta be willing to pay as a high end client. That's the beautiful universal law of this culture, of this, this industry. If you want to have love, you've got to be love. If you want unconditional love, you've gotta love uncon unconditionally, right?

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Like whatever it is that you want to embody and be, and be in that quantum leap, you've gotta take a look at where do you need to release? You know, there's a spiritual death that happens over and over again. And it's not easy. This is the hardest work you'll ever do in your life. That's why we call it being a spiritual warrior. There's no war. The only war is within. But when you truly are ready for that quantum leap, there are no more excuses. There's no more will I do it? If or I'll do it when there's just a hell yes, there's a hell yes to yourself. And so my invitation for you is to really take this time, take this time to really go, what is it that you truly want to embody? What are you willing to, what do you need to let go of?

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Maybe you're maybe the people that are no longer serving your life, you'd need to look and go, how are you gonna release those people and, and really like hold them in love and just let it be. What are, what needs to die in your life? What spiritual death needs to happen? Maybe you're trying to do it in a particular way. I think I'll do it alone forever. I can do it. I just Google everything. I can YouTube it. I can figure it out. Great. Have at it. It's gonna suck along the way. Trust me. I I've tried it that way. Okay. What is it that you're truly ready to have a quantum leap in and your personal and professional life? And so why me? Why new thought global? Why society? First of all, I just wanna say again, I always say you should follow your heart.

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If there's somebody out there or a community that really speaks to you, go for it. Everybody that's coming, our community generally has known and you know, really prayed for this for a long time. Pray, not to a man of sky, but pray to say what they truly desire in their heart is their destiny. Okay? We have an incredible, extraordinary community. That's based in universal truth. We teach very specific metaphysical teachings that are proven to have profound impact and help people take quantum leaps in their life. And, um, there's a reason why I got the 2020 Walden wisdom award. There's a reason why four has nominated me as 11, most inspirational women to watch on Instagram. There's a reason why, because I've been in this industry and I've been doing this for decades, decades. And, and it's important to be with people that are not, it's not just about some ego thing or they came up with it right now.

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It needs to be based in truth. Okay. And so you have to ask yourself, what's holding you back from your quantum leap. Is it money? Is there the excuse of money? And the crazy thing is people, well, I can't afford it. Well, you can't afford to not have it because you're trying to make money in the industry. You can't afford to not get the tr correct training. Right? I, you know, what's holding me back. Well, it's just not a good time. I'm busy. Trust me when you're truly committed something, you will always find time for it. There's a saying that goes, if you want something done, give it to the busiest man or woman, people that are powerful, know how to direct and, and, and direct energy. That's what we do. That's what we're master at. And so if you want something done, you actually give it to the busiest person that is having the most, you know, the most impact because they're gonna be able to get it done.

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Right? What's holding you back. Are you scared? Because you didn't, you know, complete cycles before? Well, all of our programs are live. They're all live. And that's why I chose to only do live programs because I know I've been there. I've, I've bought the digital programs and they sit in in the back portal and I never go in there. So you have to ask yourself, what are all your excuses? Because if you write down all your excuses, you can take a look at all those excuses. You are like a, a lawyer in court. Your life is like, you have to be the lawyer of your life. And the judge is sitting there. It's your consciousness. Okay? And you can have a case of why you can't do it, or you can make the case that you can do it. You can make the case of all the reasons of why it's not gonna work.

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Why, you know, why you, can't, why you can't afford it, all those things. Or you can make the case of how you can, why 2020 is going to be the most epic year of your life. Why you deserve support, why you deserve to have an incredible community, why it will, why you will succeed. You can make that case and you can make the case. This is universal law. It's up to you. You either think you can, or you think you can't. And the truth is you're going to energize that. You're going to direct that. What I see with people of why, when people take total quantum leaps is a decision is just a decision in mind. They don't ask how they don't try and figure it out. They trust the process and look, and also if it didn't work out, you'd grow too, right? I mean, that's the truth of it.

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That's the total truth. So it's not about you need to give up, well, it'll work only if I hustle or, um, you know what, it'll only work. If I do X, Y, and Z on social media. And I just can't do that. Whatever the excuse is, whatever the box is that you're putting into, I invite you. I invite you to have a spiritual death. I invite you to release all that questioning and trying to figure it out. That is going to kill the biggest thing that kills dreams is trying to figure out the how. And so in this, I just say why now, because this is your life. It's not dress rehearsal. Why now? Because there's only, now there's not time or space in spiritual realm. Why now? Because the only transgression is to be stagnant and not create why now, because with no reason why now, and the question is, why not now?

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And whatever you fill in that blank with those are the exact things that are holding you back is exactly what you need to just allow and release to the universe. So again, why should you trust me? You don't have to trust me, but I have a true proven track record with hundreds and thousands of women that I've trained. And we literally have women that have gone from making nothing to making $40,000 a month. Okay. That's not standard. Okay. We have women that were having up and down months. And, uh, once they learned E four trauma method, once they they're having consistent, consistent months with tons of clients coming in, why trust? Because you have to trust the universe, you have to trust the process. Okay. So how does it work? You guys, 20, 22, let's do this thing. You guys let's powerfully say yes to 22.

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I would love to work with you. I'd love to have you in the community. I'd love to, to, you know, take this journey with you. It would be so epic and so amazing. I'm so excited for 2022. First of all, everything's live. So you're gonna be with me every single week. It doesn't matter if you are, um, in whichever program, you can take a discovery call. You can book a discovery call, and basically we don't do sales. We basically look and really get clear of what you're really committed to and what it is that you truly desire. And we're not gonna, we're not going to invite you into a program if we don't feel like it's an alignment, why would we, we be out of our own spiritual ethics. Okay. But the discovery call, you're gonna really discover what is it that you truly desire?

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What is it that you really are committed to creating in your life and your personal professional life? What are you ready to truly could be committed to, to, uh, healing in your life and transforming your trauma, right? All those things. So, first of all, no matter which program you're in, you're gonna be in live calls with me every week. We do. I train you as a CEO of your personal professional life. And basically we go on 12 week stints for the quarters and we take a week off at the end of each quarter, we do, we celebrate, we set our goals at the beginning. We fully develop you in all the inner work, doing trauma work, doing transformational work, doing universal law, doing all that stuff. So you can really, really become the most clear releasing of all the limited beliefs and embodying the, I am the most powerful identity that you are.

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And in the business stuff, we go through the six most trusted, proven system in the industry. I give you everything you guys really truly breaking through and all your skill set, being able to position yourself as an expert in the industry, being able to bring value to people, being able to transform your life, being able to build your business on a gradient. Okay. And if you're up in the upper things, getting trained and certified and accredited, we have an accreditation now in E four trauma method and also in the master spiritual psychology coaching program, and then the practitioner and so on and so forth. So you just have to trust the process. If you're somebody that you've been listening to this podcast, and you're like, you know what? I, I get so much outta this podcast, but you're ready to go to the next level.

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I invite you. I would love to spend the year with you. I'd love to spend 20, 22 and beyond. I want you and my family forever. You know, we have people in our program that are partnering up that are building things together that are gonna be working forever. Some people wanna do their own platform. Some people wanna synergize, but that you don't have to worry about. You get to just say, yes, you get to say yes, our programs are amazing. You guys, we have really well priced things. We're not outta control at all. And I invite you. I invite you to book a discovery call, see what's there for you. We're gonna dive deep. We also have two day virtual retreats each quarter. So we're gonna dive deep into E four trauma method. We dive deep into quantum consciousness, um, transformation. We dive deep into breakthroughs and money.

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We dive deep into relationship mastery and ending all discord. Cuz one of the number one things we see with people is their dysfunction and codependency impacting their ability to be successful and bringing their spiritual gifts to the world. So we do all that. We have recovery calls and soul circle calls and triad calls. So you can get, um, people get, um, testimonials when they're in different programs and stuff. So we're committed worth. I'm a thousand percent committed to you taking a quantum leap in 2022, because guess what? I'm taking a quantum leap, baby. Watch me. I am so incredibly excited because the world needs truth. The world needs truth. The world is so ready for this teaching. It is the most mystical, magical truth on this planet. I hand my life over to it. And the reason why I am absolutely committed to it is because it gave me my life. It gave me my life. I would never be the woman I am. I would never be the friend I am. I'd never be the mother. I am. I would never be any of that without this work. I am so grateful. I am so grateful. So let's take a deep breath into the nose.

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Exiling out. I'm just knowing a quantum leap for 2022. I'm knowing no matter what it is that there's the, I am that there always is that creative factor and it can create a quantum leap of spiraling up into the heavens. It can create also a spiraling down into the abyss. And I say, may we create exactly what we truly desire to create? I know quantum leap, I know great, incredible community, thriving and growing and having prosperity and vitality and, and great relationships. I declare 20, 22 a year that we come together in the heart and in the mind, and then the global community and also in person I declare right here and right now to have the greatest community on this planet, I am positive. And knowing that these are the teachings, the greatest, greatest teachings ever to be set free, to end the emancipation from suffering and to truly be able to be the divine power that each and every one of us is.

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I simply know this, I release it. My word has been spoken. It is law. I simply release as together we say. And so it is okay, you guys. So there is a five day challenge that happens Monday through Friday. This week, it will be on zoom. You can actually DM me on social media or you can go to new thought global, uh, dot com slash five day challenge. And you can check it out there. Um, otherwise, um, you can just book a discovery call. You can go on the website and book a discovery call. I'm so incredibly excited. We're gonna do some goal setting, quantum leap goal setting also between now and the first of the year. And, um, it's on, it is on you guys. I'm giving you my heart, my soul, all this teachings, every last drop of it. I am so excited to have you in my life as my friend and all the above. Okay. Have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth?

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This is

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First live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea, coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Do you feel alone? Do you feel like no matter what you do, whether you're in a relationship, not in relationship, your career's going well, you have a community. You don't have a community. You live in a certain city. You don't live in a certain city that no matter what is going on, there's a common theme, which is loneliness. Well today's podcast. We're gonna break on down. Why a majority of human beings feel alone on this planet. So welcome to Dr. Aaron podcast. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with the universal law. We truly know and believe that when somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. So let's do this thing. I'm Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity trained, developing world, renowned spiritual leaders, teaching everything from subconscious reprogramming, the famous E four trauma method and helping people birth their truth.

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We develop spiritual coaches, uh, spiritual practitioners and yes, ministers teachers and doctors of divinity. So let's break this one down. If you're new to this podcast. Welcome, we do have a lot of series on this podcast. You can go back and you can break on down money, breakthrough there's things on E four trauma method. You can find the entire truth triangle, all kinds of series on this podcast. I've chosen to do a solo podcast for quite some time now, and it's been an incredible journey shortly. I am going to begin to do coaching and interviews and all kinds of new dynamics. I've really enjoyed doing a solo podcast because after doing good morning LA land and interviewing 3,600 people, I wanted to just come on and bring my heart here. And it's time that we're gonna be going past the solo podcast. And so I wanna hear more about what you want to hear about who you want me to interview and what coaching you want me to break on down.

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So let's do this today, though. The topic and title of today's podcast is you are not alone. So stats show that majority of human beings feel alone, three outta five, consider themselves to feel lonely majority of the time throughout their lives in America and across the board. I think this is a common collective consciousness. So we're gonna break this on down today in that I wanna talk about how being alone is part of the spiritual awakening process, how to use loneliness to launch you beyond your DNA and how to thrive alone. Even during the holidays. No matter when you're listening to this there's holidays across all the year. And it's important to know that loneliness is one of the greatest gifts, because it is a call for a deeper, deeper relationship with th myself. So I wanna talk about this because as you guys know, I just moved and I, I am over in west Palm beach, Florida, and it, it feels like I've moved to a completely different country from Los Angeles.

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It is a very big move for me. And I found myself, um, having moments, like, I'd say 2% of the day where I'm like, oh my gosh, what have I done? Like I've left, you know, the thousands of relationships that I have the, uh, grounding in California, where I was born and raised. And it's been an interesting thing. And then 98% of the time I have been in total bliss and really loving this move. It's only been a week. So I wanna talk to you a little bit about loneliness because loneliness was an ongoing theme of my life. For many, many years. I would find myself being lonely, even at a party. I'd find myself being lonely when I was in a relationship, or even when I was married, I found myself feeling lonely and it is an epidemic. And in fact, now Harvard studies show that since the pandemic that 51% of even say, I, I believe it's young mothers feel extremely lonely, so there's different levels and gradients of feeling lonely, right?

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You can feel lonely on occasion. You can feel lonely, whatever, and then you can feel alone and, and really have it be a major issue in your life. So no matter where you are on the spectrum, whether you kind of deal with it here and there, or whether it's an ongoing theme of your life or whether it is becoming an issue and, and really having you spiral down today's podcast is gonna break on down what is loneliness and what's really going on from a soul perspective and what we can do about it. Okay. So again, being lonely, I remember in high school, I remember it was a Friday night and I didn't have plans. And I remember thinking my life has ended. I have no social life. Something's wrong with me. And I felt completely alone because I hadn't figured out how to be my own best friend and how to be with my own essence.

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Right. We also have loneliness. Uh, you know, I was out with some friends last night and we're talking about the holidays and they're like, are you gonna see your family for the holidays? I said, well, my family's a little bit different. I would say maybe once every three years we spend the holidays together. Once every three years, maybe I may even be completely alone for the holidays. And one outta three years, maybe I might be, you know, with friends for the holidays. So it kind of varies a lot over the course of my life. So I wanna break on down what to do during the holidays, whether it's July 4th, whether it's Christmas, where it's new, year's what do you do if you're alone, right? And then also wanna break down, um, how to go past your DNA, how to thrive pastor DNA. Because part of it is, is being alone is actually part of the process.

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And we recognize this even from, uh, some of the great, the great, great Henry David Thoreau, who actually went into the, the woods for two years, two months and two days, and how the awakening that happened and the transcendence that happened out of that. So let's break this on down. So here I am, I'm in a new city, a new state in which feels like a completely different country. And so I've spent a bit of time alone this week. I've been at the beach early about sunrise. I get up and I go down to the ocean and it's very dynamic here. The weather is incredibly gorgeous. There's wind and there's rain. And then there's sun and there's clouds. And there's actually rainbows. There's incredible. It's so mystical here. And I've had a lot of time to reflect on the feeling of loneliness. What is that what's really going on?

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And in new thought wisdom and in new thought global and, and society, we teach oneness. That's our primary principle, right? So it's the unification of self with all of life. And anytime we are feeling lonely, it's because we are not in that essence, that true essence of who we are, the divinity, the truth is that you are not alone. It's impossible to be alone. Yes, it can be physically. You can look to the world and we call that the sin. If you place the energy out into the world, then you will feel alone. You can feel alone. Even if you're in a crowded room of people. The truth is when we tap into that source within then we are in that oneness. We are we're with all relationship, cuz all of life is a relationship. Whether it be our relationship to, to our family that may not even be physically with us, whether it be a relationship with our higher self, with all of people, with the sand that's beneath our feet, that we're, we're constantly in a relationship with all of life.

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And so that's the truth. So how is being alone part of the spiritual process? Well, I wanna refer to a, uh, really great documentary. I watched years ago, it, it was called deep water and it was a, a documentary about a true story. In 1968, they had, um, there was like a, uh, a race and what happened was pretty much wealthy. Men came together and decided they were going to sail across around the world in a yacht. Right? So each man, these wealthy men were basically gonna get media. If you will, to see who could actually complete the race and who could do it the fastest. And it's a true story about one of the gentlemen that entered the race with somebody who was not an avid sailor, he did not really know how to do it. And he really did it more from what the documentary shows is kind of out of his ego.

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He wanted to prove that he could sail around the world. He also wanted to win the, the pot, which was a lot of money. And, um, it was a lot of ego going into it. And there was, they began to showcase these different men that were going in this race around the world. And it was profound because what happened was obviously back then, they didn't have all the documentation like they do today, but they had letters and things that the men wrote out at sea. And the gist of it is that when you're alone, you are faced, you're faced with your demons. You're faced with, with everything good and bad within you. And what happened is the men began to get stripped away of their identity, the stripped away of their material, you know, identity and their friends and their family and their status. And all they were left with was themselves, themselves with nature themselves, to face their own insecurities, their fears, their darkest of darkest within themselves.

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And what was profound about it was one, the gentleman, Donald a Crowhurst I believe was his name. Um, I believe that he either, I mean, you could say he died at sea. You could also say he committed suicide because it really is a choice of, you know, to go out there and subconsciously know that you're not prepared for something. Right. And I believe that he, um, I believe that he transitioned at sea and what happened for the other men was profound because there was one gentleman and I'm not sure if this is a hundred percent correct. It's been some years since I watched this, but the gentleman that actually won the race, he won the race, he had made it the fastest. And he, he actually, what he did was he actually gave away the pot, the winning the winning amount to the second guy, because I think that he, something like he was struggling financial or something like that.

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And or he gave it away to the family. I think he gave it away. The family that suffered from the gentleman that, that had transitioned at sea and the gentleman that won didn't come back. He actually, I got chills right now. He actually chose to keep sailing around the world again. And I think that for me, the reason why was because he realized none of this matters, we're up to a lot of stuff in this world that really doesn't matter this status, this class, these material things. And it's one of the hardest lessons to learn. And it's the common thing that I'm, I'm having come through in the community right now. What's the meaning, what's the meaning of this. And isn't that the point of why we feel lonely because it we're, why are we doing this right? Why are we here? Who really cares about us?

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What do we really care about? That's really the feeling of loneliness, the feeling of, of not knowing what we're here to do. There's no mission there's. And even the mission is kind of like, why do we even have this mission? Right? It begins to, we begin to be like a boat that goes out to sea that no longer has, um, uh, a grounding thing. We're no longer attached. We don't see land in front of us. We don't see land behind us. We're just floating out there and it can be very disturbing. It can be extremely disturbing. But what happens is something happens profound in a spiritual realm. We no longer are of this world. We're no longer of these SP of these material belongings. We no longer care about our status. We no longer care about how many followers we have. We no longer care about any of that.

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What matters is the true essence of life? This thing that is no longer identified of this body, we're no longer identified of any of these things. We're free. And it is, uh, paradox, right? The moment you realize you're free, you're actually not attached to anything. And that's the beauty and the blessing of going past this concept of being alone. And so my heart goes out right now for anybody listening to this, that's feeling lonely. Trust me, I know it very well. And I also want you to know that this is a divine masterclass that you're in. And that feeling lonely is one of the greatest blessings you can ever have because it demands you to fall in love with myself. It demands you to look at the beauty right in front of you. It demands you to know that you don't, you're not tied to anything, even our, even if you're in, you know, a, a deep relationship at some point in time in this lifetime, when somebody transitions, you have to say goodbye, we, we are born alone and we die alone. And yet we're never alone. We're one with everything, right?

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So I just wanted to just talk about a few more things, right? So last night I was at this beautiful, um, dinner with seven people. And what's interesting about the area that I've come to. That spirit has called me here. Right? And it was interesting because being in Los Angeles and being around so many people, I mean, I interviewed 3,600 people over the last, you know, years and good morning LA land. I had just tons of influencers all around me. And a lot of my friends moved to Austin. Um, they moved around all over the place, some to Florida as well, all over. And I, I did, I want, I don't wanna say I felt lonely in Los Angeles because I don't feel lonely, but I found myself isolating more and more because my friends were either not in town anymore, or people began to get really used to being in their homes and alone.

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So I found myself spending a lot more time alone. I used to spend a lot of time, years ago alone before I moved to Los Angeles, which was one of the reasons why I had a huge spiritual awakening because of my loneliness. I'm so grateful for him. But the conversation last night was interesting because people were asking me, you know, why did you choose here? And, and you know, what brought you here and all this stuff. And it was interesting because one thing that happened in Los Angeles is being around a lot of influencers. I began to watch people. And what I noticed was people would make friends with people, primarily let's face the fact because they had more followers than them. I witnessed this over and over again. Uh, a lot of, uh, groups I was in, I would watch people just go outta their way to make friends with people, particularly that had really big followings.

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And sure, I'm sure that, you know, we all, you know, have a lot in common and we're spiritual entrepreneurs or influencers and things. And so of course you're gonna wanna hang out people that have common interests and things like that. And I can get that. But what I also found is that they only had friends that had more followers. If in fact, if you had less followers than you, they than them, they would not, um, you know, even look at you and if you had more followers in them, then they would make sure to go outta their way to be, you know, friendly and ni. And it was really kind of fascinating. And I don't wanna say it, uh, you know, it was negative because it just was what it was. But for me, I really enjoy. And one of my core values is loneliness.

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It's that, that new adventure of being alone and, and allowing divine to spark, whatever is new. And, you know, in lifetimes, there's different lifetimes. You have there's and there's different chapters in your life. I've had chapters when I've had so many people and so much social, uh, you know, socialization and community around me. Obviously I'm around a lot of people because I have a big community online, but it's different in person. I'm a very, I'm, I'm very, um, one on one, I prefer to be one on one with friends and family than being in groups. I don't care for reunions. I go to family reunions and I don't feel as fed in my soul as I do when I just go meet, you know, Sam just with my father or just with, um, my sister or just whatever I enjoy one-on-one time. And you'll know that for my friends, I'll spend a lot of one-on-one time with friends.

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I don't, I don't care for parties. I don't care for gatherings. It's just the way I am. And so the point is last night, I'm sitting here with these people and they they're asking me why I came here and why I came here was because spirit called spirit called for me to be alone again, spirit called for me to find that and be with mother nature more. And that's why I'm going every single morning, um, to the beach. So the point is, is here is how to use loneliness to launch you beyond your DNA. And here I was at a table with, um, a couple of gentlemen were from India and, um, they had Hindu upbringings. And one of the things about the culture that I found in the east in particular is there's a lot of, a lot of DNA ties, right? You have a lot, lot of positioning around where you are in your family.

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And it's beautiful. A lot of bonding, a lot of close, uh, fam familial ties, which are beautiful. And I also find that like, my family's very different. We're very independent and everyone has their own lives. And, and sometimes we get together for holidays and lots of times we don't and there's freedom in that as well. And so the point is, is that how you can use your loneliness to go beyond your DNA is that it's imperative to know that in order to have a spiritual awakening and go beyond your lineage, you need to spend time without your family. You need to spend time all of that to just be with your true spirit, to be with yourself. And this is, I think what, um, uh, Henry David Thau taught us when he went to, into the woods for two years, two months, and two days there was an awakening.

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And there was something that was said in, in our lineage and spirituality to recognize the beauty of the breakdown of being alone. You know, there's another movie it's called into the wild, and it's a gentleman that goes a young gentleman, goes into the wild, and it is this spiritual awakening, but there's also this kind of insanity that happens. It goes because we go beyond what we've known and we have to die to be reborn truly and truly. And so just like Henry David through road, just like Emerson, just like into the wild, just like into the deep water, this documentary, there is something that happens in that loneliness. And so my invitation for you is to embrace the loneliness, to embrace that part of yourself. That's gonna go beyond the DNA. So I wanna read this little, um, thing off of, uh, that was on Instagram the other day by Dr.

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Steven li. And he says, your DNA is designed to listen to the world around you. The human DNA helix is covered with switches that tell the DNA how to express itself. It's an incredibly intelligent machine that is influenced more by environment than by the cards you're dealt. And this is the truth is that we choose to put ourselves in the environment we're in your DNA is this intelligent thing to respond to. What's going on. He says, if you suffer health issues, don't blame your genes, examine your environment very carefully. And so the reason why I actually choose to not be lonely, but to be alone at times with just mother nature. And my soul is to reset the pure potential of my DNA. What I find is when I'm around a lot of people, we have mirroring cells and we are influenced by who we hang out with.

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It's impossible to not be what environment we're in. We get into a stuck state. It's important to pattern, interrupt, and go into being lonely and being alone at times for even your DNA. That's my personal spiritual perspective. It's important to reset so that when we go back into our environment, we can start from fresh. We're not just in social construct, that is holding us energetically in ties. And so my invitation and the truth is you are not alone. You are one with everything and everyone, you're one with every person you've ever been in contact with. You're one with your entire family. You're one with the stars. You're one with the ocean. You're one with mother nature. You're one with technology. You're one with all of it, because all of it is, is a relationship you're constantly communicating all the time with all of it. And so being alone is imperative for your spiritual awakening.

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Being alone is imperative for you to know by self and to be demanded, to go within to that heart. That space that is filled with joy within stop, resisting being alone. Loneliness is a perspective of what you're seeing in the senses. Being alone is a blessing to go within and to dive deep into your spiritual nature, close your eyes, be in nature. Find that oneness experience that oneness. And when you fill your cup is filled over with the knowing of the oneness of you being one with all of life right here, right now, not physically need to be with anything that is when you are untouchable, you are unstoppable. You are the one divine, and you can go back into any situation with anybody and be able to bring so much to the, to life. And so how to thrive alone, definitely during the holidays. I think it is a blessing take this time. If you're alone during the holidays, to know myself, to fall in love with yourself, to date yourself, to do those creative factors that you've not been able to do, become your own best friend, light, that candle, take yourself to a dinner, do whatever it is to love myself and know myself, spend time in nature and know that you are not alone. You are so loved.

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And so the reason why I chose west Palm beach, instead of going and plopping into, you know, an influential community and say Austin or something like that is because I just really feel that the mother nature speaks to us. And wherever it is that speaks to you on this planet, that is so important. Mother nature, your subconscious mind, the divine mind has the intelligence to know that you can, you, this whole world is your world. Every place is home. Home is where the heart is. And if you don't find your, and based in truth, based in unity, based in that, you'll never feel home anywhere. And so I simply know, may you go into the deep, may you go into that deep well within and know yourself so greatly that there's no such thing as loneliness. There is a alone in the beauty of being alone in that presence, that power, that passion, that purpose.

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And so I just say, yes, yes, yes. To that. May you know the truth. May you feel at home within your own skin, your own heart, and may you be set free, have a beautiful day. You guys may, you know the truth. Also we are having a five day challenge coming up. If you've not registered, I'd love for you to come in there. We give so much content. If you've had a spiritual calling and you truly want to monetize your spiritual gifts, um, you want to make it to this five day challenge. It is imperative. You're gonna meet your besties and you will meet other people that will have you realize that you're not alone. You have an incredible community waiting for you with open arms, okay. Have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth. Thank you for tuning in to the Dr.

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This is first live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea, coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth? Are you addicted to love, or do you wonder if one of your friends is addicted to love? What is love addiction and how do you know, how do you know what is happening in your life and in your love or in your non love life? If you are interested in discovering what love addiction is an are you addicted? You wanna listen to this podcast, welcome to the Dr. Aaron podcast. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly believe and know that when somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world.

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So I am a doctor of divinity. Why we consider ourselves doctors is because we truly heal to revealing truth. And I absolutely know what it is like to be in the suffering and in the dysfunction and in the addiction of love. So today I wanna just answer that one question. Am I addicted to love? I'll never forget the day. I asked myself that question. I was in a tumultuous relationship and I remember focusing on him over and over and over again, thinking if he changed, if he healed, if he did all of his work, then everything would be good and I'll never forget it. I was, um, I was in a codependency meeting. It was a 12 step meeting and I was talking to a friend in there and I think he asked me something like, how are you? What's going on? And I began to rattle off all the things that was happening with, uh, with the man. I was in a relationship. He did this. He said that, oh my gosh, can you believe it? And I'll never forget. He looked at me and he said, what are you gonna start focusing on him? What are you gonna stop focusing on him? And why don't you start focusing on yourself?

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Bam, shut the whole entire stop me in my tracks. It was like a, it was like a screeching halt in a race car, making skid marks across the racetrack. What? Me? No, even though I was even in codependency meeting, I still was there to try and think that I would change myself to fix him. You know, that's how sick I was. So today you may be asking yourself, am I addicted to love? And as you guys know, I work with soul-based entrepreneurs, spiritual coaches. And so you may be asking why are talking about love addiction, right? The point is this, is that what I have found with working and developing thousands of people across the globe is that until they deal with their relationship issues, they do not have true, um, true success in, in their personal professional life. And, um, I'm also here, as you guys know, to say that the concept of relationship in our culture is something that is very limited.

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And I have met people that are not in relationship that can be the most healthy, thriving human beings. Um, and I've met people who are in marriages that could also be the most miserable people I've ever met and vice versa. I've met people in loving relationships, completely thriving, and I've met single people, completely miserable. So I do not believe in a title or a relationship status to be somebody that is healthy in relationship. I truly believe that the ultimate relationship is with your higher self it's with divine it's with that aspect of yourself. And I was actually on a conversation in a meeting the other day with someone who said, they'd actually had a, a marriage with themselves. They actually had a ceremony marrying themselves as their partner in this life. And being able to fully be expressed and be in relationship, but being fully complete as themselves.

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And I'm not here to say that's good or bad, or, you know, we should be, you know, let go of gender and become X, whatever. I don't, I don't have an opinion. I think that each person has a freedom of choice to decide what works for them in relationship and whatever it is for them to fully, um, be in self love and fully at peace and fully in expression and connection at the same time. So why do we care about answering the question? Am I addicted to my relationship? Am I addicted to love? Am I codependent? What's going on? How do I figure this out? So one, some of the signs, I'll just say that after I'll work with a CEO or a single mother or whatever it may be. And what I find is that, um, the people who are addicted to love generally are it's impacting their life.

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It's impacting their life in whether they are being a roller coaster with their emotions. So they're not being able to focus on the present moment, wherever they are. So addiction tends to have people basically, um, be thinking about the past or be thinking about the future. Is it gonna happen? Is it not gonna happen? Right? Or they're not present right here. And I remember specifically, so some of the signs that I went through were this, I remember, um, like looking at my phone a lot. Has he texted, has he not texted? What did he say in that text? What is he doing? And I'd be like, almost compulsively wondering where is he at? What's he doing? You know, is he lying? Is he telling me the truth, all the stuff. And, um, some of the signs, I just remember being, um, I would, I would, we'd get to, as we call it the vicious cycle or the merry-go-round.

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And there was times when I would basically get so, uh, entangled with him and enmeshed with him that I would lose track of all my other friends and family. I literally would like almost morph into a different universe, almost like a heroin addict. When they take drugs, they become euphoric. They kind of let go of everything. Oh, food, money, family, friends, none of that matters only this, this, um, you know, substance over here, this love addiction over here. And then the merry-go-round would complete it cycle. And then we would break up or have some dysfunctional thing. And then I would slam back into reality, just like the heroin addict that just can't get the next hit. Right. It's like withdrawals and feel like crap. And all of a sudden you're like, oh my gosh, I, you know, I need friends and family and I need to make money and I need all these things.

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Right? So some of the ways you can tell if you are addicted to love is because you're having a negative, negative impacting your life, you know, straight up. Okay. It also can be where, um, to go further with it, because I've gone to the opposite side where, what we call it is being an anorexic and love addiction. Okay. So you'll see this, um, even with, you know, entrepreneurs and impacts people I work with, um, and it's impacted myself where, when you deny yourself of love and connection and you just go, well, I'm just gonna not have any dysfunction whatsoever. I'm not gonna even date at all. And therefore, what happens is your soul slowly dies. It's like literally the anorexic that stops eating and you, you know, the life starts getting sucked outta them. They start turning pale and they have no nutrition and they're alive, but barely.

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So it's the same with that going to that spectrum. And are you addicted to your relationship or addicted to not having a relationship, right? Is it negatively impacting your life? And what happens is, uh, what happens with working, say with someone who's trying to sustain a multiple six figure company or something, and they're denying themselves of love and connection and expression, they put into box. It has to be a certain way. They're not good enough. And they just keep pushing people away, keep pushing away. They're basically, you know, total anorexic in it. And, um, what happens is the soul begins to die. I know it, well, I I've done it, you know? And, um, and you begin to basically just your, your whole mojo, if you will, your whole thing begins to go down, right? Your, your entire zest for life begins to go down.

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If you don't have some love and expression, it doesn't have to be in the construct of say a relationship. It doesn't have to be, but you need to be around relationship. Whether it be friends, whether it be, um, you know, loved ones, whether it be whatever you begin to just die a little bit. So how do you know, you know, and answer the question, am I addicted to my relationship? Well, addiction is really easy to define, and it is, is it negatively impacting your life? You know, there's a spectrum of addiction. You can be an addiction where things are beginning to become negatively impacted. And there, then there's a little bit further, right? Where it's like, um, yeah, this isn't working like truly, and truly, you're either getting so upset in your relationships that you can't focus or get anything complete, you know, or it's just beginning to you're dying just because you're denying yourself of everything. Right? So roomy has a quote, the famous roomy. He says your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.

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I think that so often in our lives, we seek somebody to fulfill us, to complete us as Jerry McGuire. You know, the famous saying in, um, Jerry McGuire, you complete me. And in meta, in mind, science and mind, we teach that if you place your power outside of yourself, you will be disempowered. It's that simple. It's 1 0 1 of metaphysics. The moment that you place your power outside yourself, or put your relationship as your higher power, or put a substance or put your career, or put your status or put your age, or put your body or put anything outside of yourself, you actually will become disempowered. That is the power of consciousness. So the goal in all of life and in love and in relationship, whether it be with your friends or your family, or your peers, or, um, a intimate relationship or a sexual relationship or a dating relationship or a marriage or whatever, because all of life is a relationship.

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The goal is to have love, connection, and expression. Everyone. I don't care who you are, everybody. Every soul that is, that is the glue of unity. That is the glue of oneness. That is what we teach. That is our primary principle in new thought global and in the new thought movement. So are you addicted to love? Addicted to love is basically a tug of war. I want it. I don't want it. I gotta have it. I can't have it. I love you. I wanna break up. Oh my gosh. I wanna seek my per person and then finding everything wrong with them. A girlfriend, me sent a really funny meme the other day. It was like two pictures next to each other. And on one side, the woman's like, I really wanna find my person. And then on the other, uh, side, the picture she's sitting across from this guy and he is eating food.

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And she's like, this MF is, you know, look at how he is chewing. Like she's like disgusted and out of there, right? And the point is, this is that addiction is a tug of war. You can't have it. You can't not have it. You want it. You don't want it. It's back and forth. It's in and out. It doesn't work in and it doesn't work out. Right? It's like the heroin addict. It doesn't, it's not gonna work for them to be on heroin. And then the minute they aren't on heroin, it doesn't work for them to not have heroin, right. It's back and forth. It's all that. It's all or nothing, everything. So are you addicted to love how you really, the way to define being addicted to love is defining not being addicted to your relationship. Sorry, how we figure out if you are addicted to your relationship is looking at what it looks like to not be addicted to a relationship, to not be addicted to a relationship means that you don't make them your source, that you're able to be happy, fulfilled, and peaceful, regardless of what someone else is doing.

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And you might think, well, that's impossible. How could I be okay if somebody is cheating line or you know, doing drugs or whatever it may be. That's not what we're saying. We're not saying a healthy relationship would also have you put yourself in an environment where you don't thrive. Okay. So it means that you don't put them as your higher power. You don't put them as your source. You take full responsibility for your fulfillment, for your peace and for your joy. What does it look like to be in a healthy relationship? It looks like to accept them exactly as they are. I saw a little, uh, post on Instagram. I think it was yesterday. And it said something like, here's a relationship hack for your ladies out there. It said, imagine your man, you know, or woman or partner, doesn't matter if you're gay, straight, whatever. It doesn't matter. It's all gonna be the same. Um, imagine they have a, a tattoo on their forehead that says as is right. So what it looks like to be in a healthy relationship is to love somebody exactly. As they are unconditionally with healthy boundaries. That's what it looks like to be in a healthy relationship. What does it look like to be in a healthy relationship?

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It looks like you being somebody that's not resisting. What is right. We try and fix change, you know, transform heal. Oh my gosh. If you just went to therapy. Oh my gosh. If you just didn't watch too much TV. Oh my gosh. If you just didn't do that, whatever, then it'll all work out. Let me fix him. Let me change him. Let me heal him. Let me transform home. And we recognize in metaphysics at what we persist. So as long as you're resisting anything and not accepting people exactly as they are, you're gonna suffer. And guess what? They're not gonna wanna change even more because you're resisting it. So what does it look like to be in a healthy relationship? It looks like to accept somebody exactly as they are and not try and change. 'em that's what it looks like. What does it look like to be in a healthy relationship?

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Well, you know, I think so. Oftentimes we find what's wrong with people and we, you know, and this is the commonality after interviewing, working with people and helping so many people find peace, whether it be single, whether it be in a relationship, whether it be in marriage, whether it be with multiple partners, everyone has their own level of peace and expression. Okay. So, so what it, what it means is, is to find your truth, to truly find your truth and to be clear of what that is a healthy relationship looks like. You're not looking for someone to complete you, right? Like, because people are gonna be stupid sometimes, right? Like what does it look like to be in a healthy relationship? Right? So if you're asking yourself, am I addicted to love? Am I addicted to my relationship? If you are trying to fix somebody, if you're trying to change somebody, if you are, um, if your relationship is impacting your personal or professional life, if it's impacting your health, if it's impacting and, and holding your energy, if it's holding your energy.

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I remember, um, in my addiction being so obsessed with thinking about him, like, if even if I broke up, I would be thinking about, you know, how he did X, Y, and Z, how he cheated, how he said this and how he lied and how did it was running like a tape machine going through my head. And so we understand and know through all the other podcasts and things, that trauma is the most important thing, because trauma is what's projecting into your relationships and it goes something like this, I'm not enough. I'm not worthy of love. I can't do this. I'll never find somebody that is, you know, that works for me. I'll never find a soulmate. It looks like it's commands. We all have commands. We all have identity. And it plays out like a broken record in our relationships. Right? So for me, my command and my identity and relationship for majority of my life was I'm not lovable.

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And what would happen is no matter what they did, even in, you know, some of the healthier relationships I was in, where they truly did love me. I couldn't believe it. I wouldn't believe it no matter what, no matter what they said, no matter if they did anything, um, I would never believe it because I, I didn't believe that they truly love me. So I was always looking, I was looking through the veil. I was looking through that lens of you don't love me. So no matter what they did, I would find proof. It's like being in a lawyer in court, right. You're either, you're, you're, you're making a case for one side or the other. Right. You can make a case to say, somebody loves me, or you can make a case to say they don't love me. And you'll find proof regardless. So in relationship, people are always, they have their kind of set thing.

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It's subconscious always. Right. And it may look like, um, you know, I'm not worthy of love. It may look like everyone cheats. It may look like whatever it may be, and they will find whatever proof they need to make sure that that is a self-fulfilling prophecy. So again, you know, are you addicted to love? I would say that if you even have to ask this good question, then yes. At whatever level, I'm not sure. But what I know for sure is that if you are in our culture whatsoever, you most likely have addictive behavior at some level, very few people don't, it's probably nine outta 10 people do. And so if you're asking the question, most likely it's yes, because until someone truly finds source within, until they seek the kingdom and the kingdom within and her or his righteousness, all things will be added, right?

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So until then, no things will be added. You cannot have love until you cannot have love until you truly love myself. Let me say that for the third time, you cannot have love until you truly love yourself. And when you love yourself, it's okay. Whether you date or not, whether you are married or single, whether you are gay or straight, whether you are alone or around the most amazing person, until you find that love within you will always be alone. You can be married and be alone. You can be in the relationship with the greatest person. And you will find your way of thinking that you are divided, that something's wrong with you, that you are not lovable. That you'll never be enough. Trust me. I know it so well. Are you addicted to love? Are you addicted to your relationship? If you even ask that question, the question itself answers just like we say, in prayer, prayer in prayer is the answer because in prayer and even asking and inquiring into the possibility of what, what it is that you're seeking, you become that, which you seek in the consciousness. The prayer is the answer. The prayer is the answer. If you have to ask the question, am I addicted to my relationship? It already a answers it because it is in the mental equivalent of asking that question. That means that you absolutely have not found the truth of asking the truth of who you are.

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You are love. That is who you are. You are the source. You are all of that. As Rumi said, you were born with wings. Why prefer to crawl through life? So what does it look like? What does it look like? What would your life look like? And this is the answer. What would your life look like? If you were fully free in love? What if you didn't need to put it into a box? What if you never had to make anyone wrong? Again? What if you were able to have sacred union only when it really was authentic?

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What if, what if you were able to live your truth, whether that be getting married or saying single or dating many, whatever that truth is for you. What if you no longer tried to fit into what the culture had to tell you what it meant to love? What if you loved every single person that you came in contact with just truly from your heart to their heart, just truly, and truly loving them unconditionally, giving them your heart and soul fully. So the question is, why should I be unhappy? His Rumi said, why should I be unhappy? Every parcel of my bean is a full bloom. What if you were love everywhere you went, no matter what the other person was doing, no matter if they were anything, no matter what they did, what does it look like? What if you're fully expressed in love?

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Well, that don't work. You know, I need somebody who's gonna show up and do X, Y, and Z. I need somebody who makes some money. I need somebody who's gonna, you know, marry me. I need somebody who, um, you know, doesn't, um, make their house too dirty. I need somebody that's blah, blah, blah. We do not teach. We do not teach. We do not teach conditional love. We do not teach outlining. The universe is bringing you exactly what you need. The person who's in front of you is exactly who you need. It may not be the person that you're gonna spend the rest of your life with, but I promise you, this is your masterclass. This person right in front of you is the masterclass. How can you love this person right in front of you unconditionally and honor yourself and hold healthy boundaries. And maybe that means saying, no, I'm not gonna date you. I'm not gonna be with you, but I'm gonna still love you. I'm still gonna treat you how I would want to be treated.

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That's the golden rule, isn't it. Right. I promise you. Whoever is in front of you is the exact correct person for you to learn how to love with grace, with respect, with unbounded love. And so in this moment, I just say, yes, I say yes to love. I say yes to releasing the identity of am I addicted to my relationship? I am the questions I ask, speak into existence. My reality, who am I, if I'm fully expressed in love, who am I? If I unconditionally love who am I being as free as I am in love, who am I? If I tear down the walls that, that I, you know, the task is not to seek for love, but to merely, to seek and find the barriers within myself that I've built against it. Who am I? If I built break down those walls, who am I? Who am I? If I stop acting small, who am I? Who am I? If I ecstatically go through life, loving exponentially, who am I? If I seek knowing that whatever I'm seeking is seeking me with total utter faith, who am I? Who am I without grief? Who am I without suffering? Who am I without? I am not enough. Who am I?

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Who am I? If I'm actually happy? Who am I? And in this question, and in this inquiry, the mind, the divine mind has to answer, knock and seek and know all answers will be given. I know right here, as you seek the kingdom and kingdom within and seek her or his righteousness, all things shall be added. May you never hand your power over in a relationship again, ever? That does not mean you don't love exponential. It doesn't mean you don't commit to somebody. That doesn't mean anything. That means that you release the, the need for someone else to make you happy. You release the need for expectations. You release the need to put people into a box. They are divinely perfect. Exactly. As they are, no matter where they are in their track, no matter if they're authentic or lying or on drugs or perfect or healthy or not healthy, they're perfect.

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Their divine, their divine track in this lifetime is perfect. Who are you to judge them? You don't, they don't, you don't deserve to have them in your life. If you judge them, it's spiritually unethical. So rise up. Sister rise up today from this day forward. I say, hear me right here. I am love. I don't need anything for my love. I'm here to give an express love, knowing it reflects back with total perfection. And so in this divine moment, I just say, yes, I say, yes. I say yes. As drew said, set your life on fire, seek those who fan your flames. Don't try and, you know, have somebody love you that it's not their bliss? Why would you do that? Focus on people's strengths, build on things that are bind you together. You know, people that always look for what's different and wrong with people will always be single. The people that look for commonality and build upon those commonalities will have exponential beauty and love and relationships everywhere they go. And so on that note, I just wanna say, thank you. Thank you. Thank you, roomy. And for all the greats that taught so many great things about love and life and laughter and true connection within the heart, the one divine that is the ultimate beloved. And in this I say, yes, I say, yes. I say yes, finishing with one last quote from roomy. You have to keep breaking your heart until it opens.

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I want you to just go into meditation on that one. You have to keep breaking your heart until it opens, have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth if you'd like to get trained in metaphysics of mine, universal law and, um, or E four trauma method, um, or become a part of an extraordinary community, you can check us out@newthoughtglobal.com. And I would love it. If you gave a review, a five star, of course would always be great. We're gonna be doing a giveaway with some reviews here, shortly, doing some announcements. So get involved. It means the world to me. Okay. Send you so much love. Thank you for tuning into the Dr. Aaron podcast. If you've had a spiritual calling or desire to get certified as a spiritual coach or a world renowned spiritual leader, go to new thought global.com. If you've received value from the show, I would love it. If you share it with a friend and give it a five star review. Also, we have spiritual practitioners that are trained to deliver the E four trauma method and assist you in birthing your truth. So let's be friends on social media. Again, my handle is Dr. aaron.tv across all social media, have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth?

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This is first live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Hi there today. I wanna get a little bit intimate with you. I wanna open up my heart and share a little bit of what's going on in my life. So the beginning of this podcast, I usually say live from Los Angeles. We come together each day to another truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. And today, maybe one of the last podcasts that I say, those exact words, because I'm moving. I am officially moving to west Palm beach in Florida, and I am in the middle of a move. So today I'm gonna break on down some of the parts of life where it's time to have a new chapter. It's time to let go of a new environment or something. It could be your career. It could be your relationship. It could be energetic ties to something there's always a rebirth. And today I wanna talk to you about the move, which really is a rebirth and putting yourself in an environment where you truly thrive.

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So let's break this sun down, live from Los Angeles. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with the universal law. We truly believe that when somebody awakens, they have a gifted message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. So this is Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity teaching metaphysic of mind and, uh, reprogram the subconscious mind E four trauma method and all the great things to develop world renowned spiritual leaders. So, yep. I am moving it's official. And I wanna share my journey with you because, um, it's so it's so clear that the decision of mind is what the universe really is just responding to. It just is saying yes, all the universe does is say yes. And I have to just share that the last year has been, it's been, you know, interesting. Let's just put it that way.

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That's one way of the spiritual people saying that's FD up instead. We just say that's interesting. Right? So when the pandemic happened, began to get locked down and everything, whatever that was a year and a half, two years ago, I actually pivoted in within three rests because I had been through 2008 and 2008 was a really intense time for, for my generation. Anyway, I had a lot of friends that lost everything to their name. A lot of them came in, lived on my sofa in the interim of, uh, of trying to figure out their lives. And I remember waiting, I remember waiting, I remember watching TV in the news and getting a lot of fear based, um, parts of my body and, and mind and spirit and all the above. And so when the lockdown came about, the pandemic came about, I had learned that lesson and the greatest lesson I think I learned out of of 2008, was to not wait that to pivot and create and always know that in that there's all innovation.

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And so when the lockdown began this time around, I innovated super quick, our, our community and our company and everything, we pivoted fast and we served and we served and we thrived like we did really well. Um, through the entire time we have been thriving, we have been growing, we have been scaling. We're doing really well as a company. And I really felt honored to be there as a pillar of strength for my community and for all the people out there during this, you know, during the lockdown. So the first year of the lockdown, you know, kind of, uh, went by in certain areas of the world were not locked down a lot. And others like Australia were really locked down in Los Angeles. We were pretty locked down. And what happens is just like, you know, there's that visual and that metaphor of the elephant that has a big chain on it when it's little and it can't get away.

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So it learns to stay within a few feet of, of the steak, if you will. And then as there's this other picture of this elephant that now is this ginormous elephant. And it has like a teeny, teeny little chain on it to a little chair in the middle and it could actually just walk off. But the elephant doesn't know because we are habitual beans. We are energetic beans. We create and we create, and then we experience being the effect of what we create. It's not the truth we can always recreate and we can always create from nothing that's the truth, but we have to have a consciousness that's strong enough if you will, to remember that and to, to do something about it, if you will. So the second year of, of the lockdown, um, I started noticing myself that I began to isolate a little bit more and more still being, you know, we have an amazing community online and I have some really dear friends in Los Angeles that I would go and walks with and hang out with.

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But I began to notice that my environment, uh, my, my body, my soul was speaking to me really saying, it's time to leave here. You know? And, and I was listening and I knew it was time. And spirit also was saying, get prepared. So I was focusing a lot on the mission and business and everything else. And, but I knew, I knew it was a matter of time. And so the last year I've been searching and searching and searching really inside and without to, you know, what is the next chapter? What does it look like? You know, does it look like me moving to diff different home in Los Angeles? Does it look like me moving to orange county? Does it look like me going up to Santa Barbara? Does it look like me leaving the country? Does it look like me going to Florida?

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Does it look like me going to Texas? Does it look like Dallas? Does it look like everything? And I began to inquire and, and feel into it within my soul. And the reason why I'm telling you is because we all have to make decisions. Some decisions are easier than others, and some take a lot of strength and courage and, and have, you know, big cause and effect on 'em. So I would, would pray and meditate on it. And what would happen was I began to feel and know that maybe it wasn't one location, because I was, when I would go into prayer and meditation, I would have the feeling of tropics. I would also feel the love still for Beverly Hills in that lifestyle of a Beverly Hills of, you know, just beautiful things and material world and, and abundance of wealth, and then the material world.

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And I would also feel like a Santa Barbara, a grounded in part of Santa Barbara, where I grew up very, um, you know, there's a, there's parts of Santa Barbara that are very yuppy. Of course, there's parts of Santa Barbara that are very grounded in with mother, um, the Oak trees and the, the, the ground there is very grounded in. So I kept searching. I kept searching. And one day I stumbled upon west Palm beach, Florida. I had known about Miami. I'd known about a couple things, but I had never, I never heard of it. Honestly, I had never knew about it. And the moment I saw online, I kind of gased like, whoa, like, wow, I kind of had a, I had a knowing straight away. I saw the pictures and that's how it works. You know, intuitively it's like, there's an alignment. Okay.

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And it kind of sparks. And I began to research a little bit more and, and I started really having this love for west Palm beach, Florida. So what did I do? I booked a flight. It was only whatever, a couple year, couple years, a couple weeks ago or something. It feels like a couple years ago. Um, and I went out with the intention of one thing and one thing only, and I went out to, to no, cuz my soul speaks to me clearly it's either a hell yes or a hell. No. So I jumped on the plane and I, my flight arrived in, I think it was like seven 30 or something like that. And I got a good hotel and stuff, but I wanna kind of cruise around. I thought, well, I could at least cruise around for a little bit at night and just see the area first.

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And then I'll explore more in the middle and in the morning. So I drove it. First thing, I just drove out to Palm beach and naturally it led me to this incredible vision of this big building out there, which is called the breakers hotel. And it's like a mini castle. It's like huge. And so I drove up and I thought, well, there's this gate here. And they probably only let people in that are staying there. And they said, no, come on in. You know, so I drove up, I walked in and immediately was like, wow, this is really beautiful. And I just wanted to see the ocean. So I walked through the halls down the hall and all of a sudden I walked through the door to go out to the ocean. And when I opened the door, it was like this warm tropical breeze hit me at a soul level.

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And it was the day after the full moon. So it was essentially a full moon and it was one of the most beautiful, full moons I'd ever seen in my entire life. There was these clouds going by it and it was the most mystical looking thing I'd ever seen in my entire life. And I knew in that moment I was home. I'm gonna cry right now because I knew it was the next chapter for me to have. And no, I didn't know one person in, in west Palm beach, Florida and my son is, you know, in Scottsdale and my family's all over on the west coast and I have thousands and thousands of friends along the west coast, but I knew I, it, something like, oh, okay, here we go. You know, it's like a divine assignment. And, and so I'm telling you this for you because for me, the divine assignment is this, my number one priority in my life is my mission.

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I, this is why I'm here. I'm here to bring truth and you know, really bring universal law and understanding the energetic ties that we create to our and ourselves here in this lifetime. And every time I pray, every time I ask for one thing and one thing only, and it is to be used for the highest good. And so I always ask, what is the, you know, the one thing for me to do for the mission and every time I've been going into prayer for the last year, my true self, my higher self says, you know, is rejuvenation. You need to get tapped into mother nature and you need to be really in that flow of that bliss of that high frequency, where your body feels good. Your mind feels good. You're warm with nature. You have a balance through this whole thing. And, and so for me, it was a divine calling.

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It's a divine calling for me to go out there because there's a real, it's really beautiful. And there is I, so one of the days I was out there, I went on a friend's boat with some people and I went in the ocean and the ocean was 85 degrees and it was as blue as blue. And I literally swam in the ocean for an hour and I didn't wanna get out. I felt it was just so beautiful because here I live in California and you'd think you'd spend a lot of time at the beach. Well, I don't. And not only do I don't, but when I do, I rarely go in the ocean because it's really cold and I will on occasion, but rarely. And so I just knew, I knew that my soul was calling from my body to be able to get back in the water and be healed from the electronics, be healed from, um, a lot of the isolation during the pandemic and just get one in the flow of the beauty and the divine and the goddess and the God within.

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And so this is a divine calling and the reason why I'm having this podcast, the reason why I wanted to do this podcast, I actually recorded a different podcast for this day. But I was so inspired to do one for you guys, because I want you guys to listen. I want you to listen to your soul. I want you to listen and, and really take a deep breath in right now and ask yourself, what do you need? You know, what do you need to really thrive going beyond, you know, FOMO going beyond what you think keeping up with the Jones looks like, what do you need to really thrive to take care of yourself and rejuvenate and become the highest frequency and bring your stress levels down, whatever that is, because this is what I know for sure. Teaching metaphysics, teaching the subconscious mind, reprograming understanding universal law and how it works.

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It works one way. It works by what energetic, you're holding at a soul level. And so the most important thing, if we want miracles, if we want magical lives, if we want to really truly turn on our powers, if we wanna experience the fullest expression ourselves, we have to be in bliss like, and it's okay. It means also we don't resist non bliss, but we really follow our bliss. As Joseph Campbell said, sacrifice and follow your bliss, but most people forgot the sacrifice part. They just said, follow your bliss. Well, sacrifice means that you have to have discipline. There is a daily spiritual practice. There are, um, you know, disciplines of living on spiritual principle and only energizing what you do want instead of what you don't want. There's all kinds of things in that sacrifice of and bliss. And so I'm asking and requesting and calling as someone who loves you, what do you need today to do in bold action for you to live your greatest life? Because what I know for sure is that the world needs to redefine what we think success is. Success is not making, you know, hundreds of millions of dollars and being, you know, burnt out and, you know, getting so stressed out that you start getting to disease and your relationships fall apart, but you're driving a Ferrari. That's not success in my eyes. And we each need to define what we define success. As you know, we all have different levels of what we think it is.

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And so after I went down there to west Palm beach, I, you know, I knew, and then you get, you know, everyone wants their little 2 cents. Oh my gosh, that's great. But you should really be down in Miami. Oh, you should be in book of Raton. Oh, you know, are you sure you wanna do that? Everyone has a 2 cents. And so, you know, it was been a big, a big discipline the last couple weeks to stay true to that. Knowing I even started like booking a flight thinking, maybe I should go back and go to Miami for a minute. And I was like, wait a second, Aaron, what are you doing? You know, you know, when you know, it's already spoken through, so don't, don't question. You're knowing that's what giving our power out to the external world does is we give our power over.

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And then we question that knowingness within. And so my invitation is to not look without, to go within and ask yourself that, that profound question of what do you really need? What bold action can you take to live your highest vibration? And so I, I, again, I searched around, I searched around for real estate, which area, blah, blah. And I knew when I knew. So I found, uh, I found a building downtown west Palm beach, and I knew, I just knew it was a perfect place for me to land maybe not long term, but a place that would be extraordinary that I'd meet lots of incredible people and that I could walk to everything. So I wouldn't be isolated out in the home. And I found a place and it took back and forth, back and forth with many, many contracts because it's a very popular building.

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Many of them fell through and I was like, okay, I'm trusting. I know I'm gonna be in that building. I, so I came back, I didn't have a contract. And, uh, this last week in practitioner, uh, one of the topics was faith. And the definition of faith from a metaphysical standpoint is that we don't need to see proof in the world. Right. We hold whatever holding consciousness and we energize and consciousness and we commit to with inspired action is our destiny. So I thought, okay, we gotta practice faith let's practice. So what did I do? I didn't have a contract. And I began to have my movers come over and pack up my house. I was like, I have no idea. Don't know where I'm moving. Exactly. Don't know how it's gonna look. I'm gonna say, it's that building. And I don't know how and sure enough, I signed the contract.

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Um, I think just a few days back and my house is already almost packed. I've got the movers, uh, scheduled, they're coming to transport my car. And, um, the storage S is over there. Cause I rented something that is furnished. I will live in that for, until I find a home that I wanna buy or one of the condos in the unit and it's done, it's done. Meanwhile, you know, someone could say, man, I'm stressed out. I've gotta run this whole company. Do all stuff, teach and move and figure this out. And yeah, you could, it could be a really stressful thing. But I know that with ease and grace, I'm supported at such levels. Wow. I have so many friends and amazing humans to pray for me and to know the truth. And I am so incredibly excited about this next chapter. And so if you are not excited about your future, my invitation is for you to take some really radical action.

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Because if you are not excited about your future, you're actually hurting people around you. Because look, if I'm not in my highest state, I am not going to be able to lift people up. Right. Me and my highest vibration I can, I can, I can do a lot. I can lift a lot of spiritual muscle. I can get a lot stuff done. I can have a blast. I can be in flow. I can create miracles and help and pray for people and, and move some serious, serious stuff on this planet. Me not thriving. It's fine. I still probably do way more than the average person. I still will be. Okay. It's not like I'm like depressed, like it's right. But me, the Erin, when she's really in that flow, you want her, you want her to be in that flow because it impacts a lot of people when I'm in that flow.

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And so I invite you again to really look and take bold inspired action. Another distinction of this weekend practitioner, which I think is one of the most profound distinctions, because it's part of relationship breakthrough, it's part of prosperity mindset. It's part of everything. That's this, you can't have the good if you're not willing to receive the bad. So put it this way. Okay. <affirmative> anyone that comes in your life or a move over to a new, you know, new country, essentially a different side of America, right? Anything that you want in your life, anything that you're ready to have, if you're not willing to take on the hard stuff that comes with it, if you only want only the good part of people and you're not willing to also have the quirks and the hard times with somebody, then you can't have them right. In relationship.

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If you only want someone's perfect, then you're never gonna be in a relationship. If you only want the perfect situation to move. Exactly. And have it all perfect, then you're never gonna move. The point is this is the universe gives us everything. It wants to give us everything. It's our perception that something's not good. And a part of it. It's the meaning and perception that we put around it. And so my invitation for you to step into this next part of your life in bliss, in sacrifice and in, in a total prosperity of your highest frequency and vibration, I invite you to say yes, without consideration, without thinking it's hard. Oh my gosh, I shouldn't do that without evaluating it without contemplating it without any of that. Because once you know, you know, that's my invitation for you to say yes, step into the unknown.

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This is where the magic happens. I could sit here all day and think, oh my gosh, my son's on the other side of the country. This is hard. I'm leaving all the context that I have in Los Angeles. Oh my gosh. Um, my show, all this stuff. No, I am so incredibly excited. I'm so excited for the new flow and the new I can come back if I want, if I don't like it a year from now, or something's not flowing, it's easy. I can also, maybe I've moved to a different country who knows? I think we need to stay open and say yes and say yes, and then pivot some more and then say yes some more and then receive only the good, because you've already, you receive all of, there's no resistance to the bad. We don't resist. That's not our job because when we resist, we block it, we block the good as well.

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So we we're here to have non-resistance and follow our bliss. And so in this, I am so incredib excited. And thank you. So many of you guys have reached out and I've had so many actually have multiple friends now, already in west Palm. I have a few girlfriends. I have tons of people in Miami. I actually feel like business wise. And I feel like it's a really incredible move for me and for our community and for the movement, because we can jump over to Europe. Easy. We can have events it's a little bit more free in, in Florida. I say, hell yes, that's what I say. And I'm so excited. And I'm so excited for you to say, hell yes, to something in your life. It's about time that you say hell yes to yourself. It's about time that you say yes to allowing people to come into your life without pushing them away.

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It's about time for you to say yes to living in the unknown. It's time to say yes to new chapters. It's time to say yes to all those things that you would've should have could have it's time. Cuz there's only now. And it's only this life and yes, you're eternally immortal, but in this body it's only one life. So enjoy it. Make the best of it. I sure the hell I'm going to, I with no regrets with only opportunities on a horizon. I just say, thank you. Thank you. Thank you. As together we say. And so it is so a beautiful day, you guys may live your truth and I'm super excited. Also. Um, we will be doing a challenge, a five day challenge. We haven't done one in a while and we'll be doing a five day challenge. Um, in December, I believe it's the, um, the 13th of the 17th.

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And it's really exciting because we have so much fun in those challenges. We give so much content. So if you're somebody wants to monetize as a soul based entrepreneur and monetize your spiritual gifts, whatever it is, whether you have a service or a product or you wanna be a coach, whatever you are going to break through and understand, you know, who your client is, how to monetize, how to do sales, what to post on social media. We go front to back in five days. So get your big boy or big girl panties on and let's do this thing. We're gonna rock and roll. Okay. You can sign up. Um, I will put the link. It's actually not available. The Link's not ready yet. It will be ready next week, but stay tuned. Okay guys, um, have a beautiful day. May you live your truth? Thank you for tuning in to the Dr.

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This is first live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Okay. You ready for it? I'm going to give you the secret of the secret, the key, the actual one thing that has people transform. So whether you're looking to have a huge breakthrough in an area of your life, you want a major transformation, or whether you're somebody that really desires to become somebody that can give somebody a great transformation, take them through great transformation. You definitely wanna listen to this podcast. So welcome to the Dr. Aaron podcast. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with the universal law. We truly know that when somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. So as a doctor divinity, somebody who has, you know, held many, many transformational events around, um, Los Angeles area, for sure. And, uh, different parts of the world, I have touched and moved and transformed.

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Thousands of people touching hundreds of thousands of people online. And I'm gonna break it on down for you. Okay. It comes down to one thing. And one thing only when somebody comes, they wanna break through, they wanna break through whether they're dealing with, you know, relationship issues. Maybe they're trying to find the one or their in a relationship that they just want them to change or whatever. It may be relationship things, whether it be their, their mother is bothering them or their child is going through addiction or whatever it is. Okay. So that's one of the areas of life. They want transformation in. The second area of life. People always want transformation in is money, honey, money and career. If I just make money, then everything will work out. If I can just get out of this job that I hate, then it'll work out.

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If I can, you know, just make money and finally do what I wanna do or, um, whatever it may be in career. If I can just scale a little bit more, if I can just become a seven figure, whatever, if I can just build my team, if I can just money in career. Okay. A second area of life, people want transformation and third area of life. They want transformation and is health and vitality. I don't feel good. Something's wrong with me constantly not feeling well if I just lose that 10 pounds. Oh my gosh. Um, you know, if I just look better, you know, whatever, it may be, their, their health and vitality. It's something that people spend, how many dollars on, you know, the next supplement, the next, this, the next treatment, the next, whatever. I have people that in LA my gosh, they spend so much money on trying to get their energy high and their vitality high.

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Right? And then finally, the other people really want transformation in the fourth way. Cuz we teach four legs of life that we're getting transformation in. The fourth is their self-expression. If I just know what my purpose is, then everything's gonna work out. I wanna breakthrough. I wanna know what my divine calling is. I wanna know what my mission is. This the breakthrough, right? So today I'm gonna break on down what it is. The one thing, okay. It comes always comes down to only one thing in transformation. How you get there can be multiple ways could be through trauma work can be through, you know, a harsh conversation can be through a meditation, can be through me, speaking on stage and having people see a new perspective and bingo pop, you know, we call it popping. We call it when people have a big transformation, we call 'em popping because they literally pop out of their old PI paradigm and transform their entire perspective.

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Change in an instant. Their entire world will never look the same, who doesn't love a good transformation. I love a good transformation. I remember years ago going to, you know, landmark forum and different breakthrough things in seminars and reading books and having, you know, breakthrough after breakthrough transformation, after transformation, I remember going into meditation and every time I'd come out, it was like, whoa, a whole new perspective on something going into trauma. We're going into past life regressions going to all this going to blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And the point is there's only one thing. The transformation comes down to transformation comes down to no longer placing your power out in the world.

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It truly is the divine awakening. The divine awakening of the oneness, recognizing that all of life is just the projection and reflection of your own beliefs and identity. So that's the hack. The hack is to have a transformation for yourself, for your client is somehow there has to be that paradigm shift to recognize that life is not doing to you. You can never be the victim of life. That life is growing you and showing you your own belief system and how it's projecting out into the circumstances, your relationship into your health and into your purpose of your life. So how the F do you do it?

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Obviously trauma work is the number one way that I've had people have their big epiphanies, the big transformation, and the reason why is this? There is a moment in the E four trauma method. There's a moment when I take a client into a, to a trauma, whether it be in this lifetime or a past lifetime in their epidemics of their lineage, when they recognize that during that moment, whether it be they were being raped, whether that was a breakup, whether it was, they got a phone call that was traumatizing, whether they in a car accident, whether they were, um, diagnosed with cancer, whether they were X, Y, and Z, whatever the trauma is, there is a moment. There's a moment when they decided something that was limited. A limited belief, we call it commands something that had them divided, divided in their perspective, divided in who they were as a spiritual being divided. Meaning I'm not enough meaning something's wrong with me, meaning whatever. And in that moment, in that trauma, in that E four method session, there is a moment. There's a moment when they realized that they created their own suffering, they created their own limitations.

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They commanded something into their own subconscious mind that was in plain out like puppet strings in their life. They realized that they're the creator. And so what is transformation it's really beyond the form. Breakthroughs and transformations means going beyond the form, a meta metamorphosis, a breakthrough, a quantum leap, whatever you wanna call it, it comes down to one thing. And one thing only, it comes down to no longer placing your power out in the world and recognizing the truth of who you are. You are a divine, all powerful, infinite, spiritual being. And I'm here to say that I went through many different programs for transformation. Some were, some were great, but they didn't get down to the real stuff. They said surface. They had me, you know, there was transformation on, um, different perspectives of life. But I truly believe until the transformation actually gets down into spirituality, gets down into the metaphysics, get down to understanding the power of the mind. And that's why I am forever, totally loyal to S's mind, to science and mind understanding our spiritual nature to spirituality, to the new thought movement. I am so committed to this work because I've been through every transformational program. And until I understood the power of mind and that I'm a spiritual being the transformations didn't last.

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It's great. It's great to go to a seminar and transform and see things in a new perspective and get all motivated. And then you go home and then you're like, huh? Why do I feel like crap again? Why do I feel like I'm not powerful? What's going on? Right? Cause we haven't gotten to the core. We haven't gotten to the core principles that are the principles of true freedom. Transformation comes down to one thing. And one thing only it's recognizing the truth of who you are. You are a divine creator, you are source and all of life is just a mirror for you to wake up for you to experience the depths of consciousness, the depths of your soul and form everything. Everyone is the projection of what's happening in mind. That is true transformation. So if you're somebody that wants a profound transformation, a life changing transformation, or if you're somebody who truly desires to be able to be somebody that's able to help someone else transform, help bring clients and create programs and do all the work you've got to master this one principle, you've got to master it. So how do you do it? You do it through deep trauma, work through E four trauma method to have those epiphanies, to truly neutralize all, all the BS of being the effect of whatever happened in life trauma. Isn't what happened to you. Trauma is what happens within you. It's the meaning that you put on it. And therefore all trauma is created from myself.

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All trauma is created from myself. And so in that I know, I know that you are capable of all the greatest trans women. Imagine yourself. Imagine yourself as somebody who absolutely is untouchable, who absolutely knows they can create anything with whatever life throws at them. I know for certain that this is the truth and the truth shall set you free. And so in this, if you wanna be the a world renowned someone who can completely transform lives, I promise you I'm your gal. I promise you. We have the greatest teachings. It's not just my teachings. Okay? We come from a lineage, a lineage of new thought movement, a lineage of science of mine, a lineage of uni, a a lineage of, of spirituality of core work, everything from trauma, work, everything from spiritual mind, treatment, everything from, from understanding and being able to transform your life with lasting results.

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I see people, I watch people completely transform in front of my eyes, from their physicality, to their relationships, to their businesses, to their health, to their relationship, with themselves, to being able to make an impact and a legacy in this life. And I'm just here to say it is your time. It's been a hell of a ride the last couple years for all of us. It's no joke what's going on out there in the world. And here, I'm here to say that if you don't commit to your own transformation, it's gonna be a really, really tough ride. I don't know how people do it without fully knowing who the fuck they are. That's what I know. I know that you deserve to know who you are for you to fully be the empowered person that you already are for you to no longer lie to yourself, for you to no longer blame others for you.

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This is first live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Live from Los Angeles. We come together each day to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly know that when somebody awakens a gift and message, bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. So this is Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity, teaching training, developing spiritual entrepreneurs and spiritual leaders. We train and develop spiritual coaches. We turn develop spiritual practitioners, ministers, and yes, doctors of divinity. So let's do this thing today. We're actually going to be answering questions. This is very fun. We're actually gonna be doing a call and show. And right now we don't have the capability to actually have people call in, but we've been taking, uh, different questions from people, everyone from DMing to call in. We also have like a Google number where people will text in and call in as well. So it's super exciting.

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It's a new series that we're be doing and we'll see how, how it's received and kind of play around with it and have a really good time. So I'm super excited because everything I'm going to be responding two ways with these questions. One is from a universal law perspective, metaphysics of mine perspective, and of course, trauma trauma perspective, all truth perspective. Okay. The other way I'm gonna be answering the questions is actually from a human perspective, from my own personal opinion, with my own stories and things going into it as well. Okay. So if you're somebody that would like to have a question answered, we will be doing anonymously. So you can send in your questions and you can put your name in. We won't, we won't put your name regardless. Okay. Because we want to have a safe place for people to really inquire into conscious conversations.

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And, you know, unfortunately, unfortunately a lot of the questions we get are around relationships and we recognize that all of life is a relationship, but of course, you know, there's different dynamics of life. We teach this four areas of life, everything from relationships and love, career and money and health and vitality and creative expression. We recognize that all of life is a relationship, but a lot of the questions we get are around relationships. And I think the reason why we get this is because the core kind of foundational work of spirituality and awakening is, is no longer handing your power over to anything in this world. And a lot of us care a lot about relationships and therefore our codependency and our kind of, uh, non mastery in spirituality shines a lot through in our relationships. In fact, we found about nine outta 10. People that come into our community are dealing with some level of codependency and that goes across for all stats.

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And so a lot of these questions, all of us can relate to because if you're a human being, you probably are dealing with some level of codependency. So today we're gonna be breaking on down some different, uh, questions regarding relationships in particular. So it doesn't matter if you're dealing, whether you are single, whether you're dating, whether you are married, the, the universal laws, the trauma work, everything, the subconscious work, everything applies to everyone. And we know from stats in, in, uh, different psychology things that just because somebody's married or not, does not necessarily mean that they are more happy or less happy. We also recognize the power of relationship, uh, through the Harvard study. That was, um, a very long study that basically showed that true. Happiness does break down to deep relationships. So again, I completely believe in love and connection. And I also recognize the complete delusion that a lot of people have that they think that a relationship is going to complete them until we are complete ourselves.

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We'll never fully be complete in any relationship. So let's break this on down. So the very first question is here it is. Let's see. Dear Dr. Aaron, I'm writing for you, your input. I'm in a marriage where my husband, isn't interested in doing his inner trauma work. He doesn't seem to care and I don't know how to get him to change. What should I do? Should I just accept him or demand him to do his work? Hmm, great, great story. Uh, great question. So I'll never forget. In 1999, I went to landmark forum. I'm sure, probably a lot of you guys went to landmark forum. It was one of the, you know, so many programs I went through over, you know, 25 years of being developed in spiritual work. And I remember in 1999, I went through landmark form. And what happened is when I came out of landmark forum, what they, they teach you lost these distinctions.

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And one of the distinctions that I learned was what was called a racket, meaning that people have things that they do in life, thinking that they're gonna get what they want at a life. For example, a racket might be that, um, somebody needs basically it's where you're making someone wrong. So a racket would be, for example, someone who's married that is wanting their husband to change and wanting them to do their inner work basically. So they don't have to actually do their own inner work <laugh> because it's like a decoy, right? So the point is, is that when I came at a landmark forum, what happened was I used all of the distinctions in my quote unquote transformational work to actually just have, um, all the distinctions. I need to point my finger at other people of what they were doing in life. And we'll find this a lot in our spiritual development.

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There's kind of a place where as spirituality will be used for actually more divisiveness, which is the complete misuse of it, the, the use of spiritual awakening and becoming a spiritual leader and doing your own inner work and your own trauma work and your own awakening is to actually really point the finger and take full responsibility for our own lives. And that is the unification of it for us to become responsible and become the first cause of our life. And to truly be, be somebody who's a change that we wanna see in the world when we point the finger and hope that somebody else does their inner work, it's completely a misuse of the energy. In fact, it actually hurts it because what we resist persists. So this person that's writing in or wrote him, basically, if you're wanting your husband to change for him to do his inner work for him to do his trauma work for him to do his awakening work, it's actually in the resistance of what is that actually will most likely turn him off to doing his inner work.

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So you wanna be super cautious around us. In fact, we all have had those friends that begin to awaken and begin to think they're better than because they're doing their spiritual work. So for me, I learned the hard way I got outta landmark. I started pointing the finger at everybody else and sure enough, the relationship I was in, um, I found everything wrong with him and not really using it to do my own transformational, work on myself and use it as spiritual distinctions and transformational distinctions to embody we teach embodiment. Okay. So this is from a universal law perspective, is that what resist persists? And that also universal law is perfect. We have perfect God, perfect man. Perfect being right. So perfect divine, perfect woman, perfect bean mean that we only know perfection and we have to recognize that our partners or our friends or whomever it is that has not done their inner work.

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We have to recognize that they learn it differently than us. In fact, if people want them to change, they're actually less likely to change. So that's the spiritual and metaphysical truth of that. So my suggestion for you, this woman that, uh, wrote in is for you to focus on yourself, to really hold faith and faith is where we know and hold pure potential. So the practice would be for you to do your own inner work for you to focus on your own trauma, work for you, to focus on all that, not make him wrong and also hold faith, knowing that he's going to, as you shift, he automatically is going to shift. In fact, we don't need to do have anyone do work around us when we truly do our work, then we actually impact and meta physically change every single person around us. Okay.

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So that's from a truth perspective. Now me as a human being side girl, I understand, I know what it's like to be around. Not only just in a relationship, but have, you know, a parent or a friend or somebody that is not doing their inner work and you want to slap them, you know what I mean? You're like, oh, why? You know? And, um, and it is, we have to know that this is our guru, that, that these people are our, that is the universe testing us to know if we are actually practicing what we preach. So anytime I start pointing the finger, I recognize I have three fingers pointing back at myself and it's time for me to grow up and be an embodiment and be a master of the work that we teach. So I am holding you in my heart. And I know that this is a tough one, not always easy, but I know that you would not be going through this.

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If you were not ready to master totally unconditionally loving your husband and holding him in your heart as a perfection and the divine that he is, and always coming back to the breath and always coming back to your spiritual practice. Okay. All right. I love that question. Such a good question. I think that we all deal with that, especially when we're going through our spiritual awakening, for sure. Okay. Next question is, hi, Dr. Aaron, first of all, I want to thank you for all you are doing. You have helped me in so much to become more confident and believe in myself on my way O on my awakening journey. At the moment I listen to your podcast daily and also reading your 40 days awake new book. It helped me so much to grow. Okay? So, but I've struggled lately in the last days, maybe, you know, where I should start to change.

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I'm in a really healthy and loving relationship for one year now, but my ex-boyfriend, which whom I had a really dysfunctional relationship is a very good friend of my current boyfriend. And then last months we all hung out more, which is more difficult for me than I thought. I realized that I will always have love for him. But as you also said, with your past dysfunctional relationship, I have my boundaries. What I also realized is that I always felt lower than him. He gave and still gives me the feeling that he is better. I have the feeling, I seek his validation, which I don't want. He was never good for me. And I will never be, I am so grateful for my current relationship, but I don't think I fully recovered from my past one. I also see all that that happened between us as the right path, because now I have the relationship I always wish for.

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And that he showed me what I don't want in a relationship and made me stronger and seeking something real. So I'm grateful for that. I don't know what to do to change these bond or whatever that is. Should I do trauma work for that question, mark? Maybe you can help me. Okay. So first of all, I just wanna say, thank you so much for sending this in. So it sounds like this is the deal. She had a relationship, it was dysfunctional. She's in a new relationship that seems to be going well. I don't know how long they've been in a relationship, but now all of a sudden her current boyfriend is friends with her ex-boyfriend and they've been hanging out more and more. And she is obviously getting a little triggered and has stuff there realizing that it's not complete for her. So, so from a metaphysical standpoint and a universal loss standpoint, first of all, we know that anywhere in life where we're getting triggered, it usually comes down to one of two things.

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Okay? Number one is there's still trauma there that needs to be complete. It needs to be neutralized and, or number two, it's just not your truth. Like, it's just not your truth to hang out with your ex-boyfriend. Okay. So we have to realize. And so my suggestion would be to do both of those things, okay. This is from a universal law and metaphysical standpoint. So number one is the truth is that you said, I always felt lower than him. He gave and still gives me the feeling that he is better. So the truth is no one can give you a feeling, the moment that you put a meaning on it, you instantaneously have a feeling, no one can give you a feeling, okay, it's impossible. You can have an intuitive feeling of what you are repelled or, you know, called to with somebody, but how you feel is from your feeling and your truth or not being in truth for yourself.

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Okay? So we wanna make sure that you empower yourself this process and stop giving him the power. Okay. The reason why he's triggering you is because there's a lie. There there's a lie that he can make you feel something. Okay? And so whether you are, you know, obviously you're in this relationship now that's somewhat healthy, but my, obviously this is showing you and guiding you that there's still work to do. So my suggestion would be to go in and do more, um, trauma work. I don't know if you've done any trauma work, but definitely going in and doing the trauma work. This ex-boyfriend is, has nothing to do with him. It has everything to do with you. And we recognize whatever happens in relationship. It's just a reflection and projection of what's happening within with our relationship, with our higher self. He is the mirror for you to see where you have not completed your own self love, where you are looking, um, out in the world to be able to trust.

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When you can only trust yourself, you become unstoppable untouchable unshakeable upon your relationship with divine, your relationship with your higher self. And so this is these circumstance of your life showing you where you're not, where you have not done all your work. Okay. That's the first one. The second one remember is where you're not living your truth. So you have to ask yourself, you know, is it your truth? Is it your truth to hang out with your ex-boyfriend? And obviously if you're not complete with all the emotions around it, then, you know, it would be maybe wise to put some healthy boundaries there. And probably for a lot of people be like, well, I don't want anyone to know that I actually am still triggered. So therefore I can't really say anything. I gotta be cool and like, make sure that I'm, you know, not being, you know, the effect or something like that.

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But the truth is that it's your life. And the relationship that you're in now is a sacred space for you. And my concern is that if you don't deal with it in a healthy manner, you might deal with it in a reactive manner. So you wanna make sure that you're handling this now, before it gets worse, because if you're hanging out with your ex or your boyfriend and you haven't dealt with it, then sure enough, something's probably most likely gonna come along to where you're reacting and then you're gonna have to deal with, you know, the, the effects of after, you know, a reactive situation. So that's from a truthful universal law, subconscious, you know, side of it from a human side, I'm gonna call you out a little bit. Okay. First of all, do you still have feelings for your ex because, you know, if you're in a healthy relationship and you're really into this, you know, new boyfriend that you have, um, you know, I would, I would kind of question as your girlfriend, you know, what's still there for you with your ex, because that's probably what if your boyfriend knew, uh, that you're having a reaction to an ex-boyfriend.

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I doubt he's gonna be very happy about that. You know, he's gonna know there's because you, if you didn't care, you wouldn't have reactions, right? If you didn't care about somebody, it's the people that we care the most about that we get the most reactive about. Right? So my question for you as a girlfriend, as a, as a human side of myself, is to get real, what's really going on for you. Is it not complete because you, you said you still you'll always have love for him. So, you know, what's really going on there. And are you being authentic with being with this new boyfriend or is it just healthy and safe for you? Right. And so I would get a little real with myself of what's really going on and ask myself, where am I settling? Where am I trying to stay safe, versus where am I fully being courageously courageous?

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Am I love in this lifetime? And you deserve that regardless of whether you stand the relationship you're in or not. I'm definitely not saying to go back to your ex-boyfriend by any means, I'm just saying, this is the opportunity to get real with yourself, to do your inner work and to totally get real. So in the meanwhile, my suggestion would be number one to, to place peace as the number one, without peace, right? We, our vibration and our frequency informs our subconscious mind and whatever we're informing our subconscious mind with is actually informing universal law and bringing it more and more into our life. So if we are getting reactive, if we're getting upset, if we're getting, you know, entangled, if we're, if we're getting to that place, we're below peace, right? We're below par. We are getting into places where we're energizing negativity, if you will.

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So if we, our goal is to get into ecstasy. Our goal is to get into the highest flow and frequency we can. So if you're in, uh, in situations where you are getting into a reactive state, that if you are a spiritual practitioner, if you're living on spiritual principle, if you understand universal law and your subconscious mind, the subjective mind, which is one with universal law, you will understand the most important thing is to minimum stand peace in the day. That means doing breathing exercises. That means going into meditation. That means going to spiritual mind treatment and not putting yourself in situations where you're going to become I turbulate and upset and reactive. Okay. So number one, that has to happen. Number two is yes. Get your little tushy into doing trauma work and do all that work, right? And then number three is being able to birth your truth and decide, you know, what are healthy boundaries for you around this?

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And are you able to powerfully communicate it with your current boyfriend and to your ex-boyfriend and only you get to decide what your truth is and for you to honor that truth. Okay. So I think that answer that, and I think for all of us, the point is that we all have Xes and hopefully we've completed those cycles. Hopefully we complete those cycles before we get into our next relationship. Hopefully we're doing our inner trauma works. We're not be bringing our baggage into the next relationship. It really is what should be almost like a, you know, something that we agree upon. Right. For sure. Or ask ourselves before we get into the next relat shift. Okay. So great. Okay. So let's see. Next question. Let's see. Hi there. I'm reaching out to try and figure out what I should do. Currently. I live with my boyfriend who gets super mad at times 80% of the time we get along and everything is okay, but then we get into these huge arguments.

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Last week, he screamed at me until 3:00 AM. I ended up not sleeping all night and impacted my entire week at work. I try to break up, but then we make up and the entire cycle begins again. Oh boy, girl, I know this one. So well, it's called the Merry go round. It's actually a very, um, well known part of dysfunction. It's called the Merry go round. Right? So what happened is, and I remember years ago, being in this, um, I would be, I was in a relationship where we, it was like this honeymoon stage. It would be literally like heroin going in my arms. It was so blissful. It was everything. It was magical. He would be like, I love you. You're the love my life. We'd be talking about the future. Talking about getting married. It was magical. It was like the most in love of my life.

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Ever. Every ounce of my beingness was, was put into this relationship and then something would happen. We'd get in this huge argument and we'd, you know, break up and we'd have a big fight. And then maybe even we'd break up for a while or he'd leave or something would happen and then we'd miss each other and then we'd make up again. He'd come back with, you know, tattoos of me on his neck, you know, um, he'd come with flowers and rings and I love you so much. You're, you know, the love of my life. I'm so sorry. And, and he'd come back in and, and, you know, woo me back in. I'd get back in and then it'd all happen again. This whole thing called the Merry go round. So we have to take a look at this cycle. And as a saying, goes in codependency and stuff that dysfunctional relationships or addiction, cuz that's what it really is, ends in three ways, jail, death, or insanity. Okay. And it may not be at that extreme right now, but let me tell you that dysfunction compounds, and there's a reason why I'm gonna tell you why. Okay.

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When he was screaming at you until 3:00 AM, there were traumas that happened in that moment for you probably. Okay. What happens is trauma is not what happens to us. Trauma is what happens within us. And what happens is trauma is a high, high state of emotion because we are frequency and vibrational being. And when we're in that high, high state, we're informing our subconscious mind. And in that moment, in that high, high state of moment, when he's screaming at you, right, there's something that you say to yourself, right? There's, it's called commands. And I'm not gonna say what your commands are, but I'm gonna use an example. Okay? So for me, when I was in that dysfunctional relationship, we'd get in these horrific fights. You know, we'd be screaming at each other and I would decide in the middle of that trauma. I'll never love again, I can't trust something's wrong with me.

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I'm not enough. I don't wanna live. Right. All those commands. And those play out in the subconscious mind over and over again. And in 12 SEP or in Coda or in, um, alcoholics anonymous, cause it's all dysfunctions all considered its dysfunction. They call it quote, quote an allergy and in, and what it really is, is it's not an allergy. What it is, it's a trauma that gets triggered. So what happens is, as you are in this relationship that say is 80% good. And then 20% awful and probably 5% horrific let's face the fact, okay. Screaming at somebody till 3:00 AM is completely dysfunctional. And it's dangerous. It's dangerous from a subconscious mind perspective because what happens is all of that goes into your subconscious mind. And then what happens is you get back together, you have a honeymoon stage. You, you know, you start building your life again together, whatever.

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And then another incident happens. Another argument or something happens and the fights get worse because the triggers get more triggered easily. And so over time, because I know it very well. I was in codependent. I was codependent for majority of my life and it would, it was bad early on and it got worse and then it got worse. And then it got worse until I had to literally surrender and say, I need help. And I need to, you know, figure this out because we don't believe in identity. You are not a codependent. You are a divine, spiritual being. You are here as a creator and you can create yourself having an experience of being codependent or dysfunctional. But the truth is the truth of who you are, is not that the truth of who you are is pure potential and that you can heal from this.

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Okay? So when I'm working with somebody who is dealing with codependency or dysfunctional relationship, where they have ups and downs, even if it's not screaming till three o'clock in the morning where they're getting triggered, they're getting into those, those past triggers. Those past traumas are being, it's like having a little scab and every time it starts healing, the scab gets picked off. Again, it starts bleeding again. Okay. So the point is, is that you cannot grow. You cannot well see people that have their ups and downs their rollercoaster, and they're unable to really have great growth in their personal professional life. They're unable to maintain their, their relationships with their family and friends. They're unable to maintain their jobs or careers or they barely do, but it doesn't thrive at all. They're unable to have their health starts de diminishing because of the dysfunction. So the issue is dysfunction is dangerous.

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And if somebody's screaming at you guys are screaming till three o'clock in the morning, it's super dangerous for the psyche. So again, if I'm working with somebody and they're in dysfunctional relationship, it goes like a look, I will give you 30 days for you to be able to take some distinctions and take some meditation and do your own inner work. But at the end of 30 days, if you are still getting triggered and really upset, then we have to have an agreement. We either stop working together or you need to leave that environment. Okay? Because there's no point they're wasting their money. I'm wasting my time. If they're in a dysfunctional relationship, it's not going to get better until they are able to stand peace. And whether they can stay in peace in that relationship or whether they need to leave that environment. That depends on them.

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I would never make that decision for anybody. But what I know for sure is someone that's working with somebody who's in a dysfunctional relationship. There's no point there's only, that's why they have intervention. That's why they have re rehab places. You go and stand because some people can't break the cycle. It is as strong as cocaine and heroin. The love, the love, um, talk all the love chemicals in the body are as strong as cocaine. It is very strong. Believe me. I remember trying to break up and stay broken up. And the withdrawals from the relationship were horrific. I would, you know, you, you forget the, the brain forgets all the bad things and only remembers the amazing times. And it wants that heroin again, and it's gonna crave it and it's gonna find every way to justify to get that heroin again. Okay. So this is whoever wrote this, you know, saying that you're currently in a boyfriend with a boyfriend that it's good, 80% of the time.

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And then it gets horrific like screaming at show until 3:00 AM. This is dangerous. Okay. This is called the Merry merry-go-round. And this ends in three ways. I'm gonna say it again. Someone calling the police, which usually means, you know, jail or people having criminal records or people, you know, it's not good or death. Yes. Domestic violence is real. Okay. And number three is insanity. Or maybe could say mentally ill, okay, we're talking about PTSD. We're talking about depression. We're talking about people not doing well. Codependency and dysfunctional relationships, I would say is the majority of things that ruin lives. So it's up to you. You can do whatever you choose to do with your life. But I'm gonna tell you from a doctor divinity standpoint, from a universal law standpoint, from a subconscious mind perspective, you are in a dangerous situation right now. If we all knew the power of our subconscious mind and we treated it with totally sacred being so cautious of what we put into our subconscious mind, we would, our lives would get so much better.

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So please take the time to go to a co-dependent meeting. We also have recovery meetings now that we're gonna be rolling out that are seven days a week free to the public within new thought global and society. The practitioners hold them. And they're amazing. They're all based in metaphysics and truth and everything. So, um, I will put that in my link, um, in Instagram at Dr. aaron.tv, D R E R I n.tv. And you can check out someone of those recovery calls, please do yourself the favor, get the help, get the support, get the community that you need. It is very, very important. Okay. Where are we on time? Um, I wanna make sure not, we're not going too long on this. Okay. We're gonna do one more question and then we're gonna bounce out of here. Okay. Next question is, Hey, Dr. E I recently got into a new relationship.

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He is wonderful, but I don't know if he wants to commit or not. We talk about marriage and commitment, but it's always super vague. How do you know without asking if they plan on wanting marriage? Oh boy. Um, I remember years ago, uh, a male friend of mine said, you know, the problem with most women and this is a total, um, uh, not the truth. It's a very, uh, vague what's, what's the word I'm looking for? It's a, um, okay. Well he said most women listen to what a man says instead of what he does. They don't just witness what he does. They buy into the fantasy of what he tells him instead of the truth of who he's being. Okay. So my invitation for you is to take a look at his actions. Is he showing up consistently? Does he do what he says?

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Is he, you know, saying that he's committed to, or not, as far as wherever it may be, is he committed to, you know, just seeing you consistently throughout the week, is he telling you that he's not seen anyone else? Is he, you know, where is he at right now? What are his actions that he is doing versus is he talking about the concept of marriage and talking about future and talking about things as, you know, having you play into a fantasy ask kind of where it could potentially go versus the reality of where it is. And so my question for you, as far as, you know, the universe will just respond to, to your beliefs, right? We have to look at you and not him. Okay. First and foremost, what is the belief that you have most people that would ask this question generally would have the belief that they're not worthy of being married.

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The fact that you're even asking the question begs for the question of what do you believe you're worthy of? You know, if you would, if, if you in your soul and your heart would even think that somebody is not having that intention, then let me ask you this. Why would you even be with them? Because if you, we all have intuition, we all have this inside of us already. We know what someone's intentions are from a, from an intuitive perspective. We know when someone's showing up committed or not committed at whatever level the relationship is at, we know when somebody's being their word, we know we can feel it in our soul, in our heart. And so my question again for you is why, if you are questioning this, it means that you're questioning it as a whole. So why would you be with somebody that you're questioning?

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Because that just reflects upon you of your own belief of your self belief in yourself and your worthiness, a beam with somebody that truly sees you as the divine queen that you are, if you are that right, no one, no one puts a crown on our head. We put our own crown on our own head. We decide our own. Self-worth no one can give us our self-worth. Our self-worth is given by our higher self, from our divine nature. And so, again, this isn't about him and we can take a look at how he's being in his actions versus his words, versus whatever as he fullness integrity. But none of that matters because what matters is the point of you even asking this question? So my invitation for you is to no longer look to the world for commitment, no longer look to the world, to have validation, no longer look to the world for any of that.

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It is an inside job. And when we truly get in source and in prayer and in the oneness and the unity of merging and the divine marriage within between our higher self and our lower self, that is the only marriage that is, that has to be the first marriage before we're able to truly have a union in the human realm. And on that note, I just have to say a couple things in that I absolutely believe in marriage. I absolutely believe in love. I absolutely believe in, in all of that, but I also know the facts that, you know, we have over 50% divorce rate. And so, and the people that are married, you know, who knows, it's less than half of those people are happy. There's stats. Some stats say that, you know, less than 20% of people are happy in marriage. And there's other stats that will say that people that are married that are older are very happy.

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Okay. There's stats from, for the example from Berkeley, um, it states that, um, Paul Dolan did an actual study where he said that women actually are less happy in marriage. Men are more happy in marriage than women. And he has a book hap happily ever after escaping the myth of the perfect life. And the point is, this is that I'm not here to, to say you shouldn't get married as a woman by any means, but I'm here to say that a lot of women are very delusional about marriage, completing them. We watch one too many Disney movies, and we have expectations that are not reality. And so the point is, is I want each and every one of us to be fulfilled in all of our relationships. And if we, you know, create ourselves to be the mentally equivalent, to be somebody that is able to have a best friend and, and have a partner beautiful.

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And if not, there are so many deep relationships we can have with our friends, their family, with our community. And, and it does not mean that someone's better or worse if they're married or not married, we need to really truly get over that as a culture. Okay. So finishing up and following up with this last question, you know, can you tell somebody's wanting marriage or not? I would say it's not the question to ask the question to ask is what is it gonna take for you to fully commit and marry yourself in the union, within yourself for you to fully know the truth that you are love, that you are the ever flowing abundance of love. And then until you get that, you know, I would probably say you probably shouldn't get married. I mean, honestly, from a, from a girlfriend perspective, there's nothing worse than seeing a girlfriend get married.

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That doesn't, hasn't found herself, honestly, it's painful to watch. I'm not gonna lie. And then seeing two people get married that truly love themselves and are able to fully be in that marriage is one of the most beautiful thing. Okay. So on this note, I'm so excited to do this first call in Q and a show. It's so much fun, please, if you would like some deep dive into anything around relationships and love around becoming a spiritual entrepreneur, um, also around career and money and health and vitality or creative expression, finding your purpose in calling anything, we could talk about anything we could talk about. Um, I don't know, whatever it is that you wanna talk about. You can DM meet on social media. You can also, um, go to our website. There's a number there also, you can call it in, you can also text it to that number.

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This is first live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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If you're somebody who has been dating or is in a relationship with the narcissist, or maybe you're with somebody who just seems really self-centered or maybe you are in a relationship that has ups and downs, you're on a roller coaster breaking up, getting back together, or maybe you're just in a marriage, even that where you just feel like you're not getting your needs met, that you are with somebody that you think if they just changed, then everything would be better. Then you want to listen to this podcast. I'm going to tell you today, what you truly don't want to hear. I'm gonna break it on down because guess what? I was in the relationship as well. I was codependent for years and years in and out of relationship, up and down, hoping and wishing and trying to change the other person, getting so obsessed with what it means to be with a narcissist and thinking something's wrong with them.

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Let me fix and change them until one day, the truth set me free. So you want to listen to this podcast. This is the Dr. Aaron show. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly know the truth that when somebody awakens you have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. This is Dr. Aaron, Dr. O divinity training and developing spiritual coaches, spiritual practitioners, spiritual ministers teachers, and yes, doctors of divinity. So let's do this thing. You guys let's do this thing. So as many of you guys know I am a recovered codependent. I was in multiple dysfunctional relationships growing up with a mother that was also in dysfunctional relationships and a father as well. Both of them were totally codependent and, um, ended up getting into an abusive.

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My first abusive relationship was in high school of all things. And, um, it was mentally abusive and actually got physically abusive. I ended up marrying somebody that I really had no business mirror and I didn't know myself. And, um, I thought something was wrong with him. I thought he was a narcissist and, um, so on and so forth, the story goes from there. And as you guys know, it ended up with my low was being engaged with a famous rockstar. That was what maybe a psychologist would say, a narcissist, a bipolar, uh, a borderline personality and so on and so forth. But I believe this, I believe that if you're listening to this podcast, if you are in a codependent relationship, a dysfunctional relationship, or even with a narcissist, that is because you truly desire to be a leader. And so, first of all, I wanna acknowledge you.

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I wanna acknowledge you that you would not be going through what you're going through. If you weren't ready to master it, you would not even be given this masterclass called a narcissist. If you were not ready to master it and understand it. And I remember years back when I was, had been doing so much spiritual work and I was like, how could I be doing this much work for this many years and still into dysfunctional relationship? And it dawned on me because when we decide that we want to become masters, we have to go through that master class. Right? So today I'm going to break on down the truth of narcissism, the truth of narcissism. And co-dependency because it's like a coin. Okay. And on one side of the coin, there's narcissism and on the other side of the coin is co-dependency. You can't have one without the other.

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It's impossible. So really I'm gonna break this down from a metaphysical standpoint. Okay. Because a lot of psychology these days has actually been kind of, um, it's been, um, it's been disorganized in that a lot of psychology looks at the behavior. Like they call it psychology behavior. Right? And they're looking at actually the effect they're looking at what people are doing with their behaviors. And in a true psychology is the study to soul, which we do in new thought global. And we do from a metaphysical standpoint is we actually look at what's happening from a soul perspective instead. Okay. So the reason why I'm doing this podcast is because I've had a couple, um, get togethers with girlfriends, highly evolved women. Okay. These are not dummies. These are not victims of the world. And I've had a couple meals and, and get togethers with very evolved girlfriends with them, basically being in completely dysfunctional relationships.

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We're talking them, talking about their narcissist partner and them kind of knowing they're like, I know it's me. I know what I know. It's like, I don't believe myself, but they're still focusing on the narcissist. Okay. So this is a total pattern that whether you see it in yourself, whether you see it in your girlfriend or a guy friend or whatever it is that this is the pattern, okay. You sit down to lunch or dinner with your girlfriend and they begin to tell you how awful their partner is. Oh, well, he did this. Oh, well, he's addicted to porn or, oh, he, um, got really mad and was yelling at me for hours. Oh, he is selfish. And does X, Y, and Z. Okay. Their entire conversation is focused on the narcissist. Okay. Because that's what a narcissist does. A narcissist basically is self absorbs needs, attentions and admiration.

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Obviously always gas lights and makes you the problem and, and points a finger at you. And then they slam you down. They wanna make belittle you as much as possible. So that you begin to question your own. Like you begin to question yourself and that you actually begin to feel like you need them because the same person that puts you down, if they give you admiration, then it begins to have like this psychological hold, right. They lack empathy. They're in troubled relationships. And they are, they basically are always needing to create drama to create the need because they're actually very insecure. Narcissists are extraordinarily insecure. In fact, they have no true identity based in divine, based in source. And so they get their identity from being needed out in the world. So they will cause a lot of discord, a lot of dysfunction just to get the attention.

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So the opposite of that is the codependent. And the codependent basically will constantly be focusing on the, the narcissist or the dysfunctional per whatever they wanna call it. The person that is the problem of the relationship when actually it's equal and opposite because the codependent, instead of them focusing on themselves, it's actually cuz they have such low self worth and such low self value that they don't believe they're worthy of a, a relationship that is, that is peaceful. They don't believe they're worthy of having, you know, somebody that is they're equal. They don't believe they're worthy of, of having a loving kindness relationship. They're constantly feeling like they're not enough. And it's such a subconscious program that they think that it actually has nothing to do with themselves. There's a great concept. Guy. Richie, I think had a done multiple movies and you may know him or not.

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He was used to be married to Madonna. And there's this one, this one film that's about these mobsters. And they're all kind of like, you know, killing each other and they're doing insanity things. And guy Richie has this, this quote in this movie where he talks about basically one day you realize that the only con is yourself. And I'm speaking to the codependent right now because you're conning yourself. You're lying to yourself. You're deflecting. Just like you say, the narcissist is deflecting. You are deflecting. The narcissist is your way of deflecting to yourself of you not realizing that you are actually the problem. The narcissist is just gonna do the narcissist. You are the problem. You're the problem in that you are hurting yourself by staying in it. You're the one who's deflecting and, and not showing up for your friends and your family. You're the one that's not taking care of yourself.

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You're the one that's doing self abuse and self sabotage by staying in the relationship with the narcissist. And I say this because I love you. I'm speaking to my friends right now. I'm speaking to my friends right now. I'm speaking to my clients right now. I'm speaking to the people that I sit across the table from even two to this day that I see them ruining their lives by the relationships they're keeping themselves in. And I'm gonna say that for our culture, we have a codependent culture. And the truth is that codependency is the core of all spiritual discord because what true codependency is, it's placing the power outside of self. So whether you are codependent in your relationship with your narcissist boyfriend or husband, or whether you are codependent of looking to social media for all the stuff going on in the world and making yourself upset about what's going on in the world, it comes back to that.

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The moment that we place our power out in the world is the moment that we become disempowered. And so for everybody that is dealing with codependency, because what actually happened and why we've created daily recovery calls in our community, radical recovery recovery, based in metaphysic science of mind, based in truth, understanding that what you believe and your soul in your subconscious mind is going to out picture. And whether it may be calling in the narcissist or calling in the bipolar partner or the dysfunctional relationship that nine outta 10 people have come into our community, don't even know what codependency is. And they realize, oh my gosh, this has doesn't have to do with my, you know, partner that's crazy or they're mean, or they yell or they're abusive or they're a narcissist or they this, or they that, or they, whatever that they realize that they can no longer be a victim.

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They can no longer be the effect of that anymore. When they realize and wake up to the truth, may we know the truth and may the truth set us free, right? The famous saying it is done onto you, as you believe these are famous, famous truths, quotes and truths and biblical and all the above. Because what I know for sure is that truth is truth. And if the truth of narcissism is that codependency and narcissism is one and the same, our culture from a lot of the times, the women's aspect of our culture will make the, the, uh, perpetrator terrible. The perpetrator's awful. The man is awful. The narcissist is awful. Men are bad and wrong. That's a generality. Okay? Not everybody believes that, but that is a cultural belief. Okay? The cultural belief of men is shame and thinking that women are crazy or that women are the victims and their, um, controlling and all that.

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Okay. They don't oftentimes say it verbally. Like the women say our side, right? In a cultural perspective. I'm not saying that I believe any of this. I'm saying that it is a cultural collective thing that we've got going on. It's time for us to wake up. Especially as women, we have to stop blaming. We have to stop blaming. We have to stop being the victims of people, a healthy person. If they met a narcissist, they would see the first red flag. And they'd say, thanks, but no, thanks. That's your issue. And I know my worth and I would never even give you attention, right? I wouldn't even give you my energy because I know who I am. And I don't wouldn't wanna be around someone that's self-centered and has no empathy. And that CRAs create chaos, right? A healthy person would know that because they'd know the truth of who they are and they wouldn't need to have the belief that love equals pain.

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Love equals suffering. Love equals insanity, to feel like, oh, this must be love, right? Oftentimes we think, oh, if it's not like heart wrenching, that it's not love. If it's not like all encompassing and interpretating and completely enmeshing, it must not be love. Well that's because we have trauma at a subconscious level, which means that we have a limited belief, limited identity and a divided perspective of life. And that discord is our normal. And so today I say no more to all my friends that I sit across meals from to all my clients that I listen to. May we be set free? May we come to the truth of recovery and know that the narcissist is simply the projection and reflection of our own beliefs and our own inner work to be done. So I say, thank you to the narcissist, thank you to the bipolar.

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Thank you to the borderline personality. I say, thank you to my ex. I give thanks and gratitude to him every single day in my prayers. I love him unconditionally. And I know healthy boundaries. I know whatever he is experiencing in this lifetime is a relative experience for him to know more of the divine that he is. I give gratitude for those dark dark nights. I give gratitude for that insanity of text that we'd send each other. I give thanks for him. Falling off the wagon and sleeping with other women and cheating on me. I give thanks because if it weren't for all of that insanity and his narcissism and him needing to have attention from every single human being and for him having to create insanity so that everyone would try and, you know, help him fix him, change him, all that, because he needed to be absorbed. He needed to have attention. He needed to have troubled relationships for him to feel like he was worthy of having energy. And in this, I know that the truth is you are not codependent. You're not a narcissist. None of you guys, you are divine spiritual beings and that whatever you believe your true identity is will out picture into your life.

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Mary Baker, Eddie, the famous, uh, new thought movement teacher. She's actually not considered part of the movement because her, um, Christian science was a bit dog dogmatic and became, uh, not what we teach in new thought movement, which is open at the top, which is celebrating each individual expression. But Mary Baker, Eddie had a huge, profound effect upon our teachings in that she did teach truth. Okay. Truth is immortal. A error is mortal. Okay? The truth is you are not your relationship right now. You're not your dysfunction. You're not any of this false identity. Sin makes its own hell. Meaning. Sin is not something that you are. Sin is the misuse of energy. When we misuse our energy and create things like narcissism and codependency and dysfunctional relationship, we have living hell. When we go back to truth, when we know how to use our energy for good, we create heaven on earth. Okay?

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DISE is an experience of so called the mortal mind, as she said, DISE is the misuse of our energy. Okay? So the DISE of narcissism, the dis disease of codependency, these are all not the truth. You are not that this is not your true identity. And that's why we love 12 step, but we don't do 12 step in new thought global. We use metaphysics of mine because you are not your identity. You're not your DISE. You're not your you're not labeled for the rest of your life. As a narcissist, narcissist can recover. Codependence can recover when they find the truth of who they are when they base it in, in spirit. So this is if I were to write the prescription, the prescription for a narcissist, the prescription for a codependent, because it's one and the same, it's one. And the same. If you point the finger at somebody, you become the effect of them.

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If you hang around a victim long enough, you will become the perpetrator. Okay? You can't have one without the other. The prescription, the answer, the solvent for all codependency and narcissism is one thing. And one thing only, and it is to no longer place your value, your identity, your worth, anything out into the world. The answer is to go within and no longer ever make anybody your source or any situation, your source, the moment that you make somebody, your source of joy, you instantaneously make, 'em your source of suffering. You cannot have one without the other. Okay? So as a co-dependent, if you're looking for love, you're looking for that soul flame. You're looking for your soulmate. You will always be in the suffering because, uh, if you need somebody to complete you, that means you're not complete. And you will always find suffering forever until you realize that you are love until you realize that you are whole and complete, as you are, until you realize that that, that anyone in your life is a bonus to synergize and express with that's all it can ever be.

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And so, as, as the, you know, traditional psychology medical term of narcissism, narcissistic personality disorder is one of several types of personal disorder is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. But behind the mask of extreme confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that's vulnerable and slightest criticism, right? So you'll find that with the narcissist, if you criticize them whatsoever, they'll get triggered and they'll start making you wrong. They'll blow up. We call it walking out a shells, right? If we're with somebody that's a narcissist, we also become completely over, um, stimulated with, because we're like PTSD all the time, because we've been in huge arguments with the narcissist, they'll blow off the handle. They'll yell, they'll scream. They'll make whatever wrong because they can't handle any type of confrontation because they're actually, their self-esteem is so little, a narcissist personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school and financial affairs.

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People with narcissistic personality may be generally unhappy and disappointed when they're not given the special favors or admiration, they believe they deserve. They may find their relationships unfulfilling and others may not enjoy being around them. This is the truth. If you're a codependent, if you keep talking about the narcissist, talking about your partner, what he or she did all their problems, no one wants to be around you. It starts to get old. It's like the broken record. It's never cry Wolf. Okay? If you keep pointing the finger at other people, people around you, the only people that are gonna be able to be around you are victims also because they're the only ones that are gonna be in that same conversation over and over again, healthy people will no longer wanna be around you after time, because it's it exhausting. And trust me, I know this because I was that person.

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I was talking about my ex complaining about him, talking about what he did next. And, and slowly people are like, sweetheart, you gotta get help or look, I gotta go. Or the only ones that stay around here are other people that are in dysfunctional relationship because you guys are just like, you just love to sit around and complain all the time. And so this is the deal there's answers. I remember being so messed up from my relationship with the narcissist I had PTSD. I could not go more than like, and within an hour, I'd think of him. And what had happened multiple times. It was like constantly playing records because all the mental pictures of all the trauma were playing over and over in my head. And I can say that if you do your trauma work, if you get into recovery program, if you come into an, uh, community that deals with codependency or deals with dysfunctional relationship, you can heal.

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I can honestly say with my entire heart today that I am free, that I live in peace, that I do not have upsets. That doesn't mean I don't have some hard days or, you know, not living completely and joy 24 7. But that means I am not dysfunctional, that I no longer look to the world for my source, that I no longer am trying to fix or change anyone. I'm no longer complaining about anyone. This is true freedom. I take responsibility for my life and my happiness. And no one is on the hook to make me happy or complete me. That is full recovery. The truth, knowing the truth of who you are, which you are a divine spiritual creator, and that you could create anything you want, love harmony, amazing relationships, empowered relationship, having incredibly, you know, incredible people in your life that no truth that take response way that no longer need to have discord or shenanigans or anything that this is a truth.

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And that heaven is waiting for you right now. And so in this I to say, take a deep breath in, say a prayer for anyone out there that is still dealing in the suffering of the narcissistic and codependent cycle, the ups and down the Merry around the insanity, the hell on earth. I just simply know that there is truth and the truth will set you free as together we say. And so it is. And so if you, or someone, you know, is, is dealing with dysfunctional relationship or codependency, or you're an narcissist and you really are ready to recover. Um, we invite you, we invite you into our community. I would highly recommend getting trained in the coaching program because the coaching program, you actually get to actually do try calls and you get to actually do your own trauma work and you get to go into recovery calls every day of the week.

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You don't need to be, um, in codependency, we have lots of people that are just in there because they are rising in their ability to get trained, to help people, you know, burn their purpose and legacy. We have all kinds of things, but if you're dealing with, um, codependency, which nine to 10 people have come into our program are dealing with that. It's not their focus. It's not our focus of our program, but is one thing that we've implemented for everybody. Because at some level, everybody deals with codependency, whether it be with their parents, whether it be with their child, whether it be whatever, whether it be with money, it's all codependency because you're dependent upon that for your joy. And so we release that, um, in powerfully in our programs. Okay. So have a beautiful day. If you got something out of this podcast and you have a friend that is dealing with any of this, please share it with them. It's really important. Narcissism is a huge con conversation and people wanna focus on the narcissist instead of taking responsibility for themselves.

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Share it out. Knowing this together, we will rise, have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth? Thank

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Are you somebody who's had a spiritual calling and you are desiring to monetize your spiritual gift so that you can make an impact in the world. Well, then you want to listen to this today. I'm gonna give you my entire methodology front to back, everything of how to become a six to seven figure spiritual leader and coach. And I am so excited to do this with you guys today. Okay. So first of all, I just wanna say, I am so honored to spend this time with you. I know that if I can become a world renowned spiritual leader, you can too, let's do this thing. Okay. So first of all, I just wanna say that if you're somebody that is struggling, you've had a spiritual calling, but you're not quite sure how to make it into a career. Maybe you've, you know, done a lot of work already, but you're not quite sure you haven't built a framework or maybe you are struggling to get clients.

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You are putting yourself out there. You're bringing a lot of value, but you're having a hard time getting your first clients, or maybe you already have clients, but you're struggling to get consistent in your income and be able to scale in what you're doing. Or maybe you're somebody that is still in a traditional job or a corporate job, but you are having a calling and you don't know how to transition into and make the quantum leap into what you truly wanna do, which is spiritual work. Or maybe you already have a business and you're ready to implement and bring spiritual principles into your business. No matter where you are this entire, uh, episode, this methodology front to back is gonna really give you a very clear, concise understanding of what it takes to implement and do this in your business, whether you're online or whether you're out in the world.

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This methodology is something that I've taken me decades to, to hone down and to get to a place where I'm able to teach it and implement it and have people have great transformation in their personal professional lives. Okay, so let's do this thing. So again, I'm Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity, founder of new thought global and society. And I'm also international bestselling author. Obviously I have a top rated podcast. I'm a mother. And, um, the truth is that I am just so honored to be the 20, 20 Walden wisdom award next to Oprah Winfrey, Greg Braden and Michael Beckwith Forbes nominated me as 11 of the most inspirational FEMA entrepreneurs to watch on Instagram. And so the truth is, if I can do this, you guys, you can do this. I was a young struggling mother. I came from a background that I was really had no principles.

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My parents were divorced. I was date raped in high school, had bulimia from 17 to 20. I had, um, I thought all my problems would get, uh, solved. If I just got married, I ended up getting married and have a stillborn full term, stillborn 22, which sent me on a spiritual track. So it's been 25 years of seeking truth. So the wisdom that I'm gonna bring you today, you want to turn off everything. You want to get a pen and paper out. You want, you'll probably listen to this a couple times because there's so many truth bombs and, and incredible business, uh,

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Hacks here and everything else. Okay. So let's do this thing. So I'm gonna break you on through the three ways we help spiritual base people monetize. Okay. Doesn't matter if you wanna be a coach or you already are, whether you are wanting to be a practitioner or rise up into a doctor divinity, or whether you already have a soul based biz and sell services or products is going to apply to all of you. Okay? So it's three ways we help spiritual entrepreneurs, Mon monetize. I'm gonna break on down our entire mindset, uh, framework my entire mindset framework, doing all the trauma, work, everything. And then also the skill set, the most trusted and proven six step system in the industry that coaches that are 6, 7, 8, 9 figures use. Okay. And then expertise. So how we, how we build and train and develop and certify expertise in the industry of spiritual work.

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Okay. So let's do this thing. So first of all, the three ways that we help spiritual entrepreneurs, because we recognize if you have a spiritual calling, right? You're like I've had this spiritual calling. I love work. I love consciousness. I love this entire thing. Maybe you've gone through some different programs. You've done a lot of inner work. Now, what, how do you actually monetize? How do you make your love, your passion for spirituality into something that you're able to do to actually make enough money to sustain yourself and way beyond that, to be able to actually make an abundance of, of, of monetization, because we understand money is just an exchange of energy and the truth is the universe is only abundant. So the three ways that we help spiritual entrepreneurs monetize is number one, by helping them get their mindset. Right? So that they actually believe because we, we know that when somebody hasn't done their true inner work, they, first of all, won't believe they're worthy of making, you know, six or seven figures.

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They also will sabotage what they are trying to do, or three they'll end up having a lot of money, but they aren't fulfilled cause they're not doing what they wanna do. So we first and foremost, which is the most important thing is we help them get their mindset, right. And we're gonna get into how we do that. Okay. The second way that we help entrepreneurs monetize is we train and develop them in the most proven and trusted, uh, business six step system that 6, 7, 8 figure coaches use across the board. Okay. And thirdly, the way that we help spiritual entrepreneurs monetize is by training and developing and certifying them in certain modalities. Okay. So for example, we had a, a coach that came in, she had already been through a great program. It was a great mind, uh, like sales, tactic bus, very business oriented, and Clara was, uh, she was doing okay.

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She was very inconsistent, but she also was finding that she was getting burned out. She was hustling. She was doing all this stuff because she was really trying to keep up with other influencers. And when she came into new thought global and society, what happened was she ended up doing her deep, deep work and birthing her legacy and birthing her true purpose and calling. And she ended up, um, really excelling. She actually had her first $42,000 month. And she actually said she didn't get burnout anymore because she was so in alignment with what she really was here to do on this planet. The second is for skill. So for example, um, there was a woman, her name was Christie and she's amazing. She's over in Hawaii. And we train and develop also, and how to launch like a five day challenge. And Christie came in, she applied the principles and the first month she launched a five day challenge with only 33 people in it.

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And she ended up doing her first $10,000 month. Okay. So if she, she, you know, she had like a couple clients before that was it. She only had, like, she barely had made any money ever in the industry. She didn't know how to do it. Exactly. She had built somewhat of a framework, but not, not much at all. And she had a first $10,000 month and was able to understand how to keep doing five day challenges and how to make it really work. Um, the third example for expertise, um, we have a great coach, her name's Carly, she's amazing. Um, she implemented the E four trauma method into her existing coaching, uh, practice. And she actually, for the first time had consistent $20,000 a month because she was getting such profound results on her client through the E four trauma method. Okay. So we wanna understand that if you truly have this desire, then the truth is that there's a way, okay.

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If there's a will, there's a way, and your will is actually God's will. Okay. There's no difference. It's really just tapping into the authentic will that you are. So we have to look at who are we? You know, why, why would you want to do these, this part of, of new thought global? Well, new thought global. If you're not familiar with us and our community, we are part of a movement that has been around for, you know, centuries. It's actually what we call new thought ancient wisdom, because it's nothing new. We actually teach truth. We teach metaphysics of mind. We teach spiritual awakening. We teach and how to reprogram the subconscious mind because the subconscious mind is one with the divine mind, it's subjective mind, right? So we create, we, we basically teach the creative process. It is part of there's about 1500 spiritual centers that are alignment with us, um, unity and, uh, science and mind, and a bunch of things.

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We are not dogmatic. We're not a religion in new thought global. Uh, we teach the power of the mind. We teach the power of energy. We PE we teach it there as a consciousness, which is your true self and it's source and it's spirit. And it is the first cause of all of life. And this is what is creating your reality. And each individual has the use of that one use of all potential and they individually use it, but it is, it can be bounded by the limited beliefs in your subconscious mind, from trauma, from all kinds of things. And we teach how to clear out the soul, clear out the subconscious mind so that you're able to manifest and demonstrate in a way that you've never been able to before. Okay. So, so how do we do this? We're gonna get into that. Okay.

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So who we are is we are a, a community that develops world class and world renowned spiritual leaders. That really is our mission. Our mission is to awaken a billion people on the planet and how we really like know that we're gonna fulfill upon that mission is by developing and training, spiritual entrepreneurs, spiritual coaches, spiritual practitioners, um, new thought teachers and ministers. And of course, doctors of divinity. Yes. Okay. So we wanna get into this. So let's break on down the actual, my entire methodology for the skillset, the expertise, um, and your mindset. Okay. The three things, the mindset, your skillset and your expertise. These are the three ways that we help spiritually based people monetize. Okay. So number one, let's go into this mindset. This is all about the spiritual mastery. And we recognize it until we deal with our subconscious mind, until we deal with our, our consciousness.

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I can give you all the skillset in the world, but it's not going to work. Right. It won't work. If you don't understand that you're and you believe in yourself, right? So mindset, we teach and train primarily in people how to do, um, how the creative process, of course, metaphysics of mind, we teach what's called the E four trauma method. It's, uh, it's a modality that I created years ago. And it is something that helps basically transform the trauma. So what we found is that people can wanna be successful all day long, but they may have a belief of I'm not enough, or I'm not worthy or something's wrong with me, or I can't do this, or whatever it is we call it commands. And what happens at a subconscious level is we have, we have moments. We have moments where we're in a high, high state of emotion.

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And, and we understand that the moment that we put a positive or negative me on anything, we instantaneously have a positive or negative emotion and feeling that comes with it. And so trauma is basically a high, high state of an emotion that happens that, that your subconscious mind is so open because you have so much energy and so much emotion. And then you decide something, you command a limited belief. I'm not enough, I'm not worthy. I can't do this, whatever it is. And that goes into the subconscious mind and plays out like an automated record that plays over and over again, like puppet strings in your life. And so the, the process and the framework that I use, whether I'm training and developing a world renowned spiritual leader, or whether I'm dealing with the top CEO or whether I'm dealing, dealing with a single mother, just struggling, the framework is always the same on clients.

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Um, I always take them through the E four trauma method to try and clear out as much subconscious stuff as possible to clear the soul. The second thing we do is we take the framework is taking them through the entire truth, triangle, the truth triangle is it burs, someone's power, their passion and their purpose. Okay. So we go through and get clear of what someone's core values are. We get clear of, um, setting, healthy boundaries. We get clear and, and take back the power of everywhere. We've handed it over in life. And we begin to, um, birth someone's, um, passion, you know, really getting clear of what their values are, what it is, because what happens is the trauma that you've gone through in this lifetime, when it's transmuted, it actually is able to become your purpose and calling in legacy. So this is what the core work that we do in, in, in doing the mindset work, the spiritual mastery work.

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So this is all about birthing someone so that they're able to have total clarity, totally know their truth, totally know their values and completely know what their purpose and legacy is that they're here to do. And so in that they become so powerful. Even if I'm working with a top CEO that already has a business, we still would do that exact same work because when they get clear of what works on their policies and their business gets better, their, their ability to lead is better. Their ability to get clarity on their products and services exponentially grows. Right? So all of this is the same work we do for anyone is, is having their mindset get right. Okay. So if you're coming into new thought global and society and getting trained in it, you get trained in how to do this for your client, how to take them through E four trauma method, how to help somebody taking them through truth triangle and birthing their truth.

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Okay. So you do it for yourself and you do it for your clients. That's part of the amazing part of our training. Okay. The second is skillset. Let's talk about skillset, which is the most trusted and proven six step system. And we understand that this, again, in order to monetize your love for spirituality, we have to understand, you know, skillset, you need some business skillset. So, um, so number one is a six step system. Okay. So number one is, is position yourself as an expert in the world. Number two is, um, creating what's called a freebie so that you can actually have an exchange of information in people's emails. Number three is a value sequence, meaning a five day challenge, a three day challenge, a V I P day, a workshop, um, maybe even a free coaching session. So and so forth. Number four is the actual offer.

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Number five is the upsell. And number six is the down sale. So what does this mean? Exactly? This is a six step system that we train in this entire methodology. I did not come up with this. I've been trained for years and years. I've spent over $250,000 on my own education. I'm in, you know, $40,000 mastermind with elite women that do multiple six figures and multiple seven figures. And this is the same system. It doesn't matter if you don't even have your first client, or if you are a seven figure coach, this is the exact same system that you use, that you're always developing these six areas of your business. Okay. So let's start again. Number one is position yourself an expertise. This is done through things like social media, and there's actually 10 things to post on social media, which we train and, and also getting your media up or getting positioned as an expert from everything from going and doing talks to having maybe your own podcast or being on other podcast, or maybe it's writing a book or whatever.

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You're constantly developing, becoming an expertise and position yourself in the industry. Okay. And how we do this also is through the mindset work we get clear of who your actual client is. Who's your avatar, what's your mission, all of that. Okay. So then when we come into the business skill set, we can look at, at, at knowing how you wanna position yourself as an expert. Okay. Number two of the six step system is freebie, which means here, your people are, they see you online. They're seeing you as an expert. They're, they're, you know, reading your post they're, they're starting to engage. They maybe they've got notifications cuz they wanna, they like your info. So now you're putting out a freebie, right? For us, it is say a free quiz on what type of a spiritual entrepreneur you are, or maybe it's a, a blueprint on, you know, how to, um, monetize your gifts for spirituality.

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Um, maybe it is some guided meditations or whatever it is. It's a freebie. So it's kind of like dating when you first date, you know, it's like let's exchange our information. And the good thing is when they, if they don't take your freebie, then you know, you, you haven't positioned yourself in the first step as an expertise. So this is a very important thing. This entire six step thing is kind of like imaginary of a conveyor belt of business. And you have to do all these sequence, the one through six sequence. And if something goes wrong in one sequence, it's because the one before it didn't work. Okay. And then you wanna, then you want to master the next step. Okay. So step number one is position yourself as an expertise in the marketplace. Number two is a freebie it's in exchanging their information, their contact information, their email information in exchange for something that's bringing value to them, exchange for you to also position and begin to teach 'em something from your expertise.

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Number three is doing a value sequence. And this is probably the most important part of this six step system. It's understanding that that someone needs to experience your work. Okay? Most people won't just invest in themselves until they've experienced something. They, they wanna, they wanna know, right. That's why you're listening to this, right? They wanna know what it is that you do. They wanna experience. They wanna know that they get value. So just like this right here, if you don't get great value from this, or you're like, oh my gosh, that blew my mind. This, this audio on understanding how to monetize. Like you, you should get so much out of this and you're gonna get clarity, right? If you don't, then it's not, it's not a value. So value sequence can be anything like a three day challenge, a five day challenge. It could be this right here, this, this audio, it could be a video sequence.

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It could be a V I P day. It could be a workshop. Everything needs to be for free and the value sequence and why we do that is because we understand universal law. What we want to receive. We've got to give it right. If you want value money, you've got to give value, right? If you want love, you've gotta give love, right? This is the law of the universe. And so the value sequence in the six step business system is imperative. It's why when you walk into a store, sometimes they'll give you a water for free or something because they know that if they give you something, they now are, it's like law. You're going to give something back at some level, right? So step number four of the six step system is the actual offer. And this is a mastery in of itself. We try and develop people how to create, um, their products and pricing, how to get clear of what that is and how to actually present it, how to, how to give 10 X the value of what someone's paying for through bonuses, through different things.

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And also what we call juxta positioning, which means that if I give you an offer, say it's, you know, um, a $5,000 product or something like that, that product, I should give you $50,000 worth of value, because that is that's through bonuses, through whatever. And I know that if I give you a $5,000, um, program, I know I I've priced in a way that I'm going to have massive, massive value. And I know for example, um, some of our competitors are double our prices and don't even have business in it. They're just teaching practitioners or they're just teaching whatever, but they don't actually have the things that we teach. So I know for sure in the juxtaposition that people pretty much can't afford to do our programs. Like they will take 10 times the amount of time to do it, or they'll pay a lot more or they won't even have success.

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So I know for sure in an offer that I'm juxtapositioning and we have bonuses, we give bonuses. If they, you know, we want to, um, commend people for making fast decisions, right? And we know that if you want clients that are, you know, powerful decision makers, then you need to be a powerful decision maker. If you want people to pay you for high level coaching, then you need to be willing to pay for high level coaching. These are just 1 0 1 of universal law. And it always is funny in the industry. Every single big coach. I know that does multiple seven figures. Every single one of them has hired coaches after coaches, after coaches. That's the secret of the industry. And one of the things that happens also in the industry is when you sign up with coaches, you're in their community and you end up collaborating with other people and synergizing and that's part of it.

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Okay. So back to the six step step system of business, number one is position position yourself as an expertise. Number two is having a free B for an exchange of information of your email. Number three is a value sequence. Okay? And that's, um, like three day challenges, VIP days, things like that. This is a value sequence I'm giving you right now. Next is the offer. So making sure that you are, you know, having 10 times the value of what you're offering it for, juxtapositioning it, having it be, you know, if they went out and bought it somewhere else, it'd be a lot of money. Um, and, um, juxtapositioning it also, like I literally have spent over $250,000 on my education. Imagine you can come in and get all my wisdom, right? And then also in the offer, you wanna have it be motivating, meaning that you wanna give them bonuses or something for making powerful decisions.

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And so we do a 24 hour, um, bonus as well. When you do a breakthrough call for you to really be able to, um, like sometimes we do 150 K uh, course of being able to understand front to back everything and how to do a five day challenge. We give you the email sequence. Um, obviously you can't copy it exactly, but we give you the foundations of it. We show you the ads. What the add copy is we show you how to set up a Facebook group. We show you how to do everything front to back. So you can't afford to not get that bonus. Right? I mean, it's like that bonus alone, I had to pay $40,000 to get that bonus. So we give, um, you know, we help people make the decision by helping them have an offer, right? A bonus for signing up within 24 hours.

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So number, um, five of the six step business system, isn't upsell, meaning that you're gonna have clients that work with you, that maybe you wanna go into an elite retreat or whatever it is. Right. And then step number seven is a down sell meaning that sometimes when people go through our programs, they still wanna stay part of our community. So we have a very, very low, you know, uh, price for people to stay around. Cuz they have it's their family. They wanna stay around. I don't wanna do programs that are just like 12 weeks and you're done or you jobs. I believe that the people that we have will be in community and family for forever, and that's really important for me. Okay. So next is, remember we went to the three ways we help spiritually based entrepreneurs monetize. The first was mindset, getting all the inner work, done, being able to understand all that.

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Number two is skillset. The business skillset front to back. And number three is becoming an expertise because the thing is, if you wanna monetize and you don't have a product or a service, then it's gonna be harder, right? If you're certified, if you're trained, if you have a modality like Carly uses now that E four trauma method, isn't able to get consistent 20,000 or months, then it's easier to get clients, right? You're showing results, whatever. So expertise is really about embodiment. I'm never gonna tell you it's a get rich quick thing. I'm never gonna tell you, oh, you know, you can just launch in 30 days and make $60,000. Like it's just not the truth. The truth is it's possible, but not likely. The truth is that you need to become a master. You need to embody spiritual mastery, business mastery, and most importantly, community mastery.

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Okay. If you wanna be somebody that's making six, seven figures, you've gotta learn how to be in community. And one of the things we do in new thought global is we have a zero negativity policy. We have a zero triangulation policy. We have a zero gossip policy that if you make community wrong, you're gonna forever make community wrong. You've got to find a way of looking and building off what's right, instead of what's wrong. And you'll find this in relationships. You'll find this in your, and with your clients. You'll find this with the community. If you, this is part of the mastery and full embodiment is what we teach. We teach of course, law of attraction and all of the laws. As you know, I have a, a universal law Oracle card deck, um, that is all universal laws and it's coming out. And the point is, is that community spiritual mastery business mastery, the embodiment.

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You've got to understand yourself. It's a mastery. Okay? It doesn't happen overnight. We have programs that are so life changing people literally look different. Their entire families change their dynamics change. All of a sudden, you see someone, they look totally different. They came from a codependent relationship. They didn't have any money. They didn't, they didn't even have a concept of what's doing business. We watch them bloom. We watch them have healthy relationships, ending their codependency. We see them thriving as, as a sister or a mother or whatever it is. We see them all of a sudden being able to have their first $10,000 a month. And it is so incredibly beautiful to watch and it takes full embodiment. Okay. The second way that we help build, obviously you as an expert is by getting trained and certified in, in our modalities, in a process that's facilitating E four trauma method, facilitating the truth.

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Triangle, even being able to coach in business, our coaches become their they're able to coach in business because they get all the, all the information, all the worksheets, everything right. They're. And so we have TRIA calls where you go in and you get trained and you actually facilitate the work back and forth and you get testimonials. So a great way of, um, getting your first client is showing that you're getting results for other people. We also, of course, coaching calls with me. We have sole circle calls where the community that practitioners give calls and teach all the stuff. So they're getting developed as leaders, they're teaching all the wisdom and everyone has accountability. We have accountability on Monday, we do goals and life purpose statement on Wednesday, we do, what's called a long copy post to, uh, to publish something. Whether it be on social media, on your blog or writing a book, whatever it may be.

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So all these things help you become an expertise. We go off the one thing and we have, um, we really hope help you get goal oriented because what we found with a lot of the spiritual coaches that come into our programs, they've done a lot of work. They have, you know, supernatural abilities, they're all advanced, but the thing is they don't have two feet on the ground. They are very ethereal and they're not being able to get results in their life because they need to come back to, you know, being able to measure consciousness also. So we always say, set your goals, have two feet on the ground and also keep your head up in the, the round for miracles at the same time. Okay. So, um, it's super exciting expertise. Watching people get developed and hone their expertise. And some people have other things, their Reiki, masters, or this, whatever.

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And they can implement the things that they learn in new thought global. They can take E four trauma method and then they can also do other modalities. We just ask that, you know, you keep it pure when you do our modalities and make it clear to your clients, what you're using, what modality you're using. So that, so that the client themselves benefits to understand, wow, I really like E four trauma method or, Hey, you know, I like this other modality over here. Which one is that? Right? So we all keep in alignment. So this is the truth is that if I can do this, you guys, you can do this. It's I was a hot mess. That's the truth. I was somebody who's confused, overwhelmed. I was in codependent relationships. I was a young single mom, barely making a money. I ended up saving a million dollars in my thirties because I was, I actually came from total lack.

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It actually came from total lack. And the truth is you can become somebody that has, you know, clients who can come. Somebody who's even a six or seven figure coach and still be miserable inside. What matters the most is that you're living authentically. The world needs authenticity more now than ever. And how do you ask yourself if you're being authentic or not? You ask yourself by asking yourself if there wasn't money involved, would I do it? If there wasn't money involved, would I be in that relationship? Would I be doing that career? Would I be living where I'm living? If it's and the answer is no, it means you gotta do it just like this. Would you join one of our programs if money wasn't an issue. And if the answer is yes, then you can't hand your power over to money. It's never about the money.

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It's actually about you believing that you're worthy of having the support. You're worthy of getting trained. You're worthy of becoming and, and bringing your gifts and message and living your purpose and calling and leaving your legacy for the world. This isn't about money. This is about you believing, because if you believe there's a will, there's a way, right? This is the truth of the universe. So what's possible out of this, what's possible out of this is that the world needs truth more than ever. The world now is shaking down the old paradigms and the old systems they're crumbling literally. And what's possible is an entirely new world. There's gonna be a new world order. That's probably all evil and there's gonna be a new world order of light workers and spiritual leaders, creating movements, real true leaders. Don't create just products. They create movements and you need to get trained of how to create your own movement.

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And you're gonna learn that right? And harmony will be the new metric of the world instead of net profits. And we do love money. We believe that money is a beautiful expression of love and being able to have the resources and the team and the tribe and, and all the technology and everything takes money. It takes money to get your message out to the world. And so we celebrate that, but we know that the new world of the world that we wanna create, there needs to be, it needs to be measured in harmony. And we truly do that in our community. It's been a, a huge lesson and growth for me to build community and be able to have people thrive and have policies that work for everybody. The beauty of the breakdown out there in the world is that we're having the breakthrough. We're birthing a new baby in this world.

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We're birthing a new level of consciousness. We're birthing knowing that extraordinary actions equal extraordinary results. And if you want extraordinary and extraordinary life, you've gotta take extraordinary actions because we say faith without work is dead. Okay. We understand the power of the mind. We understand that we're not the doer, but at the same time, we understand inspired action to align to our truth. So my invitation for you today is to say yes to yourself to say yes to your dreams and to say yes, to taking bold actions, whether you come into new thought global, or whether you do something else, my invitation is for you to take bold action in your life. The world needs bold leaders. The world needs courageous people that are ready to bring truth to the world. Okay. Universal law says again, if we want to have high ticket clients then need to be willing to pay for a high ticket coach, right?

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If you want, you know, if you want to have whatever it is that you want, you wanna have value. You wanna get money, you've gotta give great value. We give extraordinary value out in the world, and that's why we have extraordinary results. That's why we have a company and a community and a movement that is thriving exponentially. And so in this, I just say, thank you. Thank you. Thank you for your time. Again, remember the three ways that we help spiritual entrepreneurs monetize is by having them do their own inner work and having them master the skillset of the six, um, figure skill set of the business stuff. And then also becoming an expertise. Those are the ways that we help people. And so in that, I just say, may you live your truth? And may you book a breakthrough call? That's why I gotta say we do have, um, we have an extraordinary, um, uh, couple people that do breakthrough calls that are amazing have been with me for years.

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And that really don't do hard sales at all. They basically really know the truth of giving service. So when you come on a breakthrough call, you're not gonna be, you know, it's not a sales call. It's we literally come with an open heart to serve as much as possible. And if we feel like there's a fit, if we feel like our programs would truly benefit you, that of course we're going to recommend something to, but we also know that you, we want you to be true to you. Okay. So have a beautiful day. You guys, you can go to new global.com, check it all out. I'm super excited. It become the program. You're gonna be with me live. We only do live programs. It's all live front to back. Okay. Um, we just know that digital courses, you know, are they're good. They're just, you know, most of us don't change. Don't finish digital courses. Right. So have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth?

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This is first live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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What if I were to tell you that you could call upon your future self, your wise self, the aspect of yourself that has all the wisdom of all of life. If you do, you wanna listen to this podcast? Welcome to the Dr. Aaron podcast. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly believe and know that when somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. So welcome to the Dr. Erin podcast. I am a doctor of divinity teaching and training, developing world renowned, spiritual leaders, re certifying train people in spiritual coaching E four trauma method, subconscious reprogramming, metaphysics of mind, past life regressions. So on and so forth. And we develop spiritual practitioners, new thought ministers and teachers, and yes, doctors of divinity. So let's do this to you guys.

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Today's podcast is called your future self. And the truth is that you are ageless timeless, and yes, you are immortal because you are not your body. And today we're gonna talk about who is your future self, how to really tap into your future self and really become the truth of who you are. And so in this, I just wanna say that I am celebrating my future self today because today's actually my birthday. I'm actually recording this on my birthday. I had recorded a podcast a while back that was supposed to come out today. And I just felt like my heart opened up in the middle of the night. And I was like, I need to record a new podcast for today. I don't know why. I just felt like I really wanted to share my heart with you because I am celebrating my life. Like you cannot believe today.

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So first off, I just wanna say that there is a future self and how we are evolving as a species comes down to really dealing with our DNA so that we can embody our true self, our future self. I don't believe that there's a future self. I believe there's a pure self, a true self, a higher self that lives in us deep, deep, deep, within. And so many of us look to the world, the entire work of getting to our future self and speaking to our future self is it's counterintuitive. We go and we look to the world, we try and escape by self. We go out to try and find things like, you know, fulfilling things like the next relationship or the next material thing, or the next amount of money or whatever it may be out there and the status and the recognition from the world.

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And that is the opposite of finding the future self, the future self lives in the depths of your soul and the depths of who you are in the deep, deep breath. In that deep, deep stillness. I recognize in meeting our future self. It is one of the scariest things we can do because we have to face our deepest fears, face our hardest traumas, but in that, and when we truly face and go back into our responsibility into the truth of how we can no longer ever be the effect of life, we come to that place, to the beloved within, to our oneness. And so our future self, our future spiritual being our, our future transcended human being is someone who is understanding their oneness. That understanding that the ultimate, the ultimate self is one with the universe, that if we knew ourself, our true self, our future self, we would be whole within ourselves.

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There's a saying, uh, prophesizing, that one third of the population will die. One third will go insane. And one third will awaken. And though I'm not here to prophesize anything. I'm here to look at the reality of the mind and how we manifest the, create a process. And what's reality. If we don't do our inner work, the future self is somebody who is empathetic. They truly are an iPath. That's our natural ability. There's somebody there obviously psychic, but don't use their psychic abilities usually to implant something into somebody else, but rather to feel someone's soul, to know that wherever somebody is projecting their own trauma in onto you, that we no longer have to take it personal, that we can read someone else's soul, read their commands, read their limited beliefs and not take it personal, but rather have compassion to be with the pain, to be with that, to transcend it, knowing that each and every person is us, we are not separate. And so, as I call upon that future self, I invite us all to take a deep breath into the nose and excellent out and tuning into the cosmos. Knowing our future self is absolutely knows the truth, that we are one with the cosmos. We're no longer here to be in our shadow and pretend that we are the effect of life. We are here to truly be intimate with myself, no longer looking to find somebody to fulfill our intimacy, but rather to be in love with, by self, because knowing that we are love.

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And so today, a real big day for me, because this week was a beautiful week, it was a real reflection of my future self. This week, we had a huge amount of people within our community upgrade into either the coaching program or the practitioner, or even the ministerial and doctorate program, which actually is one of the greatest reflections because it's not about winning some award out there or, you know, being on some jet or getting X amount of likes on a post on Instagram. For me, the greatest reflection is our community, which means that people really are loving one another and thriving together and getting results in their personal and professional life. This week was another huge reflection for me because I held my first oral panels for practitioner and I flash back into the time when I was taking my first oral panels as a practitioner.

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And I was very nervous because not only did I have such significance around the work, cuz it had completely changed my life as I knew it, but it also had such reverence for the ministers that were doing it. And I just, the whole thing meant so much to me. So as I sat on the opposite side of panels this week, I began to get really teary in a beautiful way. Just knowing the ability that we set into motion and the practitioners that were sitting on the other side, taking their orals and how much they had embodied the work, how profound I had witnessed from the time I first met them. And they first came into our community to who they are today and the powerful consciousness that they hold and the ability. And can't even imagine how their lives are impacted, how their families are impacted, how their friends and all their clients and everybody.

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And it was one of those moments where you're like, whoa, I envisioned this. And it came to fruition and that's our future self. That's our highest self. What you hold in your heart right now of who you are and who you wanna be. Not only just looking in the mirror and gazing in your eyes, but knowing that there every dream that you have, that's been planted into your consciousness has been planted from your highest self, into your subconsciousness, knowing that that's destiny. And that is your future self, which I like to call your ancient self. I don't believe that we evolve into something. I believe that we are already that, that we already have all the elemental equations. We already have everything in our DNA. We're not here to evolve our DNA. I don't believe, I believe that we're here to remember and make whole our DNA, releasing the trauma and transforming and transmuting.

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The trauma that is, that is restricting our DNA. And so I believe that our higher self and who we are, we, we will be birthing new generations that have extraordinary empathetic and supernatural, which are actually natural abilities because we are transcending as a collective. The DNA is the code of life. The DNA is already here. We already have the secret. We already have the key. We already have all of it. It is our work recognizing that our trauma is not just our individual trauma. Our trauma is, has layers and layers in our lineage, in our ancestors in and all of it. And, and actually that is how we evolve. Our evolution is actually the deeper and deeper transmuting of trauma. So we don't actually evolve. We're already whole and complete. But what we do is we actually experience even more of the depths of our soul by actually the light and the dark of the relative of this universe.

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So it's actually interesting because a lot of us think trauma is bad or we don't want trauma or we should get rid of trauma. And that is true. But actually that is the gift. The gift is the suffering. Suffering is grace. As we know, suffering is grace and it is through the trauma. It is through the division and through the divisiveness that we actually get to experience more of our divinity. We get to experience our future self, which is really, truly all of it. The dark, the light, the suffering, the joy, everything. And I know that we've been programmed to think that we need things outside of ourselves, that we need to find a person that we need to have romantic desire, that we need to have status in class. And that is a lie. It is all within. And I truly believe that the future self will will know that the intimacy of the heart is even a greater orgasm than the orgasm of, of that.

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As we go into that future self, that we know that we are transcending death, there is no such thing as death. We're not people think, well, we'll get there when we do enough stem cells or when we're able to, we already are mortal. Look at our children. We live on through our ancestors and through our children, right? We are already there. We are already one. We are already completely empathetic and completely able to go outside of ourself in our consciousness. And so today, as you, as you call in your future self, what is he or she like, what is your future self? You get to communicate right now with that, with that essence of who you are, what would your future self tell you?

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What would they say? How would they hold you? Because what I know for sure is they're speaking through as you right now. So I just say, take another deep breath into the nose. Excellent out. I'm just so grateful for this birthday. I'm so grateful to celebrate life. I'm celebrating you because you are me and IM you, I don't see any division in it. And today I recognize this thing called life. That there's only life. There is never death. There is only light. Ultimately there is only growth and there's only love. And I just say, thank you for all the people that have been reaching out. Thank you for, for all the love. Thank you for our community. Thank you for all the friends. Thank you for all the, all of my family. I am sending so much love to everyone.

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And I, I didn't wanna say this, but I guess I will. So my, my nephew is in the emergency room down in San Diego. He's been placed in with, um, with pneumonia. And, um, he's been coming in my consciousness, um, all last night and I want each and everyone to know that as hard as it is, whatever we're going through, um, that there's only growth that no matter what happens, we are not these bodies. And we are all here to remember the truth of who we are. So these hard times that we're going through is actually the awakening that you cannot go have an awaken without the trauma, without the suffering. That is part of the growth. And I wish we, you know, wasn't that way sometimes, but I know that's the truth. And so I'm holding them in my heart, knowing speedy recovery and knowing no matter what happens, that it's always grace for us all to awaken to the truth of who we are, which is immoral, powerful, spiritual being, that is the truth.

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So I'm knowing your future self. May you call upon your future self for, for support. May you call upon your future self for guidance? May you call upon your future self as your north star for who you are and what you wanna embody. And in this, I just say, may you live your truth? So my ask for my birthday is that you say yes to yourself that you say yes to the spiritual calling. And whether that is that you decide to come into society and you thought global, and you decide to get developed in your expertise in doing, or whether you come in and do your trauma work, whether you do whatever I am. I'm asking for my birthday that you say yes yourself, whether it may be another program, whether it be that you say yes to letting something go in your life saying, yes, I ask that you say yes, recognizing that that is the most powerful word that we have saying yes to life, living life fully loving, fully, and doing all of our work. So we can take down the walls around our heart from trauma so that we can love fully. Our job here is to love and know our oneness and not take things personal. There is nothing to fear, but fear itself, right? So I love you guys. May you have a beautiful day? I know I will. I love you so much. And I'm celebrating all of our life today.

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(00:01):

This is first live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

(00:19):

Did you know that? According to New York times, only around 25% American adults site, they have a clear sense of purpose about what makes their lives meaningful. So if you're somebody that is desiring to truly know your purpose in calling this podcast is for you. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron podcast. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly believe that when somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. We come together in new thought global and society truly coming to bring truth to the world. So we're in a series of trauma series podcast series. Today is all about how trauma relates to birthing your purpose and calling. So Victor Frankel was a man who wrote the book man's search for meaning. It was actually written about the concentration camps, um, with the Nazis and the Jews.

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And what he found was he would witness people coming into the camps. And I believe the stats were something like only one outta 29, people survived going into the concentration camps and what he found, cuz obviously he survived. He found that it was the meaning that people placed on their lives that had them survive or not. He would watch them come in and they first would be, you know, completely in shock over, over being put in the camp. And then they would go to apathy really just really not even caring and slowly they would die. He truly believed that it wasn't actually lack of food or water or anything like that that had majority of people die. It was actually the lack of purpose. And so today I wanna break on down how trauma bur your purpose. It's actually probably one thing that really distinguishes the E four trauma method over other trauma processes is the birthing of someone's purpose and calling really birthing the legacy that someone wants to leave in this lifetime.

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So personally, as you guys know, my story of the hardest thing I ever went through is, was having to stillborn, uh, son at the age of 22, a full term stillborn son. And the blessing that came out of that was that traumatic incident gave me my life. It gave me the, the breakdown for me to seek truth for me to truly seek and take decades of becoming the person I am to now, now the doctor divinity and, and somebody who's touched hundreds of thousands of lives and somebody who has brought for trauma method to the world and helping bring new thought movement, um, further along. So I truly give gratitude for that traumatic incident and if it weren't for that, and weren't for doing the trauma work and neutralizing that incident around having a stillborn, taking the trauma and minusing the motions and birthing the wisdom and the wisdom that came out of that for me was really my commitment, my core commitment to bringing spiritual awakening and truth to the world, recognizing that we are spiritual beings.

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And you know, we've gotten so lost in the construct of the programming of the lies that we're told, um, through, through the breakdown of our culture collectively. So I wanna actually break down a couple of client cases and things to help you understand how you can birth your purpose and calling and legacy out of doing your trauma work, transform your trauma, transform your life. So one of the most amazing, beautiful things I get to witness is taking clients through E for trauma method and watching them not only release the energy that's in their body, the emotions, all that, but really come to a neutral stance of as Ising whatever occurred or did not occur in the traumatic incident, but also being able to have them spot their commands, being able to see what limited beliefs and limited identity they decided in that high state of a, of a traumatic incident of high high state of emotions that impinged upon their subconscious mind and really has been playing out like puppet strings in their life.

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And when you see a client actually come to the epiphany that they created, that limited belief and that limited belief has been playing out in their life. Um, in so many ways that it actually restores their power in an instant because they recognize that right in that moment, understanding that they created their own limitations, they created their own bondage. They created their own suffering, um, that they actually did that in the decision that they made about themselves is actually the moment that they AC actually restore their power. And they actually have a light that kind of comes on that they realize that if they could create that relative experience, they also are that powerful to create something new in their life. And we know that we don't go through anything just to go through it. Everything is a divine appointment. Everything's a masterclass in life.

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And trauma is one of those things that is a divine appointment for us to experience something so that we can be the change that we wanna see in the world. We are univer, your universal law, universal law is not outside of you. Universal law brings things back to order. It brings things back. So whatever's on your DNA track, whatever trauma is there that is yours to heal, to reveal the highest, the highest version of yourself. So let me, uh, bring in the first client, obviously again, I change the names of clients for their own confidentiality. So Steph Steph, um, Steph actually is somebody that came to me. She, um, she had a lot of trauma. We began to go into her E four trauma method. And, um, you know, you never know which one is the hardest, um, trauma of someone's life. Generally, you don't go to the most difficult trauma of someone's lives.

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Usually you'll start with some smaller ones. And then when they're ready, their consciousness will let you know that they're ready for their deep, deep, big traumas, their big tees. Right? So one of our big tees, her big traumas was her mother actually abused her physically. And there was an actual incident where her mother was actually had her down, like in a ball in the corner and was actually hitting her. And in that moment, staff decided, um, that life isn't safe. And so what happened with staff is she began to overeat really to stay safe, to, to have an actual physical guard of her body, to stay safe from people, having them kind of like make sure she was always divided and alone at some level. And this command life isn't safe, played out in her life for a very long time. She began to realize and declare that she not only wanted to begin to heal from overeating.

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And she kind of already had began to do some of it. You know, she had begun to educate herself on food and began to get, you know, lose a little of the weight, but it wasn't until she actually did this trauma work that she was actually able to really lose. Um, you know, the final weight that made her actually feel really healthy and that, um, but what was really the most important thing is that she birth the wisdom out of the traumatic incident. She birth that life is safe, that she can never be touched by anyone or anything because she is the untouchable she's divine. She is the present. She is the power. And that, even though her mother beat her physically, she knew that her mother still loved her and that she knew that she was doing it out of her own pain and suffering and abuse.

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And so her purpose began to be Steph's purpose was what is the most difficult thing you've ever gone through, right? So she began to recognize that this was the most difficult thing she'd ever gone through. So she actually, her entire career came out of this. What, which her mission statement was. I help women who overeat claim their freedom by discovering their purpose. So what she began to do was develop a business that was helping women who overeat really do their own inner trauma work, claiming their freedom through different processes, by discovering their purpose. She really found that when people found their purpose, that it, their, their problems like overeating would go away, the obsessions, the addiction that this or that would go away because their energy was focused on a heart driven purpose and calling and legacy. So Steph today is doing extremely well. And the point is, is that through our hardest times, our hardest traumas there comes wisdom and there comes a calling and a purpose outta that.

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So next case is that I like to bring in other cases that are not just, um, people that are struggling, how we think they're struggling. I think that our culture has quote, quote, what looks successful and what doesn't look successful. And oftentimes the people that you think are successful, have a lot of trauma and are having their success out of trying to be enough and out of a limited command as well. So the next case study, um, Natalie Natalie's father was an alcoholic. And what happened with Natalie is she had a lot of traumatic incidences with her father when she was young. Her mother was kind of very passive and her father would get very, um, drunk and abusive, um, mostly, um, verbally. So Natalie decided she decided that she would control all show you that was her command in the middle of a drunken stoop with her father.

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He was screaming at her telling her how stupid and how worthless she was and under her breath. And she said aloud as well, I'll show you. And she decided out of a limited belief out of a division, I'll show you making him wrong, making her right. And this played out in Natalie's life for a very long time. She did show him and she did show the world. She actually built a multiple seven figure business and was having great quote, quote success. But what happened is she kept having legal battles over and over again to prove I'll show you. And in fact, she won every case of the legal battles, but it was always a battle because she had to keep that identity of I'll show you. And so, as she came in and began to work, um, with me doing the E four trauma method, she began to realize how much she had been, been driving and being driven and motivated by, you know, by that command and by proving herself.

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And really it was out a feeling not, not, not worthy enough at a core core level. So what happened with Natalie is she didn't change her business much. She just pivoted it. And instead of, um, helping women create businesses that are just driven on getting money and material, she began to pivot her business, to helping women really find their authentic business and heart based businesses, bringing them to the world. She just became a lot softer. She became somebody that was available for love. She became somebody who was available to not have to control everybody and everything. So her marriage got better because she wasn't always trying to control everything EV all the time. So Natalie became somebody that was really open in the heart and recognize that, who she thought she needed to be, to show people that she was enough, that she was success was actually the one thing that was having her not feel enough.

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And so the point is, is this is that through our traumas, we birth our purpose. We birth our true purpose, our true, authentic purpose in calling. And we be the change that we wanna see in this world and leave our legacy. And so just like, um, Victor Frankel said, you know, he said that, that he basically barely even made his book. He actually left the Nazi camps and had his book, or I think after he had it somewhere like hidden, because it barely made it through, he didn't have anything. Right. And he, he realized that this was the one thing that bringing meaning to the world was really his thing. He said, the meaning of life is to help others find the meaning of their life. That was, that became his meaning because he knew that finding his meaning was his greatest trauma and his greatest, you know, strength.

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It was, you know, he really turned, as we say, turn your mess into your message, turn your suffering into your strength, turn your pain into your purpose. He said that he said that he who has a why to live for can bear almost anyhow. He describes poignantly those prisoners in those Nazi camps who gave up on life. He had lost all hope for future and were inevitably to first to die. So they died less from lack of food and medicine than from lack of hope, lack of something to live for. And so today, you know, that book is a very famous book and I recognize that you have a book to write your life is your greatest story. Your life is your greatest book that within you, whatever traumas you've been through in this lifetime or in your lineage, that it's not in vain, it's not for nothing that you've been through.

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The suffering that you've been through because you've been, there's a divine appointment that you called in for yourself to wake up and, and neutralize it and complete those cycles in your DNA to free up the highest expression of your DNA, the highest expression of your soul through form spirit through your individualized soul. And so I just say yes to you, yes. To you healing your trauma yes. To you transforming and transmuting that energy for the inspired action for that purpose, for that, that calling for that wisdom, for that takeaway for the breakthrough, for everything that came outta that awful traumatic moment that we transform it to recognize that's the greatest blessing of our life, whether you've been raped, whether you have been molested, whether you have been beaten, whether you were just bullied on the playground, whether you have had racism or discrimination or a moment of a breakup or whatever, whatever your deepest hardest trauma is, take the time to first heal other trauma and go to that place, know that if you have pain in your heart, it will hurt your body.

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You will have symptoms. You have to do your inner work to transform, to break through. And knowing that there's a purpose in it. Some of the greatest leaders, I would say all of the greatest leaders, they turned their trauma into their triumph. Look at Nelson Mandela, look at all the great, all of look at Oprah Winfrey went from being, you know, a woman that was African American that was discriminated against. That was, you know, overweight. There was all these things and she handed it over to her purpose, recognizing that all of her pain and suffering was not gonna be used for nothing. She has more conviction and love and strength and leadership for the world because of her traumas because of the mental molestation, because of the rape, because of all that. And I just say, thank you for the suffering. Thank you for the trauma.

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Thank you for all of that. Because without that, I would never be the woman that I am today. So on that note, if you're ready to do your, um, your trauma work and you're ready to, um, heal yourself, or maybe you're ready and want to, um, get trained in E four trauma method or in true triangle or become a certified coach with us, please reach out. You can reach out on social media. Um, it's Dr. aaron.tv, D R E R I n.tv. Um, or you can also, um, go to new thought global.com and check us out over there. Okay. Have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth?

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(00:01):

This is first live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

(00:19):

Are you somebody that's ready to have a money breakthrough by transforming your trauma? Are you ready to claim your birthright of prosperity? Well, then this podcast is for you. We are on a trauma series, understanding how, when we transform our trauma, we transform our lives to the E four trauma method. Welcome to the doctor Aaron podcast. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with the universal law. We also come together in community, in new thought global and society. We recognize that when people awaken, they have a gift and message to bring to the world. When they transform the trauma, they become super powerful. So let's break this on down. You guys, we're in a series of trauma on the E four trauma method. Breaking it on down today is all about money, breakthrough and how trauma really delivers someone to claim their birthright of prosperity.

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So we have to recognize that money is energy. That's all it is. So when I'm working with clients, uh, it always comes down to trauma work. When it comes down to them, claiming their birthright prosperity. So we wanna recognize the metaphysics of money. First money represents energy. Money is created in mind, right? Money itself is completely a worthless, uh, money is a symbol of value. It's an exchange. It's something that we've agreed upon as a culture, right? Money is a collective agreement of an exchange of value. Money itself is worthless and backed by nothing. You guys, money is an illusion. The paper makes up the money is real, but the, the actual, you know, worth of the money, the dollar is worth nothing. Each person has a relationship money. And how one relates to money is a reflection of their own belief system. Money is a symbol of self-worth money is a symbol of self-worth.

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You guys, there are infinite ways to make money. Innovation is the key to creating money. Okay. The spirit within is the source of all innovation and abundance. That's why we say we cannot place our power over and money or else we become disempowered in the realm of money. So scarcity or abundance is created in mind. Okay. So we have to understand how is trauma, how does trauma stop people from truly having a good relationship with money? It either stops them from being able to make money all, or sometimes it does the opposite and has people become obsessed with money, but still not be fully empowered in their consciousness. So the journey with understanding how trauma impacts our, our journey with money is, uh, hits home for me. So in my, in my twenties, I, I actually saved a million dollars. I actually actually saved physically a million dollars.

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Okay. Um, and what happened was early in life. I talk about the trauma that happened to me. It was when, uh, my sister was having a birthday party. I think I was around the age of eight years old, and I wanted so badly to go to her birthday party because she was gonna go ice skating. My mom was gonna take us ice skating for her birthday. And the day of her birthday, uh, my sister had called over two friends. We were gonna all go ice skating. She, my mom came to me and she said, I'm so sorry. You can't come today. I can't afford to take you and your sisters, two friends for her birthday party. So you're gonna have to stay home. And I was hysterical again because, you know, I wanted to go ice skating. It, it was like I had been so excited about it.

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And as they were driving off again, I remember being like almost hyperventilating. And, uh, I think she left me with one of her friends that day. And I decided in that moment that I would have money when I grew up and sure enough, it became a command and a limited identity in that it was not creating from, from being the cause, but rather from being the effect of life and sure enough, I grew up, I began to wait tables through high school, began to, I bought myself my car. I began to save money. I began to be able to do things I put myself through, um, through summer college. And then I dropped out to become entrepreneur. And I ended up, um, buying, fixing up starter homes as I was doing my spiritual work on one side of my life, I was, uh, saving money and I ended up saving over a million dollars, but there was a day, there was a day that I actually realized on paper that I actually was worth a million dollars through different investments.

(05:03):

And I remember in that moment being shocked because I realized that what I thought my life would look like when I was technically a million, a millionaire was very different than it was. I was not even 30 yet. And I was still miserable inside. Sure. I had some, you know, decent things on the outside. I owned a home. I was technically a millionaire. I looked gorgeous because I just was this young thing that didn't, I was just a hot mess. I was so sad inside still. I was still completely like lost inside. I was still trying to find my way. And I realized in that moment that becoming a millionaire didn't mean anything. It wasn't gonna solve the problems, the real problems. And so as you guys probably know my journey, then of course I was already handing it over to all my spiritual work and I did double life.

(06:02):

And I decided that I was gonna hand my life over to my spiritual work because I realized finally that money was not the path to true fulfillment. And that if I didn't hand myself over to my true passions and what really mattered to me that I would be broke for the rest of my life spiritually. So hence decades later, I obviously now train and develop, um, people across the globe and help them also in having a money breakthrough through doing the trauma work. So what does this mean? Exactly? We recognize that money comes down to one thing and one thing only, which is self worth. And, um, so I wanna actually talk about three different case studies of clients that I worked with around money, because they're different and, and also very similar. Okay. So the first client and I've changed their names for, um, for just, you know, client confidentiality.

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So Alexa, Alexa was somebody who, uh, came, she had a spiritual calling and, but could not figure out how to make money doing what she loved. She was frustrated. She was overwhelmed a young mother and, um, just stressed out to the max. She had a father who actually, she, she had some trauma with her father with big upsets when she was a little girl, in fact, her father left. And she was very upset in an incident where she decided that her father valued money more than her. And she actually realized that the command that she had in the moment of having an actual argument with her father on the phone, uh, realizing that he had left her mom cheated on her mom and basically was a workaholic. She had the command of I'm not enough. And in recognizing that she began to neutralize the trauma and traumas with her father and restore the truth, that she was more than enough, that she was worthy of having a career that she loved, that she was worthy of being a mom that was able to provide for her daughter, that she was somebody who no longer declared that money was evil, that she decided that she, that money is love.

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And that money is something that she absolutely can give and receive with ease and grace. And so Alexa today is thriving in her career having consistent months. And, um, also has a decent relationship with her father holding loving boundaries, but unconditionally loving her father and her daughter is thriving as well. And super happy that her mommy is doing what she loves. Oh, I'm gonna cry right now. Um, okay. Next case study was Brian and Brian again, different name than true client. Brian was a baller. He had, um, jet a jet and, um, had a huge company, literally diamonds, dripping all over him. And, um, I worked with Brian and, um, what was fascinating as we began to get into his traumas, which he, it was fascinating cuz usually someone like that, that thriving so much of what the culture, you know, wants them, considers that to be success.

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They're actually really rarely do their inner work. But Brian began to recognize, he began to almost have like midlife crisis, if you will. He had everything. He had the women, he had the jets, he had the diamonds, he had all that and he began to feel like something was missing. And I think that his mortality was kind of catching up with him. He began to realize that, you know, that like this isn't gonna last forever. Right. So we began to go into sessions. And um, and what was interesting is there was a few, uh, traumas in his childhood. One of which was an elementary elementary school teacher. And what happened was she was yelling at him one day in class and she said, you will never amount to anything. And he decided in that traumatic incident, he was super upset in that high frequency commanded into his subconscious mind.

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I will win. Right. That was his command. I will win. He didn't say it aloud. He said it within the command went in and sure enough, he won right. Coming from a divided perspective coming from, you know, um, lack of belief of actually loving your life from a consistent of, you know, no one wins when someone wins over somebody else. Right? So he, his command played out in his life with total per precision, cuz that's what life that's what the subconscious mind does. That's what commands from trauma does. So he began to win. He began to win by making a lot of money. He began to win by having the jet. He began to win by, you know, uh, having women, which was another big trauma. He had was a breakup early on in ninth grade. And he was heartbroken by the breakup, his, uh, young girlfriend, um, you know, basically just dated somebody else like cheated in front of him basically.

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And he decided in that moment also that he would win that he would, you know, become somebody that a woman wouldn't break up with. So this kind of winning formula for himself, the commands through the trauma, um, got him what he thought he wanted, which was a big life, lots of money, jets, big cars, lots of women, all the glam, but had him bankrupt inside. And so Brian began to, um, to seek deeper relationships. He began to give back in philanthropy. He began to kind of shift. Um, and you wouldn't recognize it from the outside. His life is actually very, very much the same, but inside he has a lot more of a connection to who he is and giving him, giving money back philanthropy wise and having deeper, um, relationships he's in a longer relationship now. And, um, you know, the point is, is that money represents energy.

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Money is an exchange of our currency. And just because we exchange it in some ways of materialism does not mean that we are exchanging our heart energy, you know, objectifying the world versus coming from a place of giving and serving and loving and expressing the depths of our soul. So Brian has come so far amazing human being does great things on this planet, giving back in so many different ways. And so the point is, is that you may think, well, hi, you know, have money. Therefore I don't need a money breakthrough. Well, money, breakthroughs come in all different levels. Sometimes it's because we can't get the money. We can't figure out how to even generate the currency and get in flow with it. Other times we have such currency with it and such flow, but it's not authentic. So we really need to take a look at what your relationship with money and where it's the traumas that are playing out in the relationship with money.

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So the third case study you wanna talk to about, um, we call her Ang and Ang had another spiritual calling. She was somebody who was really ready to step into monetizing what she loved to do and bringing her spiritual gifts to the world. And, um, what happened in a traumatic incident when she was a little girl is because the thing is money. The traumas that relate to money don't necessarily relate to money. So it's not like you go, oh, you know, let's figure out a money breakthrough. When did you have a traumatic incident with money? Usually has nothing to do with money. It has to do with self-worth. Okay. So Ang had a traumatic incident. And what happened was her sister, um, actually got in a major bike accident right in front of her, um, which was very traumatizing for her. And she was bike riding with her mom, her sister and her and her mom was like kind of behind them.

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And um, and her sister like will began to get totally outta it, started going swaying all back and forth. Right. She was like biking right next to her sister and her mom, her sister kind of looked at her like with total like shock, like, oh my God, this is not gonna end well kind of thing. And her mom behind her screamed at her and she said, she said, catch her. And Ang couldn't stop her bike in time and help her sister or grab her sister at the same time as, as you know, steering her own bike. And she watched her sister tumbled down and, you know, into a terrible accident right in front of her. And in that moment, Ang decided it's my fault. Something's wrong with me? And this played out like puppet strings for the rest of her, you know, for whatever 10 years later or 20 years later, whatever it was.

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And um, and she began, it played out in all errors of her life. It played out of, it's not it's my fault. So she thought if I have money, then I will do harm with it. Right. Or I'll, it'll be my fault. I'll hurt somebody or do something. It was a subconscious like command that was playing out in bizarre, twisted ways. We recognize the universe and the subconscious is precise. So if it's, if the command is it's my fault, then it will sabotage not even one to be the fault. Right. It will just make sure you don't even have the power so that you don't cause somebody to, you know, get hurt, right. Something's wrong with me. So every time she would try and, and create her spiritual calling and, and monetize it, she would have the command something's wrong with me. So she'd make sure that she'd sabotage her success.

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And so the point is this is that money, breakthrough and money and trauma has nothing to do with money. It has everything to do with the self belief and the self-worth because the truth is money is just an exchange of your heart. Money's exchange is the value that you bring to the world. Money is exchange of, of, of helping others with their life as well. Right? And so I recognize right now, the truth of who you are, that the moment you place a negative or positive, meaning on anything, you instantaneously have a positive or negative experience. The moment you decide that you're not enough that the universe just says. And so it is the moment that you place your power out there and you go, I'm not good enough, cause I don't have enough money or you place the value that you need to get money instead of generating an innovating and serving the world you'll experience being disempowered.

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And so I invite you right now to take a look at what limited beliefs you have about yourself. If you would, would you rank yourself on a zero to 10 and your self worth and your belief in yourself, or would you say you're not enough? And that you, you know, think something's wrong with you or whatever it may be. Right? I just know that whatever it is that the truth is you are prosperity. You are abundance. This is the true nature of who you are. There's infinite, infinite ways of creating and innovating and inventing and putting the elements of the universe into new formulas to create new value that whatever you have in your mindset or skillset, you always can help somebody wherever it is. If you want to get money, you've got to give value, whatever you want, that you, wherever you feel like you can't afford, it is a lie because it means that you're not using your mind for innovation money.

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Doesn't have to come and just having cash from Sony. There's infinite, infinite abundance. You may give in somebody who may give you a gift and exchange or there's ways of, you know, calculating. I invite you right now to just look at your life, look at the abundance in your life. Just even if you're able to listen to this podcast, you literally are. You have some kind of technology you're in the top percentage of the world anywhere. I know that I came from a rich dad, poor mom. And I remember thinking both families were messed up, right? One family was rich and they were still bankrupt in their, you know, spirituality. They still were had healing and traumas and discord in the family. And my mom's family was, was more poor and indigenous and background. They still, again, didn't matter if they had money or not money, the real wealth is our truth.

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Real wealth is our ability to know who we are and our oneness and making a difference on this planet. That's our real cash flow. And as we given the flow of our love and our, um, buying, you know, assets that, that grow, that that's the universal law also, that what we give energy to expands and replicates and duplicates and compounds and leverages. So where are you putting your time and effort? Where are you putting that? And so I recognize in trauma, we have to do our trauma work to be able to first even believe that we're worthy of having money worthy of investments, worthy of abundance, worthy of all this. And so I just say, may you know the truth of who you are, may, you know, the truth of who you are. May you clear your traumas and know your worth. You are worth more than all the gold on this planet.

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You are worth everything because you are a source. You are divine, you are first cause. And just so I say, thank you. Thank you. Thank you for knowing this truth. If you're ready to do your trauma work and begin your journey, you're welcome to reach out social media, Dr. aaron.tv. You can also reach out to the website, new thought global we've transformed our, um, website that used to be society into new thought global. Um, and just recognizing that there are truths, there are the E four trauma method. There is work to know. So you can break through all your limited beliefs and claim your birthright of prosperity as together we say. And so it is may you live your truth? You guys have a beautiful day.

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This is live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea, coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Are you somebody that deals with ups and downs in your relationships? Maybe you're somebody that's in a little bit of a tug of war. Maybe you really want your partner or your non-partner to change. You wish somebody would be, or do a little bit more. Maybe you're actually co-dependent and you are in a vicious cycle of where it's actually really, truly impacting your health, your wealth and your entire life. What I know for sure is that nine outta 10 people in America are dealing with codependency at some level after training and developing all kinds of people around the globe. It was a surprise when I realized that nine outta 10 of people were dealing with some level of codependency. So welcome to the doctor Aaron podcast. Today, we're gonna break on down E for trauma method and how it relates to relationships. It's really fascinating because, and go on social media and you go on different, um, pages of quotes and things like that.

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The pages that actually do the best are the ones that are dealing with relationship issues, because for a majority of human beings, we're driven by, you know, love and connection. Of course, we all want love and connection, and it's really challenging and difficult and heartbreaking when our relationships aren't working. So whether you're dealing with co-dependency with a partner or your, you know, husband or wife, or maybe it's co-dependency with a parent or a child, or maybe you're really struggling with your friendships and, um, and being able to have close relationships. The reality is that if you're a human being, you struggle at some level with relationships. And if you are the average person, you're struggling a lot with relationships. So it's really fascinating cuz our world out there and, um, and movies. I remember being in my twenties and oh man, I was so codependent.

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I was so codependent. I remember I was in a relationship and, and it was such an up and that we'd break up, we'd get back together. We were up and down. And I remember there was this moment and I was like, I had been thinking if he just changed, then everything would be okay if, you know, if, if he would just do X, Y, and Z, then everything would be better. I was completely thinking that it was all him and it had nothing to do with me. I was perfect, nothing wrong with me. He was the problem. If he, you know, changed his behavior, um, then everything would work out. Right? And I have this moment, I was staring myself in the mirror and I was in this leadership program. Um, and that day at the program, the, the, the leader, the, the person that was giving the seminar was talking about how he had been married.

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And he looked at himself in the mirror one morning and he thought, if I don't change something, I'm gonna end up getting divorced. He was in a marriage and his marriage was, was not, you know, at the place where I was gonna get a divorce, but it wasn't going well. They were having fights. They were having upsets. They were doing all kinds of stuff. And he realized that it was just a matter of time, whether it was a year from now, whether it was four years from now, whatever it was that he, if he didn't change himself, he was most likely going to get a divorce. And he had a conversation with himself in that moment. And he realized like, look, if I'm gonna get divorced, probably anyway, those are the odds I might as well give it my hundred percent. So he decided that day, when he looking in the mirror, that he would give it a hundred percent, that he would no longer look to change her or look to, you know, see where she was doing anything wrong, that he would show up a hundred percent cleaning the house, all entertainment, all financial, everything that they were having arguments around, he decided he would be, he would show up a hundred percent and at least he'd be able to live with himself.

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If he got a divorce, he would know that he at least gave a hundred percent. So he began to show up a hundred percent and sure enough, his wife began to show up a hundred percent. Also. He no longer pointed the finger of making her wrong. He always just, you know, told her all the amazing things about her and sure enough, she began to show up fully being engaged and no longer making him wrong either. And that day, after that day in that leadership program, I went home that night and I was looking at myself in the mirror and I realized that my entire life, I had been the reflection of my relationships. If someone was a jerk, I'd be a jerk. If someone was loving and kind, I'd be loving and kind. But I was the reflection. I was the reaction. I was the effect.

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And I realized in that moment that I no longer wanted to be mirroring my relationships. I wanted to be the cause I wanted to be what was reflecting out of the mirror. Instead in my relationships, I had been in dysfunctional relationships my entire life, because my mother was very codependent. She basically would be ups and it would be ups and downs. If she was in a relationship at first, it'd be like, she'd be all happy high energy. Everything's blissful as if she was like on some kind of a drug. And then as soon as it was going bad or the breakup she'd be down in the dumps and be in bed and couldn't get outta bed, it was a pity party. Then it was a massive party. It was ups and downs. It was literally like someone who was, you know, know a drug addict.

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It was, it was a bipolar, it was ups and downs. And no, my mom's not bipolar. But the point is, is the behavior of codependency is a nightmare for my mom, for me, for every single person that I was witnessing in it. And so in that day I decided I was no longer going to be the mirror of life. Right. But a decision without the actual work <laugh>, didn't get me anywhere. In fact, it made it worse because then what happened is I went back into life and I began to want to be somebody who wasn't wasn't reacting. I wanted to be somebody who was loving, no matter what somebody else was doing. I wanted to be the person that I wanted to be. I wanted to be that amazing empowered woman, but guess what I wasn't able to be. Instead. I remember, um, getting into the next relationship, right.

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And I was a hot mess. Right. I would be upset when they didn't show up how I wanted them to show up. They would send a text that I didn't like, and I would wait for the text and I'd have anxiety that they weren't texting. Um, I would send mean texts. I would get upset. Then when it was great, I would put them my entire universe. I would lose track of all my friends and family. It was literally like being a heroin act. Right. I would just get completely into it and then slam down out of it. When my life wasn't working anymore, sometimes I was better. And sometimes I was really worse, but bottom line I realized, and I was like, wow, this is not gonna change until something changes. Right. I began to go to codependency like, um, 12 step programs. And that was cool.

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I began to see the actual vicious cycle, but still I was not able to actually change the actual reactions, the actual, um, behavior. I knew how I wanted to act, but I didn't know how. And so that brings me to the E four trauma method. So E four trauma method, as you guys know in this series, and this is a series that the intention of the E four trauma method is to release the limited beliefs and commands within your subconscious mind and restore your true identity. You are an all powerful, all knowing eternal, spiritual, being with the ability to create your dreams into reality, you have the ability to create amazing relationships. The E four trauma method helps to no longer be reactive triggering, like getting triggered or feel like you're the effect of life. It helps restore your freedom of choice and to live your truth.

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So here I was here, I was, as you know, someone who finally realized I was, I didn't even know that I was codependent. I just thought that I was, you know, the victim of every relationship, right? If they were different, if they changed, if they did this, then I wouldn't have to be, you know, a bitch then I wouldn't have to be, you know, whatever it is. So the point is, is that I had a gap. I had a gap between who I was being and who I wanted to be. And E four trauma method was the answer. So I began to go into the trauma trauma of the past upsets and incidences that had happened in my past relationships. The traumas that had happened, um, on my DNA, epigenics from past lifetimes. And I began to neutralize all of the things, releasing what I really had PTSD, cuz I was in a really dysfunctional relationship.

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As you guys know, a lot of you guys know my story around being, um, engaged with a, a famous rock star. And, uh, he was a alcoholic and drug addict and would, you know, fall off the wagon and um, you know, cheat on me and, and then come back with tattoos all over his body saying that he loved me and wanted to marry me and, and start to get sober. And then as soon as I would, you know, we'd start to heal, then he'd fall off the wagon again. And so I always thought it was him and he was causing all of it and doing everything. But it wasn't until I realized that a healthy person wouldn't have even stayed in that, in that situation, a healthy person would've loved themselves enough to see the first red flag and know that it was, it was dysfunctional.

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So the point is, is that working in society, new thought global and society, you know, training and developing coaches. What's fascinating is that actually the number one reason that that people aren't having success in their business is because of their codependency. I'll say it again. The number one reason why people aren't, um, having success in their business, of course it's trauma. Okay. That's the number reason, but out of the trauma, the number one biggest traumas that are holding people back is because their relationships are roller coasters. They're up, they're up and down. They're not able to show up consistently and in their personal and professional life and they're co-dependent so they're, they're emotionally, um, getting all their energies going towards their relationships, whether it be they're upset about, you know, a breakup or whether they're upset with their partner. The reality is that our culture tells us that if we just get married or if we just find a partner that everything's gonna work out and the reality and the stats are that I believe it's only, I think it's only 10% of don't quote me, cuz I don't have the stat.

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Exactly. But it's something like this 10% of marriages only, I'm sorry, only 15% of marriages are happy. Half the time. That's the sta only 15% of people who are married are happy half the time. The point is, is that no relationship can be a higher source. The moment that we hand our power over to a relationship is the moment that we will be disempowered. No person can ever be there fully for you. They're human in their own sense. They have their own trauma. They have their own stuff. They have to deal with that. The moment that we are putting our stability and our, our, our love, our self worth, our confidence, our stability in a relationship is we're gonna be totally disempowered. It's gonna be a roller coaster. And so we recognize that the core work to do in any relationship in all your relationship is your own trauma work.

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And in fact, I have people come to me for, for coaching, for, um, you know, spiritual counseling and they're, you know, sometimes they're single, sometimes they're in relationship. And I, when I first had couples come to me and I wasn't in a marriage, right. And I was like, well, I can't, you know, work with couples that are, you know, that want couple counseling. But then I was like, yes, hello. Absolutely. Because the thing is, I don't do couple counseling. I never work with two people at the same time. I work with them as individuals, just as I'd work with somebody. Who's not in a relationship because the work is identical. The work is identical. Doing trauma work is imperative. So what do we do? Trauma work is really, as you guys know, is, is relative for each person, right? And we have moments in our trauma where we have high states of negative experiences.

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Whether it be that you had a breakup, whether it be that your parents got divorced, whether it be that you got raped, whether it be whatever it is or you were bullied on the jungle gym in elementary school, the point is in that high state of a negative state of emotion, we decide something it's called a command. I'm not enough. You know, people are mean I can't trust anyone, whatever that might be. And that command plays out over and over again. And through the neurological system, ally, the subconscious mind has to collapse everything together. So every time you're in a relationship, those commands come up. I'm not enough. You know, I can't trust anyone, whatever it is and the universe just says. And so it is so a lot of times people will project in the relationships, right? Like it's a, self-fulfilling prophecy. We see it over and over again.

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So for example, um, I change the name of people that I work with, but there's a girl named Sarah and she is married and she's actually, she was doing counseling, uh, you know, spiritual coaching and therapy for families. And yet her marriage was still completely codependent. She was ups and downs. They were getting in arguments. She was getting triggered and actually like almost in complete rage at times. And she had done so much work. Like she was so frustrated cuz she's like, she felt like a hypocrite. She felt like she had imposter syndrome. She's like here I am, you know, know doing therapy for families. And I'm in a totally dysfunctional marriage. And my children are seen our, our fights and she's like, I like that. I can't live like them. I have to figure someone out. And that's why she began to do the E four trauma method and began neutralized all the stuff.

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And what she realized was it was actually in her lineage, her parents too had been codependent and so on and so forth. So she began to work on all the trauma in her lineage and began to neutralize it and through the E four trauma method, which step one is, is experience it. So she would go into different traumas that happened in this lifetime and past lifetimes begin to really just fully re-experience it. And the step two, and this is a process you go over and over again in the four steps, second step she began to, she would not evaluate it. So E for evaluation, non evaluation, she would go back into the traumatic incident, just be with it fully, without any backstory, without me any meaning around it, without anything, knowing that if you put meaning around it, you'll begin to re have recharge around it and re emotions around it and everything.

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Right? So she began to reexperience it in the process. Third was emotions. She was able to fully feel the emotions without any, any meaning, again, around it, just having fully feeling it without suppressing the emotions without resisting the emotions as the Vata say, just fully feeling and expressing the emotions. And then the fourth E is enlightenment. She began to get the wisdom out of it and realizing that this is really truly what her purpose was that she had. She had decided that love is a struggle. That everything is, is really hard. Love is a struggle. And so that, that command played out in her marriage. It played out with what she was doing. Even with couples. She was calling in couples that are just committed to struggling, that everything was in that perspective. And that that veil of life love is struggle. Right? And she began to have the enlightenment out of it.

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She went through the processes and over different, uh, traumas and came to realize and declare that love was beautiful and freeing. And so slowly, she was able to stay in her marriage and allow her husband to be who he was with his imperfections, with things that she didn't like. But she had to recognize that he was on his own path and that she had to find her own piece in the marriage and began to be able to call in clients that we're really committed to, to being able to accept their partners exactly as they are and recognize that it's not about figuring it all out together, but it's really about acceptance. And so I know that whether you are struggling in relationship or whether you're thinking that someone's gonna complete you, or whether you are truly in dysfunction, maybe even domestic abuse, whatever that is, I recognize we're all.

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If we're human nine outta 10, people are codependent. So first of all, I want you to know that it's normal. That it's actually really normal. If you've come into this lifetime, you've come into a DNA that most likely has is to code have been it right? You have all the identity and all of the trauma and everything's coming down your lineage. And I want you to know that the great thing is when you do your E four trauma method, when you transmute that energy, all those traumas, all that suffering, all that heartbreak, everything that something's gonna happen. Do you know that the number one cause of of death is heart attacks is heart issues, heart disease, it's heart disease. Okay. From a spiritual perspective, it's actually from heartbreak. Okay. How many of us feel like we're sad and how much does that affect our health?

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Because we didn't, we don't have love cause we're not even able to have it or because we're heartbroken because, or even maybe even someone transitioned and we're, we still cannot release knowing the truth. And the truth is love is eternal. Whether you, you know, can't be with somebody because they're that different, their goals are different. That it's trauma, it's trauma. It trauma causes the heart disease from a spiritual perspective. Okay. And I know that science is gonna prove this. I am here to state from a spiritual, you know, as a spiritual leader, as a doctor divinity, that I know the truth. I know what causes. And there's only one first cause and its consciousness, it's spirit. It's source. It's your true self. And in that, the body is just a reflection of what's happening spiritually and heart disease. Some people say no it's because we, you know, eat bad fats and I'm sure that plays into it.

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But actually what happens is it's the heartbreak, it's the heartbreak of also what we're doing to the planet, the heartbreak of what we're doing to the animals. It's heartbreak of love. That's what's causing the heart disease and this planet. And so I know that all of us desire, love and connection. That's who we are. We, we desire, love and connection. We are love, we are connection. We are unity. But so if you're asking right now, how are you truly gonna heal your relationships? How are you gonna heal that relationship with your mother or father? How are you gonna heal the relationship to actually be able to have friends in your life that you just don't sabotage and make wrong? How are you gonna heal your relationship with yourself? Because guess what? All of life is a relationship. And so all of life that comes down to being able to neutralize all those commands that are playing out that are divided, that make you always make people wrong.

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What if you no longer had to make anyone wrong? What if you were able to love people unconditionally and place healthy boundaries? What if trauma is the key? So when we take a look at that trigger, because I don't know about you, but when I was codependent, I'd have something happen and it'd trigger me. It was like, I couldn't even, I went into my reptilian brain and I couldn't even control myself from sending a text or saying, you know, you're a jerk or whatever. It may be reacting, getting upset, taking everything too personal, needing to, you know, be validated by somebody putting my source and my power outside of myself, into my relationship. All of that came down to me doing my own trauma work, to neutralize the mental pictures, to take back my power and know the truth of who I am, because the truth is you're an almighty, spiritual being.

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And that trauma is really the, the place for you to neutralize. So you can make a new declaration. So right now it's time to make a new declaration of who you're committed to being in the realm of relationships. Who do you wanna be? Do you wanna be unconditionally loving and somebody that's able to place healthy boundaries? Do you wanna be somebody that does not abandon people? Do you wanna be somebody that is able to love without needing it to return exactly from the exact person, right? Who do you desire? And you get to decide that don't let me tell you what you declare for yourself, but I want you to take some time to think about what you declare for yourself and in that, how willing, how much do you want that? How much do you want to be the highest version of yourself when it comes to love and relationships and how are you gonna get there?

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And so whether you get involved with society and new thought global and do E four trauma method to release your, your, your false identity, your false belief, your commands, all those division in your soul, all the triggers, all the upsets, everything. Even if you do it with us or not, I want you to really consider doing your trauma work E four trauma method. The difference between E four trauma method and other trauma method is that most trauma methods will release the actual charge or trigger. But E four trauma method takes it to further into steps that help you bird the wisdom out of it. Trauma minus emotions equals wisdom. You would never have gone through that. Codependency that break up that heartbreak. If there wasn't a wisdom to come out of that true self love wisdom to help other people, the takeaways out of that, all that your purpose in calling your purpose and calling is born out of the E four trauma method.

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You have gone through the suffering you've gone through because you chose it at a spiritual level. Whether it be a rape, whether it be whatever, yes, you may have been a victim in that, but as spiritually chose, because you are one with everything, you are the perpetrator and you are the victim. You are all that so that you can bur something and a, and a leave a legacy and, and bring the wisdom to help others who are struggling with that exact same thing. So I know that if relationship goal, the ultimate relationship goal is to be love is to know that you are unshakeable as Abraham hick says, be unseeable accountable. Imagine you are so clear in your confidence and you are so loving that, you know, you are love that even if someone cheated or transitioned and died, that you know, the truth of who you are, that you know, the truth of who they are, that nothing can shake you.

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I just say, may you know the truth of who you are, which is love, may you heal your codependency, may you heal your dysfunctional relationships, may you know the truth of every single one of your family members and your friends in all of life, and be able to love unconditionally and place healthy boundaries. There's another podcast on, on creating healthy boundaries. You can go down and, and find that one. But this one is specifically for how trauma is impacting your ability to have healthy relationships. Trauma is the key. If someone comes to work with me and pays me a hundred thousand dollars to work with me, one on one E four trauma method is the core work that we'll do. It is the biggest shift that we have I have for clients. And that it is the number one thing within new thought global and society that we train our coaches and our practitioners to facilitate.

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We have a lot of other processes that, that support and develop all of it. But E four trauma method is the game changer. It is the secret to the secret. It is the key. It is a missing factor of everything of enlightenment. You can be totally enlightened and be outta body, but you've gotta deal with the body. You've gotta deal with the charge at a subconscious level. You've gotta deal with the, the charge on your DNA, the epigenetics, you've gotta deal with that and how that is done through E four trauma method. And so I just say, thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I am so grateful to do this work as together we say. And so it is so, um, if you have somebody, you know, that is in a dysfunctional relationship, which is probably majority of your friends, or has a struggle, always making people wrong, um, you know, getting upset whether they're single or in a marriage or whatever trauma is the core work that all of us need to do. Okay. So have a beautiful day. You can check us out@soulsociety.com, S O U L C I E t.com new.global. And you can find me Dr. aaron.tv across all social media and that's D R E R I N, dot TV. Have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth?

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This is live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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One is a spiritual coach. Let's break this on down. You may be asking yourself what is a traditional life coach versus a spiritual coach versus all the different types of coaches in the industry. First of all, I just wanna say that I'm super honored to take this journey with you, because I believe that there is a very big misunderstanding of how important a spiritual coach truly is. We have all different types of people that come to us for coaching. I have dealt with high end celebrities, top CEOs. I have trained single women, people with, uh, different, you know, business issues to people dealing with addiction issues to people really just being stopped in life. People being overwhelmed, confused, all different things. But the reality is is that every last one of them needs spiritual coaching. And so we're gonna break on down. What is a spiritual coach?

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The reality is that spirituality is the reality that everything comes from spirit. Everything comes from mind. Everything comes from consciousness. Everything comes from the one source. And so spiritual coaches really clear out the soul release, limited beliefs, reprogram the subconscious mind, transform trauma and help people restore the truth of who they are birthing their truth, birthing their purpose, birthing their legacy of life. Being able to put boundaries on people, places, and things, and accept people in places and things. So they can truly live in their bliss and live in their power, live in their passion and live in their purpose. So spirituality spirituality is the reality that everything is created by spirit. You are higher self. So anywhere in life, where you are struggling anywhere in life, where you're not feeling empowered anywhere in life, where you are feeling confused or overwhelmed or sad or lonely or upset or any of those emotions, they're all being created by you.

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You are an almighty, powerful, spiritual being, and the moment that you even consider yourself to be anything other than the, I am, you are setting universal law into motion. And in this, I recognize the truth of who you are. And so as a spiritual coach, what we are truly doing is we're revealing the truth of who you are. Transformation actually happens. The moment that someone actually recognizes that they created their perspective and the circumstances of their life, because everything comes from identity, which identity creates beliefs, beliefs, create thoughts and thoughts, create feelings and feelings, create the circumstances of your life.

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So in this, let's just recognize that really, what are we doing when we're spiritually coaching somebody when somebody's come to us, whether that be through a program, whether it be through one oh ones, whether it be through a retreat, whether it be through whatever the reality is, what we're really doing is we're having people come from being the fact, being the victim, feeling like they're not caused over their life to becoming the cause, becoming the creator of their life, becoming somebody who realizes that they can create manifest and demonstrate what they desire. And that's the confusing part of life, because why do we know what we're supposed to do? But we don't do it. So we have to break on down. How do you become somebody? Who's the cause of your life instead of the effect and the victim? So we have two primary things that we're doing in our spiritual awakening and dealing with clients as spiritual coaches.

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Number one, we are pulling back all the limited beliefs, all the traumas, everything at a soul level and the soul consists of all the energetic ties of your DNA and all of all the, all of your lineage, all of your ancestors, everything, all the considerations of anything other than the I am. So all spiritual awakening is restoring the true identity. So the first thing we're doing is doing this by things like the E four trauma method by things like releasing all the emotions, neutralizing it at a DNL DNA level because epigenic now teaches us that what happens in trauma over many lifetimes, it's actually showing that we have the memory, the good memory and the bad memory is stored in our DNA. And whenever there is a trauma, they call it a tag and it actually bounds the DNA. And you actually are not able to perceive as much.

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You're not as able, you're not as, as capable of doing things and you actually condense, condense yourself. So I always like to think of it, like if there's a sun up above, which is your true consciousness, which is a part of you, that's really all powerful, almighty and has all innovation. It has all capability to handle anything. If there's clouds in between you and the sun, those are what be called limited beliefs. And in the limited beliefs, that is what restricts your ability to actually be more able to be able to perceive, to be able to innovate, to be able to do anything, handle things like upsets in your relationships, like the economy changing, like, you know, different health issues. You're not able to cope with it, right? So everything we're doing in our spiritual awakening with our clients is we are releasing those limited beliefs, transforming the trauma, reprogram the subconscious mind.

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And we're first getting our clients to restore the truth of who they are taking the veil off of their consciousness. So they can really realize the truth of who they are, which is one with everything. And also really, truly the source. They created all of life. The source that created the entire universe, coming back to that truth that you always have choice, no matter what, the hand you were dealt, you always have choice. There is a great coach. His name is Nick, and he has no arms and no legs. And he is one of the biggest motivational coaches there is. And, and I mean, he, he obviously has a deck of cars. He is been dealt that someone would say, well, that's not fair or there's limitation to that. But the truth is just like Thomas truer teaches us. There's there's infinite equations and ways of dealing with the deck that you're dealt.

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So when you know that I am, you have all choice and possibility. The second thing that we're doing with our clients is we are birthing their unique divine expression and their unique truth. We're birthing our client's truth and how we do this is really by getting outta the way when we do that trauma work. And we transmute the energy, naturally trauma minus emotion equals wisdom. And someone's truth is naturally born. When they transmute and have triumph over their trauma, they're birthing their truth by actually all the negative things in their life like where they're upset, where they're confused, all those things, when that energy and emotions are transmuted, actually the clients' truth is born. And so your unique divine expression is born of really two primary things, which is all the suffering that's happened on your DNA for you to actually be the neutralization. You are universal law.

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So you actually have a divine calling it's already written on your DNA. And also there's a part of you that has a unique expression. It's the gift of you. It's that place where you lose track of time. It's that part of you? That is that artist, that creative factor, that place within you, that no one else can do what you do. And so, again, as spiritual coaches, helping our clients do spiritual awakening, we are helping them birth. The truth of who they are, which is the I am. And then we have them birth their truth, which is their unique divine expression. There's only one of you, there's only one of your client. And that is what we're here to do. You are the fractal of the divine. You are, there's only one of you in the entire universe. And the greatest gift you can give to yourself and to the world is the most authentic expressed you.

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And so these are really the two primary things that we're doing with our client. So as a spiritual coach in, in society and new thought global, we teach universal law. We teach the creative process. We are in the new thought movement, which is ancient thought. And it really is the metaphysics of how we create. And so we're constantly educating our clients and helping them understand how they have created all their limitations, all their scarcity, all their lack, and that that same energy can create abundance and love and vitality. So if you take a look at universal law or the creative process in general, we have kind of like, it looks like a big circle with a V that goes down, and this is the universal chart of how we create. And at the top of the, you know, what we call open at the top, at the top of this kind of circle, uh, when it's open, it really is the creative conscious mind that part of you that can create, decide, choose that's the conscious mind.

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And that goes down into kind of the middle, which is what we consider the subconscious mind, which is conscious as well. But it's subconscious. It has an great intelligence in it. It beats the heart. It doesn't the mathematical chemical equations in your body that no mathematician on this planet could do. It is so intelligent. It's what would consider the soul. It also has all the great wisdom, but it also has all the trauma. It also has all the limitations. It has that yin and yang. It has that good and bad. It has universal law in it, right? And out of that at the bottom, we consider the fact, the form, the body of life. So there's always spirit at the top, the soul in the middle and the body at the bottom. And this is just a demonstration. We recognize all one thing going on, but the truth is that universal law, we have the choice.

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We're in a relative, it's a relative creation. We can create heaven, or we can create hell. We can create dev vision, or we can create our divine union. We can create all the above. And this one thing, it's the out picture of every last drop of life. And this is who creative process. So as we're coaching our clients, we're helping them understand that when they were in that traumatic incident and decided I'll never love again, I'm not enough. Something's wrong with me. That is a creation, just like creating, you know, a billion dollars or love, or the greatest trip of your life or the greatest expression. It's all creation. Universal law doesn't know the difference between a penny and a billion dollars. It doesn't know the difference between love or hate. It doesn't know the difference to anything. It just creates. It just says, yes, that's all universal law.

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That's all the creative process. That's all it does. And the choice is you, as they say, if you think you can, or you think you can't. So it is the point is that whatever it is that you put your mind to, if you focus on what you don't want, you'll get more of what you don't want. If you focus on what you do want and how to create that, that will be created. So we have choice the point of what we're doing for our clients and in spiritual coaching is we are restoring choice where store restoring the choice to know that you can create harmony or chaos. The choice is you, yours, you can create success or you can create struggle. It's the same amount of energy. It's just a creation. It's really what you're believing and what you're focusing on.

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So what is the secret to success for our clients, right? What is it truly, if we really want success for our clients, we want them to be able to, you know, create the life that they love. We want them to help. 'em have become the CEO of their personal professional life. We want them to have thriving relationships. We want them to have, you know, vitality. We want them to have joy and we want them to have whatever it is that they choose for themselves. What is the secret? Well, the spiritual coach, what we know for sure is that the primary work is to reprogram the subconscious mind because the primary work is getting out of the way the primary work is, is, is releasing the resistance within the soul. It's kind of like a voltage in, you know, electricity, if there's a lot of resistance, right?

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It's not gonna work very well. So we want the flow. We want to have the conduit. We want to flow so that we can light up the greatest light bulb. And it's the same with you in order to light up your life. We need to get outta the way when you get that resistance outta the way. So you can fully create and flow. Life is a flow currency. Money is a currency. Love is a currency of giving and taking all of it. But when we scare, you know, are scared when we resist it. When we hold onto things, when we cling onto things, when we're driven off of resistance, it doesn't work. So the primary work we do as spiritual coaches is reprogram the subconscious mind because we recognize that probably less than 3% of what we're able to do is from the conscious mind, everything else is in the subconscious mind, we don't have to beat the heart.

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We don't have to think when we walk, we don't have to do these things because we have this great intelligence within the subconscious, but at the same time in the subconscious, we also have all that trauma, all those limited beliefs, all of that stuff. That's holding us back at the exact same time. So we like to think of what we're doing with our clients, like a computer analogy, right? So when we're, when I have a client come to me and they have issues, right? Either they're dealing with, you know, codependency, dysfunctional relationships they're dealing with, um, not being able to break through and their money and prosperity and their business, their, you know, having health issues or just sadness upsets just, just are feeling stuck in their life. It's kind of like a computer. You know, computer has all kinds of issues, right? We're just exactly the same.

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We're we, you know, have all kinds of issues. When it comes to our computer, you can have that spinning ball. You can have, you know, not have good connection to wifi. You can have too many tabs open. You can have a virus on your computer. We're identical to computers. We live in a binary universe, it's all energy and it's all code. So if you take a look at the computer, you can, you know, touch it and that's considered the hardware. So just like you, you can touch your body and that's the hardware. Okay? Then if you go inside, obviously you go into the software of your computer. It's just like you're and you it's your beliefs. Okay? Whatever beliefs is running the program, right? It's like, you can only do what you can do with a computer based off of its software. You can only do what you can do as a person based off your beliefs, and then there's memory.

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So your computer have good memory, bad memory in us. We have cell epigenetics, right? We have memory in every, every aspect of it in all the DNA, the good, the bad, all of it. And we have a cautious records and we have memory of everything, right? So you can have the greatest computer. You can have great software. You can have great memory, but guess what? You won't do anything without the operator. You, my friend are not your body. You're not your beliefs. You're not your program. And you're not your epigenics or memory. You are the operator you get to create through this and infinite, infinite ways. And so we want to help you restore and have the best computer, basically. So just like computer problems, the spin spinning ball slows down, get viruses, glitches, need software updates, poor internet connection, just like that human problems.

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We get overwhelmed. We have confusion. We're not efficient. We have upset sadness, maybe even depression, limited beliefs, you know, all of our BS and poor internet connection. We're not, you know, getting to source tapping in right. Same exact problems. So what are we doing with our clients? We are clearing out all the cache. We're shutting down all those tabs that are still open, that are trauma incidences and things that are still playing in the background like public strings in our life. We are getting them connected into source, through daily spiritual practices and spiritual mind treatment. And we're doing all kinds of work on their limited belief systems. And we're giving them tools and, and things and doing worksheets with them and processes for them to handle upsets and sadness. And yes, if they're depressed and sometimes we have to get, have people go get medical help as well.

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Or if they're dealing with addiction sounds, we refer them to, you know, intake programs if we're not able to handle it as a coach. Okay. So we have to recognize that how do we reprogram the subconscious mind as a coach for our clients? There's really only three ways that we program the subconscious mind, just like a computer, just like a binary system. There is a negative, a neutral, which is zero and a positive. That's the only way that we reprogram or program the subconscious mind through negative. Uh, all the negative programming is what we consider limited beliefs. And what we're talking about is the, the negative charge comes in via the meaning that we put on things. So the subconscious mind is, is programed via frequency and vibration, right? So if we're in a really high state of a negative emotion in a traumatic incident, or really, really upset, and we decide something, we decide to lie a limited belief.

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I'm not enough. I'll never love again. I'll never trust again, I don't wanna live whatever it is. And that actually goes into the subconscious mind and into the neurological system as an Ingram. And so that is the negative way of programming subconscious mind. So in order to release that negativity, we need to release the limited beliefs through E four trauma method and neutralizing those energetic charges. And we go to the zero factor. And that again is going to the, I am remember at the very beginning, what are we doing with our clients? We're taking them and bringing them to a spiritual awakening to the I a, to the all potential. And that's where the zero factor is. That's where we get them through E four trauma method through a daily spiritual practice, getting them to the I am. And then we wanna take them to the positive meaning that it's great to get blist out and go meditate in the Himalayas or getting to that God factor.

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But we wanna actually be expressed and, and be able to be a human and have two ground, two feet on this mother earth and live an expression, a unique divine fractal expression. And so we wanna go to the positive, we wanna birth someone's unique, divine truth, their unique expression. We do this through a friend of mine, treatment and declarations and all kinds of way of birthing our client's truth so that they can live their unique truth. So as, um, with a client in general, um, I've worked with clients for the year for a hundred thousand dollars. I've worked when I first started working years and years ago, you know, I think I began charging something like $1,500 for, uh, 12 sessions. And then it went up from there and then it went up from there and so on and so forth. But regardless, uh, I use, and we train in society and we work with clients through a 12, uh, step process of truth triangle.

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It's a step by step system to help our clients restore their power, to birth their passion and birth their purpose, and to live their truth through their daily spiritual practice. So we are restoring the true identity and the divine power. We're getting clarity on the core values and birthing the passion and birthing the purpose and leaving the legacy. That's what we're doing with our clients. So, you know, 12 weeks is generally the minimum I would recommend working as, as being coach or being, um, being a coach one or the other, whether, whether you are getting coaching or becoming a coach, um, it's important to have a process it's important to have a formula. And this is based there's, there's 12 processes in this there's 12 kind of there's nine processes, but there's 12 kind of sessions if you will. And this was something that was born over decades of work of, you know, really distilling down all the great foundations.

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And after, you know, going through so many different developments, I was like, what are we really doing here? What are we really doing when we are doing spiritual awakening and birthing someone's truth, and really restoring and dealing with all the aspects of life, because guess what if you're human, you need to deal with trauma. If you're human, you need to deal with learn how to place boundaries and getting clear of your core values. If you're human, you have a purpose. And so all of these things, this was the formula that I came up with that really works. And it works really well. And it's called the truth triangle. It's a step by step system, 12 week process with nine processes and 12 weeks of different, um, different things with the, so the first of the truth triangle is restoring the power as a spiritual coach.

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What are we doing again? We're releasing the limit of beliefs. We're transforming the trauma, and we're, we're claiming the infinite power that I am always, always, this is the most important. The most profound results I've had for clients is doing the E four trauma method. And having them really, really rarely understand that in that traumatic incident, what's so profound about it is they all of a sudden realize that they decided the limited belief and that limited belief is in playing out their life, maybe even for decades. And in that moment, they restore their power. And it's the most profound thing to witness. It's so beautiful. We do this with the E four trauma method, which is a process I came up with and why I got the Wal and wisdom award next to Oprah Winfrey, Greg Braden, and Michael Bernard Beckwith. And there's four steps of the E four trauma method.

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Please don't try this at home on yourself, unless you are trained to facilitate it or wi, or if you're with a trained facilitator, because there's four steps, but how you go through those over and over again is very, um, very much, um, uh, something to be, to be practiced and to hone down and make sure people aren't left, um, in the middle of traumatic parts. Okay. So the four step process comes down to the first process is really re-experiencing it, um, as if it's happening right now from a spiritual perspective, there's no such thing as time every traumatic instance ever happened is, is living in you right now and playing out in your life right now. So we go and re-experience it because the mental pictures track at a certain time that are related to that step. Number two is what we call for E the second E is evaluation, but it's actually non evaluation.

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So state the traumatic incident without any evaluation or judgment, because what happens is actually why trauma stays on the track is actually the meaning that you place around it, right? You're such a creative, spiritual being the moment that you even put a meaning, a positive or a negative meaning something that you instantaneously created into existence. So it has to stay on the track based off of the re-energizing of it at some level, step number three is emotions E for emotions, which means allow yourself to fully feel the emotions without, without like any, any resistance to the emotion. Remember. So it allow yourself to fully feel it as is in the emotion fully expressing it. And one thing we're not taught in our culture is to feel emotion without putting meaning around it. And it's actually really can be very challenging as the coach. You have to really step your clients through this, or if you're wanting to get coached, you have to really be walked through this because, uh, the trauma, the trauma won't release, and you won't have the big epiphany.

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You won't have that neutrality. If you're not able to hold yourself in the emotion without putting meaning on it. And it's very challenging. It's something that the coaches are developed in to learn how to do. And then step four, the fourth E is enlightenment. So what limited beliefs did you command into your subconscious mind during this traumatic incident? And what new declarations do you want to make for your life? So what happens is we wanna spot commands. Generally people have three big commands that really play out in their life. For example, when my parents were divorced, when I was little, my dad came back and visited. And when he was leaving, I was so hysterical. I was so upset and I was watching him drive away. And I just declared to myself. I was like, I something's wrong with me. I'm not lovable and love abandons, you know, love leaves.

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And it just played out like puppet strings in my life forever. And it wasn't until I went back and just as, is it and realized that my dad absolutely loved me then. And he loves me now. And he was never abandoning me. He was just trying to find his own way, cuz he didn't have a lot of guidance himself. So in that the new declaration right, is I am love, I am love and I don't have to abandon because what would happen is I would just abandon before I was abandoned, right? So we wanna go over this process over and over again. And the difference between E four trauma method and other trauma methods is that other trauma methods, um, are amazing. There's some great process out there. They generally help the triggers and they help kind of, um, you know, get people to where they're not reacting in life.

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But the E four trauma method has a very specific intention of birthing the actual like lesson out of it, the wisdom out of it, the purpose out of it, we say again, that trauma minus emotions equals wisdom. So out of the E four trauma method, you birth a new wisdom. You transmute the energy of the emotions and you birth something, you birth something inspired action or your purpose or your calling or whatever it is, the enlightenment. And so you make a new declaration for yourself and your life. So trauma minus emotions equals wisdom. And generally, if I'm working with a client for 12 sessions, generally I will do E four trauma method for all 12, the sessions for the first part. And then we'll go on to other the other eight other processes and homework and things like that. So the second part of the truth triangle, the second side, remember the first is power burdening the power through E four trauma method and restoring all that.

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The second is getting clear clarity on passions. And this is really important. This is why, you know, dysfunctional relationships. We wanna figure out what it is that works for you versus somebody else. This is why you're gonna have a certain purpose and legacy to birth out of the passions. And so and so forth. So getting clarity on your core values and commitments, creating boundaries on people, places and things, and accepting people and places and things. In fact, the only source of true suffering is wanting people and places and things to be different. So we're also birthing the unique divine individual. You have a specific life. What you like in relationship, what you like and where you wanna live, what you like and what you wanna do. And you, what you like is so unique to you. And most people don't know themselves. Most people just get upset, overwhelmed, all that, but we actually take you through processes to birth your, your true passion.

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We take you through things like when you're getting upset, it's actually because it's telling you, your emotions are telling you what you like. And don't like, right. When you're, when you're confused, it's actually cuz you know, there's a commitment in there, but you're committed to something else as well. So you actually have to get clarity on what you're truly committed to. And it actually untangles that quandary and that confusion, things like that. We, we go through processes to birth your specific truth, your passions. And then the third side of the truth. Triangle is birthing your purpose. And this is such an honor, cuz I know for me for so many years I was searching for what is my purpose. And I knew inside of me, I knew there was something that I was supposed to do in this lifetime. So we take the triumphs of your past life trauma.

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And whether you believe in past lives or not, doesn't matter because the truth is that all lives live in your DNA. So it's your, it's your epigenetics, right? So you're triumph for your past life trauma via regressions. And we do that through E four trauma methods. It's another section of it to do past life, um, traumas and then creating your life purpose statement and then decide to create your legacy. And this is like the icing on the cake. It is where people just and simply fall in love with their lives and really become really powerful. Even if I'm working with the top CEO or top celebrity, when they get really, really clear of the purpose and why they're doing what they're doing, even more, they end up, you know, falling back in love with their careers, falling back in love with their life. And it's such a pleasure and we teach, um, and take our clients through um, coaching and spiritual coaches, the life purpose formula, which is triumphs plus passion plus skillset equals purpose.

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So your triumphs really come out of your trauma work. You can't, uh, I've worked with thousands of people of helping them discover their purpose formula. And if they're confused, there's only one purpose. And at the purpose is to do the inner work because once you do your inner work, your triumph and your purpose will be born. So your triumphs plus your passion, plus your skill set equals your purpose. So your triumph again is what's the hardest thing you've ever been through. And what's the takeaway. And if you still have any emotion around what happened to you or feel like the victim of anything, it means you have not done all of your trauma work. Once you completely feel a cause and recognize that you created your own trauma by the meaning you put on it. And it doesn't mean someone wasn't a victim and there someone wasn't a perpetrator.

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But that means that the meaning that you put on it was really what actually caused the tr the, the trauma, right? But the triumph. So birthing that to the E four trauma method and understanding passion, what would you do if you want a hundred million dollars? Not what would you buy? What would you do? We wanna discover an inquiry into that through some processes and then what's your skill set, right? Where do you lose track of time? What do you really good at? Do you love working? You know, in groups, do you love working one on one? Do you love art? Do you love, you know, travel? Do you love, you know, simplicity? What do you love? What's your skillset? Where do you, where, where is it that you really good? Maybe you're a connector. Maybe you're a visionary. Maybe you are a research junkie.

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Maybe you're whatever these passions and skillset are. This is what burs the purpose. And this is such an honor. And so through this, so I'll go back a little bit. Sorry about that. Through this, um, in our spiritual mastery, we have a 12 step system. So whether you're getting coach or whether you are learning to become a coach, we have a process. Okay. And so this is the process you'd go through whether you're getting coach or whether you're becoming a coach, you are reprogramming the subconscious mind, getting educated around it and doing processes around, okay, you're discovering your truth. Really? What is the ultimate truth that versus your relative truth, going through your life inventory, recognizing where do you need to make amends? Where do you need to forgive yourself? All that stuff. And then healing. Your traumas of course, is something we do the entire way through E four trauma method, shifting your identity, huge, releasing that old limited story, recreating your new story for yourself.

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People are like in dramas of their life. They're like in a play, but they forgot that they created the play themselves, right? Unleashing yourself, empowerment anywhere you are feeling disempowered it's cause you've handed your power over to something outside of yourself. And then where you confuse or having problems or having quandaries. We deal with that specifically through processes, teaching you these tools week. Number eight is all about upsets and sadness and depression. And obviously again, if someone's dealing with depression, they need to seek medical help. Okay? But these are all the, the things that you'll go over, um, you'll go over E for trauma through the entire time, but you're gonna learn all the processes and be taken through the processes and then values in week nine, values, commitments and alignment, understanding and burdening your core values. What do you truly committed to and what do you really wanna align with?

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And then path, life regressions. Again, whether you believe in past lives or not, doesn't matter, you deal with what's on your track. And it's one of the most fascinating processes of going in through really the imagination and pulling up mental pictures of, of things that you're really emotional around. And it's really fascinating cuz some people actually I've seen clients get some of the biggest aha moments of their entire life through past life progressions. And they didn't even believe in past lives. It was like amazing many lives mini masters, right week number 11 is birthing your purpose and calling. And then week 12 is your life purpose statement. So you'd be taken through all of this, whether you are getting coach or becoming to coach. And so we really wanna discover and unveil, what are your limited beliefs as a spiritual coach? That is our primary work to discover because the extent to which you have limited beliefs is the extent to which you're gonna experience limitations in your life.

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The truth is you're an, I am all knowing all powerful, infinite, infinite creator. And we're here to restore that for you, with you. You do that as a, as a coach, we're really just asking the questions and being the conduit as a coach. The most important thing we do is bring our pure consciousness. If you're a coach and you're coaching with society, the most important thing is that you do all of your inner work so that you can step into, you know, coaching with your clients to have a totally powerful, clear soul. And so we also, of course, it really starts with what are your limited identities getting clear of that? Releasing those through all the processes, all the E four trauma method, repro, subconscious mind and all the above. And then what are your traumas, right? Diving into those, releasing those neutralizing, those transmuting, those so that you can birth your wisdom, birth, your truth, birth, your purpose, and calling.

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And then what are you passionate about, right? What are your passions? Where do you lose track of time? Where if you won a hundred million, what would you do? How would you spend your time? And so that you can live a life that you love with passion and with, with all the we're supposed to live with total, you know, just diving into what we really care about in this life. And then how committed are you to doing your inner work? That's really the question because whether you're wanna get coached or whether you are wanting to become a coach, what we found is the greatest coaches that we are our primary client, that we have to do our own inner work. And, and we only work with highly committed people. And so if you not, if you don't get the level of commitment of doing your inner work, then you, for me, you're wasting your time because you're gonna be suffering for a long time.

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It really comes down to our own consciousness, every last drop of it. And what is the legacy you want to leave in this lifetime? You have a legacy and we are infinite, immoral being. But the truth is that we only have one lifetime in this body per se. And so what do you hear? What's the difference you wanna see on this planet? And that is true spiritual mastery. So what is a spiritual coach? A spiritual coach for me is the most important career you can have on this planet. It is such an honor to train and develop spiritual coaches and recognize that our spiritual nature, our subconscious mind, our consciousness is we live in a mental universe and everything is out picturing and reflecting from consciousness. There is only one mind and you are get to use the fractal of it based upon how, you know, condensed you use it through all the limitations you have in your soul.

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So the primary work is to clear out the soul to the I am and bird the unique divine expression. And so this, I just say, thank you, thank you so much for all this. You can click the link below to discover more and it would be an honor, whether you wanna get coached or whether you wanna become a coach, the choice is yours. But what I know for sure is that this is the most profound, most important work you will ever do in your life. And so I just say, I am so honored. I am so grateful in this divine moment. I know perfection. I know you're healed. I know you're revealed. I the know the most expressed you is born. And I just say all your suffering, you've been through all the strife, all that is not in vain, that all of that you needed to go through.

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So that one day right now, right here, you are born to yourself. You are liberated and you are free. And now you get to play this magical game called life and love every drop of it because it's always gonna have the light, the dark, the good, the bad, the suffering, the joy, and all of it. And to love yourself unconditionally is to love all of life. May you know yourself, and may you love yourself unconditionally so that you can fully love all of life and be express fully. And on that note, I just say, yes, yes, yes. As together we say. And so it is have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth?

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Thank you for tuning in society and Dr. Aaron podcast. If you've had a call to be a spiritual leader or coach, you can go to soul society.com and check out our free training. If you receive value here, I would love it. If you take a moment and give a five star review in exchange, I have a ton of free gifts for you. Grab your free awakening book, 40 guided meditations and digital manifesting masterclass. I also have a free money, meditation and worksheet for you. So you can begin to break through your scarcity mindset and claim your birthright of prosperity. You can get all of your gifts and learn about our upcoming transformational events in my biolink in both Instagram and Facebook. That's under Dr. aaron.tv, which is D R E R I n.tv. Also, I'd love to invite you into our free private community on Facebook, under groups called society. That is facebook.com/slash society. That's S O U L C I E T E. Have a divine day. And may you live your truth?

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This is

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Live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Welcome divine legends. Oh my gosh. If you are somebody who is dealing with needing to set boundaries, you definitely want to listen to this podcast and watch this video. I have so much experience on those. You guys, you have no idea coming from being someone who is completely co-dependent and dysfunctional years back and mastering how to create boundaries, how to hold boundaries and still being tested, being tested, being tested, and working with, you know, hundreds of women, uh, in our community and thousands of women's hundreds of thousands of women across the globe. I just wanna say that this is very normal and natural to be trying to figure out how to create boundaries. So I'm Dr. Aaron, I'm a doctor divinity, founder of new thought global and society and teaching universal law, metaphysics of mind, science of mind, and how our subconscious mind gets reprogrammed through E four trauma method and all of our different modalities that we teach and certify all of our spiritual coaches, practitioners, law of attraction ministers, and yes, doctors of divinity.

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So let's break this on down. You guys boundaries how to create healthy boundaries, how to live your truth, how to truly, truly be able to not make people wrong, see them for the divinity and stay in your power. And let me tell you, I don't think that you ever stop this masterclass of life. So it's so funny because, um, you know, years back I was completely codependent and dis dysfunctional in my relationships. And I remember, you know, hearing this thing called boundaries and <laugh> boundaries for me meant blocking people. That was the only sense I knew of like boundaries, cuz it was all or nothing when you're kind of an addict. And when you're, you know, in this realm. And so it is taken me many, many years to understand and be able to implement, being able to hold healthy boundaries for myself in the realm of relationship, but also in the realm of friendships, in the realm of, you know, social media in the realm of everything.

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So I invite you to take your pin and paper out. If you do not already subscribe to the, um, podcast, if you do not subscribe to the YouTube, this goes on both platforms. And so please subscribe tele a friend tag, a friend, because this work is super important for us to be able to have our friends, our inner circle, our family be able to all rise together. Our mission in society is to waken a billion people. And how I know we will fulfill upon that mission is by developing the most doctors of divinity on this planet. That truly is my goal. So let's break this on down. It's all the buzz and all the rage to, to create boundaries right now. There's books coming out on it. Everyone's talking about it. It's nothing new. It's something that we've had to learn for for all of all of time, but today we're gonna break it on down.

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So there's a great fairytale. It's called Goldie locks and the three bears. And it's a really funny little fairy tale because it's a story of Goldie locks, this little girl who kind of, I think she gets lost out in the woods and she stumbles upon this like little house, a little log cabin out in the woods. She says, well, maybe somebody can help me find my way back home. And so she knocks three times on the door and she goes inside and she realizes nobody's there. So she starts kind of looking around and she goes, well, I'm a little hungry. And I don't think anyone really mind that. And there's three bowls of porridge and she, you know, eats one and she's like, Ooh, this is too hot. She eats another. And she goes, Ooh, this is too cold. And she eats the third and she says, just right, right.

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Then she goes onto the living room and she finds, I think three chairs sits in one and thinks it's too hard. One's too soft. And the other one's just right. And then she goes up in the bed and, and lays on the bed and tries all three beds. And again, one's too hard, one too soft. And one's just right. And she falls asleep and lo and behold three bears come home. A mom bear, a daddy bear and a baby bear. And they come in and they're like, who's eating our porch. Who's broken our chairs. And they go up and they find little girl and she runs out cuz of course she's afraid of the bears. She runs home and she decides she's never going back to the woods and the bears never see Goldilocks again. So what's the moral of the story. Little weird really right.

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If you think about it. But the point is, as you know, a mentor of mine, a metaphysical mentor told me years ago, years ago that all relationships are the opportunity to discover what you like and what you don't like, what works and doesn't work. Right. And another concept is that all the relationships are the opportunity for us to develop our spiritual mastery, to accept people exactly as they are in their total divinity, but also being able to know and make the distinction between who they are and who we are and what works and doesn't work. So, you know, diving in further into relationships that have no boundaries and that are what we call, you know, enmeshed and really don't work. They end up, you know, being, getting together, breaking up, going around the circles, all the dysfunction of a relationship. We recognize that it's important to, to be able to place boundaries, to have two healthy individuals that are complete themselves and that can come together in the parts of them that do work, the parts that they create together, whether it be, you know, that they just enjoy being friends, whether they enjoy, you know, creating a family together, whether they enjoy creating something for the world.

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And we, we recognize all relationships and we celebrate all relationships, whether you're gay straight, no matter what, your definition of a relationship, we're just talking about the generality of all relationship, because guess what? All of life is a relationship. So we have to understand that all of life is going to be pushing us to see what our boundaries are. So another word for boundaries is living your truth, right? So I, I, I don't really care for the word boundaries so much because I don't feel like I need to place bounds on anything. And cuz I'm boundless. My love is boundless. My expression is boundless, but where it's received may, you know, be different for, you know, it may not be received and we call it boundaries, whatever it is. But it really is more about boundaries. It's not about the other person. Boundaries is about yourself.

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And let me explain. So I remember, uh, years back being in a dysfunctional relationship and thinking if he just changed, then I wouldn't have to, you know, be a, a B, right? If he just didn't do this, then I wouldn't have to be controlling. If he just did this, then I wouldn't get upset, eh, wrong answer, right? From a metaphysical standpoint, everything is just a reflection and projection of our beliefs. And if we're having beliefs that love hurts or love is chaotic or relationships are hard, hence they will be hard. Hence you'll always be going in the ups and downs of the roller coasters out there. So placing the boundaries is more about getting clear about yourself, about what works for you. What doesn't work for you, where, you know, everyone has different cycles, how you sleep may be different than somebody else, what you like to do.

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And when you like to do it, it might be different than somebody else. How, you know, you go about in work may be different than say your boss or your peers, right? Everything is about getting clarity of who you are so that you can show up fully as you are and people can accept you. And you can accept people, places and things as they are because the gap of suffering is wanting people, places and things to be different than they are. So our gap of boundaries is really getting clear of accepting others exactly are, but also, and more importantly, accepting ourselves for who we are so that we can fully state and be clear of who we are. So other people can accept us or not accept us and place their own boundaries of living their own truth for themselves. So how the hell do we do this?

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Right? So for me, it took a lot of self work, a lot of, uh, transforming my trauma, a lot of 12 step programs, a lot of practice and failing and practicing and failing, right? And making amends and then making amends again and so on and so forth. So today I can honestly say that building your boundaries primarily has to do with understanding and the universal law in that we recognize that everything is frequency, right? All of life is frequency. And so we understand that if we inform our subconscious mind and universal law with upsets and sadness and frustrations and arguments, we're going to disrupt our soul and we're going to actually create this even more tribulation, that's gonna create more tribulation in the world. So as I say, there's only, the only thing to fear is fear itself because fear itself is what's informing your subconscious mind in the divine mind.

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So it's not about another person that can upset you. It's not about because no one can upset you. You are responsible for your own emotion. So boundaries are not about somebody else. They're actually about taking responsibility around your own emotions and around your own vibration and your own energy. So we always say that, you know, when I'm working with somebody and they're trying to heal the bare minimum, I need someone to stay is at peace. Okay. If you're going, if the, the goal is to get into bliss and ecstasy and in that flow and in the manifestation, like creation factor of all of it, right? But if you go down and you're upset and you're, I turbulate, and you're reacting, then you're going to go into a spiral of downward spiral versus up here, you're gonna go into an upward spiral, right? So if you are not being able to set boundaries and you're getting into upsets, then that's dangerous because you're gonna start creating your whole life is gonna out picture from those upsets.

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And it's gonna be a downward spiral. So placing your boundaries, not about them. It's actually about you holding in the minimum par piece. And if you're not able to stay in peace, then you definitely need to place boundaries. Okay. And it's not about them. It's not about changing someone else's behavior. It's about taking responsibility for your wellbeing, for your life, for how you're informing subconscious mind. Okay. And universal mind. So boundaries is really about you living a divine life and taking responsibility around living your truth and living in your power. If you're place your power again, outside of yourself, to somebody else and making your emotions about somebody else, then we have a lot of work to do. Okay. But the first thing again is boundaries and boundaries are about getting clear of, uh, getting committed to staying in peace. Peace has to be the bare minimum, the par of your emotions.

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Okay. And if you're getting into all the upsets, that's, it's good. As long as you're transmuting the emotions and propelling you more towards your truth. Okay? So even the times when I was dysfunctional in relationship, getting upset, sending ridiculous text, you know, blocking people, doing the whole vicious cycle, the dysfunction I now can see where actually was a blessing in disguise because all those things were birthing my truth. They were birthing what I'm really committed to, which is also birthing my power. So it's not like it's bad when you don't hold your boundaries. Sometimes. Cause sometimes we have to, to go through those lessons of life to discover our truth, but in placing boundaries. So how do you do this? Right? It's not about telling somebody else what you need. I mean, yes, it's good to communicate that it's really about coming into it from a place of knowing who you are and what really works for you and doesn't work for you.

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So let's take it in a different stance. Let's just say, for example, I run a very large, uh, a community of, uh, hundreds of women and a few men and train, um, you know, thousands of women and men around the globe. And then we touch hundreds of thousands of people, um, online, right? So we have a community. And let me tell you that this test me in many ways and I had someone in the community reach out and they said, um, you know, Dr. Aaron, what do you do? I have a client that I had of falling out with. And I said, congratulations, this is great. This means a universe is developing you because years back, you know, I'd say maybe one out of a hundred people, you know, you just don't vibe something just doesn't go on. It's not right. Right. So it's always a blessing cuz if there's a breakdown at all, it's actually the opportunity to put in what I call in business policy.

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In relationship, we may call it like our standards, right. But we still have to place boundaries. So as you're watching this, I invite you or listening to this, I invite you to think about where do you get upset? And that's where you need to create a boundary, which means clear communication. And if someone doesn't honor what works for you or what you need, then you've gotta place more of a boundary. So there is a time and place to block people. There is a time and place for you to, to hold your own sacred space of peace within your life and in your soul. And so it's up to you individually. So what I'd recommend is I would actually recommend, um, taking a journal. Okay. And in the journal, I want you to have three different rows if you will, but three different rows. And in the rows you can kind of say, um, a line of kind of the worst behavior, right?

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Wh when do you know that you're spiraling into your worst behavior when you're going below par into that part of you? That isn't good. Maybe you're sending bad texts. Maybe you're breaking up with somebody getting back together. Maybe you are acting out even more than that. Maybe, um, you're shaming somebody, maybe you're gossiping behind their back, whatever it is. I want you to write down all those things. And then I want you to also write in that same column of all the things that someone else, your partner, your boyfriend, your girlfriend, or whoever it is, does that has you act that way because you are gonna have to take responsibility around that. Okay. The second row I want you to put in there and I want you to put in kind of your, your par what's your par, what what's the what's the must have of, of kind of who you are at kind of not your best self, but the person that you, you, you really are committed to being like somebody who's a good communicator.

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Somebody, somebody who is healthy and you know, in, in who they are in relationship, um, somebody that's showing up fully, somebody that is serving and not just selfish, right? Whatever it may be that kind of par that middle, like must have. And I want you to write out also in the must have column, what are you must have from your other, from your partner. They need to be, you know, clear in their communication. They need to, you know, be somebody that shows up, um, committed in the relationship, you know, no shenanigans, whatever that may be. Okay. And then the next column, the third column, I want you to put in kind of your ideal scene, right? Like what's the ideal scene. Um, somebody shows up completely powerful. Um, I am, uh, in gratitude all the time I am in serving. I am creating, uh, experiences with my partner and making a difference in the world, whatever that may be.

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And I want you to put in what that third column is. Okay. So you have three columns, one's kind the worst self number two column is kind of your, the part of you that is kind of your must have your standard of who you wanna be in the world and relationship. And your third is your ideal scene, the vision of who you really wanna be and who, who you wanna show up as in relationship. Okay. And then what I want you to do is I want you to take this kind of list into your life. And I want you to take responsibility and notice when you're coming down into your worst self, the first part, right? What is it that's happening? And where can you take responsibility and put boundaries on yourself? Or do you need to place boundaries on another person and have them outta your life?

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Because you have to take responsibility so that you are the only one that will, will go into that first row into the worst version of yourself. No one else can make you go there. No one else can make you become the worst version of yourself because you have the choice to keep yourself in environment. And if you're in a domestically, you know, abused, uh, uh, environment or something like that, please, um, you know, get professional, help call services. If something happens where you're in danger, okay. But you have to take a look at these three areas and take responsibility for your life. So again, boundaries looks like you taking responsibility, whether that means that you only spend so much time with somebody, whether that means that you take a title of, of what that relationship is off of you. Right? So for example, um, if somebody's, you know, getting upset, let's just say, for example, um, I had a client that, that she would get very upset once she got into a committed relationship because she had more expectations of the relationship.

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I had another client that they, um, you know, when they began to work together in their relationship, she'd get really upset when they worked together. Cuz there was just too much, there was like a whole plethora of other expectations of work stuff. And so what, what we sometimes will do with people that are dealing with trying to create boundaries is kind of delaying some of those things, taking away, maybe a title, maybe taking away intimacy because it doesn't work for you, you of the expectations that you have when it comes to that level of relationship versus with a friend, right. I experienced that as well. And with say work, maybe it's that you don't work together because you're not able to just, you know, it, it, you turn into another person in work and that person and that relationship doesn't work, taking it into your intimate relationship, right.

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Where are those boundaries for yourself? What are those boundaries for yourself? And you think about and begin to notice in those triggers, in that, that worst part of yourself, what happens that triggers you to getting into that worst part of yourself? Are you able to recreate those parts or are you trying to change the other person? If you're trying to change the other person that ain't never gonna work. Okay. It's really about taking responsibility for yourself. Okay. So, and the cool thing about boundaries and about all of life is that universe is gonna keep testing. You keep testing, you keep pushing you to know what you're truly committed to, to know what your boundaries are. So always say a different words for boundaries is really commitment. Who are you and what are you committed to? What are your standards? What is it that really works for you and doesn't work for you?

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And it brings me to my favorite quote, which is by Gerda, which reads until one is committed. There is hesitancy the chance to draw back concerning all acts of initiative and creation. There's one elementary truth and the ignorance of which killed countless dreams, splendid plans. And at the moment, one definitely commits oneself. Then Providence moves to all sorts of things occur to help. One that would never otherwise occur. A whole stream events from decisions raising in one favor of manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man or woman could have dreamt would have come her way, whatever you can do or dream that you can do begin it boldness has genius, power magic in it, begin it now. And so the point is, is that clarity equals power boundaries holds you in your power for your commitment to yourself of what works for you.

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Okay? It doesn't mean you have to make anyone wrong. So the practices is to get clear of what works for you. No longer have to make anyone wrong, be able to see them as the perfection that they are, be able to see them as the divine spirit that they are and be able to hold boundaries for yourself. And for me, this was one of the biggest breaking healing points of a relationship that I was in that I had to say goodbye. In fact, I had to block him. He was, you know, uh, a famous rockstar and had fallen off the wagon for theta time, had cheated on me for the umpteenth time. And I had to block him for my own piece, for my own sanity and in the healing process. The biggest thing that actually had me finally heal beyond doing my trauma work on my PTSD work and all that is I had a lie and the lie was that I didn't love him because I did love him.

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And I still love him to this day. But that doesn't mean that I would want him in my life or definitely not to be a partner. Okay. So you can hold somebody as a perfection and the divinity that they are and still have boundaries. That boundary may be. I'm just in that person's life part of the time, I cannot be in this life at all, but you can still see their perfection. You can still love them because the truth is that we are we're one with everyone and we love everyone. That's the truth. The truth is we are only love and we're all one we're one unity. Okay. So in that I just say, may you live your divine life? May you live your truth? May you live in your power? May you know that every relationship is the opportunity to discover what you like and what you don't like.

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Every opportunity is the step more into our unconditional love and be able to place boundaries for us to thrive and for somebody else to thrive as well. And so I just say, may we place healthy boundaries and live bountiful? And so I just know this in my mind as together we say. And so it is okay, you guys, I'm so excited. If you wanna learn more about placing boundaries and really birthing your truth, we do that in new thought global and society. If you wanna facilitate and do some of the processes we do in transform the trauma in birthing people's truth in doing all that work, you're welcome to learn more about society as well. We train and develop and certify spiritual coaches, practitioners, and all of the above. Yes. You can become a doctor of Divi as well. Okay. So have a beautiful day. You guys, and please share this like this comment below, uh, share it with a friend who you know, is struggling with codependency or in relationship drama, or needs to learn how to place boundaries. We all have to master this. Okay. And together we rise. So have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth?

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Thank you for tuning in society and Dr. Aaron podcast. If you've had a call to be a spiritual leader or coach, you can go to soul society.com and check out our free training. If you've received value here, I would love it. If you take a moment and give a five star review in exchange, I have a ton of free gifts for you. Grab your free awakening book, 40 guided meditations and digital manifesting masterclass. I also have a free money meditation and worksheet for you. So you can begin to break through your scarcity mindset and claim your birthright of prosperity. You can get all of your gifts and learn about our upcoming transformational events in my biolink in both Instagram and Facebook. That's under Dr. aaron.tv, which is D E R I n.tv. Also, I'd love to invite you into our free private community on Facebook, under groups called society. That is facebook.com/groups/society. That's S O U L C I E T E. Have a divine day. And may you live your truth?

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This is

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Live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We come together each day to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with the universal law. We also come together to know the truth of who we are and claim our birthright of prosperity. So if you're somebody who has dealt with co-dependency dysfunctional relationships, or just really feeling inadequate or not totally fulfilled without somebody in your life, this is for you. I'm Dr. Aaron, I'm a doctor of divinity teaching universal law, metaphysics of mind, and how to reprogram your subconscious mind. I, um, am the founder of new thought global and society, and I have trained and developed, you know, thousands of women across the globe. And today I wanna break down how you truly can live and empower life, how you can heal from codependency dysfunctional relationships and what that process is. And if you're a coach, how to deal with somebody who's dealing with codependency.

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So let's do this in you guys. Okay. So welcome again to this, um, this series R from you doing a series on codependency, dysfunctional relationships and all the above, because this is a big issue. You guys is a huge issue in our world, in our culture. And if you're somebody who's really seeking that freedom in your relationships, you're ready to really live a life where you are generating love and you don't have bounds to your love. And you're also able to accept people, places, and things as they are, and be able to fully step into your power. This is for you. So again, I'm Dr. Aaron and I know this very well because I was codependent for majority of my life. I came from an upbringing where I watched my mom as a total codependent in and out of relationships, ups and downs in her emotions.

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And I too carried it into my, uh, young adulthood. And I ended up being in relationships where, um, I got married to somebody that I didn't even love because I thought that it would complete my life. Right. Um, I was with somebody that was an alcoholic and a drug addict, a very kind of famous a rockstar that was a complete disaster and dysfunctional relationship. And I'm not pointing the finger at him because I was just as dysfunctional, uh, because I didn't, I thought that if I, you know, if he just changed, then you know, I was only acting out or sending mean texts or screaming or yelling or doing whatever, because it was his problem and what he was doing and the lies and the cheating and all that stuff that he did. Therefore, I justified everything that I did. And then I came to a really screeching halt when I had to surrender and get down on my knees and pray to my higher self and say, I need help.

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This is not working. And I cannot, I can no longer live like this. So believe me, I know a lot about codependency. And so today we're gonna break on down. How do you deal with this? Because when I train and develop spiritual entrepreneurs and coaches, we take 'em through a certification program. One of the big conversations is how do we deal with somebody that's dealing with addiction? Because codependency and dysfunctional relationships is an addiction because it's a looping process that happens, you know, within the mind. And as a meta physicians, we recognize that everything begins in mind and everything begins with our identity, with our limiting beliefs and are limited identity. And so for me, I know exactly where it came from. It came from the traumas of this lifetime and past lifetimes and the command and the identity I had was I'm not lovable and love has to hurt, love, has to abandon.

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And so it was a self-fulfilling prophecy in my life for me to be able to pick people that were not available or me to make sure that it turned into some drama. For sure. Okay. So when I'm working with, um, developing a certifying coaches, it's really interesting because when we come to this topic, we have to recognize that, uh, you know, codependency and addiction stems from trauma. Trauma is not what people think it just is. It's not just a physical thing. If you're human, you've had emotional trauma, meaning that you've had times of high states of negative emotions that cause frequency and vibration, which, which informs a subconscious mind backed by what we call a command. And the command sometimes will go like this. I don't, I, you know, I'm not enough, something's wrong with me. I don't wanna live, you know, love hurts, love abandons.

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I'm not lovable, whatever that command is and it plays out, right? So the issue is when we're dealing with a client that has codependency or dysfunctional relationship, the issue is that if they're still in that relationship, they're still in that environment and they're not able to not re-trigger those traumas. It's kind of like having a wound and you have a scab on it, right? And if you keep picking up the scab, it keeps bleeding. So if you have trauma and you are inner dysfunctional or codependent relationship, and you're constantly getting triggered, getting upset, re-opening those wounds. Then as a coach, it's almost impossible to have you really have true growth, which means that, yes, we recognize that trauma works on that and, you know, awareness and birthing your core values and healing. Everything has to happen, but we have to recognize sometimes we need to remove ourselves from the environment or from the relationship in order to heal.

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So I remember, you know, years back being in a dysfunctional relationship and I loved him, you know, I, there, it was not a lie. I actually did love him, but there was also parts of it that did not work. And I was unable to be in the relationship, right. So it was a really hard thing. And they say it is stronger than heroin addiction in that when you love somebody and you have all those emotions, there's a high that people get off of the emotions of, you know, the high of falling in love. And let's say it's stronger than cocaine, right. And then, you know, coming out of it and being going through withdrawals and the whole cycle, the Merry go round cycle. Right. And we do wanna state that there's some incredible programs like coda.org or 12 step programs. And we highly recommend those for breaking the cycle.

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We also recommend checking yourself into a facility. If you can't start to get help on your own, and you can't start to do it on your own. Okay. So beyond that as a spiritual coach, as somebody who trains and develops and certifies spiritual coach, there is a process to it in that as the individual coach getting trained certified each individual as a coach needs to decide if this is something that they want to handle, and they want to work with clients that are dealing with codependency or, you know, dysfunctional relationships. Me, I have come to my truth. And my truth is that I, um, will have an agreement. The first session I have with a client, or even before first session, we will talk about co-dependency and addiction. And in that, if, if somebody is dealing with that, then we have an agreement that they're either able to, you know, start to manage that and be able to not get too reactive or drink too much, or be in any abusive relationship.

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Otherwise, our agreement is after 30 days working together or after a few sessions, that if they're not able to stabilize in their environment, then they need to remove themselves from the environment or we'll put our coaching on hold until they're able to. Okay. Because it's really important. And I wanna speak to the person that is going through codependency and going through dysfunction out there in the world right now. First of all, I just wanna say, I am holding you in my heart. I know the perfection of whatever you're going through. I really truly do. I don't. We, as, as divine teachers as understand the power of mine, I do not look at as bad or good in that it is for your growth. And I recognize that when I went through codependency and a very dysfunctional relationship, it was a huge blessing in disguise because it was the one thing that de that demanded me to do my inner healing and demanded me to get to my low so that I would surrender so that I would say, I, I decided to powerfully heal myself.

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And so right now I'm holding you in my heart, knowing the perfection of wherever you're at. Okay. And I recognize that as you know, it's not about trying to get better. It's really surrendering to what is, and if you need to stay in that relationship, then you know what you need to stay there as long as you need to stay there until you are ready to say no more. And that's what I know for sure. And as a coach, I have one goal and one goal only is to help you get clear what your true goal is. And if you, you know, your goal is to be, be healthy, loving, completely, have an expressed, loving, functioning, amazing relationships in your life. But you're over here in dysfunction, discord, codependency, and suffering, and the insanity of it. Then we wanna know what is it that you truly want?

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Are you committed to staying in that for a while and trying to figure it out? Are you committed to healing and completely getting over it? Only you can answer that. Okay. But in that, when you come to understand what you truly want, cuz some people are just committed to the misery. Some people really truly are committed to staying in the drama and saying there, my invitation is free to get real with yourself and ask yourself, what is it you truly are committed to. And in that you should get real with yourself. And if you're really ready to heal and do the work, my invitation is for you to get out of that environment. Okay. That I'm not telling anybody to get a divorce. I'm not telling anybody to break up with anybody. I'm not telling anybody anything I'm saying to get out of the environment so that you're able to have space so that your triggers from your trauma, aren't getting retried.

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And then of course, so that's all about getting aware, waking up to how you are creating reality, no matter what they're doing, no matter if you're with a narcissist, no matter if they've cheated, no matter if whatever they've done, this has nothing to do with them. And this has everything to do with you. And in that awakening of recognizing that you are the creator of your universe, you're the only person that's gonna put up with whatever you wanna put up. You're the person that makes the standards for your life. You are the person that puts the boundaries on your life. You're that person. And in that, the next step is reprogramming. That means reprogramming your self subconscious mind, reprogramming the identity of who you are, reprogramming and neutralizing and transforming all those traumas for you to use those traumas, to bird, the highest version of yourself and bird, maybe be even a purpose and a calling to come outta this for yourself.

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Okay. So first is of course, to awaken, to recognizing the truth that you're creating your reality. The second is to recognize that you need to reprogramming reprogram your subconscious mind and you know, transform the true identity that you are. The third is to, um, to align, to align and birth. What are your core values? What do you really want? And what would a healthy relationship look like for you? You know, what is aligning with your truth and aligning with universal law so that you can live a life of harmony, live a life of unbounded, love, live a life of all that, right? And then the four step is to affirm, affirm every day through your daily spiritual practice, to who you hang out with to where you put your energy and so on and so forth. Okay. So in this, let's just take a deep breath into the nose and next sign out.

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And I just say, thank you. I am so grateful for the suffering and the dysfunction and the co-dependency. I recognize that there are so many lessons and blessings through this. And in this, I recognize the truth of who you are, your divine, powerful, infinite, intelligent, spiritual being, and that you have all the wisdom in you to know how to reach for your highest self and your highest help, which, uh, may mean getting help from something that seems external, but recognizing everything is one mind and you and I are connected. Everyone's connected. We are your higher self it's. All of the universe is your higher self working for you. And so I declare healing. I declare living your truth. I declare knowing and, and seeking your divine life, the highest expression of the use of your energy, so that you can be a benefit to this planet so that you can be a benefit to your lineage so that you can be a benefit to your friends and family.

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And if you have children to your children, to your future generations. And so I simply know this in gratitude, knowing you are already healed in the divine mind, this is just an experience you're going through. I recognize you're already, you're already perfect. You're already whole, you're already love. You're already. All of that. I simply know this it's released as my word is law as together we say. And so it is okay. So on that note, I just am saying, uh, you know, yes, to you, yes, to you living your perfect life. And if you would like to discover more of how to transform your trauma, how to birth your truth, how to live that divine life. You're welcome to reach below. There are some links to our community to learn more, um, to come into our community and get trained and facilitate the work to get some one-on-ones to do whatever it is.

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And if not, I just wanna say, thank you for coming here. Please share this subscribe, um, to whether you're watching this on the podcast or whether you are on YouTube or wherever you are. I just say, please share this out with somebody because I know so many people are suffering from codependency and there's levels of codependency. Sometimes codependency looks like you can't even function and your whole life's falling apart. Sometimes codependency is just that you keep handing your power over and making somebody your source of joy, which instantaneously means that you make them the source of your suffering. So we all are codependent some level because unless you're a master spiritual, you know, being on this planet, UN you know, putting no power out to the external world, we're all codependent developing ourselves to be completely the unique divine expression that we are. Okay. So I have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth?

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Thank you for tuning in society and Dr. Aaron podcast. If you've had a kind to be a spiritual leader or coach, you can go to soul society.com and check out our free training. If you receive value here, I would love it. If you take a moment and give a five star review in exchange, I have a ton of free gifts for you. Grab your free awakening book, 40 guided meditations and digital manifesting masterclass. I also have a free money, meditation and worksheet for you. So you can begin to break through your scarcity mindset and claim your birthright of prosperity. You can get all of your gifts and learn about our upcoming transformational events in my biolink in both Instagram and Facebook. That's under Dr. aaron.tv,

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Which is D E R I n.tv. Also, I'd love to invite you into our free private community on Facebook, under groups called society. That is facebook.com/slashie that's S O U L C I E T E. Have a divine day. And may you live your truth?

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This is live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Live from Los Angeles. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and yes, align with universal law. I'm Dr. Aaron, I'm Dr. Divinity, and we come together on this podcast to teach the metaphysics of mine, universal law, and really understanding how we're manifesting 24 7. How does this entire dynamic called you the universe work and break it all down so that you can be the most empowered in your personal professional life? Yes, yes. Yes. So today we wanna talk about trauma versus prayer, which is a really interesting concept. How do those two even relate what's going on? And the point is, why do we even care about this, this conversation? The point is that if you are somebody who is still kind of reacting in life still, you don't feel totally healed. Yes, you may consider you need trauma work. Maybe you don't even understand what trauma work is.

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And then maybe you're somebody who has heard of this thing called prayer. Maybe you hate prayer. Maybe you do need to believe in prayer. But the point is is that we all want to have powerful lives. We all wanna be empowered. We all wanna live our greatest version of ourselves. We wanna be fully expressed, have prosperity, love, abundance, all the above. Well, if you want that, this podcast is for you because I'm gonna break on down. Why doing your trauma work and doing what we call a affirm mind treatment? AKA prayer is imperative. Those two things we use primarily in new thought global and society. And why, why do you need both or why? You know, one might work more for you than the other, right? Okay. So let's break this on down as a community. We recognize that we're here to really restore the truth of who we are.

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Really. We just remember the truth of who we are and unveiling this via truth. We heal by revealing truth in new thought global. We, we teach metaphysic of mind and understand how your subconscious is, is the universal law and breaking this all down. So someone asked me the other day, you know, why do we need E four trauma method? If we do spiritual mind treatment. And first I wanna break on down, what is trauma work and what is, you know, prayer from a metaphysical standpoint. Okay. I'm sure if you've been in my tribe or community, you're like, okay, we already know this, right. But it's always good to remember what these are. Okay. Trauma is a state that is basically, uh, place on the track where you had a really high state of negative emotion. And we recognize that the subconscious mind is, is programmed and received by frequency and vibration.

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And you're such a powerful, spiritual being the moment you place a positive or negative, meaning on something you instantaneously are, are informing your subconscious mind, which is one with a divine mind, universal law. Okay. So a state of a trauma experience is when you're in a high, high state of a negative emotion, you've placed a major negative thing onto it. Maybe, you know, you're dealing with a big breakup. Maybe you heard really bad news. Maybe you, you know, had an incident where you were sexually abused, whatever that may be. It's a state of a high state of a negative emotion backed by a limiting belief. Something's wrong with me? I'm not enough. I will never love again. It's called a command. And it, it places into the subconscious mind, um, and Ingram into the neurological system and it also tags the DNA. Okay. So there's trauma.

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Okay. That basically is a very brief summary of trauma. So we recognize trauma work is imperative because it's really neutralizing the mental pictures, which actually ends up neutralizing that negative charge on your DNA, releasing that, and being able to have you be more able for you read the dynamics of who you are. One with the universe exponentially not have huge upsets and reactions, and just be the effect of what you've created at a subconscious level, but begin to be someone who can restore freedom of choice and free will, and be able to be able, um, to not be, you know, uh, used by your emotions, but to use your emotions instead. So trauma that's breaking it down. Okay. Just a real gist of it versus prayer. And a lot of people out there may be like, I don't believe in prayer, that's delusional. We don't teach prayer to some man in the sky we teach what's called affirmative prayer or spiritual mind treatment.

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And spiritual mind treatment is basically not praying for something it's praying to become something it's actually expanding one's consciousness. And when we expand the consciousness, just like we expand the DNA, we basically begin to have all answers already. A prayer is answered instantaneously. It's not about going out and doing something it's revealing that there's always, there's already that choice. It's already in front of your face, right? It's literally like the answer is already there. And so we know in spiritual mind treatment that this is, um, is in consciousness. And when we do spiritual mind treatment, we are going through five steps, which is about acknowledging the one power that is the second is identifying, recognizing that you are that divine power. You are, that that essence that's created the entire universe and you have all the wisdom right now and all the resources right now.

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Third is, um, declaration of declaring what it is that you choose to direct energy upon mind to experience in this, in this life. And right now, and next is releasing, releasing, or sorry, gratitude, gratitude, energizing from the mind, doesn't know the difference between something that's not happened, or it has happened in mind. It's called like biofeedback. It's literally like you're energizing the mental pictures and it has to out picture into the world. Okay. And then the last is releasing, recognizing there's nothing to do that you've informed universal law in your subconscious mind and therefore it's done in the divine mind. Okay. So what spiritual mind treatment should work period, right? But the issue is this spiritual mind treatment is, is not contingent upon anything, but it is contingent upon the person that you're either praying for, or that you pray for yourself how receptive you are to receive the truth of who you are, how receptive you are to, to actually, you know, being able to receive the goodness and the abundance.

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And some people can't receive it, right. They literally can't receive the abundance and love and everything. And so we wanna break this on down because it's imperative. We recognize that there's really only, you know, there's, the subconscious mind is very specific. You know, it's so specific. It's one with universal law. It's basically negatively charged, neutral or positive, a negative zero or positive, that's it, we're a binary system. We are literally like a computer system. So we wanna break on down if this is the case, if we're in a new thought movement and we're having, this is our practice is to live the highest, expand the consciousness and reap the rewards of this entire universe. Right. Then we've gotta get our mind, right. And we either need to neutralize that, um, the trauma or we need to do prayer or both. Right. And so someone asked me a brilliant, it's a really brilliant question.

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Why if prayer works right, if prayer really works spiritual mind treatment, why do we need E four trauma method? Why don't we just go straight to truth? And it's a great question. And so what happened was years ago, I was in a spiritual center for years, training developing, and, and I was around, you know, all the people in that center. And I would witness people and I was like, huh, these people keep praying, but it doesn't seem like things are shifting in their life. And then other people would pray, do S mind treatment and things would shift dramatically. And so I began to inquire into what what's going on. Like, why is this working for one person versus not another person? And, and all of a sudden I realized what was really going on and the best, um, analogy would be, imagine you're a farmer and you have this plot of land.

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You have, you know, you're ready to, it's a new, you know, year, whatever, and you're, you're planting the seeds for your crops, but the issue is there are weeds all through your entire land. And so if you plant these new seeds, it's, it's not really gonna work. You know, the seeds are gonna actually take over and destroy your seeds. So what are you gonna do? You know what I mean? So the point is, is that E four trauma method and trauma work is kind of like going in and getting out and getting to the root of all those weeds before you see the plant of truth, which is through spiritual mind treatment. So as practitioners, which I love developing spiritual practitioners and you thought, um, global so amazing is we're really teaching to no truth. That's all we're doing. Spiritual practitioners are masters of, of being able to spot the limited belief, those weeds in your garden.

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And they're also masters of doing spiritual mind treatment, right. This, and they're also coaches, those coaches are, are developed in all the actual, um, E for trauma method and all of the different, uh, processes to clear out the weeds and to bur someone's truth. Okay. So now imagine here you are the farmer, you you're ready to plant your seed. You're like, I know I want these crops. I'm gonna plant these, um, you know, avocado, whatever avocado trees or whatever we're gonna plant, we're going to harvest, but I've got all these weeds. And if I plant these avocado trees, it it's just not gonna work. Like I literally it's like asking for problems and you may even lose all the investment that you made in all the seeds that you're ready to plant. So E for trauma method and dealing with your trauma is really about getting the soil, right?

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Because what I noticed when I was in that spiritual center is that people there, they weren't able to receive. They had so much trauma that they were, there were, they had so much limited beliefs cuz limited beliefs come from trauma. That's what it comes from. It comes from your epigenetics, from your DNA. It comes from everything in your lineage. But all of that comes from the experiences and putting limited beliefs, which can only be done to itself. Right? So I began to work with people and recognize that I had been doing a lot of subconscious work developing processes to really help neutralize all the trauma and stuff and taking it to ours, helping people birth their truth, the E four trauma method versus other trauma is we don't just, you know, get someone that they're not reactive in life. The point is to transmute the energy to birth someone's truth to birth, who they're, what they're really here to do in this lifetime.

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So I was doing that work and it was almost like a little bit separate from the, from the prayer work. But I, what I recognized is as I began to work with somebody and I began to do both, I began to do that trauma work neutralized. They were much more receptive. Remember spiritual mind treatment is, has a contingency for somebody to receive the prayer, if you will. And it's how receptive they are. So it's kind of like clearing out that plot of land, getting the roots of all those weeds through the E four trauma method, through trauma work and getting that all cleaned up. And now here you are as the farmer. And you're like, I have choice here. I get to actually plant these seeds that I really want for my life. And I get to actually harvest them and nurture them with a daily spiritual practice, water them every day and reap the rewards.

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Okay. So why do we need trauma work when we, and when we have spiritual mind treatment and somebody could maybe do spiritual mind treatment, maybe they don't have a lot of weeds. You know, maybe they're able and more powerful and they're like, I'm a farmer. I'm planting these things. I will deal with every single wheated as they come up because I'm so committed. I'm knowing the truth it's done in my mind. It's over and that's fine. It's not like you have to do trauma work before you can do spiritual mind treatment. Okay. It depends on each individual. It depends on how powerful their consciousness is. And we're all, all powerful all the time, but we have inverted use of our power. And if you don't know the power and you don't fully know it, embody it, then you gotta do some trauma work. Okay. And I'm not saying you, you have to do trauma work.

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But what I found is the best kind of, uh, formula for most clients is to do both so that they fully fully are able and have all tools of themselves to have the highest, um, healing and revealing of them. So on that note, I just say, yes, yes, yes. Taken a deep breath in through the nos and excellent out. I recognize the power of, of this work, the power. I'm so grateful for all the masters that have come before. I'm so grateful for new thought movement and all the great dynamics of restoring the truth of who we are, this ancient wisdom, the wisdom that understands that with each new thought we can create entire new universals. I recognize you are the same source that is creating the entire universe, everything as above. So below everything happening in the cosmos happening in you right now, every last drop of it, the inversion of the south, you get to create heaven or hell right here right now.

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And in this, I know the choice of neutralizing through trauma work and also directing energy upon a subconscious and universal law for a specific manifestation, the highest version of you. And so I say yes, to all these dynamic tools we have yes. To the community, yes. To all this wisdom, it sets you free. Cuz I know it has for me, I simply know this, our releases ask together. We say, and so it is amazing you guys. So I would recommend doing both your trauma work and uh, doing spiritual mind treatment. If you're interested in getting developed in these things and being able to teach them, facilitate them, uh, you can check out soul society.com or, and you can also DM me directly on social media. We've got some trainings all the time going on as well. You can check out our free trainings or gifts or whatever, all on soul society.com. It's all right there for you. Okay. So have a beautiful day and may live your truth.

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Thank you for tuning in society and Dr. Aaron podcast. If you've had a call to be a spiritual leader or coach, you can go to soul society.com and check out our free training. If you receive value here, I would love it. If you take a moment and give a five star review in exchange, I have a ton of free gifts for you. Grab your free awakening book, 40 guided meditations and digital manifesting masterclass. I also have a free money meditation and worksheet for you. So you can begin to break through your scarcity mindset and claim your birthright of prosperity. You can get all of your gifts and learn about our upcoming transformational events in my biolink in both Instagram and Facebook. That's under Dr. aaron.tv, which is D E R I N TV. Also, I'd love to invite you into our free private community on Facebook, under groups called society. That is facebook.com/groups/society. That's S O U L C I E T E. Have a divine day. And may you live your truth?

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6 Relationship Breakthrough Series

40 Spiritual Awakening

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This is

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Live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Are you ready to own an investment that has an endless supply? Well, if you do, you definitely wanna listen to this podcast. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron podcast. We come together each day to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly believe that somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. Our mission is to awaken a billion people and how I know that we will fulfill upon that is by developing world renowned, spiritual entrepreneurs, spiritual coaches, spiritual practitioners, law of attraction ministers, and yes, doctors of divinity. You heard me, right? Yeah. We have people lining up for it. Are you kidding? So let's do this. We are on the money breakthrough. We are on 12 of 12. You guys, this is it. This is it. We've done so many great conversations around money breakthrough.

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I hope that you are just experiencing so many things. We've gone through everything from supply and demand to understanding consciousness, to understanding your subconscious, to understanding how to create your inner circle back and forth all over place. And I'd love to know what breakthroughs you've had. If you could DM me or tag me in Instagram or on Facebook, or you can slide it into my DMS, whatever you want. I wanna hear, we wanna hear your money breakthroughs because it's super important. We learn from one another and I'm telling you that the biggest money breakthroughs I've had is witnessing my girlfriends. My amazing, uh, girlfriends have breakthroughs watching them have their first a hundred thousand dollars months and being like what I don't even know that's possible. Right? And then all of a sudden you do have a hundred thousand dollars month, right? It's important to understand that you sharing your breakthroughs, you sharing your wins helps one other person on this planet and that trickles into a butterfly effect.

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Okay? So today we're talking about money breakthrough we're on 12 of 12 and the title of today's podcast is the greatest investment. You, your consciousness, right? The greatest investment you. So if you're ready to own an investment that has an endless supply, this podcast is for you, right? If you're ready to be the owner of a multi billion dollar investment, that's the possibility, that's the potential of a strong consciousness of understanding and innovating and knowing the truth of who you are. So just sharing a little bit about my, my journey, my journey into investing in my own consciousness. So I remember when I was in my twenties actually had someone give me a gift of going to landmark forum. And it was great. I went, um, I got a lot out of it. In fact, what I got was making everyone else wrong, kind of one of those spiritual elite things like I'm starting to have my, you know, I know everything and therefore I'm gonna make everyone wrong.

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Right. But the point is is that I actually didn't get much out of it. And the reason why I think I didn't was because I didn't pay for it. And it's really interesting because I find that now we've tried different things. We've tried given people scholarships, um, into society. And every last time I've done that. It doesn't work. People don't show up a hundred percent because when you pay for things, you got skin in the game and you actually get a lot out of it. So as I went along in my twenties, I began to invest my own money. Yes, I invested, of course, in tons of books, I invested in seminars, in leadership programs, in coaching, in spiritual advancement. I actually ended up investing, um, having, I worked with a shaman that I would fly in, not any Iowa. So anything like that, just straight understanding metaphysics and energy and all the different work with that I invested in of course, tons and tons and tons of leadership programs.

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Um, I invested in becoming a KMI teacher. I invested in subconscious repoing techniques. I've invested in obviously becoming a spiritual practitioner. I invested in becoming a law of attraction minister. I invested in becoming a doctorate divinity. I've invested in training and coaching with seven figure coaches I've invested with, um, going to Tony Robbins events and other miscellaneous things from David data events to, you know, going on retreats with people to meditation, things, you name it, I've spent well over $250,000 on my own consciousness, not to mention the tons and tons of hours that I've put into it. I've invested. Of course, you know, probably I don't even know. I have never even calculated how many hours I've put into meditation and my spiritual practice. But what I know for sure is that every time I have ever invested in anything that advances my consciousness, it always comes back exponentially any time that I've invested in my own consciousness and expanding my consciousness and my mindset or skillset, it has always come back exponentially.

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So tell me, is there one investment that has always come back exponentially, right? Maybe what it's a 4% gain. It's an 8% gain. Maybe if it's really good, it could be like 12 to 20% if it's in the stock market, that's like over the top. Right? Well, I would say that investing in my consciousness has always come back at least tenfold. What percentage is that? Right? It's not even a hundred percent. Is that a thousand percent? Right? Is what is the return on your investment? The ROI return on investment is exponential every last time when I put it into my own consciousness. And the coolest thing about our industry, you guys, I mean, the coolest thing is I have, uh, you know, a lot of girlfriends that are coaches and things, and I will invest in their programs because them or someone, another friend of mine will invest in my program, right?

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So there's always a way, and every time I have invested in anything, it comes back exponentially. And what I know is that this is the law, it's the law. So we have to take a look at what is the cost of not investing. What would be the cost? Let's just say today, you know, I'm in my late forties. Imagine that I hadn't done my inner work. Imagine that I hadn't done my trauma work. Imagine that I still was what I consider. I was a hot mess, right? What if I was still co-dependent what would be the cost of my sanity? What would be the cost of my happiness? What would be the cost of my health? If I was getting upset every day of the week, what would be the cost of my life? If I was upset and I couldn't show up to, to coach, I couldn't show up to even build a business.

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If I hadn't done my inner work, right? What's the cost millions upon millions of dollars, the cost of not having a life that you love, the cost of not being able to have my son, witness his mother, become an extraordinary, and having that role model for him, what's the cost of not investing in yourself. And I really want you to get that. Like, if you don't overcome the codependency, if you don't overcome, you know, not loving yourself, if you don't overcome and you end up having your parents transition before you can actually heal and be at peace with everybody in your life. What's the cost of that. Right? Recently, I have so many friends that are into Bitcoin and, and I'm not, I'm not obviously I'm for it from a technology perspective, a thousand percent, but as far as an investment perspective, um, you know, I'm not educated enough to make that, that choice, but it has never really added up to me because isn't, I've always been like, isn't that the point of Bitcoin is to have it be something that is, is just a stable thing that actually makes it, so it can't be manipulated by a few people on the planet.

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Right. And now they're doing investments at Bitcoin. I'm like, oh, cool. Like if that speaks to people, that's fine. But recently it's taken a big, um, a big, uh, hit right. Went down. I don't know how much exactly, but have a lot of friends in it. And this is my litmus test. Okay. If you lost all of your investments, let's just say, you're like, I don't have any investments. What are you talking about? Like, let's just pretend, let's pretend that you invested money into real estate or into Bitcoin or into whatever. Right. And let's just pretend for a minute that you lost the entire investment, that the Bitcoin that you went into went away or the real estate, whatever you lost it all, cuz the whole market went upside down. You couldn't pay the mortgage and you had to let it go. The litmus test for me is if you lost all of your investments tomorrow, would you regret the investment?

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Meaning that say some of my friends that are into Bitcoin, they actually truly love Bitcoin. They like the conversation around it. They learn about it. They learn about technology. They learn whatever. And maybe they would say, even if I lost all Bitcoin, I wouldn't regret it because I love the process of investing in Bitcoin. Whereas the next person would be like, I would be so bummed because I didn't really care about Bitcoin because I just invested cuz I thought it was a good investment. But if I lost all my money, then I'd be really bummed. Right. Or someone who invests in real estate might be like, no, I don't regret it. Cuz I understand real estate now. And I can go out in any market, whether it's the top of the market or the bottom of the market and I can invest again and I can make money because I love the conversation and the growth of investing in real estate. Right? So the litmus test for you is where you putting your time and energy and money. And if you lost all the things, would it in advance you in your own consciousness? Right?

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And so whether you are, you know, you're probably you're listening to this podcast. Look, you've had a spiritual calling and you care a lot about your spiritual development and you probably are a spiritual coach at some level. And you care about being able to become the best coach. You can be. You care about making an impact in the world. And so we have to ask ourselves, right? What is the best investment for you to make? Would it be in being Bitcoin? Would it be in real estate or would it be in your unconsciousness to become the embodiment? Because whether money comes and goes, no one can take away my consciousness, no one can take away my ability to recreate money at any point in time because I'm able, because I can show up consistently because I'm not stopped by little things in life because I've done my inner work and I am a spiritual badass.

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I'm a Jedi, right? I'm a spiritual warrior because I've invested in my consciousness. No one could take that away from me. Not even at the end of this life, I get to take this consciousness. And so I know that the greatest investment you can ever make is in you. So whether you're like I've decided I wanna be a world renowned spiritual leader, I wanna be a spiritual coach. Or I wanna be somebody that's healed from my trauma. Or maybe you do wanna invest in real estate. That's fine too. But what I know for sure is that if all the things are taken away, what do you have? And that is where you should put your time and energy and money. You can't take this body with you. You can't take your bank account. You can't take the things. So what you can take is you can take the experience.

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You can take the love, you can take the consciousness. And so that is my friend. The greatest investment you'll ever make. That is the greatest return on investment ever. And so if I were to say to somebody, oh, should I save money? Or should I, you know, people go, I can't afford, you know, this coaching program or whatever. It's like, well, you can't afford to not take this coaching program. You can't afford to not take this conscious. You cannot, you cannot afford to invest in your consciousness because it is the actual lack that is holding you back. It is the limited beliefs. It is not knowing the truth of who you are. You can't afford to not do your trauma work. You can't afford to not have extraordinary people around you. You can't afford it. So what I know for sure is if there's a will, there's a way, so I'm calling forth and you know, I never sell on my podcast.

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If you will, I don't even sell any. We don't even do hard sales in society. It's like we present, we bring value. And then people are like, how do I get involved? And I like have to do this. People just know they've been, they've been asking for our community. They've been praying for our community. They're like, I've been waiting for this. I can't believe you actually exist. Right? I can't believe I found the teachings of metaphysics. I've been doing spiritual work for 20 years and I never knew there was this exact lineage. I've taken every Reiki, everything, all the everything. And they come to science of mind and, and metaphysical principles. And they're like, oh my gosh, this makes it all even make more sense. So what I know for sure is that if you've had a spiritual calling and if you really truly want to advance your consciousness, and if you're really ready for a money breakthrough, I'm gonna invite you to join society.

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I'm gonna invite you to take action right now to come over and either DM me on social media or whatever, come and say, I'm ready. I, I wanna learn more. I've gotta figure this out. Okay. This is your life. This is your life. And your investment is in yourself. My son came to me and he said, mom, after all you've been through, what is the number one advice you'd give people for investing. I said, I'd invest in myself for anybody. I say the best investment you can make. Best thing is to build your own, your own brand, your own company, your own investment, your own consciousness, your own, because no one can take away. If you, if you, if it doesn't go well then fine. You can, you know, go, I blame it on myself. But you know, investing in other things, if you're gonna invest in something where it be Bitcoin, or it can be anything you've gotta invest in something that, you know, otherwise it's called gambling.

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Most of my friends that, that invest in Bitcoin are gambling. They don't know it. They don't understand it and they don't have control over it. Right. So asking yourself, where do you wanna put your time? Where do you wanna put your effort? Some people go to college, they spend, you know, whatever. They have 50 grand in, in debt, in college loans. What's the difference between that or, or having a badass coach that teach teaches you how to, how to become a Jedi, right? Like, let's get real. You guys like let's get really, really real. What do you get out of it? When you get a, a bachelor's degree in college, you don't get crap. You know what I mean? You get a, a, probably an okay education and a bunch of things that aren't actually gonna get you anything, right? It's not, unless you're becoming a lawyer, becoming a doctor, becoming someone that's applicable in the actual license that you need.

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And so we have to ask ourselves, there's doctors that go out that literally, uh, spend what, eight years in college. And I think the average doctor makes like 150,000 or something like that. Like think about the hundreds that they've probably spent hundreds of thousands of dollars, maybe on their education, maybe less than that. They spent years and years and years. And they're capped out at something right? As spiritual coaches, you are there's no, there's no limit. You can keep going. As, as far as you can, innovate is as far as you can go in your, in your, in your prosperity, in your income, right? So again, we recognize that a majority of the coaches out their spiritual coaches will make under $10,000 because the top 1% of coaches get coaches. The top 1% of coaches hang out and collaborate with top 1% coaches. And if you wanna get there, you gotta get your ass into the community.

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You gotta get into investing in yourself. That is just part of it. So whether this is your first time listening to this podcast or not, I'm glad you're hearing this, cuz I don't ever pitch on, on the podcast. I don't ever preach like this about signing up, but today I'm gonna, I'm gonna tell you that I can guarantee that we have one of the best programs on the planet for spiritual breakthroughs, for transforming your trauma for really becoming the Jedi of your life. We also have the most trusted and proven marketing sales, um, training, because it's not something I developed in that I use what has been trained, what I've paid tens of thousands of dollars for to understand and putting it into practice. And doesn't matter if you're just beginning or if you're a seven figure coach, it's the same system you use. Okay.

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So today I just celebrate, we just went through 12 series of money breakthrough. And in this I recognize who you are and the truth of your birthright of prosperity. I know that you deserve all of the riches of this life. You deserve to have the most amazing badass consciousness you deserve to be around rich opulent friends that are up to extraordinary things you deserve every last drop of it. And the only thing that's gonna stop you from having that is you. So the greatest investment you can ever make is in you, your consciousness, your mindset, your skillset. And so I just say, yes, I say, yes. I say, yes, have a fricking LJA you guys to prosperity abundance and money breakthrough, have a beautiful day. And if you've enjoyed this series, please share it with some friends. So you can have all of your friends rise up together and prosperity and vitality and love have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth?

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This is

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Live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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What if I told you that your net worth is going to be the average of the five to 10 people you surround yourself with, if you're ready to create your rich inner circle, you wanna listen to this podcast. This is Dr. Aaron welcome. We come together each day to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly believe that when somebody awakens, they have a gift message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. Our mission is to awaken a billion people. And now I know that we're gonna fulfill upon that mission is by developing world renowned, spiritual entrepreneurs, spiritual coaches, spiritual practitioners, law of attraction ministers, and yes, doctors of divinity. So let's break this on down. You guys, we're on number 11 of 12, a money breakthrough podcast series. This title is creating your rich inner circle, and yes, there is a saying your net worth is going to be the average of the five to 10 people you surround yourself with.

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I'm not sure if that is a scientific <laugh>, you know, data or not, but boy, do I know how much the influence of the people around me make in my life and my consciousness and yes, in my bank account. So let's break this on down yesterday. I was actually at the Rosewood up in Montecito and I was at a brunch. I was with, there was nine women around this table in this beautiful, gorgeous room at the Rosewood. And Montecito had this beautiful chandelier with crystals over it, beautiful roses in the middle of the table. And I had a moment where I kind of looked around the room and I kind of almost had like a moment of imposter syndrome. But then I realized it was actually just a pinch me moment of realizing that I clearly had manifested this, that I had chosen within my own soul, that I wanted to surround myself with women that were extraordinary women that were soul based women that were committed to making a difference on this planet and every single woman across this table.

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I don't think there was, there may have been somebody that made under seven figures, but regardless, I don't know, some of them probably made multiple, multiple seven figures. One of which worked with Oprah Winfrey, building her entire brand, other coaches in the room, doing deep, deep conscious work with clients, profound, profound spirit. Let's just put it that way. And what I knew in that moment was I was like, whoa, this is such a recognition, a reflection of a consciousness and a choice that I'd made years ago. And I remember there was a moment in my spiritual development that I had to let go of some friends, not because they weren't good enough or whatever, just they weren't in alignment with what I was, was truly committed to. And I know today as I sit here that my life would never be as rich as it is, my life would never be fulfilled.

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My life would never be at the level it's at. If it weren't for the people that I surround myself with. So I just wanna give acknowledgement to my own coaches, to my own girlfriends and guy, friends that are making a difference that impact my life in every conversation we have. I'm just so grateful for my inner circle. So on that note, you know, we have to recognize that our network equals our net worth truly. And truly, if you think about it, we're one, we have mirroring cells, we have all these things. And so today I wanna help you create your rich inner circle because it's not a passive thing. It's a very active thing to get clear of what works for you. And doesn't work for you around the people that you are have in your life. If you're truly committed to claiming your birthright prosperity and having a money breakthrough, it goes into all areas of your life and definitely around the people that you surround yourself with.

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So let's just say, you know, that, that people either they either rise, raise you up or they bring you down, like truly. And truly, if you think about it, like your life either gets better and expands with somebody you're hanging out with, or it gets more dramatic and chaotic and dysfunctional period, you know, and you have to weigh out the pros and cons. And I remember doing this, there was a, I had a really dear friend years ago and it just was, there was a lot of drama and I know it wasn't just her. It was probably both of us together, but there was a point in time where I had to release her to the universe. And I was like, you know what, I'm gonna release her with love. It's just that whether it be us together or whether it be that she's just committed to her drama, I to let it go, there was other friends that were good.

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I mean, they were up to something, they were up to some growth. Um, and I would find that when I was around them, it was fine. You know, whether it be girlfriends I grew up with or girlfriends, I went to high school with, they're amazing. And they're still in my life and I do love them. Okay. But there's a whole other level of relationship that I'm really committed to. And it doesn't mean it can't be with the women that I grew up with or high school friends, cuz some of them absolutely fall into this category and some don't. So what I had to get clear is that what my own core commitments are, and we go through this, whether it be in an intimate relationship you're in, or whether it's in your girlfriends circle, guy, friend circle, or whether it's people you hire in your company, there has to be a level of core values that you're up to for you to truly thrive and be you.

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And so I've gotten really clear of what mine are and I'm gonna help you get clear of what yours are, so that whether you even have those people in your life or not the people that you really truly wanna call into your life, you can begin to manifest this inner circle for yourself. Okay. So, you know, it's interesting because years ago, when I talk about how in my twenties, I saved a million dollars, I had read the book, what, you know, the millionaire next door <laugh> and some of the things that were in those books, I actually live by, right? And I'm gonna read the list of what this was. So the millionaire next door, uh, was all about saving money, living under means and slowly moving up truly. And truly that's really the concept of it. And there's nothing wrong with that. It's wonderful to be a millionaire and have passive income, but it doesn't mean that you're living abundantly.

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And so the, I wanna read these characteristics for you so that you can decide for yourself who you wanna hang out with and who you don't wanna hang out with. Right? So some of the characteristics of the millionaire next door is they leave. They live beneath their means. They use their time and money efficiently to build wealth. They prioritize attaining financial independence over displaying social status. They're skilled at identifying investment opportunities. They choose the right line of work. They didn't inherit their wealth. They built it. 80% are first generation millionaires. Many have self are self-employed. Um, and they are extremely frugal and budget their expenses. And then an average, they invest 20% of their realized household income per year. Okay, cool. Sounds good. Not necessarily my inner circle anymore. Okay. It doesn't mean that I would not have somebody around me that has all these means, but I, there is a distinction for me and the distinction is yes, it's good to save wealth.

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Yes. Maybe it's good to be conservative to live beneath your means. Yes, that's all good and fine and Dany. But the difference is, is the women that I'm really, really into circling surrounding myself with are women that are, are willing to live on the edge, to grow exponentially and allow the universe to create miracles in the process. So the, the issue for me with the millionaire next door conversation is very linear. It's like, I'm gonna make a little bit more money. I'm gonna save 20% of my income. I'm gonna build a little bit more asset and then I'm gonna get financially free so that I can, you know, die a great, comfortable death. Right. It's like, cool. That's cool. There's something wrong with that. It's just that it's not really, it's it, there's a level of going even beyond that. And so we have to take a look at the billionaires mindset instead of the millionaires mindset.

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And it's very different. It's very different. Okay. The billionaires mindset, and this is maybe not totally factual. This is based off a book. Um, the billionaire mindset. And, um, it is basically, these are five unique kind of parts of it. But the key billionaire mindset is there's, there's confidence. There's creativity, there's ambition, there's passion, there's adaptivity, there's scalability, there's energetic and there's leadership. So the billionaire thinks a little bit different than the, you know, somebody who's just trying to save, right? Anybody could save a million dollars. These days is not that hard to do, um, a millionaires millionaires, not much money these days. Right. But to become, somebody has extraordinary life and living into the billionaires way of thinking. It's more about how they think they think truly deeply, right? One of the most important facts of a billionaire is the traits that they think they don't think of.

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Like, I wanna make another billion dollars. They're thinking of basically, how can I get more free time? How can I help others to get more free time? Right. They're thinking of how do people spend most of their day? How much time do they spend at the office? How much do they do they get into the deep depths of like, how do I make someone's life better? How do I solve problems for people so that I can begin to help them? And also claim my birthright prosperity. Right? I did this in society. It's like, how do I help enlighten people? How do I help them become the most able in their life? How do I help them from, you know, becoming codependent to becoming empowered? How do I help them end their suffering and the trauma to transform, to birth their purpose and legacy? How do I do all that?

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And then given that much value also claim my birthright prosperity, right? So we wanna begin to shift from like, how do I dis how do I save a million dollars? Like who cares? You know what I mean? If you're not expressed and you're not whatever, then who cares? I trust me, I've been there. I've had a million dollars and, and been broke. And my consciousness, right? The second billionaire concept in here is they keep good company. And so one of the hallmarks of, you know, having a billionaire mindset is to keep good company. And I'm gonna tell you, this is straight up. You guys, I am around a lot of people who are multiple seven figure coaches and up. And one of the primary things they do is they surround themselves and collaborate with other, you know, people that are up to big things. And it's not like, oh, you, I will only hang out with people who have X amount of followers.

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It's not about that. It's about the consciousness it's around them, right? It's about who holds 'em. So I have a friend and, and she's always like, she's like, I don't think she even gets what I mean, she gets what I does and she loves me, but she'll be like, oh my gosh, you're creating something again. You're so silly. Oh my gosh, I can't believe your like, like you're just a work. Like she says that as if I'm like a workaholic and that something that's like wrong with me. Whereas if my other friends who are, you know, multiple seven figures are like, oh my gosh, you're creating something again. I wanna hear all about it. Right? It's like a totally different energy. And it's actually a receiving of who I am in those friends. And so my heart, it like expands my soul expands when I'm around friends that fully receive me and get the creative process of, of making a difference on this planet and impacting lives.

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Versus some friends may be sweet. They're not like, mean, they're just, they just don't get me as much. They're just not, we're just, we're not in alignment. There's anything wrong with it. It's just like my soul kind of contracts a little bit when I'm around that, when I hear like, oh, you're creating something again. Like why, you know what I mean? Like what, like, are you kidding me? Like, that's why I'm a creative, spiritual being, creating extraordinary abundance in my life. And for helping other people ex you know, create abundance in our life. Right? So it's like, you have to understand who are your people and who are not your people. And it's super important to have people around you that help you express and help you create and help you, whatever. If you're going to create an extraordinary life, it's a lot of creation, right?

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The third trait, uh, that says on this is billionaires create their own destiny. So do you believe in destiny? And if you don't, that's cool. Right. But you know, we have to think about this, right? So who you're hanging out with, do they truly believe that they're creating their destiny? Or are they just reacting to what's going on in the world or they're just reacting to what's happening in the financial world? Are they just reacting to what jobs are? You know what it, this way I have people that like, literally look, they look out to see what jobs are available and which one's best suit for them. Right. Versus my extraordinary friends, don't look to the world. They create, they create industries. <laugh> they create a new position in this world. Right. That's the difference of the friends that I wanna hang out versus mother friends.

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Okay. Next is billionaires churn, failure into success. Hell to the, yes. Every single one of my friends during pandemic, during whatever, all my extraordinary friends, they didn't blink an eye. They're like, okay, how do we adjust? How do we pivot? Let's go. Right. My other friends are like, oh my gosh, this is so hard. I can't believe this. Oh my gosh. Right. And it's like, so you just have to decide, are you, are you gonna innovate? Are you gonna pivot? Are you gonna choose? I create my destiny period. Right. And the fifth, um, concept of a billionaire mindset is this is they have a broke mindset in that they're innovating. They can innovate, use other people's money. Um, meaning getting leverage from banks, things or whatever, or investors to understand how they can do it with little amount of money. Right. So it's different than say, one of my kind of not innovative friends might be like, I can't do that.

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Cuz I can't afford that. And I'll just figure out how to do it once I can afford it. Right. They might not be in total scarcity, but they're not in full abundance mindset. Meaning that my extraordinary friends are gonna figure out a way to do it. Even when they're not quite, they don't have the money for it yet, but they'll still figure out how to get investors. They'll still figure out how to do it at whatever level. So you have to ask yourself where what's, where, what are the, what's the inner circle that you wanna create for yourself? Truly like what is the inner circle that you wanna? Cause my list is gonna be different than your list. You get to have your own list. My list. I'm gonna tell you right now, my list is soul based entrepreneurs. I literally love my girlfriends who are spiritually based that are entrepreneurs.

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And I have a lot of them. Their companies may not, you know, show 'em as spiritual, but all behind the scenes, they're all spiritual. All my badass girlfriends that are making seven, multiple seven figures are all spiritually based because they know they have to understand that level of their power to be able to truly tap into their creative factor. Right? My, my list is they're committed to extraordinary growth. I don't need to have somebody that's a seven figure to be a friend. I have friends that do not make seven figures. Okay. There's no, I have, I have friends that don't even have traditional jobs and they don't actually make an income in that way. So that's not a requirement for me, but what they are is committed to extraordinary growth. I will not have anybody in my inner circle. Who's not committed to extraordinary growth and making a difference on this planet.

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Right. Another must have is they need to be empowered, not codependent, right? They can't be like, oh my gosh, my mom said this and, and my, you know, partner, I'm just so mad cuz they did that. Right. They can have those issues. Like shit. My mom said that, okay, well how am I gonna become empowered? Who do I wanna be? What am I committed to? Right. So they have to be empowered. They have to be soul based entrepreneurs. It's not that they don't have to be, but they just are like, and they may not be entrepreneurs, but they might be like philanthropists. Right? So I consider that entrepreneurs also, cause they're figuring a way of creating and, and making difference in the world. There has to be a creative factor. Them. I'm just saying for me, I know myself, I've been around thousands and thousands of people and it's not that I wouldn't like have a friend.

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That's not that it's just that I know where I vibe. Right. It's just, I know my peep. I know my peeps. Right? I know my tribe. And so it's just, you have to ask yourself who, what is that creative circle that you want to create for yourself? Because the truth is your network worth is based on your network. Your network is going to be an equal proportion to your network. I've never known one person that's highly successful that did it on their own. They have to have an extraordinary team, right? So you have to ask yourself who what's your must have and you're creating your rich inner team, right? I don't want anyone touching society or my company that does not believe in our oneness that does not believe and doesn't have a prosperity. Do you know what? The biggest things that hold that held me back in past projects is actually the team members.

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<laugh>, I'm not even joking, not even joking. You're gonna create a show. You better have people that are really, really, really having prosperity mindset. Right? You wanna create a company you better really, really, really make sure people are having prosperity. You hire a bunch of people that have never made, you know, more than $3,000 a month. Guess what? It's gonna hold your company back. Okay? You have to be committed. And it doesn't mean that people have to make a bunch of money for you to hire them. It means that they have to understand prosperity consciousness. They have to live in the abundance mindset and look at all innovation, be able to pivot and, and understand the creative factor of everything. Otherwise you're gonna be held back and it's not gonna work out. That's the truth. It's a hard truth, but it's true. And that's why I've had to let some things go in my life because it just wasn't alignment.

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And you know, and I send everybody off with, with knowing their perfection and not necessarily judging them, but understanding where people are in their consciousness. Okay. So I am creating my rich inner circle and I invite you to as well. So what does that look like? You know, you're like, well, that's cool. I know who I wanna hang out with, but I don't know any of those people. Well then you gotta start getting into masterminds. One of the biggest things I've known for myself and in the industry is you pay to be in, in community. And, and that's one of the beautiful things is that we all pay for each other's services. We all pay to be in each other's groups because that's how you grow. And money is a beautiful exchange of energy. I've paid for many coaches and gotten into different circles. And then once you're kind of moving and grooving and that you're kind of proving yourself as somebody who's committed to abundance and committed to serving the world and committed to being able to get developed in your own mindset, then you get invited to things that are free.

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You get invited to in a earn inner circles, you get invited into extraordinary groups of people because you're extraordinary, right? So until you're extraordinary, you gotta learn and pay to be able to get developed as somebody who's extraordinary. That's just facts of life. That's just cause and effect. Okay. So you have to commit, how committed are you to living a prosperity life? How committed are you? And then it's like commitment. Doesn't ask how commitment just says it is done. And I'm gonna take inspired action. Bolded inspired action. And I know the universe is going to conspire with me. And so I just know right here, right now, taking a deep breath into the nose and exon out, just recognizing the truth of who you are, which is an abundant, prosperous, divine, spiritual being. You are powerful and you're worth more than all the gold on this planet.

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And in you is all the riches. You are the innovation factor. You are able to create anything and everything, your heart desires. You're also here to serve and bring value. And in that I recognize all the value, all the abundance of money coming your way. I know you were born to be rich and anything that's not rich is a sin because it is missing the mark. We live in a beautiful opulent opulent universe. And if you're living anything other than an opulent life, it is not the truth. I know that it's not about one person getting means somebody else doesn't get. I recognize the total abundance of being able to create exponentially and infinitely in on this, in this incredible thing called life. And so I just say, may you surround yourself with where your heart sings? May you surround yourself with people that truly get you and see you and understand the truth of who you are.

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May you know that with the power of your mind, you can innovate and create miracles for others. And in doing so reap the rewards. I say, yes, I say, yes, may you live your truth as together we say. And so it is okay, you guys, if you got something out of this podcast, I would appreciate a five star preview on across whatever platform of podcast you're listening this on. We're on. Um, we are on of course, iTunes, we're on iHeartRadio. We're on Spotify. We're on cast box. We're across all board AMFM radio. And I just know I enjoy this so much this podcast. Um, and, um, I appreciate it. If you shared it out with the friend also, we, you know, of course we develop spiritual entrepreneurs. If you wanna come to our community and surround yourself, incredible people, I invite you to become a member.

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Um, you can also DM me on Instagram. If you don't know how to get in, cuz sometimes we have launches. Sometimes we don't sometimes, um, there's bonuses sometimes there aren't, you're welcome to DME at Dr. aaron.tv on Instagram. That's D R E R I n.tv or, um, across the board. I'm looking forward to having you in our community and having an amazing inner circle. I've watched women, um, in our community completely thrive and begin to totally up level their entire life just by having people around that hold 'em to truth. Right. And then of course the riches come for sure. It's a side effect of consciousness. So I just say, thank you. Thank you. Thank you. May you live your truth?

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